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Re: Nkubi: Nigerian Parents Are Too Selfish, They Only Care About Themselves! by Samantha125(f): 3:50pm On Mar 26, 2025
I knew you were going to focus on the sex part...🤦🤦🤦... As long as he's a fully grown man, then anything is possible, else women wouldn't be getting married to them.

What if one day you have a child with dwarfism despite not having dwarfism in your family lineage? Will you kill the child?
Domainer1999:
Explain how a Dwarf with a micro penis will have a good bedmatic skills coupled with his height?
Re: Nkubi: Nigerian Parents Are Too Selfish, They Only Care About Themselves! by Domainer1999(op): 4:04pm On Mar 26, 2025
Well, I rather tell the harsh truth/reality to people than sell them hopes based on ignorance and foolishness.

A dwarf isn't a fully grown man, so will never perform like someone without dwarfism. And we both know why someone like him was able to got married while hundreds of Dwarfs can't.

To your second question, if no dwarfism exist in my family lineage and that of my sex mate, then expect no Dwarfs from our offsprings.
This is ordinary secondary school biology!

Samantha125:
I knew you were going to focus on the sex part...🤦🤦🤦... As long as he's a fully grown man, then anything is possible, else women wouldn't be getting married to them.

What if one day you have a child with dwarfism despite not having dwarfism in your family lineage? Will you kill the child?
Re: Nkubi: Nigerian Parents Are Too Selfish, They Only Care About Themselves! by Samantha125(f): 4:09pm On Mar 26, 2025
Leave us ladies to worry about that.

But what if it happens that you have a child with dwarfism, what would you do?
Domainer1999:
Well, I rather tell the harsh truth/reality to people than sell them hopes based on ignorance and foolishness.

A dwarf isn't a fully grown man, so will never perform like someone without dwarfism. And we both know why someone like him was able to got married while hundreds of Dwarfs can't.

To your second question, if no dwarfism exist in my family lineage and that of my sex mate, then expect no Dwarfs from our offsprings.
This is ordinary secondary school biology!
Re: Nkubi: Nigerian Parents Are Too Selfish, They Only Care About Themselves! by Domainer1999(op): 4:12pm On Mar 26, 2025
Can't you read?

"I rather operate on probability based on reality than on certainty based on hope"
Samantha125:
Leave us ladies to worry about that.

But what if it happens that you have a child with dwarfism, what would you do?
Re: Nkubi: Nigerian Parents Are Too Selfish, They Only Care About Themselves! by Samantha125(f): 4:44pm On Mar 26, 2025
Just answer my question...🤦🤦🤦... What would you do?
Domainer1999:
Can't you read?

"I rather operate on probability based on reality than on certainty based on hope"
Re: Nkubi: Nigerian Parents Are Too Selfish, They Only Care About Themselves! by Domainer1999(op): 5:00pm On Mar 26, 2025
I gave my answer up there.

But if nature happens that after dotting my I's and crossing my T's and later have a Dwarf at birth, then all measures to correct/ameliorate the defects will be embarked on with immediate effect!

Samantha125:
Just answer my question...🤦🤦🤦... What would you do?
Re: Nkubi: Nigerian Parents Are Too Selfish, They Only Care About Themselves! by Samantha125(f): 5:06pm On Mar 26, 2025
How will you correct the defects?🤔🤔🤔
Domainer1999:
I gave my answer up there.

But if nature happens that after dotting my I's and crossing my T's and later have a Dwarf at birth, then all measures to correct/ameliorate the defects will be embarked on with immediate effect!
Re: Nkubi: Nigerian Parents Are Too Selfish, They Only Care About Themselves! by GboyegaD(m): 5:10pm On Mar 26, 2025
Samantha125:
So there are people who still see dwarfism as a taboo in this day and age?🤦🤦🤦

The child is completely healthy despite her dwarfism and she'll have a normal life like any other child... Unless you guys decide to stigmatize her based on her disability.
How old is she and how did they confirm she will be a dwarf? My understanding is that the little girl was one yesterday and going by her features, she looks normal and takes after her dad in looks.
Re: Nkubi: Nigerian Parents Are Too Selfish, They Only Care About Themselves! by Domainer1999(op): 5:24pm On Mar 26, 2025
Growth hormones will be administered and other necessary medical procedures.

Samantha125:
How will you correct the defects?🤔🤔🤔
Re: Nkubi: Nigerian Parents Are Too Selfish, They Only Care About Themselves! by Domainer1999(op): 5:25pm On Mar 26, 2025
If you say she takes after her dad in looks, then she ain't normal cus her dad himself ain't normal.

GboyegaD:
How old is she and how did they confirm she will be a dwarf? My understanding is that the little girl was one yesterday and going by her features, she looks normal and takes after her dad in looks.
Re: Nkubi: Nigerian Parents Are Too Selfish, They Only Care About Themselves! by Samantha125(f): 5:31pm On Mar 26, 2025
Lmao... If there was such a thing as giving a child born with dwarfism growth hormones, don't you think there wouldn't be anymore dwarfs in the west?🤣🤣🤣

It's like saying you'll find a way to darken the skin of a child born with albinism...🤣🤣🤣

Give me one example of a child born with dwarfism and grew up with a normal height after being given growth hormones.
Domainer1999:
Growth hormones will be administered and other necessary medical procedures.
Re: Nkubi: Nigerian Parents Are Too Selfish, They Only Care About Themselves! by Domainer1999(op): 5:46pm On Mar 26, 2025
Dwarfinism is mostly caused by Gene mutation and sometimes hormonal deficiencies and poor nutrition.
Read my Dear!

Samantha125:
Lmao... If there was such a thing as giving a child born with dwarfism growth hormones, don't you think there wouldn't be anymore dwarfs in the west?🤣🤣🤣

It's like saying you'll find a way to darken the skin of a child born with albinism...🤣🤣🤣

Give me one example of a child born with dwarfism and grew up with a normal height after being given growth hormones.
Re: Nkubi: Nigerian Parents Are Too Selfish, They Only Care About Themselves! by Samantha125(f): 6:45pm On Mar 26, 2025
I don't remember asking you for the cause.

But I asked that you name at least one child who was born with dwarfism and given growth hormones to have a normal height.
Domainer1999:
Dwarfinism is mostly caused by Gene mutation and sometimes hormonal deficiencies and poor nutrition.
Read my Dear!
Re: Nkubi: Nigerian Parents Are Too Selfish, They Only Care About Themselves! by wunmi590(m): 6:47pm On Mar 26, 2025
Samantha125:
If his character matched mine, had a sense of humour, was driven, and had good bedmatics skills.
This S.A girl nah werey 😆 🤣 😂 😹 😆, some people who are tall are complaining of small dick, not tobtalk of a dwarf...

Forget it, you can't marry a dwarf, stop sugar coating it, if not that he has money, nobody will look at his face...

We still have many of them, who are poor that don't even have girlfriend not to talk of wife
Re: Nkubi: Nigerian Parents Are Too Selfish, They Only Care About Themselves! by Samantha125(f): 6:56pm On Mar 26, 2025
No woman would want to marry a poor man even if he's tall.

By the way, what's the meaning of "werey"?
wunmi590:
This S.A girl nah werey 😆 🤣 😂 😹 😆, some people who are tall are complaining of small dick, not tobtalk of a dwarf...

Forget it, you can't marry a dwarf, stop sugar coating it, if not that he has money, nobody will look at his face...

We still have many of them, who are poor that don't even have girlfriend not to talk of wife
Re: Nkubi: Nigerian Parents Are Too Selfish, They Only Care About Themselves! by BlessingIsraelM(f): 6:58pm On Mar 26, 2025
What are you again? 16?
Re: Nkubi: Nigerian Parents Are Too Selfish, They Only Care About Themselves! by wunmi590(m): 6:59pm On Mar 26, 2025
Samantha125:
No woman would want to marry a poor man even if he's tall.

By the way, what's the meaning of "werey"?
But a tall man who is poor has more advantage of getting married than a dwarf who is poor


It's a joking slang of mad...
Re: Nkubi: Nigerian Parents Are Too Selfish, They Only Care About Themselves! by Samantha125(f): 7:12pm On Mar 26, 2025
There's this YouTube channel called Afrimax channel on YouTube and I've seen a number of poor men who have defects, but married.
wunmi590:
But a tall man who is poor has more advantage of getting married than a dwarf who is poor


It's a joking slang of mad...
Re: Nkubi: Nigerian Parents Are Too Selfish, They Only Care About Themselves! by wunmi590(m): 7:56pm On Mar 26, 2025
Samantha125:
There's this YouTube channel called Afrimax channel on YouTube and I've seen a number of poor men who have defects, but married.
I've not watched the YouTube you talked about, but context of thus discussion is about people with dwarfism... Are those people who are poor also dwarf?
Re: Nkubi: Nigerian Parents Are Too Selfish, They Only Care About Themselves! by Samantha125(f): 8:31pm On Mar 26, 2025
Some, yes.
wunmi590:
I've not watched the YouTube you talked about, but context of thus discussion is about people with dwarfism... Are those people who are poor also dwarf?
Re: Nkubi: Nigerian Parents Are Too Selfish, They Only Care About Themselves! by wunmi590(m): 8:49pm On Mar 26, 2025
Samantha125:
Some, yes.
Ok
Re: Nkubi: Nigerian Parents Are Too Selfish, They Only Care About Themselves! by Domainer1999(op): 9:03pm On Mar 26, 2025
Leave her, let her be gallivanting up and down.

This is what happens when you slaughter reality on the altar of hope.

wunmi590:
This S.A girl nah werey 😆 🤣 😂 😹 😆, some people who are tall are complaining of small dick, not tobtalk of a dwarf...

Forget it, you can't marry a dwarf, stop sugar coating it, if not that he has money, nobody will look at his face...

We still have many of them, who are poor that don't even have girlfriend not to talk of wife
Re: Nkubi: Nigerian Parents Are Too Selfish, They Only Care About Themselves! by Kobojunkie: 9:06pm On Mar 26, 2025
Domainer1999:
Leave her, let her be gallivanting up and down. This is what happens when you slaughter reality on the altar of hope.
😩😩😩😩😩😩
Re: Nkubi: Nigerian Parents Are Too Selfish, They Only Care About Themselves! by Smilleydr(m): 9:17pm On Mar 26, 2025
Domainer1999:
Leave her, let her be gallivanting up and down.

This is what happens when you slaughter reality on the altar of hope.
Hiaannn

Oga you ready this night ooooo.
Re: Nkubi: Nigerian Parents Are Too Selfish, They Only Care About Themselves! by wunmi590(m): 9:23pm On Mar 26, 2025
Domainer1999:
Leave her, let her be gallivanting up and down.

This is what happens when you slaughter reality on the altar of hope.
grin
Re: Nkubi: Nigerian Parents Are Too Selfish, They Only Care About Themselves! by ednut1(m): 9:43pm On Mar 26, 2025
Apparently IVF can be done to screen the genes out. 😩

Re: Nkubi: Nigerian Parents Are Too Selfish, They Only Care About Themselves! by GboyegaD(m): 10:34pm On Mar 26, 2025
Domainer1999:
If you say she takes after her dad in looks, then she ain't normal cus her dad himself ain't normal.
How does his facial features define him as not normal? Perhaps, you need come down from your high horse and realize you are not any different than him.
Re: Nkubi: Nigerian Parents Are Too Selfish, They Only Care About Themselves! by Gerrard59(m): 6:19am On Mar 27, 2025
Domainer1999:
Can you marry a Dwarf?
She has answered you already. When someone takes a stance and defend it, let go of the need to change it.



That said, as for the topic, having children or not having them can be selfish depending on which party involved and the point of view.
Re: Nkubi: Nigerian Parents Are Too Selfish, They Only Care About Themselves! by pansophist(m): 6:37am On Mar 27, 2025
You could have come out clearly and say that you support eugenics, instead of dancing with euphemisms.

The problem with your line of thoughts is that, what gives you the power to assume god status by deciding how another man should live his life?

This your line of thinking has it's foundation in discrimination, but you only drew the line in dwarfism. So should short people, people with AS genotype, eskimos, etc not have families so they wont pass what you called ''inferior genes'' to their kids?

If I see you in person, I can bet that there are defects in you that would give me the authority to decide you should not procreate. Will you accept that?

You want a man to deny himself the joy of life such as family and companionship, all because in your view, his children will face discrimination.

Rubbish.
Re: Nkubi: Nigerian Parents Are Too Selfish, They Only Care About Themselves! by CaveAdullam: 11:28am On Mar 27, 2025
1. What we must understand clearly is that children are products of the lust and pleasures of their parents.

No child begged to be born. But it's a reality every child and adult must grow up to understand and accept.

To prove further, many children will never choose their parents if they have the sole authority at the fetus or embryonic stage. Or even in infancy.

2. No one should be denied anything. Especially if they have worked for it, deserved it, and matured enough to handle it.

3. However, we must come to terms with realities. Instead of wishful thinking and hopeful expectations.

4. The truth is that people with disabilities will not be treated the same way as able-bodied people. There's an innate tendency to view them as lesser than other humans. It's the same in the animal kingdom. You must be whole and capable to lead the pack or group.

You can't force people to accept them. The highest you can do is to make sure they are protected and not discriminated against. So, any form of dislike you have for the disabled should remain and burn inside your heart. Because the disabled deserve love and companionship, too.

4. If you asked that actor if there's something he can change about himself before he lists 1 -,5, he will definitely mention his height.

But here he is reproducing a girl child with the same defect. A child who will definitely wrestle with her identity, her nature, and human instinctual tribalism.

That child never asked to be born. She never.

Inaugurating her into the same party of casual hate and discrimination and even low self-esteem and doubt the father witnessed in his lifetime is wholesale ignorance at best and foolishness at worst.

5. His desperation and love for a child should have made him seek the creme de la creme of medical procedures that can assure him a quality offspring. No matter the effort he must have placed into that prior (which I seriously doubt), it pales if this child is the best he came up with.

6. It comes down to the selfishness we're talking about.

If that wasn't the case, he would have lusted without reproducing or reproduced a child with quality genes.

This is unfair.

7. Normal adults have it difficult in life not to talk of adults with disabilities.

He has set that child on an existential crisis familiar to him.

8. The ironic part of this whole family saga is that he will now and forever prefer a child without his dwarf traits. However, to feel happy, he will come up with a series of rationalizations for loving his child - of course, he should.

9. This is not ignorance. This is pure selfishness minced with foolishness and iced with lust.

Humans and animals have an innate desire to reproduce. But to ensure the survival of your species you must reproduce quality genes that would not be conquered by a superior genes or tribe.

10. The world is not a friendly place.

It's better to adapt to reality than hope things go your way.

And that's why some animals have horns, some have venoms, some have shells, some appear fearful, etc. Humans with a higher intelligence should know better.

Thanks.
Re: Nkubi: Nigerian Parents Are Too Selfish, They Only Care About Themselves! by Domainer1999(op): 12:26pm On Mar 27, 2025
I'm disappointed with your reply! You missed the conversation totally!😭

pansophist:
You could have come out clearly and say that you support eugenics, instead of dancing with euphemisms.

The problem with your line of thoughts is that, what gives you the power to assume god status by deciding how another man should live his life?

This your line of thinking has it's foundation in discrimination, but you only drew the line in dwarfism. So should short people, people with AS genotype, eskimos, etc not have families so they wont pass what you called ''inferior genes'' to their kids?

If I see you in person, I can bet that there are defects in you that would give me the authority to decide you should not procreate. Will you accept that?

You want a man to deny himself the joy of life such as family and companionship, all because in your view, his children will face discrimination.

Rubbish.
Re: Nkubi: Nigerian Parents Are Too Selfish, They Only Care About Themselves! by Domainer1999(op): 12:26pm On Mar 27, 2025
Thanks.
More ink to your pen.

CaveAdullam:
1. What we must understand clearly is that children are products of the lust and pleasures of their parents.

No child begged to be born. But it's a reality every child and adult must grow up to understand and accept.

To prove further, many children will never choose their parents if they have the sole authority at the fetus or embryonic stage. Or even in infancy.

2. No one should be denied anything. Especially if they have worked for it, deserved it, and matured enough to handle it.

3. However, we must come to terms with realities. Instead of wishful thinking and hopeful expectations.

4. The truth is that people with disabilities will not be treated the same way as able-bodied people. There's an innate tendency to view them as lesser than other humans. It's the same in the animal kingdom. You must be whole and capable to lead the pack or group.

You can't force people to accept them. The highest you can do is to make sure they are protected and not discriminated against. So, any form of dislike you have for the disabled should remain and burn inside your heart. Because the disabled deserve love and companionship, too.

4. If you asked that actor if there's something he can change about himself before he lists 1 -,5, he will definitely mention his height.

But here he is reproducing a girl child with the same defect. A child who will definitely wrestle with her identity, her nature, and human instinctual tribalism.

That child never asked to be born. She never.

Inaugurating her into the same party of casual hate and discrimination and even low self-esteem and doubt the father witnessed in his lifetime is wholesale ignorance at best and foolishness at worst.

5. His desperation and love for a child should have made him seek the creme de la creme of medical procedures that can assure him a quality offspring. No matter the effort he must have placed into that prior (which I seriously doubt), it pales if this child is the best he came up with.

6. It comes down to the selfishness we're talking about.

If that wasn't the case, he would have lusted without reproducing or reproduced a child with quality genes.

This is unfair.

7. Normal adults have it difficult in life not to talk of adults with disabilities.

He has set that child on an existential crisis familiar to him.

8. The ironic part of this whole family saga is that he will now and forever prefer a child without his dwarf traits. However, to feel happy, he will come up with a series of rationalizations for loving his child - of course, he should.

9. This is not ignorance. This is pure selfishness minced with foolishness and iced with lust.

Humans and animals have an innate desire to reproduce. But to ensure the survival of your species you must reproduce quality genes that would not be conquered by a superior genes or tribe.

10. The world is not a friendly place.

It's better to adapt to reality than hope things go your way.

And that's why some animals have horns, some have venoms, some have shells, some appear fearful, etc. Humans with a higher intelligence should know better.

Thanks.
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