₦airaland Forum

givedemwotowoto:
Marrying the wrong woman can wreck your finances, family, career, and future. Choosing a wife is one of the most important decisions of your life. Be very careful who you choose as your wife.

Apcshit:
You are a liar

Kobojunkie:
This one is still smoking religious cool-aid! 😂😂😂😂😂

There is no biological or physical evidence that women were created to be helpers to men, subordinates, and all the other religious nonsense your ancestors and their religious masters filled your heads with. Many women in places like Nigeria are raised with this mentality that they are unequal to the males, however, the same women can break free of the brainwashing when they leave the African shores, proving that women aren't innate helpers or subordinates for men but merely programmed by society to think so.

2. Are marriages in Nigeria any better than marriages abroad? Talk true! 😂😂😂

HEAVEN4444:
who sent r Kelly to prison ? The white man
Who killed abacha ? They say babangida
Who tarnished fatoyinbos image ? What image ? Pastor dressing like pikin

Who is about to bring down akpabio ? His stupidity

You for finding better examples naw

bigpicture001:
The girl I know in pH.. immediately she travels to the UK sh stopped dating her long time pH boyfriend who is also a graduate and huzling... Sh is a doctor..

She later came back for him , guess when..? 9 years later after she past 37 years .. marriage pressure hooked her.. sh couldn't hold a man down in the UK...

The guy agree , knowing sh doesn't love him.. got there , worked for 3years, gathered her money , paid her back, told her why he will. Leave and left her..

His argument is that, u dumped me at the most crucial stage, we could have been married very very long ago.. but u chose class over real. Love.. me also I dnt want to marry an old lady too.. upon sh is a doctor, the guy never cared.. ND left

Orlu13:
.... person wey no like u go carry u, train u and transfer ur useless body to abroad?

....I don't blame u sha...na d useless Nigerian men wey no wan learn

Orlu13:
Foolish Igbo men with low self-esteem...why must it always be my tribesmen who do all these rubbish


Why train a gal and take her abroad of all places as ur wife, esp an Igbo gal fr dat matter

Why are Igbo men afraid of marrying already literate lady who has finished school

Why do they like playing fatherly role...

Everything is not about money, sometimes you use ur number six and reason well

No matter how they warn them to stop taking Nigerian women abroad esp Igbo women, they will never hear

I pray more of such men keep learning the hard way

1Sharon:
He is probably lying. He MOST DEFINATELY did touch her. It's damage control.

datola:
Most of Nigerian women are in marriage for the benefits and when there is no longer any (much) benefits they show their husbands pepper by using poor oyinbo laws to seriously deal with them.

SmartPolician:
A lot of women go through hell in Nigeria in the name of marriages, such cheating, narcissism, wife battering (physical abuse), etc.

When such husbands try to exhibit those traits abroad, their Nigerian wives will use those foreign laws to deal with them personally

So, the next time you see a Nigerian man crying that his wife kicked him out of the house, don't forget to ask him what he did to her.

SeverusSnape:
Nigerian women become beasts when they go to America or Europe.

Islie:
https://punchng.com/matrimonial-battle-how-uk-based-nigerian-women-exploit-law-to-chase-out-husbands/?amp

Mccollins042:
➜I'd advice you go back and study your biology well before you come here to show your ignorance.
1. Why are men generally bigger than women
2. Why are the stronger and more muscular
3. Why are men biologically created to be active year round but there are times women aren't like during pregnancy?
4 why do men have broader voice for dominance?
Everything in a mans body exudes dominance even their beards and Adams apple, while everything in a woman shows feminine energy.
Even ppl in fashion knew (before wokeness came) that that's why men wear freer cloths like free trousers, shirts, no makeups flat shoes etc every cloth was designed so that men can be free and keep going. while women wear high heels, skirts, tighter jeans, blouse, make ups etc.
People on NL are known to be ignorant and loud at the same time but this one is a stretch

bepositive11:
He even went to the village to find her. Who knows? Maybe he could have found a city girl with better character

Kobojunkie:
So, in your own biology equally, the bigger an animal, the more dominance it ought to have? Why then do gorillas, cows, elephants, and even whales not dominate you? 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

Some of una just carry tambolo colony for inside una skull dey dey call am brain. Kai! 🙄🙄

Mccollins042:
➜You don't have any knowledge of biology, you are ignorant and you are loud. You don't even watch ordinary Natgeo wild.
In Animals of the same species the bigger and the more muscular is the more dominance and most of the time they are the males.
Look at the lion, almost as big as 2 lionesses, has a mane and more muscular.
Gorillas and elephants, the same thing.
Don't compare orange to pineapples, it makes u sound dumb! Compare male cows, gorillas etc to their females, that's how Intelligent people argue
Have you heard the new campaign in the US? "No men in women's sports"? Have you heard of testosterone before? I guess not.
Bro you are just highly ignorant, it is not a bad thing but being loud at it😂😂? Smh

Kobojunkie:
Some of una just carry tambolo colony for inside una skull dey dey call am brain. Kai! 🙄🙄

Mccollins042:
➜Argue with points don't just show your ignorance. I don't engage with people that don't have points, next time be more humble when ignorant, it makes you look smarter and more eager to learn. Bye bye

Seunomobo:
What about the Nigeria Men that are beasts in both Nigeria and Africa....?
What goes around comes around, if a man is good to a woman, she will never turn on him when given the opportunity.....
I'll do same to my husband when I move abroad......I don' dey plan am since.

IbrahimSola:
➜For me, I know my wife. She's a very good Nigerian wife. She's perfect for me. I give her no stress, but I'm certain she has the traits of not being so nice if we move to a country like UK where a woman was in charge as a Queen (bless her lovely soul) for several decades. I rather visit and come back than risk my marriage and our happiness going to the UK. Most of my friends have relocated, but I won't relocate. I want to stay happy with her forever in this country. UK is not for us. Mek my wife no go become wetin she no know. I know my wife and I know myself. We will visit on holidays and come back. FULLSTOP.

IbrahimSola:
For me, I know my wife. She's a very good Nigerian wife. She's perfect for me. I give her no stress, but I'm certain she has the traits of not being so nice if we move to a country like UK where a woman was in charge as a Queen (bless her lovely soul) for several decades. I rather visit and come back than risk my marriage and our happiness going to the UK. Most of my friends have relocated, but I won't relocate. I want to stay happy with her forever in this country. UK is not for us. Mek my wife no go become wetin she no know. I know my wife and I know myself. We will visit on holidays and come back. FULLSTOP.

Lovit:
Men should learn this transactional love game, the women has been paying it all alone

stop taking Naija women abroad, if married already, leave her here while you travel. If she is the one travelling, tell her categorically that you will marry another wife. Don;t say my wife or babe is not like that, they are all the same when the chips are down

make your money, pay them to knack only without commitments

Since the women have taken that route, let the men too device a means to live thier life without marriage commitments

Just get a woman to have kids for you and pay her off.

Naija women are not loyal, there may be exceptions but they are not up to 0.5%

JaskanFactor:
I admire the black mans attempt to live normal life in a world where the white man is working tirelessly to make him extinct. But if all the white mans effort to stop you fail, its your wife or children that will eventually hand you over to the white man. Cause you see all women and children always belongs to those who own the world.

And those who own the world have already warned everybody do not try to settle down in this world if you are not rich, white or black, how much more black poor man trying to settle down in white mans world.

Settling down to get married is not the stuff of a guy who needs to cross desert to get to Europe. Marriage is not even marriage is no longer the stuff of a guy who cant comfortably afford a luxury car or 2.

If you break this rule , all the social and economic instruments are already in place to ensue you pay for it severely.
Cause the biggest enemy of those who own the world is population, especially a black population, and if you trying to start a new black family in a white mans world, better be sure you know what you up against.

His wife handed him over to the same white man who made him have to cross a desert to reach normal life, cause its same white man running NiggerArea from thier embassies ensuring the country remains a zoo with no future for most.

By the time your woman is ashamed of her own hair and buying the white man fur to put on her head, you have had your warning.

Young people dont know we on the planet of those who call us thier enemy, as such most that black man can hope for in this world right now is to find non too painfull exit from this world, this is also now true even for the poor white man, how much more you.

Next time your mind ponders having family, ask yourself what future the children you want to bring will have in a world where the entire population has twice been lined up to take poison jab, first time in 1800s during fake Spanish flu epidemic just before ww1, second time 2020 covid, and its also possible just like during Spanish flu they follow it with ww3, wars whose only purpose is population reduction and human sacrifice, cause they will use the poor peoples children especially black for thier wars of human sacrifice.

So that at this point unless you rich enough , trying to start a family in this world is like eating while people are pissing and shitting all over you.

If you have to struggle to attain normal life, dont forget your women and children belong to the state. If things go south, they will hand you over to the state.

If you know that all of europe, asia and middle east used to be black people, and they all got wiped out leaving only africa which is now in the process of being wiped out too, then you know any poor man trying to start family might have to do so on the run, which is typical scenario when you try to settle down in enemy territory.

All those places where civil servant bandits are killing Nigerians in the north, its foreigners moving into those places.
THats how they wiped out other black population on other continents. And you set off in a nation facing wipe out to try to start family life in the land of those doing the wipe out. Only if you rich enough.

The heritage that gave you the black man the right to spread your seed in this world is lost, now even the poor white man just lost that right too. If you fail to recognise this, both popular culture and ambitions dictate your wife and children will hand you over to the state. Cause eventually your wife and kids will see you as an obstacle to their progress in whatever popular culture has determined the place to be. And all the people that influence popular culture are civil servants, they make look like billionaires, entrepreneurs, musicians actors etc, but dont be fooled, they all civil servants.

meobizy:
Nigerian dailies have not adjusted to a Tik Tok, Twitter, YouTube Shorts and Instagram Reels world. I will not read a quarter of that.

Go and check how foreign dailies have adjusted their word counts to match shortening attention spans.

1xIbukun:
You've just opened my eyes. If I eventually move to Europe, I will embrace MGTOW (Men Going Their Own Way) and remain unmarried. I aim to make as many friends as possible and save money for my old age. I might consider returning to Africa, as I’ve heard that older men there often depend on the state after retirement and lead very lonely lives. The majority of ladies are only out there for themselves.

Why do blacks that eventually get to Europe, the UK, and the US don't marry White Girls over there, maybe a Redneck, because if am the one, that is what I will do or is there a reason why they are avoiding it?

Seunomobo:
What about the Nigeria Men that are beasts in both Nigeria and Africa....?
What goes around comes around, if a man is good to a woman, she will never turn on him when given the opportunity.....
I'll do same to my husband when I move abroad......I don' dey plan am since.

JaskanFactor:
As one black American historian who is also into Yoruba ifa religion put it, the white race is new to the human experience, and along with that comes thier extra innocence and moral depravity compared to the Hue-Man (Hue man means man who skin has hue, meaning color) .

The goth , also known as the white man is likely to be more innocent and as a result more morally depraved than the hue_man , thye hue-man being the nagger, the serpent man , after whom they named NaggarArea in nigeria.

As a result of this there are many barriers to inter racial relationships that people who have never tried it have no clue about.
The goth woman may have innocence that may be rare to find in African woman , at the same time you may also find level of depravity you were not excepting . I once had French lady who kind of made it clear to me that my sex is not rough enough she prefers something bordering on rape.

That is why its very important to them that Africa is a zoo so that we can be barbarians too, barbarians created through stress, other than birth right. That is why they made will smith slap Chris Rock at the Oscars , they need to keep reinforcing their need for us to be barbaric too.
That is why the entire Nigerian security apparatus is trained to treat Nigerians like animals , and its working , the zoo is really filling up with animals created through fear and stress.

But if you move to Europe i think marriage or woman maybe the last thing on your mind, cause they are desperate to make everything unaffordable so people can die off.

If you dont know we are in a global biblical apocalypse right now, you will fall into many traps.

lot14:
God will not allow you go abroad...you will rot here

Dogalmighty17:
No time for too much talk. No be if I gree carry you go outside before you go display that your madness? Dis Naija wey we dey so na im we go dey. The day wey I go hear Japa for your mouth thunder go fire your papa.

You be devil I be demon make we remain here dey pour ourselves anointing oil.

lexy2014:
if a man is maltreating his wife in Nigeria, why will he bother to spend money and fight for her to join him abroad?

franvincoop:
1 quick question, how many Nigerian women for abroad, don return to Nigeria marry man carry go UK?
I no mean the one wey na the man spend for her to go abroad.
I mean the one wey na she herself or her family sponsor her trip abroad.
How many of such Nigerian women do you know wey don return to Nigeria, carry man go UK?

OgaTheTop2:
➜I know of one yeye lady in UK....After exploring many routes to get the man to UK, she ended up kicking the man out of the house one cold morning. Can you imagine? I still shock till today. Her loss though...the man ended up getting married to a white woman in Ireland and lives happily after. Naija women are terrible in western world. Na just 0.5% of them dey normal.