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lathrowinger:
Good things, usually comes from Omoluabis.
Proudly Afonjas, from non terrorist region.


I think I don't mention names, or insult any tribe




only proud of my Origin.
Gbayi

And the lady that disgraced the woman and her daughter is from where?

Ebot!

othermen:
She was right to condemn child labour.
She was right to protect the child.
She was right to hold her accountable.
She was right to raise awareness.

You and others are not right to bully her. Calling her cruel and uncompassionate.
And Adetoun was not right to cave in, as she did.

A child should not be waking up at 3AM to sweep an estate when they should be resting and preparing for school. The mother continues to give birth, and she must care for all of them in this crazy economy. Enough to rebuke her for not being responsible.

But it doesn’t matter to us all.

So he tells us that the child is working out of economic necessity. And that the mother needs compassion.

So others will argue that the focus of the video, should have been on the economic hardship that people have to endure.
Instead, Adetoun was just a villain, an oppressor, as she could have engaged the cleaner/mother privately and not publicly shame her, or be condescending in her approach. she had not cared about the dignity of the mother, and she only humiliated her, rather than empower her.

Adetoun capitulated coz the validation from social media matters, and she was crying and kneeling. A very manipulative lots.

Folks pushed her to reveal her performative righteousness.

And because validation matters to her- she rewarded this woman after the backlash. It alleviated her immediate struggles.

The country shows its false outrage, as though her situation is not the lots of millions of people in the country.

Adetoun received more outrage than we give to those who orchestrated policies that have entrenched sufferings.

Now, there are other struggling women who have not made their children work, but remain unseen and unsupported. And nobody cares about them.

Now, Onakoya, who is another person wired for validation sees an opportunity, to enrich his own social capital.

There are several children, women in this country, with much worse fate. But they are not on social media or the source of any social capital: Mr Onakoya can’t care.

Why not send an open letter to Tunde advising him to start combing the nooks and crannies of Nigeria looking for children to help.
He is enriching his own social capital according to you. What are you doing to your own.?

Perhaps, wailing on a faceless forum will enrich yours too.

The pain in that woman's eyes brought me to tears...

I don't see this as child endangerment.. many of us have done similar things to help our parents..

Back in the day.. I used to hawk items in the market after school.. even before I was 10 years old..

I used to hawk in the park before school and after school.. I still remember the look on my parents face, disappointment, sad.. feeling like they were failures and unable to provide for us.. but us kids were excited to go out there and hustle

My dad, sometimes would not look us in the eyes.. my mom's face sometimes with the facial expression I am seeing from the woman in this
video..

But that's in the past now.. I thank The Lord Jesus..

The lady that videod her wanted to shame her but she was shamed instead.. and the woman and her daughter have been receiving outpouring support worldwide..


Lord, may our enemies that want to shame us, be shamed and may our destiny helpers locate us in the process.. Amen 🙏

othermen:
She was right to condemn child labour.
She was right to protect the child.
She was right to hold her accountable.
She was right to raise awareness.

Keep crying

Who could imagine that this guy had this tough background? Awesome response from him. It was so humiliating washing the so called activist speak to the woman with so much disdain in front of the child, how much respect does she want the child to give the struggling mother afterwards?

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othermen:
She was right to condemn child labour.
She was right to protect the child.
She was right to hold her accountable.
She was right to raise awareness.

You and others are not right to bully her. Calling her cruel and uncompassionate.
And Adetoun was not right to cave in, as she did.

A child should not be waking up at 3AM to sweep an estate when they should be resting and preparing for school. The mother continues to give birth, and she must care for all of them in this crazy economy. Enough to rebuke her for being selfish and not having parental responsibility. She can’t possibly provide for the four children: education, healthcare or stable upbringing, -and the children are put in the cycle of poverty.

But it doesn’t matter to us all. And it never matters to us all, unless it’s an opportunity for us to proclaim ourselves some form of messiah.

So he tells us that the child is working out of economic necessity. And that the mother needs compassion.

So others will argue that the focus of the video, should have been on the economic hardship that people have to endure.
Instead, Adetoun was just a villain, an oppressor, as she could have engaged the cleaner/mother privately and not publicly shame her, or be condescending in her approach. she had not cared about the dignity of the mother, and she only humiliated her, rather than empower her.

Adetoun capitulated coz the validation from social media matters. That was why she did the video in the first place. Not because she gave a damn about the child’s life. Than the aftermath. The crying and kneeling and wailing. All in the very manipulative lots.

Folks pushed her to reveal her performative righteousness.

And because validation matters to her- she rewarded this woman after the backlash. It alleviated her immediate struggles.

The country also shows its false outrage, as though her situation is not the lots of millions of people in the country. We pretend that suffering is not the norm for the lots. Or that the mother was justified.

Adetoun received more outrage than we give to those who orchestrated policies that have entrenched sufferings.

Now, there are other struggling women who have not made their children work, but remain unseen and unsupported. And nobody cares about them.

Now, Onakoya, who is another person wired for validation sees an opportunity, to enrich his own social capital.

There are several children, women in this country, with much worse fate. But they are not on social media or the source of any social capital: Mr Onakoya and all of us can’t care as there’s no social recognition. Performative altruism which doesn’t fix the individual choices/ structural conditions that have birth the situation or make suffering into some spectacle is what we are enthralled. A miracle, a divine intervention.

What have I ever done to contribute to the alleviation of situations of people??
Nothing superficial and performative.

And you would find folks out there creating awareness and bringing about genuine changes for thousands of lives. Even saving them from death. Not just jumping in spaces, and using these vulnerable lots to enrich themselves.

Oga fuxc off.. You wrote this incoherent epistle over another man's business. No head, no tail. Just dey pack different jargons together. Even in America, kids work.

We hawked as kids and we didn't die. I still gave my mum half a million recently on her birthday to boost her business because I can easily afford as a hardworking adult who learnt the principles of work and save right from childhood

This is Africa remember. A place where givernment don't care about your welfare and yes our fathers and grandparents have been agitating and yet nothing, so rest.

merits:
Why is it always girls and women meanwhile boys and men don't always get this kind of favour,are we born to surfer?This wicked world 🌎🌍 doesn't favor men at all.

There is a gang up against men all over the world. The gang up is actually by men against fellow men using few unfortunate women as fronts

othermen:
She was right to condemn child labour.
She was right to protect the child.
She was right to hold her accountable.
She was right to raise awareness.

You and others are not right to bully her. Calling her cruel and uncompassionate.
And Adetoun was not right to cave in, as she did.

A child should not be waking up at 3AM to sweep an estate when they should be resting and preparing for school. The mother continues to give birth, and she must care for all of them in this crazy economy. Enough to rebuke her for being selfish and not having parental responsibility. She can’t possibly provide for the four children: education, healthcare or stable upbringing, -and the children are put in the cycle of poverty.

But it doesn’t matter to us all. And it never matters to us all, unless it’s an opportunity for us to proclaim ourselves some form of messiah.

So he tells us that the child is working out of economic necessity. And that the mother needs compassion.

So others will argue that the focus of the video, should have been on the economic hardship that people have to endure.
Instead, Adetoun was just a villain, an oppressor, as she could have engaged the cleaner/mother privately and not publicly shame her, or be condescending in her approach. she had not cared about the dignity of the mother, and she only humiliated her, rather than empower her.

Adetoun capitulated coz the validation from social media matters. That was why she did the video in the first place. Not because she gave a damn about the child’s life. Than the aftermath. The crying and kneeling and wailing. All in the very manipulative lots.

Folks pushed her to reveal her performative righteousness.

And because validation matters to her- she rewarded this woman after the backlash. It alleviated her immediate struggles.

The country also shows its false outrage, as though her situation is not the lots of millions of people in the country. We pretend that suffering is not the norm for the lots. Or that the mother was justified.

Adetoun received more outrage than we give to those who orchestrated policies that have entrenched sufferings.

Now, there are other struggling women who have not made their children work, but remain unseen and unsupported. And nobody cares about them.

Now, Onakoya, who is another person wired for validation sees an opportunity, to enrich his own social capital. And yes, I must thank him. Someone else can cater for the 3 siblings or for the children and their mothers that now sweep and wash the gutters that his mother washed, the children from the north that are your domestic servants, or the children I won’t see tomorrow, for they already died in hazardous child labour.

There are several children, women in this country, with much worse fate. But they are not on social media or the source of any social capital: Mr Onakoya and all of us can’t care as there’s no social recognition. Performative altruism which doesn’t fix the individual choices/ structural conditions that have birth the situation or make suffering into some spectacle is what we are enthralled. A miracle, a divine intervention.

What have I ever done to contribute to the alleviation of situations of people??
Nothing superficial and performative.

And you would find folks out there creating awareness and bringing about genuine changes for thousands of lives. Even saving them from death. Not just jumping in spaces, and using these vulnerable lots to enrich themselves.

With this jargons you typed on this faceless forum, and do u still think you have senses at all? People dae for this slum sha

othermen:
She was right to condemn child labour.
She was right to protect the child.
She was right to hold her accountable.
She was right to raise awareness.

You and others are not right to bully her. Calling her cruel and uncompassionate.
And Adetoun was not right to cave in, as she did.

A child should not be waking up at 3AM to sweep an estate when they should be resting and preparing for school. The mother continues to give birth, and she must care for all of them in this crazy economy. Enough to rebuke her for being selfish and not having parental responsibility. She can’t possibly provide for the four children: education, healthcare or stable upbringing, -and the children are put in the cycle of poverty.

But it doesn’t matter to us all. And it never matters to us all, unless it’s an opportunity for us to proclaim ourselves some form of messiah.

So he tells us that the child is working out of economic necessity. And that the mother needs compassion.

So others will argue that the focus of the video, should have been on the economic hardship that people have to endure.
Instead, Adetoun was just a villain, an oppressor, as she could have engaged the cleaner/mother privately and not publicly shame her, or be condescending in her approach. she had not cared about the dignity of the mother, and she only humiliated her, rather than empower her.

Adetoun capitulated coz the validation from social media matters. That was why she did the video in the first place. Not because she gave a damn about the child’s life. Than the aftermath. The crying and kneeling and wailing. All in the very manipulative lots.

Folks pushed her to reveal her performative righteousness.

And because validation matters to her- she rewarded this woman after the backlash. It alleviated her immediate struggles.

The country also shows its false outrage, as though her situation is not the lots of millions of people in the country. We pretend that suffering is not the norm for the lots. Or that the mother was justified.

Adetoun received more outrage than we give to those who orchestrated policies that have entrenched sufferings.

Now, there are other struggling women who have not made their children work, but remain unseen and unsupported. And nobody cares about them.

Now, Onakoya, who is another person wired for validation sees an opportunity, to enrich his own social capital. And yes, I must thank him. Someone else can cater for the 3 siblings or for the children and their mothers that now sweep and wash the gutters that his mother washed, the children from the north that are your domestic servants, or the children I won’t see tomorrow, for they already died in hazardous child labour.

There are several children, women in this country, with much worse fate. But they are not on social media or the source of any social capital: Mr Onakoya and all of us can’t care as there’s no social recognition. Performative altruism which doesn’t fix the individual choices/ structural conditions that have birth the situation or make suffering into some spectacle is what we are enthralled. A miracle, a divine intervention.

What have I ever done to contribute to the alleviation of situations of people??
Nothing superficial and performative.

And you would find folks out there creating awareness and bringing about genuine changes for thousands of lives. Even saving them from death. Not just jumping in spaces, and using these vulnerable lots to enrich themselves.

nonsense submission from a psychotic fellow

Meanwhile the politicians that are meant to improve the wellbeing and welfare of citizens are fighting and blowing pipelines, asking for 8 billion naira monthly payments or assaulting ladies.

Chai, Naija!!

lathrowinger:
Good things, usually comes from Omoluabis.
Proudly Afonjas, from non terrorist region.


I think I don't mention names, or insult any tribe




only proud of my Origin.
Gbayi

Bros oh,deh use ya head nah,Nigeria first & leave tribe out of this.

Nigeria passport is one & color green,immigration nor go ask you your tribe for departure.

othermen:
She was right to condemn child labour.
She was right to protect the child.
She was right to hold her accountable.
She was right to raise awareness.

You and others are not right to bully her. Calling her cruel and uncompassionate.
And Adetoun was not right to cave in, as she did.

A child should not be waking up at 3AM to sweep an estate when they should be resting and preparing for school. The mother continues to give birth, and she must care for all of them in this crazy economy. Enough to rebuke her for being selfish and not having parental responsibility. She can’t possibly provide for the four children: education, healthcare or stable upbringing, -and the children are put in the cycle of poverty.

But it doesn’t matter to us all. And it never matters to us all, unless it’s an opportunity for us to proclaim ourselves some form of messiah.

So he tells us that the child is working out of economic necessity. And that the mother needs compassion.

So others will argue that the focus of the video, should have been on the economic hardship that people have to endure.
Instead, Adetoun was just a villain, an oppressor, as she could have engaged the cleaner/mother privately and not publicly shame her, or be condescending in her approach. she had not cared about the dignity of the mother, and she only humiliated her, rather than empower her.

Adetoun capitulated coz the validation from social media matters. That was why she did the video in the first place. Not because she gave a damn about the child’s life. Than the aftermath. The crying and kneeling and wailing. All in the very manipulative lots.

Folks pushed her to reveal her performative righteousness.

And because validation matters to her- she rewarded this woman after the backlash. It alleviated her immediate struggles.

The country also shows its false outrage, as though her situation is not the lots of millions of people in the country. We pretend that suffering is not the norm for the lots. Or that the mother was justified.

Adetoun received more outrage than we give to those who orchestrated policies that have entrenched sufferings.

Now, there are other struggling women who have not made their children work, but remain unseen and unsupported. And nobody cares about them.

Now, Onakoya, who is another person wired for validation sees an opportunity, to enrich his own social capital. And yes, I must thank him. Someone else can cater for the 3 siblings or for the children and their mothers that now sweep and wash the gutters that his mother washed, the children from the north that are your domestic servants, or the children I won’t see tomorrow, for they already died in hazardous child labour.

There are several children, women in this country, with much worse fate. But they are not on social media or the source of any social capital: Mr Onakoya and all of us can’t care as there’s no social recognition. Performative altruism which doesn’t fix the individual choices/ structural conditions that have birth the situation or make suffering into some spectacle is what we are enthralled. A miracle, a divine intervention.

What have I ever done to contribute to the alleviation of situations of people??
Nothing superficial and performative.

And you would find folks out there creating awareness and bringing about genuine changes for thousands of lives. Even saving them from death. Not just jumping in spaces, and using these vulnerable lots to enrich themselves.

You are never wise
You just rants here for nothing and I'm so sorry you must be a fool..
I'm a father and I understand how hard it is to sacrifice your child's comfort for assistance ( fools like you calls this child labor which )
I was once in that child's shoe and guess what ?
It was what shaped us to be this strong.. my own is even worse, I go to carry palm nuts as early as 4 - 5am in the bush because we had to trek a very long distance and me and twin brother hate getting late for school.. what about the days we had to go weed our neighbors compound although not because we are hungry but we just felt the need to assist our parents with the bills by buying ourselves some little things we need for school.
Just shut your mouth there you Idiot, the nonsense wokeism that is destroying the west is the same thing you are capping right here..
I went through that route but my kids are not going through that because I am at the stage where my children don't need to follow me to work so we can feed together..
You want to talk about the time ?
I'm so sure you must be in one small town because I get up from my bed as early as 3am anytime I'm in Lagos..
Do you think if that woman is financially buoyant she would wish her child go through that pain, mind you she is not leaving that child to do the work alone...
You are truly insane for this nonsense you put out here..
Oloriburuku Omo ofo oloshi alainiran.. I'm angry so much right now..
I'm so sure that woman is going to cry the hell as soon as they are out of that place 💔
Where is your humanity ?
How many people have you helped in your life you fool ?
Do you even care to know the pain this people go through just to eat once or at most twice in a day? But here you here judging, typing trash all in the name of justifying a gutter behavior.. I pity your future generations, ozuor😡😡

UkoAnnang:


That woman who made a mockery of that woman and went ahead to post the video online should be arrested and prosecuted. She is a very stupid woman. Humiliating someone in such manner all in the name of activism is absolutely nonsense and no one deserves that

Nonsense talk, She did not ask the woman to breed children she can't raise and asking your child to work at 4am is child abuse, so she did the right thing. I can't remember my parents waking me up at 4am to go to work with them, however I remember going to my Dad's office at working hours during holiday period just for us to leave the house.

Prenonjebose:
God bless you, Tunde. I watched the stupid video made by that mean woman. It was annoying seeing the poor mother being embarrassed by a fellow woman. To correct the mother in front of the daughter, without hearing her out, was one thing, then making and posting a video of her over sabi action was uncalled for, and a testament of her meanness.
All these adults behaving like kids.
Most parents cry inside of them when they see their children assisting in their parental duties. They don't want it, and it does not give them joy.
But many good hearted children do understand the challenges facing their parents, and would offer to help. Even, some of those who don't render help, often see the efforts of their parents, and would often celebrate them, when the time comes.
You could see the girl's worried expression, when she saw how her mother was being scolded by this stranger.
Once again, thank you, Tunde

Another nonsense talk, if you are not capable of raising a child then don't bring them to the world, because all you are doing is bringing them to come and suffer with you, which is unfair.

Badgers14:
The pain in that woman's eyes brought me to tears...

I don't see this as child endangerment.. many of us have done similar things to help our parents..

Back in the day.. I used to hawk items in the market after school.. even before I was 10 years old..

I used to hawk in the park before school and after school.. I still remember the look on my parents face, disappointment, sad.. feeling like they were failures and unable to provide for us.. but us kids were excited to go out there and hustle

My dad, sometimes would not look us in the eyes.. my mom's face sometimes with the facial expression I am seeing from the woman in this
video..

But that's in the past now.. I thank The Lord Jesus..

The lady that videod her wanted to shame her but she was shamed instead.. and the woman and her daughter have been receiving outpouring support worldwide..


Lord, may our enemies that want to shame us, be shamed and may our destiny helpers locate us in the process.. Amen 🙏

I totally disagree with you, what the woman did was child forced labour which is illegal, children are not allowed to work but should be in school, what your parents did is understandable because they were poor but still illegal.

PHIPEX:
Who could imagine that this guy had this tough background? Awesome response from him. It was so humiliating washing the so called activist speak to the woman with so much disdain in front of the child, how much respect does she want the child to give the struggling mother afterwards?

Even without the activitist presence, do you think the child like being woken up at 4am ?

uvie66:
I totally disagree with you, what the woman did was child forced labour which is illegal, children are not allowed to work but should be in school, what your parents did is understandable because they were poor but still illegal.

I never said what the woman did was legaal or illegal..

My opinion is i understand her facial expression- that of pain.. I have lived through it myself..

GTFOH! It was a YORUBA woman that humiliated them and posted it on SM.

lathrowinger:
Good things, usually comes from Omoluabis.
Proudly Afonjas, from non terrorist region.


I think I don't mention names, or insult any tribe




only proud of my Origin.
Gbayi

Destiny helper just located her.
May your destiny helper locate you.
God bless you Sir for your kindhearted gesture.

Lesson learned -


Have sex wisely - fukc wisely - use condom - don't have too many children.

Kewtt:
Good helinues copy such acts

He needs the sponsorship himself.

Let’s make the world a better place

lathrowinger:
Good things, usually comes from Omoluabis.
Proudly Afonjas, from non terrorist region.


I think I don't mention names, or insult any tribe




only proud of my Origin.
Gbayi

Even occultist,cultists agberos,Skull mining etc originated from there.

A man's approach is always different. Thank you Tunde.

Let's all go into child exploitation, it's seems profitable now...

Kewtt:
Good helinues copy such acts

Dude u just mentioned is a broke âss

See what Tinubu renewed shege hard economy has caused..it's a pity

armyofone:
Lesson learned -


Have sex wisely - fukc wisely - use condom - don't have too many children.

..na konji cause am

Voltron007:
There should be consequences for such actions. Unfortunately, the law doesn’t work in this country.

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Quite unfortunate...But why should she resume work sweeping by 4am... is it not to early and risky at that particular time... midnight ..at least from 6.30 am would had been better.at least at that time it's already getting to day time....i am talking of the risks