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JovialJune:
Una go wail tire, no be this same abroad wey we dey?

So many Nigerian couples enjoying their lives abroad with no issues, and that's because the husbands use their sense to know that abroad is not the same as Nigeria where you all can get away with anything

The ones reaping the reward they sow are the loudest these days and very few percentage compared to those living peacefully, so enough with the gaslighting and crying

If you can't live with the consequences of your actions, stay in naija, very simple.

I no dey kuku blame you, I blame the Simpsons of men wey dey relocate una abroad.

Loool abeg no he the same abroad couples are still living?

If going abroad breaks up a marriage, the marriage already had issues in Nigeria .
Na patch patch marriage Una carry go abroad and it burst when you got there, the environment can help amplify it.

armadeo:
That's why people.like you end up on the news that thier wives have chased them from the house.

How many do you know personally ? How many have you read about?

No sense at all just swallow hookline and sinker. Lack of exposure.

Sharap,am on ground and seeing things myself

SmartPolician:
A lot of women go through hell in Nigeria in the name of marriages, such cheating, narcissism, wife battering (physical abuse), etc.

When such husbands try to exhibit those traits abroad, their Nigerian wives will use those foreign laws to deal with them personally

So, the next time you see a Nigerian man crying that his wife kicked him out of the house, don't forget to ask him what he did to her.

Mr Simpp, he doesn't have to do anything to her if you read the article up there. But I guess it is too long for you

authority2006:
➜Mr Simpp, he doesn't have to do anything to her if you read the article up there. But I guess it is too long for you

Are you referring to the story of the man reported for the abuse of a 4-year-old child?

omooba969:
Some husbands can be so domineering, irritating and annoying, lacking the skill, understanding and knowledge of how to simultaneously be a loving husband and a good father.

Secondly, the wife doesn't necessarily have the skill-set to exercise her power or rights around issues such as a marriage breakdown.

I wouldn't blame any of them but we have a big problem on our hands.

Now that you have opportunity to learn from the experience of others, don't assume and form too sabi until you find yourself in a similar situation. It might be too late for you to realise that those husbands were not at fault, abroad system just bringing out the demons in Nigerian housewives

authority2006:
Now that you have opportunity to learn from the experience of others, don't assume and form too sabi until you find yourself in a similar situation. It might be too late for you to realise that those husbands were not at fault, abroad system just bringing out the demons in Nigerian housewives

Storyland!

Orlu13:
Foolish Igbo men with low self-esteem...why must it always be my tribesmen who do all these rubbish


Why train a gal and take her abroad of all places as ur wife, esp an Igbo gal fr dat matter

Why are Igbo men afraid of marrying already literate lady who has finished school

Why do they like playing fatherly role...

Everything is not about money, sometimes you use ur number six and reason well

No matter how they warn them to stop taking Nigerian women abroad esp Igbo women, they will never hear

I pray more of such men keep learning the hard way

Almost all of their men have that mentality. And they also like to go for underage girls as wives, taking the advantage of the poor parents of the little girls.
Kanu Nwakwo did same thing.
Joseph Yobo did the same thing.
Ned Nwoko still doing the same thing. And many others of their men too

Seunomobo:
What about the Nigeria Men that are beasts in both Nigeria and Africa....?
What goes around comes around, if a man is good to a woman, she will never turn on him when given the opportunity.....
I'll do same to my husband when I move abroad......I don' dey plan am since.

I hope he's not a vengeful type so that he won't waste your live like those husbands of America based Nigerian nurses wey dey waste their wives lives after turning their husbands lives upside down. Have you ever come across that article/news?

Orlu13:
You are a fool and a bastard.... person wey no like u go carry u, train u and transfer ur useless dead body to abroad?


Useless ingrate....I don't blame u sha...na d useless Nigerian men wey no wan learn

Their comments dey vex person seriously

Islie:
https://punchng.com/matrimonial-battle-how-uk-based-nigerian-women-exploit-law-to-chase-out-husbands/?amp

It is well ooh

BlackfireX:
Who betrayed Adam?

Who betrayed samson?

Who betrayed king Solomon?

Who instigated the death of John the Baptist?

Lol...

easytig:
Person that her parents can't sponsor her to nursing school or pay for her ticket abroad,has sent you back to Nigeria.

In your next life never help a woman pass her level 😂😂

My elder brother told me back then in university that"Na the Level you meet woman you go use follow am yarn" e.g a girl that her mama dey sell okrika has no business entering airport or lounge to relax 😂😂

Useku:
Sharap,am on ground and seeing things myself

Again that's why you are seeing the type of things you're seeing. It's because of the type of person you are. Like attracts like.

He didn't marry her because he knew her character, he had married her because both family were friends, plus she was just 16 and innocent at the time.

How is the above reason enough to marry a woman? Her true character surfaced not only when she was in a position of power, but even while a married woman in Nigeria. How come none of his family could tell him she already had a child with another man even while still married to him?

No wonder when some husbands can't bear it anymore they shoot the woman and in some cases, themselves too. What a life!

You wanted marriage you went to village because that's where you get younger and innocent girls. Which research endorses this? The big problem is the man already. Looking to excessive complete control and what not. Let's wise up.

authority2006:
I hope he's not a vengeful type so that he won't waste your live like those husbands of America based Nigerian nurses wey dey waste their wives lives after turning their husbands lives upside down. Have you ever come across that article/news?

All actions have consequences ( either good or bad). My plan is mine, everyone should focus on theirs.....

Fiscus105:
One thing that is certain to me, and which, I'm using to guide myself going into relationship,...from very very beginning, I know the kind of woman am going out with ......the character a woman portraits, will be the main determinant of my direction/involvement in such relationship..........

And for those whose their woman hiding behaviour, in which they cannot use their brain and common sense. It left for u.

Lol
What a very senseless reasoning...
You know a woman's true character?
You'll definitely learn the hard way...

Useku:
You never live abroad before,this won't work

People don't realise that they can't play the system over there. The system has existed for a very long time and has seen all the tricks men have attempted. They are well prepared, and they anticipate any sneaky antic you try to pull.

Besides, he should ask himself if other men before him haven't thought of his plan before... abi is he that smart to think of what others haven't thought of?

JovialJune:
Una go wail tire, no be this same abroad wey we dey?

So many Nigerian couples enjoying their lives abroad with no issues, and that's because the husbands use their sense to know that abroad is not the same as Nigeria where you all can get away with anything

The ones reaping the reward they sow are the loudest these days and very few percentage compared to those living peacefully, so enough with the gaslighting and crying

If you can't live with the consequences of your actions, stay in naija, very simple.

girl. Shut the Bleep up and leave sentiment aside, most of the Nigerian couples enjoying is because the woman was born and brought up in UK and maybe quite financially OK before she met her man, I can bet my life make ur research... I'm just happy that naija men are wiser now, there is a way they beat the stuff lol... They mortgage their property there and ensure everything they have is in Naija even investments... Maybe only their job is their main source of income in the UK... They keep buyimg properties in Naija not UK... They also install cctv in the main areas in the house and also engage with good lawyers... Now men are enlightened, any small thing dey record lol.. Go and make ur research, men now record their wife conversation and WhatsApp chats, there is a reason for that... Unlike in the US, UK is not too biased when it comes to their law... If u do anyhow I swear na u go commot the house as woman not the man provided he has a good lawyer and enough evidence... Men are wiser now..

Akalia:
So much wisdom. Someone like me my mother is late, who may I use to protect my assets in this context?

Oga, forget all these tactics. You can't play the system over there. The lawyers and judges have seen it all, and are fully prepared. They are even anticipating anything sneaky you might want to pull.

That tactic he is recommending, do you think other men haven't thought of it? Are you that smart? Are other men that dumb? Are you that special?

Best thing to do abroad is never get married.

Ebubu:
Take Nigerian wife abroad to your own demise.

Better to meet the Nigerian woman there than to bring her from Nigeria.

The one from Nigeria whom you take to oversea from Nigeria go rogue.

The one you meet there when you travel, are already cool headed.

Also if you're male in abroad married to Nigerian or anyother nationality, make your next of kin your mother for all your properties, businesses, cars, et all.

Then make your mother to will those properties only at her demise, to you.

If you are divorced by your wife before her death, wife gains nothing.
If she dies before wife divorces you, you gain your properties back, and find another trusted ally to send ownership to.

Love is no longer blind these days.

jovial June read this, lol... It is only illiterate men that know nothing about the law that can get threaten by those women... There are ways to beat this system..

Ashawoman82:
jovial June read this, lol... It is only illiterate men that know nothing about the law that can get threaten by those women... There are ways to beat this system..

You cannot beat the system. The idea that you can beat the system is a very dangerous illusion.

Martinez39s:
You cannot beat the system. The idea that you can beat the system is a dangerous one.

you can't beat it alright but u can maneuver it... Hakimi did it.. Lol, a lot of men are doing it, read my first reply to jovialjune and see how some men are doing it now..

Martinez39s:
Oga, forget all these tactics. You can't play the system over there. The lawyers and judges have seen it all, and are fully prepared. They are even anticipating anything sneaky you might want to pull.

That tactic he is recommending, do you think other men haven't thought of it? Are you that smart? Are other men that dumb? Are you that special?

Best thing to do abroad is never get married.

Kobojunkie:
Are you referring to the story of the man reported for the abuse of a 4-year-old child?

Lol. Like we didn't know it was all lies to get him out of the picture. Na today we don dey read that kind lie

emmaodet:

Most people don't know how the system works, that's why think they can pull the Hakimi manoeuvre. They don't even know the Hakimi story is fake news.

Smh. They want to play the system. The divorce judges and lawyers will use chisel hammer to nack their coconut heads into a cold jail, and their eyes will clear.

Imagine trying to use a cheap trick to outplay a system ran by foreign judges and lawyers that are well educated and have spent years in the system: a system that is feminist and gynocentric. Do you know that judges and lawyers benefit from the taxes on alimony and child support? You wan use cheap trick collect their daily manna.

meobizy:
Eep eep, beep beep, boop boop.

Are you this daft?

He replied you with some nice points,only for you to respond like a secondary school kid

How old are you?

CyrusVI:
Are you this daft?

He replied you with some nice points,only for you to respond like a secondary school kid

How old are you?

Eep eep, beep beep, boop boop, click click, vreeemmm.

CyrusVI:
Are you this daft?

He replied you with some nice points,only for you to respond like a secondary school kid

How old are you?

Lol. Men who argue with women on this kind of issue and have expectations of logic, empathy for men, sound reasoning, and sincerity from female responses are naive. Think about it.

JovialJune:
Una go wail tire, no be this same abroad wey we dey?

So many Nigerian couples enjoying their lives abroad with no issues, and that's because the husbands use their sense to know that abroad is not the same as Nigeria where you all can get away with anything

The ones reaping the reward they sow are the loudest these days and very few percentage compared to those living peacefully, so enough with the gaslighting and crying

If you can't live with the consequences of your actions, stay in naija, very simple.

Shut the f**k up

ChizzyBuna:
Dey play

Over 9k Nigerian men applied to take their wife to Uk last month.

9 thousand foolish men

In this life no matter tha age you will always come across these 2 ppl.
1. The foolish man
2. The Player

Women marry fools and settle down with nice guys they can control
A woman want someone they can control. Thats why woman can't marry a player. She go knack the player scatter but wont marry him.

Because a player know all her tricks and he make sure she never wins.
A player will never take his wife to a feminist nation like Uk. Never!!!

But a fool will say "yes honey" and take his wife to Uk. Then she divorce you chase you out of your house then invite one playa to come keep the bed warm during winter

i fully support women chasing men from their homes in Uk.
That is the only way a foolish man can learn. Experience
I derive joy seeing men punished for their stupidity.

I call it natural selection
And the women are doing nature a favour of seperating the foolish men and keeping the players

Good job Ladies

Kwakwakwakwa
And the man can't do anything to her. I know a case. Lol.

irepnaija4eva:
Mugu.. What I highlighted was from the article it's self..... Show you a fact that most cases like this happens to the yoruba folks... Bloody hypocrites.. Infact your women are far more masculine than yoruba men.. No wonder they are the least in attraction..
You wonder why your elites go for Igbo women? ...
This the fucking reason...

Which elite?

Obj, Tinubu are the highest level any Yoruba man can reach, did the marry Igbo?

Ok, list the richest Yoruba men, Like otedola,Adenuga, did they marry Igbo women?


Guy rest and face your Igbo brother instead of bringing Yoruba into the convo