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Raphes1010:
o can show you any proof you want the agent paid for our transportation hoping the adoption will work out so she can get her money back but sadly it didn't just ask me for any proof you want

Get her money back? You're talking adoption and money at the same time. Are you selling your kids?

If I have someone that cares about us I won't have think of the adoption but as it is now this is the only option I have because I'm just on my own together with the kids no one knows if we eat or not or if we live or die

We4all:
Get her money back? You're talking adoption and money at the same time. Are you selling your kids?

the agent that want to introduce me to the family that wanted to adopt the child was hoping from the compensation the transportation will be recovered hope you understand not selling because there are documents to be signed even with a lawyer but sadly they said he is of age

To be honest, no responsible man will give out his two kids just like that in the guise of not been able to take care of them. Would your wife had done the same if the tables were turned? I can only imagine the cruelty that await those poor kids.

And for your information, no one adopts fully grown kids in Nigeria. They will only turn them to slaves. Go to jobs section and search for security or driving jobs. That will give you a head-start.

But wait, judging from your narrative, I'm guessing you're based in a village and from my experience, there are indigenous foods in every village that the villagers can have free access to within their village land.

It's only in cities, suburbs, and townships whereby you always have to pay for every meal... Now I'm trying to put myself in your shoes whereby I'm stranded in a village with no money and honestly, food would be the least of my problems... Villages are very rich in indigenous foods and you can never go hungry when you're there.

Raphes1010:
I just want what's best for them if anyone can help even if it's the boy only I don't mind or if someone can help with something I can be doing to take good care of them

Raphes1010:
none of my family cares about us since 2022 that their mom passed away even their mom family member doesn't care since I did her burial they've never called to even ask how we're doing so yes I'm willing to sign any documents as long as the kids will have a better life and not suffer and I know it's for a life time once they get to meet their new family

May God make a way for you all

Samantha125:
But wait, judging from your narrative, I'm guessing you're based in a village and from my experience, there are indigenous foods in every village that the villagers can have free access to within their village land.

It's only in cities, suburbs, and townships whereby you always have to pay for every meal... Now I'm trying to put myself in your shoes whereby I'm stranded in a village with no money and honestly, food would be the least of my problems... Villages are very rich in indigenous foods and you can never go hungry when you're there.

I'm not in the village and I don't have anything in my village

frozen70:
May God make a way for you all

I pray so I'm hoping for the best before it will be too late for me

We4all:
To be honest, no responsible man will give out his two kids just like that in the guise of not been able to take care of them. Would your wife had done the same if the tables were turned? I can only imagine the cruelty that await those poor kids.

And for your information, no one adopts fully grown kids in Nigeria. They will only turn them to slaves. Go to jobs section and search for security or driving jobs. That will give you a head-start.

I can do security job but I don't know how to drive and another thing is how I can manage with the kids

Please is there anyway I can delete the post let me just accept my fate and end everything once and for all thanks to everyone that responded moderator please delete all the post I'm just tired

What do you mean you don't have anything in your village? Don't you have a family house there even if it's your grandparents house?

Raphes1010:
I'm not in the village and I don't have anything in my village

Raphes1010:
none of my family cares about us since 2022 that their mom passed away even their mom family member doesn't care since I did her burial they've never called to even ask how we're doing so yes I'm willing to sign any documents as long as the kids will have a better life and not suffer and I know it's for a life time once they get to meet their new family

You're a coward!
I don't care what your excuses are.

Raphes1010:
Please is there anyway I can delete the post let me just accept my fate and end everything once and for all thanks to everyone that responded moderator please delete all the post I'm just tired

Be quiet jare!

Do laundry for people if you have to, but you must look for a way to TAKE CARE OF YOUR CHILDREN!
Stop making excuses!
Put on your strength!

He doesn't want to do anything, he keeps making excuses for every solution we try to give him.

It seems like he just wants to stylishly get rid of the children so that he can move on with his life without them.

Mariangeles:
Be quiet jare!

Do laundry for people if you have to, but you must look for a way to TAKE CARE OF YOUR CHILDREN!
Stop making excuses!
Put on your strength!

Samantha125:
He doesn't want to do anything, he keeps making excuses for every solution we try to give him.

It seems like he just wants to stylishly get rid of the children so that he can move on with his life without them.

As in, who gives up a 14yr old teenage girl for adoption?
That is, if the story is even true.

I'm so freaking pissed!

Raphes1010:
I'm at her place now she is saying we'll be living next tomorrow since it didn't work out

Prove of your conversation on Facebook.

Foodqueen:
Prove of your conversation on Facebook.

I have every proof you need I have no reason to lie about something like this

At least I tried my best to seek for help