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SmartPolician:
A lot of women go through hell in Nigeria in the name of marriages, such cheating, narcissism, wife battering (physical abuse), etc.

When such husbands try to exhibit those traits abroad, their Nigerian wives will use those foreign laws to deal with them personally

So, the next time you see a Nigerian man crying that his wife kicked him out of the house, don't forget to ask him what he did to her.

Men they treat that way are simps… a real man will never help a woman travel abroad, even if she’s a reverend sister…

Orlu13:
You are a fool and a bastard.... person wey no like u go carry u, train u and transfer ur useless dead body to abroad?


Useless ingrate....I don't blame u sha...na d useless Nigerian men wey no wan learn

People like you need to learn how to control your emotions when using a public forum.

Rubbish

This article is for those who have decided to sell themselves as slaves in another man's land

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The historical life of Alhaji Amzat Daramola, one of the most influential Yoruba men of the 19th century, the first man to go on lesser hajj in the whole of Ondo and ekiti state and the first man to build a 3storey building in old ondo state.

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So his own people knew about the child and couldn't tell but only hint at it to him? They hated him, big time. If he wasn't spending money on the girl, that would be different.
And, if the man swears for her now and life becomes miserable and unbearable for her and she comes running back for forgiveness to continue her wickedness people will call the man names if he refuses to forgive her. Well, good luck to all who saw the signs and yet continue to take their women abroad.

This is serious

Mcreloaded:
Make I reply the person up there and others wey think say some women ice.

And the pastor asked last the congregation last week Sunday, that the men whom their wives controll and manipulate or easily threaten to raise up their hand for special deliverance.
The church was excited as there was a man whose hands was not raised up meaning has must be having a nice happy married life.
The pastor then asked him to share with the other men in the church as to how he manages his wife.
The man stood up and said the wife warned him not to stand up other wise she will beat him when they get home.
Both of them I was reliably informed are bases in the UK

Ebubu:
Take Nigerian wife abroad to your own demise.

Better to meet the Nigerian woman there than to bring her from Nigeria.

The one from Nigeria whom you take to oversea from Nigeria go rogue.

The one you meet there when you travel, are already cool headed.

Also if you're male in abroad married to Nigerian or anyother nationality, make your next of kin your mother for all your properties, businesses, cars, et all.

Then make your mother to will those properties only at her demise, to you.

If you are divorced by your wife before her death, wife gains nothing.
If she dies before wife divorces you, you gain your properties back, and find another trusted ally to send ownership to.

Love is no longer blind these days.

Guys pls take note of this piece of advice.

JovialJune:
Una go wail tire, no be this same abroad wey we dey?

So many Nigerian couples enjoying their lives abroad with no issues, and that's because the husbands use their sense to know that abroad is not the same as Nigeria where you all can get away with anything

The ones reaping the reward they sow are the loudest these days and very few percentage compared to those living peacefully, so enough with the gaslighting and crying

If you can't live with the consequences of your actions, stay in naija, very simple.

you are one of them, it's either you are husbandless or you have turned your husband to morroooooon, else you will soon chase that poor dude, no be Nigerian woman again

JovialJune:
Una go wail tire, no be this same abroad wey we dey?

So many Nigerian couples enjoying their lives abroad with no issues, and that's because the husbands use their sense to know that abroad is not the same as Nigeria where you all can get away with anything

The ones reaping the reward they sow are the loudest these days and very few percentage compared to those living peacefully, so enough with the gaslighting and crying

If you can't live with the consequences of your actions, stay in naija, very simple.

if a man is maltreating his wife in Nigeria, why will he bother to spend money and fight for her to join him abroad?

One thing that is certain to me, and which, I'm using to guide myself going into relationship,...from very very beginning, I know the kind of woman am going out with ......the character a woman portraits, would be the main determinant of my direction/involvement in such relationship..........

And for those whose their woman hiding behaviour, in which they cannot use their brain and common sense. It left for u.

Ebubu:
Take Nigerian wife abroad to your own demise.

Better to meet the Nigerian woman there than to bring her from Nigeria.

The one from Nigeria whom you take to oversea from Nigeria go rogue.

The one you meet there when you travel, are already cool headed.

Also if you're male in abroad married to Nigerian or anyother nationality, make your next of kin your mother for all your properties, businesses, cars, et all.

Then make your mother to will those properties only at her demise, to you.

If you are divorced by your wife before her death, wife gains nothing.
If she dies before wife divorces you, you gain your properties back, and find another trusted ally to send ownership to.

Love is no longer blind these days.

Lol 😁, why all these wahala on top woman?? Just try and shine ya eyes well well before you choose a woman to marry.

datola:
Most of Nigerian women are in marriage for the benefits and when there is no longer any (much) benefits they show their husbands pepper by using poor oyinbo laws to seriously deal with them.

All women are in business...men are the true romantics!

educatedfool:
Una jus wan discourage men from taking there spouses abroad

You are true evidence of your username.

JovialJune:
Una go wail tire, no be this same abroad wey we dey?

So many Nigerian couples enjoying their lives abroad with no issues, and that's because the husbands use their sense to know that abroad is not the same as Nigeria where you all can get away with anything

The ones reaping the reward they sow are the loudest these days and very few percentage compared to those living peacefully, so enough with the gaslighting and crying

If you can't live with the consequences of your actions, stay in naija, very simple.

You will be doing your masters studies,doing work(and submitting your salary to the man),and also coming back to work at home and one man will still beat you on top

Bxb

The man that marry Olosho and take her abroad will be the most exploited and will cry the loudest

omooba969:
Some husbands can be so domineering, irritating and annoying, lacking the skill, understanding and knowledge of how to simultaneously be a loving husband and a good father.

Secondly, the wife doesn't necessarily have the skill-set to exercise her power or rights around issues such as a marriage breakdown.

I wouldn't blame any of them but we have a big problem on our hands.

You won't still be with those women.

Islie:
https://punchng.com/matrimonial-battle-how-uk-based-nigerian-women-exploit-law-to-chase-out-husbands/?amp

Men aren't loved...they just being manipulated...a few know, majority don't. And the circle repeats

omooba969:
Some husbands can be so domineering, irritating and annoying, lacking the skill, understanding and knowledge of how to simultaneously be a loving husband and a good father.

Secondly, the wife doesn't necessarily have the skill-set to exercise her power or rights around issues such as a marriage breakdown.

I wouldn't blame any of them but we have a big problem on our hands.

Don't forget many Nigerian women don't marry who they love, they marry who can get them out of their financial difficulties, when they move other there, they feel they can take all he has and probably find who they love to remarry. It's usually not about treating them bad.

Story for the gods

Seunomobo:
What about the Nigeria Men that are beasts in both Nigeria and Africa....?
What goes around comes around, if a man is good to a woman, she will never turn on him when given the opportunity.....
I'll do same to my husband when I move abroad......I don' dey plan am since.

Una see? They don't even deny it. Look at one of them here freely admitting it.

If you take a Nigerian woman outside you deserve everything she does to you.

SmartPolician:
People like you need to learn how to control your emotions when using a public forum.

Fools like u disgust me....a man will hustle, suffer and build himself only fr one foolish woman to come and destroy him...and this is the rubbish u are saying....God punish u there

Mcreloaded:
Make I reply the person up there and others wey think say some women ice.

And the pastor asked last the congregation last week Sunday, that the men whom their wives controll and manipulate or easily threaten to raise up their hand for special deliverance.
The church was excited as there was a man whose hands was not raised up meaning has must be having a nice happy married life.
The pastor then asked him to share with the other men in the church as to how he manages his wife.
The man stood up and said the wife warned him not to stand up other wise she will beat him when they get home.
Both of them I was reliably informed are bases in the UK

😂
Even me myself I shock 😳

killuminati:
Na dem, flat headed developer

From hard drugs to rituals, fake drugs to exploit and back to drugs again

2025, you still don't have sense!

Kai...Eze really suffered.

Orlu13:
Nobody is discouraging u....I am glad many are being dealt with...you all will learn, ppl like me will keep learning from your own experience

Me, I want to learning from others experience.

killuminati:
Na dem, flat headed developer

From hard drugs to rituals, fake drugs to exploit and back to drugs again

[b] It's obvious you didn't read all the story... Yoruba women dey show una sgege that's why you rushing to Igbo women...
To erase your ignorance and inferiority complex read below...

Stop weaponising the system against your husbands’

Meanwhile, an official of the MET police has issued a stark warning to Nigerian women in the United Kingdom, urging them to desist from using law enforcement as a tool to oust their husbands from their homes.

The caution was delivered during a special women’s programme at Divine Restoration International Church, located at Hanworth House, John Ruskin Street, Camberwell, London.

Addressing the congregation, largely composed of Nigerian women, particularly of Yoruba descent, the officer, who alternated between English and Yoruba, expressed concern over the growing trend of family breakdowns fuelled by false allegations and police interventions.

According to the officer, it has been estimated that over 70 per cent of Yoruba women in England, Wales, and Ireland are single mothers, colloquially referred to as ‘Dalemosu’ in Yoruba. Many, he noted, had threatened their partners with police action, a practice that not only fractures homes but also deprives children of fatherly guidance.

The officer stressed that both parents play vital roles in a child’s upbringing, warning that using the justice system to remove fathers from their children’s lives would have long-term consequences on family stability and social cohesion.

While acknowledging that law enforcement should be contacted in genuine cases of abuse, the officer cautioned against fabricating accusations to gain an upper hand in marital disputes.

He also urged the women to be vigilant against the rising tide of knife crimes in the UK, a crisis that disproportionately affects young people, including children of African heritage.

While the police statement sparked mixed reactions, with some women defending their right to seek protection in troubled marriages, others acknowledged that some individuals abuse the system.

Many argue that the complexities of immigration, financial independence, and shifting gender roles contribute to marital tensions in the Diaspora, making it crucial to approach these issues with fairness and restraint.

The call from law enforcement serves as a reminder that while legal protections exist for victims of domestic abuse, these laws should not be manipulated to unfairly punish spouses or separate children from their fathers.

“Let peace reign in your homes. Allow your children to benefit from the love of both parents. The law is there to protect, not to be weaponised,” the Met officer said[/b]



No run crawl back to that hole you come from...

I like you and this your write up.

ChizzyBuna:
Dey play

Over 9k Nigerian men applied to take their wife to Uk last month.

9 thousand foolish men

In this life no matter tha age you will always come across these 2 ppl.
1. The foolish man
2. The Player

Women marry fools and settle down with nice guys they can control
A woman want someone they can control. Thats why woman can't marry a player. She go knack the player scatter but wont marry him.

Because a player know all her tricks and he make sure she never wins.
A player will never take his wife to a feminist nation like Uk. Never!!!

But a fool will say "yes honey" and take his wife to Uk.

i fully support women chasing men from their homes in Uk.
That is the only way a foolish man can learn. Experience
I derive joy seeing men punished for their stupidity.

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What is happening to Nigerian families in UK/US is similar to how US government weaponized Welfare system to destroy black families. Women with children received benefits and assistance from government if there are no fathers in the household. The result was increased out-of-wedlock children to ensure that the benefits keep coming. For people addicted to freebies, the trend spread like wildfire and here they are now grappling with the menace it caused to the society--women trying to raise men.

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