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Kobojunkie:
1. You are not a virgin, but you expect that there would be virgins everywhere else, abi? No be craze dem dey call that?

2. I honestly don't think you will benefit from marriage at all as there is the chance that this virginity obsession of yours will most likely lead you to either rape your daughter or maybe even your wife's sibling/house help who you happen to perceive is a virgin. I have read enough stories of your kind to realize that these delusions never simply go away. They find other ways to compensate for the lack in your lives; Nigeria is riddled with stories of your kind that it is probably better you are not allowed near children at all.

Are you a virgin? If not ,you are an idiot for giving this advise or opinion... Oloriburuku

Owon:
You're indeed a dolt.
So to you, a man going for a girl he can "control" is even a problem?
Who doesn't like what's easy and cooperative?
You want men to go for difficult ill-mannered Whørēs that will give them problem and cut their lives short? How dãft can you be?
If you're to choose between a god-fearing and a playboy, which one will you pick?

I know your type very very, frustrated used and wasted loser. You're always pained when men get what they want. Not like you really have anything to offer in a relationship, and that's why you're not married and you're not even a virgin, even though you'll call yourself a Christian. Virgins don't deserve virgins! Get that into your loose brain!
THERE'S ABSOLUTELY NOTHING LIKE A MAN BEING A VIRGIN OR NOT. MEN DON'T HAVE HYMEN ( I KNOW FOÒLS LIKE YOU WILL ALSO TELL ME NOT ALL VIRGINS HAVE HYMEN BULLSHĪT...

Only value deserve value.
As a girl, you were born with a value (virginity), if you're not a virgin, then a great value of yours is lost!
Virginity is a value and a made man too has a value.
Sensible and patient men always get what they want, it's only símps a foòl like you can manipulate and downplay their desires to get what they want.
There's absolutely nothing special you can offer more than one man in this life than your virginity.
You can offer multiple men love, marriages, children etc., BUT YOU CAN ONLY OFFER ONE MAN YOUR VIRGINITY! THAT'S HOW SPECIAL VIRGINITY IS.
With a sensible man of value, There's a very special love and respect a virgin wife will get or feel that a girl a man didn't meet as virgin will never experience directly or indirectly.

Unfortunately, there's absolutely nothing like a girl has low BODYCOUNT. It's just a mirage... You're either a virgin or a Whørē.
No one can know you true BODYCOUNT if you're not a virgin. A man can only take your word for it, and 99.999999% of times, you lie about it.
The BODYCOUNT of a NON-VIRGIN (Whørē) girl is very important, because that gives an idea of all the men's DNA that will forever be in your system, number of men that have conquered you, number of emotional imprints and damages on you, etc.

ONLY A BASTARƊ AND LOWLIFE MAN WILL NOT TAKE A GIRL'S SEXUAL PURITY SERIOUSLY...

Lol, pained senseless ediot, you are the loser here, you keep deflecting from the main discuss. Writing unintelligent epistles up and down, get a life you nonentity.

Virgins should go for virgins simple, losers like you should go be with your kind. I apologise to myself for wasting precious braincells and time responding to a frustrated he-goat.

emmyN:
Never seen a virgin man before, but virgin women, yes!

There are virgin/sexually pure men everywhere not every man has slept/sleeps with women they aren't married to. 'The marriage bed undefiled' doesn't apply to the female gender only.

Kemadealadire:
Lol, pained senseless ediot, you are the loser here, you keep deflecting from the main discuss. Writing unintelligent epistles up and down, get a life you nonentity.

Virgins should go for virgins simple, losers like you should go be with your kind. I apologise to myself for wasting precious braincells and time responding to a frustrated he-goat.

Lol
Pained frustrated USED LOSER
After they get passed around like football due to their stupidity, laziness and GREED! They start feeling entitled and making demands
THEY'LL EVEN DATE AND SLEEP WITH MARRIED MEN, THEN EXPECT THAT WHEN THEY GET MARRIED, THEIR HUSBAND SHOULD STAY LOYAL AND COMMITTED TO THEM ALONE
Dey play, U GO SUFFER EHN

Na frustration go kilI you
Don't worry, Virgins will go for virgins and
TALL, DARK, HANDSOME, RICH AND GOD FEARING MEN WILL GO FOR TALL, DARK, HANDSOME, RICH AND GOD FEARING WOMEN

Oponu

neolboy:
No benefits.

^^^


Those who know the benefits, know.

neolboy:
And if you want to marry a virgin, then you will grow old because meeting them is by luck

^^^
Luck?

Not really.

Those who are intentional about this sort of thing do take actions to improve the odds in their favour. It isn't blind luck.

phadul:
There is no difference between a virgin and the regular! When a woman menstruate her virginity is restored in fact you will enjoy the experienced ones better

^^^
You would rather 'enjoy' other men's playgrounds?

To each his own.

Pray4meJC:
Real Christians are not LUCKY PEOPLE, they get what they want

First is the OP a True Christian? Marriage is for christians and not for worldly folks because they will never understand the true essence of marriage. If truly he is and by extension being a virgin as well, then let him ask God Almighty to grant him the qualities of a wife spelled out in Proverbs 31:10 to the end.

Appreciate your response. Yes, I am a virgin.

Can the moderator help move this to the front page for more responses.

Thanks

damzy88:
Appreciate your response. Yes, I am a virgin.

Can the moderator help move this to the front page for more responses.

Thanks

Front page again for the same topic? For what naa?
Isn't one front page enough, hmm?

Kobojunkie:
1. You are not a virgin, but you expect that there would be virgins everywhere else, abi? No be craze dem dey call that?

2. I honestly don't think you will benefit from marriage at all as there is the chance that this virginity obsession of yours will most likely lead you to either rape your daughter or maybe even your wife's sibling/house help who you happen to perceive is a virgin. I have read enough stories of your kind to realize that these delusions never simply go away. They find other ways to compensate for the lack in your lives; Nigeria is riddled with stories of your kind that it is probably better you are not allowed near children at all.

Lamentations! He didn't ask for that.

Kobojunkie:
Of course, you would not find it reasonable for anyone to point out that these delusions/fixations are likely to lead nowhere good if not immediately nipped in the bud. Your best bet is to make an appointment immediately with a professional mental health therapist or counselor, so you can rid yourself of what is clearly an unhealthy fixation.

Person wey you surrender your virginity to went on to marry another virgin and it must be painful.

The guy ask for "benefits", tell him if there's any or shut it if there's none. It's not written anywhere that a non-virgin man should not marry a virgin girl. And no one is saying non-virgin girls are all bad and all virgins are good.

Virgins can turn monsters after marriage and start what they didn't do before marriage and non-virgin can stay committed after marriage and won't go back to what they did before marriage.

Here's hoping this moniker is not owned by a nutjob.

Fujiyama:
➜^^^ Those who know the benefits, know.
➜^^^ Luck? Not really. Those who are intentional about this sort of thing do take actions to improve the odds in their favour. It isn't blind luck.

A benefit or a delusion? What is this benefit? Also, does this benefit apply to both genders?

2. You mean like the one who advised his gang to look out for primary 4 or 5 girls and then approach their poor parents with th offer to pay for the education of the child until she comes of age, after which they then proceed to claim her as wife?

Mariangeles:
Front page again for the same topic? For what naa?
Isn't one front page enough, hmm?

Are you pained?

Caseless:
Person wey you surrender your virginity to went on to marry another virgin and it must be painful.

The guy ask for "benefits", tell him if there's any or shut it if there's none. It's not written anywhere that a non-virgin man should not marry a virgin girl. And no one is saying non-virgin girls are all bad and all virgins are good.

Virgins can turn monsters after marriage and start what they didn't do before marriage and non-virgin can stay committed after marriage and won't go back to what they did before marriage.

Guy!!

damzy88:
Are you pained?

Are you paid? 🙄

Kobojunkie:
Here's hoping this moniker is not owned by a nutjob.

^^^


We're all nutjobs kobojunkie. All 200 million plus of us. You should have known that by now.

Kobojunkie:
A benefit or a delusion? What is this benefit? Also, does this benefit apply to both genders?

^^^
Obviously a benefit.

Some other posters have done a far better job of explaining than I could. And the benefits apply to both genders of course.

Kobojunkie:
You mean like the one who advised his gang to look out for primary 4 or 5 girls and then approach their poor parents with th offer to pay for the education of the child until she comes of age, after which they then proceed to claim her as wife?

^^^
Obviously not.

Fujiyama:
➜^^^ We're all nutjobs kobojunkie. All 200 million plus of us. You should have known that by now.
➜^^^ Obviously a benefit. Some other posters have done a far better job of explaining than I could. And the benefits apply to both genders of course. ^^^ Obviously not.

I disagree. I mean, I am not one of the 200 million you refer to. Haven't been for many decades now.

I see I made a terrible mistake. Oh, well! Moving on now!

Kemadealadire:
If you aren't a virgin and you are looking for a virgin, then you aren't being reasonable, it's only fair you meet the standards you expect to find.

Madam Adire, even you, you want to have a standard fair above you.


I'm a virgin too. Let's work it out.

Kobojunkie:
I disagree. I mean, I am not one of the 200 million you refer to. Haven't been for many decades now.

^^^


Someone once said: once a member, always a member.

For years I have wanted to take a psychiatric evaluation (for the sheer hell of it) but I am afraid of what might will be uncovered. And I have always been seen as one of the sane ones! `

bewisemasses:
Marry a virgin. A lady of good character. One u love and loves u. Marry ur soul mate. But in a quest to marry a virgin don't ignore other indices. Any LovePeddler can pretend to be a virgin. I recommend this book atomic vibes by James Clearie. If u haven't read it. Don't get married👵

Please do you have the PDF?

Fortune118005:
Please do you have the PDF?

Sure. Send ur email I'll send it

Kobojunkie:
1. E dey pain you be reason why you respond, abi?

2. I didn't say he could not want a virgin. I simply made it known to him where that fixation of his most likely comes from and will eventually lead him. Marriage to that kind of human amounts to marrying a crisis waiting to happen.

3. Of course, you would not want him to listen even though this very internet is filled to the brim with stories of how such men easily end up trapped by that desire of theirs.

4. I don't hate seeing men or women getting what they want, nor do I hate seeing them get what they deserve. I simply warn of how those desires may lead to a possibly undesirable yet deserved end for men who reason as he does. The pattern has been observed both in those abroad and in Nigeria. Only that in Nigeria, many of these men end up predators that run wild, and their kids are rarely ever spared, a very sad situation.

bitter non-virgin Nigerian feminist spotted

Fearyourcreator:
Are you a virgin? If not ,you are an idiot for giving this advise or opinion... Oloriburuku

What a response.

bewisemasses:
Sure. Send ur email I'll send it

WhatsApp please
Mention me on a dead thread and I'll send my WhatsApp

bewisemasses:
Sure. Send ur email I'll send it

I sent you a pm. I would like to get an e-copy of the book.

ChizzyBuna:
A Woman's Character is more important than her Virginity.


You can marry a Virgin that end up being a jezebel that torment your life.

There's a legal solution to the emboldened, which is separation or divorce. What is the solution to a broken cherry? As long as that first guy is alive and reachable, it's just a matter of time before she's ridding his d!CK.

This has nothing to do with the person, it's human nature, and you know what they say about nature right?

It is for this reason that virginity and sexual purity is preached in every religion. That act is so powerful that it leaves a lasting bond, especially with the person that unsealed it.

neolboy:
Thank God you said almost

Yes. Thank God for that.

Next time, you might not be so lucky.

Namaster:
DON'T get married.
It's POINTLESS!

But if you insist, your bride's virginity must be NON-NEGOTIABLE.

The fact that you are finding it difficult to see a virgin is a SIGN.

It's a sign of the CALIBRE of women out there today:
LOOSE in morals and LOOSE in pussy.

The idea that you can settle down with "one with a good character" is MADNESS!

First of all, virginity is a good MARKER of good character in women. It speaks to a woman's CHASTITY and SEXUAL DISCIPLINE. Both of which are essential to a great home.

PLUS, once a woman is NO longer a virgin. You'll NEVER know her body counts.

She'd swear on ALL the gods that it's NOT more than three. Meanwhile, she's had 3 dicccks in one day. Sometimes, all at ONCE.

But you'll NEVER know. And you'll have to take her words for it.

Finally, there is the issue of GENETIC POLLUTION.

Scientists once conducted an experiment using spiders. They had ONE group of female spiders and TWO groups of male spiders.

One group of the male spiders contained LARGE spiders and the other contained SMALL ones.

First they let the large ones mate with the females. Then they let the small ones IMPREGNATE them.

They found that the OFFSPRINGS carried a SIGNIFICANT trace of the DNA of the mother's previous partner even though he didn't sire them.

At first, the scientists thought that the results were because the LARGE spiders had more dominant and powerful genes.

So they conducted a NEW test with new sets of spiders. This time, the small spiders first mated with the female spiders while the larges ones IMPREGNATED them.

Shockingly, the results were the SAME.
The OFFSPRINGS still had significant levels of the DNA of the mother's previous partner.

Put simply:

Marrying a NON-VIRGIN could result in having children with the genetic qualities of a STRANGE man.

Your child will have more than ONE father.
They will NOT be 100% yours.

A QUASI-BASTARD, if you will.

So insisting on a VIRGIN is not just about you.
It's about your KIDS too.

Virginity in a bride is a standard that must NEVER be compromised.

Who will now marry the none virgins... Angels

I've only learned that in this life there are no set rules or standards; you find and marry a Virgin, you'll still find the pros & cons in doing so, you marry a none virgin who's had 11 exes, you'll still find the pros & cons in doing so 🤷🏾‍♂️

Life didn't come with a manual