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franvincoop:
1 quick question, how many Nigerian women for abroad, don return to Nigeria marry man carry go UK?
I no mean the one wey na the man spend for her to go abroad.
I mean the one wey na she herself or her family sponsor her trip abroad.
How many of such Nigerian women do you know wey don return to Nigeria, carry man go UK?

The girl I know in pH.. immediately she travels to the UK sh stopped dating her long time pH boyfriend who is also a graduate and huzling... Sh is a doctor..

She later came back for him , guess when..? 9 years later after she past 37 years .. marriage pressure hooked her.. sh couldn't hold a man down in the UK...

The guy agree , knowing sh doesn't love him.. got there , worked for 3years, gathered her money , paid her back, told her why he will. Leave and left her..

His argument is that, u dumped me at the most crucial stage, we could have been married very very long ago.. but u chose class over real. Love.. me also I dnt want to marry an old lady too.. upon sh is a doctor, the guy never cared.. ND left

Mumu man.

He married a 16 year old minor because he thought she would be 'tamable' and that backfired greatly. E sweet me.

A 4 year old was left in his care and he was unable to care for her because he was undocumented.

Is that how he would have been unable to care for his own biological child had he conceived with Edith?

Now what did we learn?

You will see a girl that her papa no get bicycle dey pressure boyfriend for iPhone,the mumu boyfriend self go buy for the stupid girl,the girl go still dey do Shakara.

Nigeria men make una no dey overrate these girls Na

Are people still bringing women from Africa to the Western world. Hahaha after she discover feminism she go begin put Pepper soup for your nyash . Men always elevate and upgrade yourself may woman no use you play soccer ⚽️

Ebubu:
Take Nigerian wife abroad to your own demise.

Better to meet the Nigerian woman there than to bring her from Nigeria.

The one from Nigeria whom you take to oversea from Nigeria go rogue.

The one you meet there when you travel, are already cool headed.

Also if you're male in abroad married to Nigerian or anyother nationality, make your next of kin your mother for all your properties, businesses, cars, et all.

Then make your mother to will those properties only at her demise, to you.

If you are divorced by your wife before her death, wife gains nothing.
If she dies before wife divorces you, you gain your properties back, and find another trusted ally to send ownership to.

Love is no longer blind these days.

So much wisdom. Someone like me my mother is late, who may I use to protect my assets in this context.

Ebubu:
Take Nigerian wife abroad to your own demise.

Better to meet the Nigerian woman there than to bring her from Nigeria.

The one from Nigeria whom you take to oversea from Nigeria go rogue.

The one you meet there when you travel, are already cool headed.

Also if you're male in abroad married to Nigerian or anyother nationality, make your next of kin your mother for all your properties, businesses, cars, et all.

Then make your mother to will those properties only at her demise, to you.

If you are divorced by your wife before her death, wife gains nothing.
If she dies before wife divorces you, you gain your properties back, and find another trusted ally to send ownership to.

Love is no longer blind these days.

So much wisdom. Someone like me my mother is late, who may I use to protect my assets in this context?

I know of one foolish Nigerian woman. Daughter of an ex NYSC director living in the UK. She brought her sister with two kids to come and stay in her husband house for over 5 months.

When the husband gave the sister two weeks notice to leave the house as he is the one supporting his wife and two kids and then the sister and two kids. She went to lie to the police that he was physically abusing her.

That was how the police told him to leave the house oh. The stupid idiot thought she will win the house and car and the husband will continue to pay mortgage.

After a good 5 years in court battle, She got nothing, right now she is living in rented accommodation and trying to use her kids as pawns. She will hardly let them call him and she starves her children so that when the husband gets to have them e go dey pain am.

educatedfool:
Una jus wan discourage men from taking there spouses abroad

It's not like that. Many ladies are in marriage for benefits. Once you are able to work their papers to travel,just know the marriage is finished. Not all ladies o,but so many of them..

Stories that touch. When you hear the real truth, you will know better

datola:
Most of Nigerian women are in marriage for the benefits and when there is no longer any (much) benefits they show their husbands pepper by using poor oyinbo laws to seriously deal with them.

Absolutely

educatedfool:
Una jus wan discourage men from taking there spouses abroad

This guy must be a simp. He just married a 16 yrs old gal only to refused to touch her. Let me ask what did the gal came to do. She just came to learn how to cook, to be nurse and to be a good wife. The guy is wicked and stuppid


He failed in his conjugal responsibility rather than thanking the guy that got his wife pregnant, he chose to make quarrel with a woman that saves his generation from extinction.

To me the marriage is not yet valid because unconsummated. Unconsummated marriage is not a valid marriage.

Orlu13:
Foolish Igbo men with low self-esteem...why must it always be my tribesmen who do all these rubbish


Why train a gal and take her abroad of all places as ur wife, esp an Igbo gal fr dat matter

Why are Igbo men afraid of marrying already literate lady who has finished school

Why do they like playing fatherly role...

Everything is not about money, sometimes you use ur number six and reason well

No matter how they warn them to stop taking Nigerian women abroad esp Igbo women, they will never hear

I pray more of such men keep learning the hard way

You seems to have a problem with Igbo people. You have attacked both their males and females in your tirade. You think that high rate of divorce is peculiar to Igbos or Nigerians? Do you know the rate of divorce among Whites? You people and your hasty generalization. If not for insincerity, manipulation and greed among humans, what's wrong with taking care of someone you love and care about?

SmartPolician:
A lot of women go through hell in Nigeria in the name of marriages, such cheating, narcissism, wife battering (physical abuse), etc.

When such husbands try to exhibit those traits abroad, their Nigerian wives will use those foreign laws to deal with them personally

So, the next time you see a Nigerian man crying that his wife kicked him out of the house, don't forget to ask him what he did to her.

You people are just terrible. The point isn't about bad husbands in Nigeria, the point is that we have seen countless videos of women physically abusing their husbands in the UK. For a women to physically abuse their husband, they must have emotionally violated and murdered them. Are you now saying because some men abuse their wives in Nigeria, then it's ok for women to abuse their husbands overseas?

There are sooo many more successful marriages .... of abroad based men/women marrying a Nigerian based and taking them abroad. This one picked based on location ... a young girl from the village ... because she was the daughter of friends if his parents. Was the girl interested in him as a husband?.....or if he can fulfill her dream .. which she let him know from jump? While in Europe ... what kind of communication was he having with her that he didn't know she was pregnant ...and had a child? ...likely he was in prison. In the UK ... he was correcting her ...what does that mean? ...guess he forgot he wasn't in Nigeria. Knowing his status ... his stay depending on the relationship ...and his maintenance depending on her ..he should've been humble until he found a job and can stand on his own. Easier said than done.
This whole episode does not support the headline. Husbands get tossed to the streets without even hitting or abusing the wife ...but this one had fights ....fights. I'm surprised he wasn't kicked out after the first one .

The woman didn't love the man. He used money. So men marry with your head

Mcreloaded:
Make I reply the person up there and others wey think say some women ice.

And the pastor asked last the congregation last week Sunday, that the men whom their wives controll and manipulate or easily threaten to raise up their hand for special deliverance.
The church was excited as there was a man whose hands was not raised up meaning has must be having a nice happy married life.
The pastor then asked him to share with the other men in the church as to how he manages his wife.
The man stood up and said the wife warned him not to stand up other wise she will beat him when they get home.
Both of them I was reliably informed are based in the UK

Lwkmd 🤣😂😅😆

Seunomobo:
What about the Nigeria Men that are beasts in both Nigeria and Africa....?
What goes around comes around, if a man is good to a woman, she will never turn on him when given the opportunity.....
I'll do same to my husband when I move abroad......I don' dey plan am since.

Whataboutism as usual

At the point he became aware of her betrayal re child as he alleged he needed to accept that it happened and forgive her that in life things happens especially to a 16 year old child or move on.

It can’t be undone and repeated arguments over it means that the relationship has to end. Not everyone can sustain a long distance relationship for years. Know this and know peace.

Marriages was not designed to be long distance hence some of the societal problems. People are not there raising their children. It’s not all about money.

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Ebubu:
➜Take Nigerian wife abroad to your own demise. Better to meet the Nigerian woman there than to bring her from Nigeria. The one from Nigeria whom you take to oversea from Nigeria go rogue. The one you meet there when you travel, are already cool headed.
➜ Also if you're male in abroad married to Nigerian or anyother nationality, make your next of kin your mother for all your properties, businesses, cars, et all. Then make your mother to will those properties only at her demise, to you. If you are divorced by your wife before her death, wife gains nothing. If she dies before wife divorces you, you gain your properties back, and find another trusted ally to send ownership to. Love is no longer blind these days.

1. I am suddenly reminded of the class of Nigerian men who keep one family abroad and another young woan tied down with children in Nigeria. This will not work either since we have seen this play out so many times to probably realize that there is a good reason why Nigerian women abroad are cautious about daying Nigerian men abroad.

2. Ah! Do you think women abroad do not learn like Nigerian women in Nigeria? Try that and these abroad women will eventually show you even more lessons of how women can never be toys for men. Do you think they never shine their eyes on that fraud?

At the core of this remains the fact that many Nigeria generally lack as far as social and emotional intelligence is concerned. This is at the core of the many abusive and/or toxic relationships that society condones.

Overseas the women just don’t stand for the abuse.

justli:
You people are just terrible. The point isn't about bad husbands in Nigeria, the point is that we have seen countless videos of women physically abusing their husbands in the UK. For a women to physically abuse their husband, they must have emotionally violated and murdered them. Are you now saying because some men abuse their wives in Nigeria, then it's ok for women to abuse their husbands overseas?

irepnaija4eva:
I think it should be foolish yoruba women..

Who can't respect their husbands. Always jumping from different dick to the other.. No wonder you yoruba men rushed to date Igbo women...
And it's obvious you didn't read the whole article... Here let me help you..

Stop weaponising the system against your husbands’

Meanwhile, an official of the MET police has issued a stark warning to Nigerian women in the United Kingdom, urging them to desist from using law enforcement as a tool to oust their husbands from their homes.

The caution was delivered during a special women’s programme at Divine Restoration International Church, located at Hanworth House, John Ruskin Street, Camberwell, London.

Addressing the congregation, largely composed of Nigerian women, particularly of Yoruba descent, the officer, who alternated between English and Yoruba, expressed concern over the growing trend of family breakdowns fuelled by false allegations and police interventions.

According to the officer, it has been estimated that over 70 per cent of Yoruba women in England, Wales, and Ireland are single mothers, colloquially referred to as ‘Dalemosu’ in Yoruba. Many, he noted, had threatened their partners with police action, a practice that not only fractures homes but also deprives children of fatherly guidance.

The officer stressed that both parents play vital roles in a child’s upbringing, warning that using the justice system to remove fathers from their children’s lives would have long-term consequences on family stability and social cohesion.

While acknowledging that law enforcement should be contacted in genuine cases of abuse, the officer cautioned against fabricating accusations to gain an upper hand in marital disputes.

He also urged the women to be vigilant against the rising tide of knife crimes in the UK, a crisis that disproportionately affects young people, including children of African heritage.

While the police statement sparked mixed reactions, with some women defending their right to seek protection in troubled marriages, others acknowledged that some individuals abuse the system.

Many argue that the complexities of immigration, financial independence, and shifting gender roles contribute to marital tensions in the Diaspora, making it crucial to approach these issues with fairness and restraint.

The call from law enforcement serves as a reminder that while legal protections exist for victims of domestic abuse, these laws should not be manipulated to unfairly punish spouses or separate children from their fathers.

“Let peace reign in your homes. Allow your children to benefit from the love of both parents. The law is there to protect, not to be weaponised,” the Met officer said[/b]..

I didn't bother to read the rubbish you wrote

I'm not tribalistic and I will never be...but I say the truth wen I see it

U don't even know dat I'm from orlu imo state

But it doesn't stop.me frm calling my tribesmen out...say the truth no matter what

Igbo men like playing odogwu and fatherly roles to women, dats why they are the biggest victims in all these

Our ppl always use money to buy love...not knowing that such things have implications

JovialJune:
Una go wail tire, no be this same abroad wey we dey?

So many Nigerian couples enjoying their lives abroad with no issues, and that's because the husbands use their sense to know that abroad is not the same as Nigeria where you all can get away with anything

The ones reaping the reward they sow are the loudest these days and very few percentage compared to those living peacefully, so enough with the gaslighting and crying

If you can't live with the consequences of your actions, stay in naija, very simple.

one of them sighted, but thank God for the idea of swearing before embarking

Islie:
https://punchng.com/matrimonial-battle-how-uk-based-nigerian-women-exploit-law-to-chase-out-husbands/?amp

Iñgrate gender, men don't wise up, continue to be fools

You should have impregnated 🤰her
before leaving Nigeria... Mumu


Well, a good Samaritan did it on your
b½ ... 😊😀😊


Your family sef no try.

ChizzyBuna:
Dey play

Over 9k Nigerian men applied to take their wife to Uk last month.

9 thousand foolish men

In this life no matter tha age you will always come across these 2 ppl.
1. The foolish man
2. The Player

Women marry fools and settle down with nice guys they can control
A woman want someone they can control. Thats why woman can't marry a player. She go knack the player scatter but wont marry him.

Because a player know all her tricks and he make sure she never wins.
A player will never take his wife to a feminist nation like Uk. Never!!!

But a fool will say "yes honey" and take his wife to Uk.

i fully support women chasing men from their homes in Uk.
That is the only way a foolish man can learn. Experience
I derive joy seeing men punished for their stupidity.

😂 Let's pity this men please

galantjoe:
This guy must be a simp. He just married a 16 yrs old gal only to refused to touch her. Let me ask what did the gal came to do. She just came to learn how to cook, to be nurse and to be a good wife. The guy is wicked and stuppid


He failed in his conjugal responsibility rather than thanking the guy that got his wife pregnant, he chose to make quarrel with a woman that saves his generation from extinction.

To me the marriage is not yet valid because unconsummated. Unconsummated marriage is not a valid marriage.

He is probably lying. He MOST DEFINATELY did touch her. It's damage control.

I managed to read the first story, Eze sef funny, you marry 16 year old girl, left her in Naija and traveled for 10 years,😂😂😂,(sorry for the laugh) but Eze na mumu. How can you marry a young girl that her hormones are just kicking in to travel,young girl that sees what are peers are doing, married woman wey dey see wetin single girls dey do for bed and she no fit do am, Eze played himself, its a pity.

SmartPolician:
A lot of women go through hell in Nigeria in the name of marriages, such cheating, narcissism, wife battering (physical abuse), etc.

When such husbands try to exhibit those traits abroad, their Nigerian wives will use those foreign laws to deal with them personally

So, the next time you see a Nigerian man crying that his wife kicked him out of the house, don't forget to ask him what he did to her.

So far so good you've been typing rubbish from thread to thread to support nonsense

Foolish men go suffer & die early

Islie:
https://punchng.com/matrimonial-battle-how-uk-based-nigerian-women-exploit-law-to-chase-out-husbands/?amp

ChizzyBuna:
Dey play

Over 9k Nigerian men applied to take their wife to Uk last month.

9 thousand foolish men

In this life no matter tha age you will always come across these 2 ppl.
1. The foolish man
2. The Player

Women marry fools and settle down with nice guys they can control
A woman want someone they can control. Thats why woman can't marry a player. She go knack the player scatter but wont marry him.

Because a player know all her tricks and he make sure she never wins.
A player will never take his wife to a feminist nation like Uk. Never!!!

But a fool will say "yes honey" and take his wife to Uk.

i fully support women chasing men from their homes in Uk.
That is the only way a foolish man can learn. Experience
I derive joy seeing men punished for their stupidity.

Best comment on this thread...don't suffer fools!!!

mysticwarrior:
who sent R Kelly to prison ?
Who killed Abacha?
Who tarnished Fatoyibo's image?
Who is about to bring down akpabio?

who sent r Kelly to prison ? The white man
Who killed abacha ? They say babangida
Who tarnished fatoyinbos image ? What image ? Pastor dressing like pikin

Who is about to bring down akpabio ? His stupidity

You for finding better examples naw