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Re: Benefits Of Marrying A Virgin As A Married Man. by advanceDNA: 6:32pm On Apr 03, 2025
VicM6:
Na who come dey disvirgin dem na ..abi na dem dey disvirgin them self with cucumber ni...
U know say these girls dey quick tear eyes pass boys.. 15-16 years old, Dem don dey look for penis...na those uncle for street dey disvirgin many of them...one uncle fit disvirgin like 10 girls....by the times boys their age range go mature and ready na left over
Re: Benefits Of Marrying A Virgin As A Married Man. by DesireV: 6:33pm On Apr 03, 2025
damzy88:
Thanks. I am a virgin by the way.
Make sure you marry a responsible virgin then. They're not as scarce as being portrayed. A virgin guy especially doesn't deserve someone else's left over, especially if he's comfortable, good looking, and with prospect.
Don't let anybody make you feel bad about what you want. Non virgins and some loose ladies will want to make you feel awkward about it, don't mind them. Just be deliberate.
Also, marriage is sweet,very sweet. Ignore anything to the contrary. Welldone and all the best
Re: Benefits Of Marrying A Virgin As A Married Man. by sprints1: 6:55pm On Apr 03, 2025
Osanoghodua1:
You're a big liar. Very big liar.
are you married to one...
Re: Benefits Of Marrying A Virgin As A Married Man. by damzy88(op): 6:56pm On Apr 03, 2025
highchief1:
you are very matured.i like the way u replied him.
wink
Re: Benefits Of Marrying A Virgin As A Married Man. by Nobody: 7:12pm On Apr 03, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Those ladies who sold their virginity to those rich men are only among the handful out there who were able to get the most out of the exchange. They reasonably offered their virginity only to rich men and got set up for life for it. They got the best bargain for their virginity, yep! The vast majority, though, who offered their virginity on the altar of marriage were not so lucky. Many of them ended up breadwinners, slaving away to feed the very same men they gave their virginities to. undecided
Behave yourself and don't quote me with your smart-by-half logic, shifting the goal post without answering my question.
Re: Benefits Of Marrying A Virgin As A Married Man. by Kobojunkie: 7:15pm On Apr 03, 2025
Valwezzy:
➜Behave yourself and don't quote me with your smart-by-half logic, shifting the goal post without answering my question.
This response came from someone who attempted to shift the goalposts earlier!
Valwezzy:
And the jobless ladies who married financially buoyant men who in turn set them up in business and for life are reasonable abi?
Again, those ladies who sold their virginity to those rich men are only among the handful out there who were able to get the most out of the exchange. They reasonably offered their virginity only to rich men and got set up for life for it. They got the best bargain for their virginity, yep! The vast majority, though, who offered their virginity on the altar of marriage were not so lucky. Many of them ended up breadwinners, slaving away to feed the very same men they gave their virginities to. undecided
Re: Benefits Of Marrying A Virgin As A Married Man. by Nehyooh(m): 7:28pm On Apr 03, 2025
Namaster:
DON'T get married.
It's POINTLESS!

But if you insist, your bride's virginity must be NON-NEGOTIABLE.

The fact that you are finding it difficult to see a virgin is a SIGN.

It's a sign of the CALIBRE of women out there today:
LOOSE in morals and LOOSE in pussy.

The idea that you can settle down with "one with a good character" is MADNESS!

First of all, virginity is a good MARKER of good character in women. It speaks to a woman's CHASTITY and SEXUAL DISCIPLINE. Both of which are essential to a great home.

PLUS, once a woman is NO longer a virgin. You'll NEVER know her body counts.

She'd swear on ALL the gods that it's NOT more than three. Meanwhile, she's had 3 dicccks in one day. Sometimes, all at ONCE.

But you'll NEVER know. And you'll have to take her words for it.

Finally, there is the issue of GENETIC POLLUTION.

Scientists once conducted an experiment using spiders. They had ONE group of female spiders and TWO groups of male spiders.

One group of the male spiders contained LARGE spiders and the other contained SMALL ones.

First they let the large ones mate with the females. Then they let the small ones IMPREGNATE them.

They found that the OFFSPRINGS carried a SIGNIFICANT trace of the DNA of the mother's previous partner even though he didn't sire them.

At first, the scientists thought that the results were because the LARGE spiders had more dominant and powerful genes.

So they conducted a NEW test with new sets of spiders. This time, the small spiders first mated with the female spiders while the larges ones IMPREGNATED them.

Shockingly, the results were the SAME.
The OFFSPRINGS still had significant levels of the DNA of the mother's previous partner.

Put simply:

Marrying a NON-VIRGIN could result in having children with the genetic qualities of a STRANGE man.

Your child will have more than ONE father.
They will NOT be 100% yours.

A QUASI-BASTARD, if you will.

So insisting on a VIRGIN is not just about you.
It's about your KIDS too.

Virginity in a bride is a standard that must NEVER be compromised.
I can relate, thanks Baba.
Re: Benefits Of Marrying A Virgin As A Married Man. by patrickcollins: 7:34pm On Apr 03, 2025
kpankpangolo:
Oh, look, this stupid question for the nth time. Nairaland ever as backward as Sango Ota.
it's not stupid should be educative, does marrying virgin has any benefits in marriage, those that married a virgin over to you and those with experiences come forward
Re: Benefits Of Marrying A Virgin As A Married Man. by Kemadealadire(f):
CorrectionFLuid:
All these non virgins sef lost their brains too.

Is this thing you wrote not an contradictory mbok?
Go ask your sister. If you like go around town disvirgining and expect to find a virgin to get married to. You and the rest busy giving me silly mentions better go pick out one of those you slept/are sleeping with.
Re: Benefits Of Marrying A Virgin As A Married Man. by RussellRutherfo: 7:44pm On Apr 03, 2025
damzy88:
Okay. Thanks. Let me wait for the responses of more reasonable people. smiley
grin
Savage
Re: Benefits Of Marrying A Virgin As A Married Man. by kpankpangolo: 7:50pm On Apr 03, 2025
patrickcollins:
it's not stupid should be educative, does marrying virgin has any benefits in marriage, those that married a virgin over to you and those with experiences come forward
That you find it intellectual doesn’t mean I do. It is a stupid topic. It was stupid when posted in 2005 and has remained so over the years.
Re: Benefits Of Marrying A Virgin As A Married Man. by damzy88(op): 8:04pm On Apr 03, 2025
Re: Benefits Of Marrying A Virgin As A Married Man. by OctavianAC(m): 8:15pm On Apr 03, 2025
Kemadealadire:
If you aren't a virgin and you are looking for a virgin, then you aren't being reasonable, it's only fair you meet the standards you expect to find.
We know the story na, not up to 2% of women lost their virginity in a reasonable way. Over 70% lost it because of indomie, television, biscuits, shew gum, etc. Over 30% did even know when they lost it, they just found out that the place is now open. So, Satan has blinded their thought about sexual purity.
Re: Benefits Of Marrying A Virgin As A Married Man. by Owon:
Kobojunkie:
1. You are not a virgin, but you expect that there would be virgins everywhere else, abi? No be craze dem dey call that? undecided

2. I honestly don't think you will benefit from marriage at all as there is the chance that this virginity obsession of yours will most likely lead you to either rape your daughter or maybe even your wife's sibling/house help who you happen to perceive is a virgin. I have read enough stories of your kind to realize that these delusions never simply go away. They find other ways to compensate for the lack in your lives; Nigeria is riddled with stories of your kind that it is probably better you are not allowed near children at all. undecided
Very senseless and draft comparison.
Virginity is to girls and not for men, it's okay but not important. This is why women have hymen and men don't.
So if a jobless and poor girl now is only qualified to marry a poor and jobless man?
From someone's desire to marry a virgin, to you talking about how you want to rape your mother, sisters and daughters.
What a retarɗ!

Re: Benefits Of Marrying A Virgin As A Married Man. by Kemadealadire(f): 8:19pm On Apr 03, 2025
OctavianAC:
We know the story na, not up to 2% of women lost their virginity in a reasonable way. Over 70% lost it because of indomie, television, biscuits, shew gum, etc. Over 30% did even know when they lost it, they just found out that the place is now open. So, Satan has blinded their thought about sexual purity.
Who did they lose it to?
Re: Benefits Of Marrying A Virgin As A Married Man. by OctavianAC(m):
ChizzyBuna:
A Woman's Character is more important than her Virginity.


You can marry a Virgin that end up being a jezebel that torment your life.
Is keeping virginity not a character a part of character?
Re: Benefits Of Marrying A Virgin As A Married Man. by OctavianAC(m): 8:23pm On Apr 03, 2025
Kemadealadire:
Who did they lose it to?
Sharp street guys that did not marry them, and will never marry them. There are smart guys in street that has dis virgin up to 6 foolish young girl.
Re: Benefits Of Marrying A Virgin As A Married Man. by Kobojunkie: 8:23pm On Apr 03, 2025
Owon:
➜Very senseless and draft comparison. Virginity is to girl and for men, it's okay but not important. This is why women have hymen and men don't. So if a jobless and poor girl now is only qualified to marry a poor and jobless man?
You are a true Nigerian—the village champion kind— to the DNA... see as you dey beat your chest in blatant ignorance as only one from that special ignorant breed could. 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

Imagine this one shouting around about hymen in 2025 while wanting us to believe that in the blackhole that is his existence, common sense can be found! 😩😩😩😩😩😩
Re: Benefits Of Marrying A Virgin As A Married Man. by Owon: 8:25pm On Apr 03, 2025
Namaster:
DON'T get married.
It's POINTLESS!

But if you insist, your bride's virginity must be NON-NEGOTIABLE.

The fact that you are finding it difficult to see a virgin is a SIGN.

It's a sign of the CALIBRE of women out there today:
LOOSE in morals and LOOSE in pussy.

The idea that you can settle down with "one with a good character" is MADNESS!

First of all, virginity is a good MARKER of good character in women. It speaks to a woman's CHASTITY and SEXUAL DISCIPLINE. Both of which are essential to a great home.

PLUS, once a woman is NO longer a virgin. You'll NEVER know her body counts.

She'd swear on ALL the gods that it's NOT more than three. Meanwhile, she's had 3 dicccks in one day. Sometimes, all at ONCE.

But you'll NEVER know. And you'll have to take her words for it.

Finally, there is the issue of GENETIC POLLUTION.

Scientists once conducted an experiment using spiders. They had ONE group of female spiders and TWO groups of male spiders.

One group of the male spiders contained LARGE spiders and the other contained SMALL ones.

First they let the large ones mate with the females. Then they let the small ones IMPREGNATE them.

They found that the OFFSPRINGS carried a SIGNIFICANT trace of the DNA of the mother's previous partner even though he didn't sire them.

At first, the scientists thought that the results were because the LARGE spiders had more dominant and powerful genes.

So they conducted a NEW test with new sets of spiders. This time, the small spiders first mated with the female spiders while the larges ones IMPREGNATED them.

Shockingly, the results were the SAME.
The OFFSPRINGS still had significant levels of the DNA of the mother's previous partner.

Put simply:

Marrying a NON-VIRGIN could result in having children with the genetic qualities of a STRANGE man.

Your child will have more than ONE father.
They will NOT be 100% yours.

A QUASI-BASTARD, if you will.

So insisting on a VIRGIN is not just about you.
It's about your KIDS too.

Virginity in a bride is a standard that must NEVER be compromised.
Absolutely
Re: Benefits Of Marrying A Virgin As A Married Man. by rapheal5(m): 8:33pm On Apr 03, 2025
Kobojunkie:
But is there really, truly, a benefit to getting married to a virgin man or woman, forgetting all other things you have thrown in there? undecided
Yes and that’s what the op stated above…
Re: Benefits Of Marrying A Virgin As A Married Man. by Kayberg: 8:36pm On Apr 03, 2025
Kobojunkie:
1. You are not a virgin, but you expect that there would be virgins everywhere else, abi? No be craze dem dey call that? undecided

2. I honestly don't think you will benefit from marriage at all as there is the chance that this virginity obsession of yours will most likely lead you to either rape your daughter or maybe even your wife's sibling/house help who you happen to perceive is a virgin. I have read enough stories of your kind to realize that these delusions never simply go away. They find other ways to compensate for the lack in your lives; Nigeria is riddled with stories of your kind that it is probably better you are not allowed near children at all. undecided
Trash and junks as usual.

Charles Taze Russells do this one, it really showed in you.

If he doesn't rape his daughter, househelp or wife's siblings, then you can go and force him to. angry
Re: Benefits Of Marrying A Virgin As A Married Man. by Owon: 8:36pm On Apr 03, 2025
Kemadealadire:
If you aren't a virgin and you are looking for a virgin, then you aren't being reasonable, it's only fair you meet the standards you expect to find.
There's a big difference between balance, fairness, equality and equity.
VIRGINITY is female trait, that's why you were born with hymen. Most of you are just frustrated, wasted hypocrites and that's why you reason and make senseless judgements like this.
YOU WILL NEVER EVER SAY THIS IF YOU WERE A VIRGIN. YOU'RE JUST PAINED...
So let me ask you:
If a poor, jobless and NON-VIRGIN girl desires and wants to marry a Rich, tall, dark and God-fearing man, is she qualify to have such? Why would she not just go for someone of her type who is jobless and poor as well?

Regina Daniel was only able to marry Ned because she was a virgin....
God didn't choose a Whørē to birth Jesus as well, HE CHOSE A VIRGIN!
Re: Benefits Of Marrying A Virgin As A Married Man. by Kobojunkie: 8:36pm On Apr 03, 2025
rapheal5:
➜Yes and that’s what the op stated above
Stated where? huh
Re: Benefits Of Marrying A Virgin As A Married Man. by Cornerstone2018: 8:37pm On Apr 03, 2025
The men are crying they can't find a virgin to marry because the men are the culprit behind spoiling the little girls and teenagers. If you are not a virgin man don't expect to marry one.
Re: Benefits Of Marrying A Virgin As A Married Man. by rapheal5(m): 8:37pm On Apr 03, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Stated where? huh
Oga check the post and read slowly..
Re: Benefits Of Marrying A Virgin As A Married Man. by Kobojunkie: 8:39pm On Apr 03, 2025
rapheal5:
➜Oga check the post and read slowly..
I will leave you to your own particuar delusions then. 😏
Re: Benefits Of Marrying A Virgin As A Married Man. by Kobojunkie: 8:40pm On Apr 03, 2025
Kayberg:
➜Trash and junks as usual. Charles Taze Russells do this one, it really showed in you. If he doesn't rape his daughter, househelp or wife's siblings, then you can go and force him to. angry
Is that like saying Mohammed was pure or something? I don't follow at all. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Re: Benefits Of Marrying A Virgin As A Married Man. by rapheal5(m): 8:42pm On Apr 03, 2025
Kobojunkie:
I will leave you to your own particuar delusions then. 😏
You are married so you don’t know what Genz ladies with multiple body count are capable of…
Re: Benefits Of Marrying A Virgin As A Married Man. by Owon: 8:43pm On Apr 03, 2025
Kobojunkie:
You are a true Nigerian—the village champion kind— to the DNA... see as you dey beat your chest in blatant ignorance as only one from that special ignorant breed could. 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

Imagine this one shouting around about hymen in 2025 while wanting us to believe that in the blackhole that is his existence, common sense can be found! 😩😩😩😩😩😩
Get a life frustrated wasted soul.
I'm sure you're just pained that you've been passed around like football by multiple men...
Many of you know the truth but will also say rubbish out of hypocrisy.
If you have a daughter now, would you prefer to give her hand out in marriage as a virgin or as a girl with multiple sexual experience with different men?

You think God was crazy for not choosing a whorē to birth Jesus?
Re: Benefits Of Marrying A Virgin As A Married Man. by Kobojunkie: 8:47pm On Apr 03, 2025
rapheal5:
➜You are married so you don’t know what Genz ladies with multiple body count are capable of…
You don't yourself have multiple body counts, abi? Married men and women these days don't usually also have multiple body counts, right? undecided

Honestly, sometimes I can't help but wonder how dem take born people wey dey tiny-brained—shortsighted, small-minded, etc,. 🙄🙄🙄
Re: Benefits Of Marrying A Virgin As A Married Man. by rapheal5(m): 8:52pm On Apr 03, 2025
Kobojunkie:
You don't yourself have multiple body counts, abi? Married men and women these days don't usually also have multiple body counts, right? undecided

Honestly, sometimes I can't help but wonder how dem take born people wey dey tiny-brained—shortsighted, small-minded, etc,. 🙄🙄🙄
Come out of your shed, are u a male or female? I really don’t engage with people who hide their genda…You have no strong opinion on this topic if you are not bold enough to show your genda…
Re: Benefits Of Marrying A Virgin As A Married Man. by Kobojunkie: 8:54pm On Apr 03, 2025
Owon:
➜Get a life frustrated wasted soul. I'm sure you're just pained that you've been passed around like football by multiple men... Many of you know the truth but will also say rubbish out of hypocrisy.
➜ If you have a daughter now, would you prefer to give her hand out in marriage as a virgin or as a girl with multiple sexual experience with different men?
➜ You think God was crazy for not choosing a whorē to birth Jesus?
. I am pained by highlighting your blatant display of your vast ignorance. huh

➜ See dem... the toto watchers aka perverts! They go as far as to set themselves as monitoring spirits over the toto of their own daughters. OP, you see what I mean?

➜ Were you born by a non-LovePeddler yourself? Are you Jesus Christ's reincarnation? Nonsense! huh

These ones no go ever read, na to dey regurgitate all kinds of propaganda and muths fed them by equally ignorant animals dem dey to do in life. And true to it, most of the women who end up with their kind end up loading up one crisis after another as reward. undecided
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