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Re: My True Life Story: Married For Nine Days by spencekat(m): 9:39pm On Apr 02, 2025
neolboy:
This is my life story, it was not cooked or fabricated
Yes, I believe you.
Re: My True Life Story: Married For Nine Days by Chickensoup: 9:40pm On Apr 02, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Your so-called point remains moot! Again, a person whose fixation is on getting a virgin when he is not himself a virgin, and cannot even afford to pay for that virginity, which in the end brings nothing substantial to his existence except sexual gratification, is nothing but a pervert. undecided
Why should a man pay for your virginity. Look at this point, you are replying just to argue. Nothing will convince you that people have preferences.
Re: My True Life Story: Married For Nine Days by RealtorCY(f): 9:40pm On Apr 02, 2025
I don't even understand this my gender
U are getting married to someone else but u are busy sleeping with ex boyfriend Na WA oooo
Re: My True Life Story: Married For Nine Days by Thomthom(m): 9:42pm On Apr 02, 2025
Nawaoo, I know the stress and the resources you might have used in that marriage only for this kind of shit to happen. O.p God will heal you. Women self try learn and stay away from this kind of situation. When I was younger I fell in love with a tailor while I was a student. Although the girl didn't go to school, but the girl was wow. I approached her and we started dating. But I noticed one thing. Anytime I visit her when coming back from school she must be with a guy heftier, and bigger than me. Sometimes I get scared when I see the kind of guys keep as friends . It got to a point. I just told myself it's better I do away with this girl and face my studies. This decision I took was very painful. I could not eat for days. Breaking up with me did not disturb her because she was moving up and down with does huge men. Fast forward to today, that's about 12 years ago. She has already given birth to 4 kids four daddy. The fifth one she gave a beautiful daughter to has also ran away. I was opportuned to meet the fifth guy, some how street brought us together. The way the guy always demonstrate how he slept with the girl . I will just shake my head. And I asked him why he left the woman with her daughter. The guy said he is not the one responsible. I met her one day we greeted and I held her hand and took her away from were people are and I asked her why she choose those big brother over me. Till date she always send me her recent pics and the story of how she left those father of her children. Women just get as them take dey. You can never understand them.
Re: My True Life Story: Married For Nine Days by spencekat(m): 9:43pm On Apr 02, 2025
DigitB:
It has been long since we read a fake story on FP
Dey play.
Re: My True Life Story: Married For Nine Days by tunapawizzy: 9:44pm On Apr 02, 2025
neolboy:
I was enraged, mad and furious, something was whispering into my ear to go into the kitchen take a knife and stab her.
how are you people loving a human being and expecting loyalty from a human being, to the extent of wanting to commit murder when they renege on the agreement u had with them....una wey dey attempt murder and/or suicide because una partner cheat--una get mental problem i swear, shey ur mama no love u enough ni, why una dey find unnatural love and loyalty up and down in the name of marriage

In the morning, i came back, she was already in tears crying and asking me for forgiveness. I told her to leave my house, I picked up my phone call all her family members, called mine also.
Her family were trying to persuade me to forgive her but i told them it was unforgivable.
u are really soft o, make i no call am weytin e be... ur wife is pregnant under ur roof for another man, she and her family are now begging you to forgive. dem see u finish o, na so u mumu reach. The audacity wey dem get can only mean 1 thing, u are a soft, good boy( make i no abuse u)

Moral lesson: Do pregnancy test even on the day you are to tie the knot, do not trust to the extent of ignoring little things.
oga if u like on top of the pregnancy test, do virginity test too and confirm her virginity....if she go run u street she go run u

Extra: The guy who got her pregnant was aware and even told the girl's sister that his property with them he is coming in future to collect it. Na so I for dey look after another man's property
the person wey give am belle sef no fear u...e say make u raise im pikin, him go ccome collect him child when u dun raise am finish, person wey suppose dey fear make e dun tell the babe make e comot the belle o, say im no want ur wahala o
Re: My True Life Story: Married For Nine Days by idahme(m): 9:44pm On Apr 02, 2025
Kobojunkie:
But you are equally a non-virgin yourself, proof that this claim of yours is clearly born of a private delusion. grin

2. Yet another private delusion of yours since the Bible never said any such. undecided
Allen are virgins, go and argue with your keyboard. How do you prove between a man that has had sex and a man that hasn't? I should spend my hard earned money to marry a street girl? If she is the one sponsoring the marriage men can consider but that she will bring her liability self and say are you not the man ? You are supposed to sponsor and then bring her 304 resume hell no...

How do you expect your father to confirm the child belongs to him when the woman belongs to the world?
Re: My True Life Story: Married For Nine Days by Kobojunkie: 9:45pm On Apr 02, 2025
Chickensoup:
➜Why should a man pay for your virginity.
➜ Look at this point, you are replying just to argue. Nothing will convince you that people have preferences.
Is it free of charge or something? undecided

Nonsense! People have preferences. Perversion is not a preference. undecided
Re: My True Life Story: Married For Nine Days by idahme(m): 9:46pm On Apr 02, 2025
Kobojunkie:
But a man who is not pure and poor has no right going around demanding that which he does not have and cannot afford to pay for. Such a man is considered an imbe-cile at best. undecided
Cannot afford to pay? Are you a 304 looking for what to sell on your body? Tell us and place your price you might have offers.
Re: My True Life Story: Married For Nine Days by Chickensoup: 9:47pm On Apr 02, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Is it free of charge or something? undecided

Nonsense! People have preferences. Perversion is not a preference. undecided
Do women pay men for sex?
Re: My True Life Story: Married For Nine Days by Abba3point7: 9:47pm On Apr 02, 2025
@ martinosi

Please sir I beg you in the name of God to include me among the beneficiaries.

I am graduate, graduated since 2019 still no job. I taught voluntarily in one of secondary school here in kano, but I no longer do it due to financial issues.


I can't post in your thread. I am sorry for mentioning you here.
Re: My True Life Story: Married For Nine Days by idahme(m): 9:47pm On Apr 02, 2025
Smilleydr:
Nawaoo, person wey Dem dey prepared for her wedding still dey nack another man outside, and the werey fit no even get shi shi for account oooo, e fit be OP that pay almost all the money for the wedding, may God forgive some ladies shaa, and the guy wey even dey nack am fit be one agbero ooooo wey no dey give her shi shi


Taaaaaaaaaaa
99% of wedding expenses in Nigeria are borne by the men, the exceptions are in the minority about 1%
Re: My True Life Story: Married For Nine Days by Kobojunkie: 9:48pm On Apr 02, 2025
idahme:
➜Allen are virgins, go and argue with your keyboard. How do you prove between a man that has had sex and a man that hasn't? I should spend my hard earned money to marry a street girl? If she is the one sponsoring the marriage men can consider but that she will bring her liability self and say are you not the man ? You are supposed to sponsor and then bring her 304 resume hell no... How do you expect your father to confirm the child belongs to him when the woman belongs to the world?
Are you OK in the head?😏🙄🙄

The fact that in the year 2025, you believe that there exists such a thing as this proof of virginity is all the more reason why I should avoid you completely. 🤐🤐🤐🤐🤐🤐🤐🤐
Re: My True Life Story: Married For Nine Days by Kobojunkie: 9:49pm On Apr 02, 2025
Chickensoup:
➜Do women pay men for sex?
Yes! undecided
Re: My True Life Story: Married For Nine Days by Chickensoup: 9:49pm On Apr 02, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Yes! undecided
I don't mean prostitution. I mean on regular basis.
Re: My True Life Story: Married For Nine Days by PUNANI01: 9:59pm On Apr 02, 2025
Thank God you didn't commit murder and suicide too. This girl that is telling me that her neighbor's baby is staying with her; i don't buy it; it might be her baby! I no wan kasala, waste of my efforts and resources grin
Re: My True Life Story: Married For Nine Days by PUNANI01: 10:02pm On Apr 02, 2025
RealtorCY:
I don't even understand this my gender
U are getting married to someone else but u are busy sleeping with ex boyfriend Na WA oooo
Your gender is becoming more dangerous day by day! You need to start a seminar for them.
Re: My True Life Story: Married For Nine Days by osazsky(m): 10:04pm On Apr 02, 2025
At times no sex before marriage can be a blessing if not na so op for they train another man pikin
Re: My True Life Story: Married For Nine Days by ghettochild(m): 10:04pm On Apr 02, 2025
neolboy:
This is my story, whenever i tell people they asked me if it's a movie. People find it hard to believe
Bro, u never slept with her at all??
Re: My True Life Story: Married For Nine Days by dettolgel: 10:08pm On Apr 02, 2025
Thomthom:
Nawaoo, I know the stress and the resources you might have used in that marriage only for this kind of shit to happen. O.p God will heal you. Women self try learn and stay away from this kind of situation. When I was younger I fell in love with a tailor while I was a student. Although the girl didn't go to school, but the girl was wow. I approached her and we started dating. But I noticed one thing. Anytime I visit her when coming back from school she must be with a guy heftier, and bigger than me. Sometimes I get scared when I see the kind of guys keep as friends . It got to a point. I just told myself it's better I do away with this girl and face my studies. This decision I took was very painful. I could not eat for days. Breaking up with me did not disturb her because she was moving up and down with does huge men. Fast forward to today, that's about 12 years ago. She has already given birth to 4 kids four daddy. The fifth one she gave a beautiful daughter to has also ran away. I was opportuned to meet the fifth guy, some how street brought us together. The way the guy always demonstrate how he slept with the girl . I will just shake my head. And I asked him why he left the woman with her daughter. The guy said he is not the one responsible. I met her one day we greeted and I held her hand and took her away from were people are and I asked her why she choose those big brother over me. Till date she always send me her recent pics and the story of how she left those father of her children. Women just get as them take dey. You can never understand them.
Don't even bother you can never understand how their mind works. I know one with 3 kids a family friend offer to train her in school if she agrees to go back to school. She only has waec. She said she would prefer business. The guy gave her close to 2m. She squandered the money. Lied about it and asked for another money. Then later had problems with tuition fee for her children the guy give her what she asked for only for her to use it for God knows what. We later found out that she spent that money on her baby daddy that abandoned her and married another person.

With my own experience with ladies I have come to the conclusion that you can never understand them.
Re: My True Life Story: Married For Nine Days by Testimony1988(m): 10:12pm On Apr 02, 2025
You should have done pregnancy start before marrying her, this is why church wedding is necessary, would be couples must do pregnancy test before being joined together in the church.
Re: My True Life Story: Married For Nine Days by McLizbae: 10:15pm On Apr 02, 2025
🔉🔈
Emmy000seun:
[/b]If this story is true[b], then I thank God for the battle unseen the Lord has fight for you.. some people are not lucky enough to see this and have lived to regret it for life.. congratulations and I wish you the best
Re: My True Life Story: Married For Nine Days by purples25(f): 10:19pm On Apr 02, 2025
Chickensoup:
That's their preference. Everybody is allowed to seek for what they want. That doesn't make them perverts.
Will you say same for women who want rich and handsome men?
Re: My True Life Story: Married For Nine Days by Chickensoup: 10:20pm On Apr 02, 2025
purples25:
Will you say same for women who want rich and handsome men?
That's the women preference. I have no right to shame them for it.
Re: My True Life Story: Married For Nine Days by Austinjosh98: 10:22pm On Apr 02, 2025
Watcharena:
No marriage deal if she is not a virgin


Only simp can marry a non virgin


Never you in your life Marry a non virgin

A non virgin is not worth been a wife
me WA don burst 3 girls between 2021 and 2024 wetin you advice?
Re: My True Life Story: Married For Nine Days by Staywithbina: 10:22pm On Apr 02, 2025
Okay but this is quite unusual of women I know that is why i won’t believe this story ,a lady is pregnant and she didn’t pin it on you ,the only person that knows the father of a child is the lady and she didn’t pin it on you ,even if both of you agree to no sex till marriage,she will find a way to seduce you and still sex you and pin it on you so I don’t believe this trash
Re: My True Life Story: Married For Nine Days by mymadam(m): 10:23pm On Apr 02, 2025
LordBiden:
...Modified:i was only catching cruise o,chai I never knew this will make FrontPage,see over 8 mentions,with some insulting me. grin
😂
Re: My True Life Story: Married For Nine Days by RealtorCY(f): 10:25pm On Apr 02, 2025
PUNANI01:
Your gender is becoming more dangerous day by day! You need to start a seminar for them.
Lol 😂😂😂 grin grin grin
Re: My True Life Story: Married For Nine Days by Hassanmaye(m): 10:27pm On Apr 02, 2025
neolboy:
This is my life story
I am sharing my experience here about marriage life, some of you might call me a Simp or weakling but need to share it for those who asked me to share it when I write on a topic about what i regretted so far in 2025, was getting married last year December and ending it this Year January will pick one or two things from my story.

I met this girl 2023 through a mutual friend, we became an acquaintance and later start dating. She is from Delta state likewise myself, she comes from Ndokwa west specifically Kwale by tribe. In 2024 i proposed to her, by May I went to see her family while she came to meet mine also.

Early September i asked her family for the traditional list. We both agreed for traditional marriage and court wedding, After collecting the list we start planning towards the traditional marriage which was fixed on December 29 on a Sunday afternoon. That faithful day, i went with my people to pay the bride price and other things, and the court wedding was fixed on January 17.

January 7th, we were together discussing but something strange happened, her phone rang and i saw her going outside to answer some calls, after sometimes she came back inside not composed. I asked her what the problem was but she downplayed it and told me it was nothing, but i was not comfortable, after a while her phone rang again, it was her brother's wife calling her and asking her if she has told me about the pregnancy. I was shocked and asked her what pregnancy is she talking about.

Here comes the shock of my life, i discovered that she was some weeks pregnant, I asked her who got her pregnant, to my surprise, it was her ex boyfriend. I was enraged, mad and furious, something was whispering into my ear to go into the kitchen take a knife and stab her. Luckily for me, my younger sister called me at that moment, if not i don't know what i would have done to her. Because it was late i left the house for her.

In the morning, i came back, she was already in tears crying and asking me for forgiveness. I told her to leave my house, I picked up my phone call all her family members, called mine also.
Her family were trying to persuade me to forgive her but i told them it was unforgivable. My family asked for the refund of the bride price which was later refunded after they discovered that i did not bulge to their request of accepting her back.

It was a painful moment and a painful experience too, but i was able to pull through by the help of my family members some friends.

It was a long story i had to cut it short. It is my life story

Moral lesson: Do pregnancy test even on the day you are to tie the knot, do not trust to the extent of ignoring little things.

Extra: The guy who got her pregnant was aware and even told the girl's sister that his property with them he is coming in future to collect it. Na so I for dey look after another man's property
Evil gender looking innocent like snakes 🐍, thank God men are wising up
Re: My True Life Story: Married For Nine Days by WantsandMore: 10:28pm On Apr 02, 2025
I thought dating and breaking up in 24 hours was a record until I saw married for nine days. The world is heavily chaotic🙆🏾‍♂️
Re: My True Life Story: Married For Nine Days by Helpout12345: 10:30pm On Apr 02, 2025
neolboy:
This is my life story

Extra: The guy who got her pregnant was aware and even told the girl's sister that his property with them he is coming in future to collect it. Na so I for dey look after another man's property
Were you both not having sex or were you using protection? This part is missing here.

Anyway, congratulations.
Re: My True Life Story: Married For Nine Days by Okhuadams(m): 10:38pm On Apr 02, 2025
neolboy:
This is my life story
I am sharing my experience here about marriage life, some of you might call me a Simp or weakling but need to share it for those who asked me to share it when I write on a topic about what i regretted so far in 2025, was getting married last year December and ending it this Year January will pick one or two things from my story.

I met this girl 2023 through a mutual friend, we became an acquaintance and later start dating. She is from Delta state likewise myself, she comes from Ndokwa west specifically Kwale by tribe. In 2024 i proposed to her, by May I went to see her family while she came to meet mine also.

Early September i asked her family for the traditional list. We both agreed for traditional marriage and court wedding, After collecting the list we start planning towards the traditional marriage which was fixed on December 29 on a Sunday afternoon. That faithful day, i went with my people to pay the bride price and other things, and the court wedding was fixed on January 17.

January 7th, we were together discussing but something strange happened, her phone rang and i saw her going outside to answer some calls, after sometimes she came back inside not composed. I asked her what the problem was but she downplayed it and told me it was nothing, but i was not comfortable, after a while her phone rang again, it was her brother's wife calling her and asking her if she has told me about the pregnancy. I was shocked and asked her what pregnancy is she talking about.

Here comes the shock of my life, i discovered that she was some weeks pregnant, I asked her who got her pregnant, to my surprise, it was her ex boyfriend. I was enraged, mad and furious, something was whispering into my ear to go into the kitchen take a knife and stab her. Luckily for me, my younger sister called me at that moment, if not i don't know what i would have done to her. Because it was late i left the house for her.

In the morning, i came back, she was already in tears crying and asking me for forgiveness. I told her to leave my house, I picked up my phone call all her family members, called mine also.
Her family were trying to persuade me to forgive her but i told them it was unforgivable. My family asked for the refund of the bride price which was later refunded after they discovered that i did not bulge to their request of accepting her back.

It was a painful moment and a painful experience too, but i was able to pull through by the help of my family members some friends.

It was a long story i had to cut it short. It is my life story

Moral lesson: Do pregnancy test even on the day you are to tie the knot, do not trust to the extent of ignoring little things.

Extra: The guy who got her pregnant was aware and even told the girl's sister that his property with them he is coming in future to collect it. Na so I for dey look after another man's property
Is no longer news that most first pregnancy of women are likely not there husband's
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