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braine:
Correct. I’ve been on this platform for almost 18 years and Kobojunkie is not one few old timers to have a reasonable conversation with. So this response is very befitting.

Thanks for your response. I didn’t want to reply him/she because I noticed he/she doesn’t sound normal.

Fryx:
➜It’s not an unhealthy fixation.
➜ Not every lady is from a troubled home.
➜ And not every lady needs to climb dick or rub Toto with their fellow women to eat.
➜ If he is a responsible guy himself. He shouldn’t find it difficult to find one.

1. It is a very unhealthy fixation given that it has not been proven to provide you all any real value, and many of those who carry that fixation are eventually drawn to even more disastrous/inhumane fixations in the end.

2. Are you having us believe that every man who is not a virgin is from a troubled home?

3. But every man likes to? Is that your personal conclusion? 🤔

4. You mean like the one up there already eyeing primary 5 kids as his target? Even your politicians now prefer them served up as kids.

Wahala for who wants the girls to be good girls in this 21st century

irumole1975:
You have time to even respond to that fool. He/she is always on the side of wrong. I’ve never seen any sense coming from kobojunkie post here. Always better. Always on the side of wrong.

I noticed that too.

damzy88:
Okay. Thanks. Let me wait for the responses of more reasonable people.

Person add junkie for him name, you think say na play abi?😂😂

damzy88:
Okay. Thanks. Let me wait for the responses of more reasonable people.

Chimo

damzy88:
Okay. Thanks. Let me wait for the responses of more reasonable people.

The question he asked you is are you a virgin?.....u didn't answer that, instead pushing the question aside for the next comment.

Fryx:
I really don’t know why it’s hard for you to find one.

Two of my lovers are Virgins (I confirm one, haven’t had the time to confirm the second) but it won’t be hard for me to confirm if I want to.

Maybe change your environment. And it is not even a matter of age. While one is just about 20, the other is in her mid twenties, and also very beautiful.

I’m not a virgin myself. And they know. Abd they even know that I am sexually active, but they don’t mind.

I think it’s how you relate with women. Thats very important.

But while I will never say it to any man or woman (that knows me) - I will never keep a woman that is not a virgin at home, even if she had children for me.


Before anyone quote me about “I am not a virgin.” First go and learn what a “Man” is and what a “Woman” is.

Like someone pointed out about genetic pollution, I think one key indicator of a virgin is a woman without a troubled soul. If you are cool headed enough to handle a reasonable woman, you should not find it difficult to find a virgin. Non. Virgins has lots of drama (mostly) and trust issues.

Just be a man, and be responsible, they will come to you themselves. You don’t even need to look for one.

Brilliant.

4tomandchi:
The question is are you a virgin? If yes the only thing I will tell you is toto na toto. Virginity does not guarantee a successful marriage.

Abi oooo,all these olosho are once a virgin, bit today they are something else.

I know at least 3 married women that their husbands married as virgin, that latter became something else, while in husband house.

Infact, one among then nearly rape my friend then,even though she is with her husband.


No person foolish more than a guy looking up and down for virgin as wife.

TO ME, THE BEST WOMAN TO MARRIED IS LADY WITH AT MOST 2-3 EXES AND HE WISH, SHE DIDN'T WENT TOO WIDE WITH THOSE GUYS WHILE DATING.

a much better question for women is - what is the benefit of marrying as a virgin?

is it guaranteed to make the man a responsible husband?
is it guaranteed to make you have a lasting marriage?

i can say from direct observation no

one of the missus friends married as a virgin, and her husband was fking everything that moved
one of my friends from school married as a virgin, and she later divorced and married another guy
my guy married his wife as a virgin, but he fumbled the ball[the woman was and is doing much better than him] and they are now separated.

it is nothing more than an obsession of some small minded boys who are not virgins themselves

Namaster:
DON'T get married.
It's POINTLESS!

But if you insist, your bride's virginity must be NON-NEGOTIABLE.

The fact that you are finding it difficult to see a virgin is a SIGN.

It's a sign of the CALIBRE of women out there today:
LOOSE in morals and LOOSE in pussy.

The idea that you can settle down with "one with a good character" is MADNESS!

First of all, virginity is a good MARKER of good character in women. It speaks to a woman's CHASTITY and SEXUAL DISCIPLINE. Both of which are essential to a great home.

PLUS, once a woman is NO longer a virgin. You'll NEVER know her body counts.

She'd swear on ALL the gods that it's NOT more than three. Meanwhile, she's had 3 dicccks in one day. Sometimes, all at ONCE.

But you'll NEVER know. And you'll have to take her words for it.

Finally, there is the issue of GENETIC POLLUTION.

Scientists once conducted an experiment using spiders. They had ONE group of female spiders and TWO groups of male spiders.

One group of the male spiders contained LARGE spiders and the other contained SMALL ones.

First they let the large ones mate with the females. Then they let the small ones IMPREGNATE them.

They found that the OFFSPRINGS carried a SIGNIFICANT trace of the DNA of the mother's previous partner even though he didn't sire them.

At first, the scientists thought that the results were because the LARGE spiders had more dominant and powerful genes.

So they conducted a NEW test with new sets of spiders. This time, the small spiders first mated with the female spiders while the larges ones IMPREGNATED them.

Shockingly, the results were the SAME.
The OFFSPRINGS still had significant levels of the DNA of the mother's previous partner.

Put simply:

Marrying a NON-VIRGIN could result in having children with the genetic qualities of a STRANGE man.

Your child will have more than ONE father.
They will NOT be 100% yours.

A QUASI-BASTARD, if you will.

So insisting on a VIRGIN is not just about you.
It's about your KIDS too.

Virginity in a bride is a standard that must NEVER be compromised.

Five crates of cold Stout for you.

Kobojunkie:
1. It is a very unhealthy fixation given that it has not been proven to provide you all any real value, and many of those who carry that fixation are eventually drawn to even more disastrous/inhumane fixations in the end.

2. Are you having us believe that every man who is not a virgin is from a troubled home?

3. But every man likes to? Is that your personal conclusion? 🤔

4. You mean like the one up there already eyeing primary 5 kids as his target? Even your politicians now prefer them served up as kids.

Once you meet a real”Man”, who makes you feel like a proper woman, you will forget this your current confusion and appreciate a man for what he is.

But I couldn’t blame you. You’ve never met a “Man”.

To men:

Women I know, don’t care even if their man had 1000 concubines.

Men has lots of jealousy. But women has lots of competition. As a man, if you are competing for a woman or learning some “OT” to make a woman wet,
Or make a woman feel loved, you are fooling yourself.

Woman excels more in trying to seduce a “Man” once they sight one. A woman will seduce a man she likes, and it means nothing to her.

But if you try to reverse the role as a man, you are gone. Again, no real woman care if her man has many wives. Just be a “Man”

Response of the year.

May God direct a virgin who is also a wife material to you.

damzy88:
Okay. Thanks. Let me wait for the responses of more reasonable people.

.

blackpanthar:
I doubt you have a effective spirituality

Bro MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR EVERYONE.......... it is not by force.... don't force it.

Stop taking yourself too seriously either, you are NOT a saint.

Focus on being the kind of man, most genuine ladies will see as ODOGWU.... will see as someone worth following or submitting to.

Be a LEADER.... have results in both finances and leadership.

Stop distracting yourself worrying about women.

WOrk on your relationship with GOD and get it right before its too late.

Be busy being happy and doing activities that make you happy and fulfilled.


Marriage will be a by-product of such a high impact life.

Don't settle, don't chase.... simply attract and filter.

Hear ye, hear ye!

Namaster:
DON'T get married.
It's POINTLESS!

But if you insist, your bride's virginity must be NON-NEGOTIABLE.

The fact that you are finding it difficult to see a virgin is a SIGN.

It's a sign of the CALIBRE of women out there today:
LOOSE in morals and LOOSE in pussy.

The idea that you can settle down with "one with a good character" is MADNESS!

First of all, virginity is a good MARKER of good character in women. It speaks to a woman's CHASTITY and SEXUAL DISCIPLINE. Both of which are essential to a great home.

PLUS, once a woman is NO longer a virgin. You'll NEVER know her body counts.

She'd swear on ALL the gods that it's NOT more than three. Meanwhile, she's had 3 dicccks in one day. Sometimes, all at ONCE.

But you'll NEVER know. And you'll have to take her words for it.

Finally, there is the issue of GENETIC POLLUTION.

Scientists once conducted an experiment using spiders. They had ONE group of female spiders and TWO groups of male spiders.

One group of the male spiders contained LARGE spiders and the other contained SMALL ones.

First they let the large ones mate with the females. Then they let the small ones IMPREGNATE them.

They found that the OFFSPRINGS carried a SIGNIFICANT trace of the DNA of the mother's previous partner even though he didn't sire them.

At first, the scientists thought that the results were because the LARGE spiders had more dominant and powerful genes.

So they conducted a NEW test with new sets of spiders. This time, the small spiders first mated with the female spiders while the larges ones IMPREGNATED them.

Shockingly, the results were the SAME.
The OFFSPRINGS still had significant levels of the DNA of the mother's previous partner.

Put simply:

Marrying a NON-VIRGIN could result in having children with the genetic qualities of a STRANGE man.

Your child will have more than ONE father.
They will NOT be 100% yours.

A QUASI-BASTARD, if you will.

So insisting on a VIRGIN is not just about you.
It's about your KIDS too.

Virginity in a bride is a standard that must NEVER be compromised.

damzy88:
Hello,

I am a single guy thinking of getting married soon but some of the ladies I am considering having a serious relationship that may lead to marriage with are not virgins. This came as a surprise to me as I thought it will be easy to find a virgin to settle down with.

Should I try to focus on finding the one with best character and settle with or I should continue with my search to find a virgin?

I understand marriage is more than virginity but I am just wondering.

Looking forward to your responses.

Thanks

Biko continue your search jare.....by the time you are like 65 and a billionaire, you go see two and make a choice between them. No loose focus ooo....Happy searching!
Virgin kee you dia!

Kobojunkie:
1. You are not a virgin, but your expectation is that there would be virgins everywhere else abi? No be craze dem dey call that?

2. I honestly don't think you will benefit from marriage at all as there is the chance that this virginity obsession of yours will most likely lead you to either rape your daughter or maybe even your wife's sibling/house help who you happen to perceive is a virgin. I have read enough stories of your kind to realize that these delusions never simply go away. They find other ways to compensate for the lack in your lives; Nigeria is riddled with stories of your kind that it is probably better you are not allowed near children at all.

Abeg nairaland, somebody should send free medical personel from psychiatric department to come and evaluate this man.

sprints1:
There is no benefit bro it's just like buying a car if u marry a virgin with serious mental health issue your marriage will suffer. Virgins and entitlement mentality na 5&6 if u misbehave they can even kill you. If u buy a new KIA motor and tokunbo Benz c series 4matic my brother u go discover the KIA na nonsense. Virgin with close mindness and terrible attitude is worse than a cooperate borehole woman

You should have said "some virgin'
@op, don't take this post as a joke.

Small post but mighty.

Single occupant homes for lifelong singles…one bed and two bed…..

This is the future in real estate.

Kemadealadire:
If you aren't a virgin and you are looking for a virgin, then you aren't being reasonable, it's only fair you meet the standards you expect to find.

All these non virgins sef lost their brains too.

Is this thing you wrote not contradictory mbok?

Kemadealadire:
If you aren't a virgin and you are looking for a virgin, then you aren't being reasonable, it's only fair you meet the standards you expect to find.

Why this question all the time...?? And it's u women that ask it most of the time...

Broke women want rich men all the time...
Short women want tall guys...
Even ugly women don't want ugly men...
Single mothers don't want single fathers
Single mothers don't want their son to marry a single mother like her...so what da heck!!....

Y'all don't ask them why don't they go for their kind....

but once a gigga doesn't want a woman half of his local government has slept with y'all start telling him he doesn't deserve what he wants..... Why are you pple forming preference police when you all have yours that u don't even measure to??

Fryx:
➜Once you meet a real”Man”, who makes you feel like a proper woman, you will forget this your current confusion and appreciate a man for what he is. But I couldn’t blame you. You’ve never met a “Man”.
➜ To men: Women I know, don’t care even if their man had 1000 concubines.
➜ Men has lots of jealousy. But women has lots of competition. As a man, if you are competing for a woman or learning some “OT” to make a woman wet, Or make a woman feel loved, you are fooling yourself. Woman excels more in trying to seduce a “Man” once they sight one. A woman will seduce a man she likes, and it means nothing to her. But if you try to reverse the role as a man, you are gone. Again, no real woman care if her man has many wives. Just be a “Man”

1. "Make her feel like a proper woman," meaning she does not feel she is already a proper woman—insecurity flags all over the place kind — and the man is one who preys on such women with low self-esteem, abi? 🙄🙄

2. Women don't care if their man had 1000 concubines? Let me guess, we are still on the topics of these insecure women you introduced us to in your earlier declaration of how they are prey to your "Man"? 🙄🙄

3. Oh boy! Now it's all just hogwash and brain farts! Oi vey! 🙄🙄

ChizzyBuna:
A Woman's Character is more important than her Virginity.


You can marry a Virgin that end up being a jezebel that torment your life.

How u pple think that virgin women are automatically tormentors still baffles me... But women half the men in your local government have slept with are always fantastic wives

Kobojunkie:
1. "Make her feel like a proper woman," meaning she does not feel she is already a proper woman—insecurity flags all over the place kind — and the man is one who preys on such women with low self-esteem, abi? 🙄🙄

2. Women don't care if their man had 1000 concubines? Let me guess, we are still on the topics of these insecure women you introduced us to in your earlier declaration of how they are prey to your "Man"? 🙄🙄

3. Oh boy! Now it's all just hogwash and brain farts! Oi vey! 🙄🙄

You are not a woman.

Fryx:
I really don’t know why it’s hard for you to find one.

Two of my lovers are Virgins (I confirm one, haven’t had the time to confirm the second) but it won’t be hard for me to confirm if I want to.

Maybe change your environment. And it is not even a matter of age. While one is just about 20, the other is in her mid twenties, and also very beautiful.

I’m not a virgin myself. And they know. Abd they even know that I am sexually active, but they don’t mind.

I think it’s how you relate with women. Thats very important.

But while I will never say it to any man or woman (that knows me) - I will never keep a woman that is not a virgin at home, even if she had children for me.


Before anyone quote me about “I am not a virgin.” First go and learn what a “Man” is and what a “Woman” is.

Like someone pointed out about genetic pollution, I think one key indicator of a virgin is a woman without a troubled soul. If you are cool headed enough to handle a reasonable woman, you should not find it difficult to find a virgin. Non. Virgins has lots of drama (mostly) and trust issues.

Just be a man, and be responsible, they will come to you themselves. You don’t even need to look for one.

Environment is a big decider.

Oga find a well behaved girl and marry. Virgin girls are scarce in Nigeria,. Some of us that married them were just lucky not that we specifically asked for one.

Kobojunkie who believes everybody is not a virgin because she isn’t will hate this thread

GloriousGbola:
a much better question for women is - what is the benefit of marrying as a virgin?

is it guaranteed to make the man a responsible husband?
is it guaranteed to make you have a lasting marriage?

i can say from direct observation no

one of the missus friends married as a virgin, and her husband was fking everything that moved
one of my friends from school married as a virgin, and she later divorced and married another guy
my guy married his wife as a virgin, but he fumbled the ball[the woman was and is doing much better than him] and they are now separated.

it is nothing more than an obsession of some small minded boys who are not virgins themselves

A woman with good qualities (in this case virginity) should know that men, both good and bad would want her. It doesn't mean these different men would treat her the same. So it is up to this woman to filter men properly. The problem is, these women do not realise this on time and fall into the hands of bad men who just want them for the thrill. Hence the saying, good girl no dey pay.

4tomandchi:
The question is are you a virgin? If yes the only thing I will tell you is toto na toto. Virginity does not guarantee a successful marriage.

Be like u just start to dey staff....Toto wey be like well, river Niger, and river benue dey...

Totó wey Dem dey wash with alum every 3hrs dey

Stay there make pànt dey wear you

Kemadealadire:
If you aren't a virgin and you are looking for a virgin, then you aren't being reasonable, it's only fair you meet the standards you expect to find.

May be you didn't understand the concept.
For a man is to take the family responsibilities
For the woman is to keep her virginity for the man.

Only a Virgin should be looking for a Virgin to marry. If you are not a Virgin, who will marry your leftovers??

Also, NEVER reward an olosho with marriage. YOU WILL REGRET IT.

Kobojunkie:
1. You are not a virgin, but you expect that there would be virgins everywhere else, abi? No be craze dem dey call that?

2. I honestly don't think you will benefit from marriage at all as there is the chance that this virginity obsession of yours will most likely lead you to either rape your daughter or maybe even your wife's sibling/house help who you happen to perceive is a virgin. I have read enough stories of your kind to realize that these delusions never simply go away. They find other ways to compensate for the lack in your lives; Nigeria is riddled with stories of your kind that it is probably better you are not allowed near children at all.

you nor dey ever make sense