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| Offshore Work Or Self Employed by Ringstonermasks(op): 8:54pm On Mar 20, 2025*. Modified: 4:14pm On Mar 21, 2025 |
I'm a married man living in Abuja, where I work as a web designer and app developer. I have my own office and brands, and I've diversified my income streams through various business ventures. In January, I received a call from my uncle, who wanted me to meet him in Port Harcourt about a job opportunity in an oil company. At the time, I wasn't interested, so I politely declined, citing a toothache as the reason. What's relevant to this situation is that my uncle has been providing me and my siblings with a monthly allowance (Trust funds from my father as our inheritance) of 280,000 naira since I was in school. However, I'd rather not discuss this further, except to say that it's a point of contention. Being an inherritance paid to everyone and handled by him. In February, my siblings received their allowance and but I didn't. My brother informed me that my uncle had stopped my payment because he was upset that I hadn't accepted his job proposal. This isn't the only thing my uncle has excluded me from from the inherritance allocation which was nothing to me back then... Recently, my wife(Army OFFICER) was posted to Port Harcourt, which adds another layer to this situation. If I were to accept my uncle's offer, I'd be under my wife's scrutiny, which could impact my personal and professional life. I'm currently conflicted about what to do, and I'm weighing my options carefully. What would you do ? |
| Re: Offshore Work Or Self Employed by EXOUSIAng: 9:39pm On Mar 20, 2025 |
How old are you really? You shouldn't be married, you are not mature for marriage. I hope you haven't started having kids. Chaii. This is going to be a new generation of fathers There is no future for the coming generations. A married man still waiting for allowance from your uncle. Did you sell your soul to your uncle? I am just wondering why you feel like your uncle ....... Hmmmm you don't want to move to PH because your wife is there ... I dey vex as I dey respond I swear. Adult ohhh |
| Re: Offshore Work Or Self Employed by emoboy4u: 9:59pm On Mar 20, 2025 |
You shouldn't be married at all. If you had your own diversified income streams, why do you still expect stipends from your uncle. A married man oooo. You were offered a job, you declined!!! Pussy! |
| Re: Offshore Work Or Self Employed by Ringstonermasks(op): 7:34am On Mar 21, 2025 |
EXOUSIAng:u av problem wit money ? |
| Re: Offshore Work Or Self Employed by EXOUSIAng: 11:44am On Mar 21, 2025 |
Ringstonermasks:I have a problem with a married adult waiting for monthly allowance like my teenage sons |
| Re: Offshore Work Or Self Employed by EXOUSIAng: 11:46am On Mar 21, 2025 |
emoboy4u:He is avoiding his wife, she is probably disciplined and mature and doesn't approve of his childish lifestyle |
| Re: Offshore Work Or Self Employed by Ringstonermasks(op): 1:05pm On Mar 21, 2025 |
EXOUSIAng:unfortunately for u nd Ur unborn generation it none of Ur business cos i wasn't talking to u |
| Re: Offshore Work Or Self Employed by Ringstonermasks(op): 1:08pm On Mar 21, 2025 |
emoboy4u:lol ona really dey frustrated nd looking for who to talk to |
| Re: Offshore Work Or Self Employed by emoboy4u: 1:30pm On Mar 21, 2025 |
Ringstonermasks:You put it on the Internet, so it is our business. What a pussy!! |
| Re: Offshore Work Or Self Employed by Smilleydr(m): 1:36pm On Mar 21, 2025 |
Ringstonermasks:but bro this kind matter you no suppose bring am come a place like this Waiting no good no good, you are married now, why waiting for your brother to send you money and no b say you no dey work I pity your wife faaaa |
| Re: Offshore Work Or Self Employed by EXOUSIAng: 1:50pm On Mar 21, 2025 |
Ringstonermasks:This is the immaturity I was talking about. You brought your personal problem to a public platform and you say you are not talking to the public. You are not only immature but stupid.. You are at the same level as my 11 years old teenage sons, collecting monthly pocket money and you are the one insulting me. LoL Month go soon end, your uncle and I will be taking care of children. Do you still have diapers or should we get you some more, what brand do you use? Huggies or pampers... Idiot Smile and be happy your uncle will probably get you new toys this month, maybe you might get Legos, be happy. Good boy |
| Re: Offshore Work Or Self Employed by Ringstonermasks(op): 4:07pm On Mar 21, 2025 |
EXOUSIAng:Oboy na poverty dey worry u Since u av problem with money, may money begin to run from u. I don't even take my time to finish d nonsense u are writing. do you know me ? are we related ? are we competitors in Business ? so what is dix frustration in ur comments. I don't care what u say, am not like those people u bully... this is a faceless forum and u are a nobody here and in ur fadas house. Poverty kee u there... same person will go out to beg for 200 Naira recharge card is the same ewu that is here commenting with anger over my late father's trust funds for all his children. In ur madness, i should dash my inheritance to my uncle because i am married and working. If it pains u so much, send ur location nd i will meet u so that u can express ur madness well. Jobless man. Trolling man following all my trends to get my attention... this same man emailed me to help him with money last month... na d pepper belle say I nor help you, na dey pain u so. Oloriburuku I will not give u attention here again... enjoy d attention u got from me while it last. |
| Re: Offshore Work Or Self Employed by Ringstonermasks(op): 4:10pm On Mar 21, 2025 |
Smilleydr:I pity ur mama nd ur papa and ur unborn generation. idiot... So make I dash my inheritance out cos i marry woman mumu |
| Re: Offshore Work Or Self Employed by Ringstonermasks(op): 4:11pm On Mar 21, 2025 |
emoboy4u:oya hawk am as gala instead of u to go Hustle for ur life, u dey lazy around for Nairaland looking for who to advise |
| Re: Offshore Work Or Self Employed by Ringstonermasks(op): 4:22pm On Mar 21, 2025 |
Smilleydr:see ur hypocrisy see d life u are living ? looking for under age to sleep wit that will love u cos of sex yet u av the audacity to comment on my trend
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| Re: Offshore Work Or Self Employed by Ringstonermasks(op): 4:26pm On Mar 21, 2025 |
Smilleydr:see the idiot that was giving me advise... over 35 nd he hasn't made anything from his life... a confused person and a failure in life look at the screenshots below
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| Re: Offshore Work Or Self Employed by EXOUSIAng: 4:39pm On Mar 21, 2025 |
Ringstonermasks:The married man who is waiting for his uncle to send pocket money is calling another man poor... This stupidity you are displaying on your thread is the reason your uncle still has to send you money monthly.. You are in a dilemma because your Uncle has not sent you pocket money and you are calling another man poor.... Yours is beyond stupidity, you are retarded.... |
| Re: Offshore Work Or Self Employed by emoboy4u: 5:23pm On Mar 21, 2025 |
Ringstonermasks:I'm not like you. Pussy ass man. I sympathize with your wife. I wonder what she's going through. |
| Re: Offshore Work Or Self Employed by Smilleydr(m): 5:39pm On Mar 21, 2025 |
[quote author=Ringstonermasks post=134648018]see the idiot that was giving me advise... over 35 nd he hasn't made anything from his life... a confused person and a failure in life look at the screenshots below[/quote you get time oooo ![]() |
| Re: Offshore Work Or Self Employed by Smilleydr(m): 5:43pm On Mar 21, 2025 |
Ringstonermasks:lols.....bro I never reach 35 ooooo If I marry, I no fit bring my family issue come here make Dem settle for me bro, me still dey street oooo All my topics there na cruise faaa, another day no day carry your family problem come here again. Iree oooo. |
| Re: Offshore Work Or Self Employed by Smilleydr(m): 6:54pm On Mar 21, 2025 |
Ringstonermasks:my own na small thing I never marry bro, but you wey don marry no allow us rest for this forum everytime my marriage s this my marriage s that, the fact s that you are goin through a lot and you talk too much, that s why you just carry ur family problem come here I pity your wife bro. |
| Re: Offshore Work Or Self Employed by Ringstonermasks(op): 8:55pm On Mar 21, 2025 |
emoboy4u:I just sent her d screenshot of ur silly comments... Funny people |
| Re: Offshore Work Or Self Employed by Ringstonermasks(op): 8:58pm On Mar 21, 2025 |
Smilleydr:Cruise kee u der. I am not ur bro, go find ur papa pikin ewu u are living a small life and u are bringing them here without shame. At ur age u are not married and u want to advise young married couples. You don't even av a single achievement. You're living a sad and pathetic life... all ur trends here show how miserable and small u are. Get out from here |
| Re: Offshore Work Or Self Employed by Ringstonermasks(op): 9:00pm On Mar 21, 2025 |
Smilleydr:if e pain u, Sniper bleech is still affordable, sell ur phone and buy it and sip it till ur useless life is gone... ewu |
| Re: Offshore Work Or Self Employed by Ringstonermasks(op): 9:02pm On Mar 21, 2025 |
emoboy4u:hahaha this ewu don go delete(edit) his own trend cos of me... lol. |
| Re: Offshore Work Or Self Employed by Ringstonermasks(op): 9:08pm On Mar 21, 2025 |
emoboy4u:u that av nothing in life... u went to delete ur Trends to hide ur shame lol... I still got u from comments. U that can not afford to feed and even afford to pay rent, na u wan give advise... u for just beg me to help u with ur morning food instead of passing ur frustration to my trend. If you see my wife, u can't even cough, talk more of me. I am far better than u. I have a business, a monthly trust fund payment, and a slot to work in an oil company. ur useless existence has nothing... am tired of replying u, it a waste of my time.
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| Re: Offshore Work Or Self Employed by Smilleydr(m): 9:19pm On Mar 21, 2025 |
Ringstonermasks:no be everybody wey Marry get sense, as I never marry I still sense pass you wey don marry I still dey yarn you, if I marry I no fit bring my marriage matter come nairaland here make Dem settle for me. Are you okay Mr man ?? |
| Re: Offshore Work Or Self Employed by emoboy4u: 9:47pm On Mar 21, 2025 |
Ringstonermasks:Lol, Old man with a wife, failing at being the man of his house, relying of stipend from an uncle and still crying like a bitch. Sissy! |
| Re: Offshore Work Or Self Employed by emoboy4u: 9:50pm On Mar 21, 2025 |
Ringstonermasks:Lol, the only stipend I ever got was from FG but I can't even measure dicks with you because you don't have one, you sissy man. Scared of his army wife, depends on 2k from an uncle and still rejects a job for fear of being in same state with his wife... Bloody eunuch |
| Re: Offshore Work Or Self Employed by noobody(m): 4:14am On Apr 06, 2025*. Modified: 4:52am On Apr 06, 2025 |
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