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Kemi Olunloyo: 'I’m Not Mourning My Father — He Ruined Our Lives' by iwaeda(op): 9:00am On Apr 10, 2025
“I’m Not Mourning My Father—He Ru!ned Our Lives” – Kemi Olunloyo

Controversial journalist Kemi Olunloyo has publicly rejected condolence messages following her father’s demise , revealing a traumatic childhood marked by emotional and physical torture, alleged occult practices, and infidelity that tore her family apart.

In a video surfaced on her Facebook, Kemi Olunloyo dismissed sympathisers, directing them to her late father’s Facebook page instead. She recounted years of pain, accusing the respected elderstatesman of tearing and ravaging their family through abuse, deception, and reckless decisions that led to a horrific incident that paralyzed her younger brother.

Kemi Olunloyo claimed she had a traumatic childhood experience when her father’s selfishness led to her been molested sexually while her brother was paralyzed . At 13, Olunloyo recounted, her family was set to travel to Lagos, but her father delayed them for hours, claiming he was at work. Her mother warned against the late trip, but he insisted.

We left late, and on the way, hoodlums attacked us,” saying, a rock was hurled into their car, striking her 8-year-old brother, Tayo, and the driver, who died instantly. The assailants then set the vehicle ablaze with the children inside. A rescuer pulled Kemi Olunloyo out, but she hit her head on the pavement and was forced to watch her brother burn alive. She was then sexually assaulted before being rushed to Lagos University Teaching Hospital (LUTH), where she received 17 stitches.

Years later, Olunloyo discovered her father’s delay that day was due to an affair. “He lied. He was sleeping with his mistress while we waited,” she said, her voice laced with bitterness. “My assault all of it was his fault.”

Declaring she would never forgive him, Olunloyo made it clear she felt no grief over his passing. I am not mourning. Send your condolences to his Facebook if you want. I’m still healing from the trauma he caused.”Kemi lamented.
https://informdaily.com.ng/im-not-mourning-my-father-he-runed-our-lives-kemi-olunloyo/


I’m No Longer Part Of Olunloyo Family’, Kemi Olunloyo Reacts To Dad’s Death

Kemi Olunloyo, daughter of late former Oyo State governor, Dr Victor Omololu Olunloyo, has declared that she was not accepting condolences over the demise of her father, who passed away on Sunday, April 6.

The popular social media personality took to her Facebook page on Wednesday to reveal some events that allegedly impacted the family of the late renowned Mathematician and politician before his death.

“I am uploading video statements on my father’s death on TikTok. I am NOT part of the Olunloyo family anymore, and told you that in 2024, that I will never return to Nigeria even if my parents died,” she said.

In another post shortly, Kemi Olunloyo posted a video where she recounted the happenings, blaming her deceased father for allegedly ruining the family.

I am not accepting anybody’s condolences because I am not condoling with anybody. If you want to condole with my father on his death or his family, you need to go to Facebook.com/omololuolunloyo,” Kemi said.

Although she claimed to have forgiven her late father, saying: “I have forgiven my Dad for everything he did.” Yet, the social media influencer lamented, “You don’t know what’s going on in my family and I don’t know what’s going on in your family.

“My father, Victor Omololu Olunloyo is two different people. He was one person to the world; he was another person to the family. My father destroyed our family unit; my father tortured us as kids. He tortured us emotionally and physically. My father ruined the family unit.

“My father marketed me as his favourite daughter and child to the world; he also marketed himself to me as that. But I was far from being his favourite. My father used me for a lot of things. My father did a lot for all of us. When I said used me, he took advantage of my own positive energies.

My father was into ‘juju’ heavily. My father was into occult practices and I called my father out on his 80th birthday. After I called him out, he went to Pastor (EA) Adeboye that he wanted to become born-again and he did.”

She further stated that, “I know that I’m special and I know what God brought me here for. They wanted to kill my story but they didn’t but they killed Tayo; they killed my brother’s child. My brother that died at 51 who was in the ‘Ali Must Go’ car with me; remember he lost about half of brains and was paralysed for 43 years and lived with seizures and no livelihood. Tayo was buried after he died in 2021. Tayo would have been a great Mathematician. They ruined his destiny.”

Kemi Olunloyo attributed the crises in the family to when the late former governor married one Ronke Sonaike who later became Aderonke Omololu Olunloyo whom she claimed was one of the campaign workers for the deceased during his 1983 governorship campaign.

She alleged that the whole family went into ruckus after Ronke became pregnant for her father which infuriated her own mother who saw her husband as an intellectual.

Ms Olunloyo said the woman, who is estimated to be 65 years old, later gave birth to Wura, her first child and later Olumide, a boy and another female, Subomi.

“My mother married an intellectual, a man who got his Ph.D at 26 years old. And he turned into a polygamist. Not that polygamists are not good, but the way it happened to my family.”

She recalled that Ronke was their schoolmate who later became the late Dr Olunloyo’s ‘concubine’.

“When Ronke came into our family, my father started all manners of occult things. It’s too long. It’s too painful.” She further alleged that her stepmother tried at a point to poison her mother which nearly claimed her life but landed her in the hospital.

For her mother’s part, she also recalled a time she put a miniature coffin under Ronke’s son, Olumide’s bed when he was living with the father at Molete. “Ronke said it’s my mom that put it there.”

Kemi Olunloyo further stated that she was not talking with her stepmother and that she was informed by her older sister that “Towards the end of Daddy’s life, nobody had access to him after the 2021 stroke. They couldn’t talk to Daddy on the phone because Ronke did not give anybody access.”
https://leadership.ng/im-no-longer-part-of-olunloyo-family-kemi-olunloyo-reacts-to-dads-death/

Re: Kemi Olunloyo: 'I’m Not Mourning My Father — He Ruined Our Lives' by CodeTemplarr: 9:05am On Apr 10, 2025
Jay jay Otumokpor.

I feel your pain small kemi.
Re: Kemi Olunloyo: 'I’m Not Mourning My Father — He Ruined Our Lives' by MadamExcellency: 9:06am On Apr 10, 2025
She is right to feel indifferent if the horrible experience she narrated is true. Oga needed to atone for his sins and reconcile with the family before he said goodbye.
Re: Kemi Olunloyo: 'I’m Not Mourning My Father — He Ruined Our Lives' by Ibechris2:
Any man that isn't ready to prioritise his family over outsiders is not ready for marriage.
Re: Kemi Olunloyo: 'I’m Not Mourning My Father — He Ruined Our Lives' by illicit(m):
Oh na there she knack head for ground...
Re: Kemi Olunloyo: 'I’m Not Mourning My Father — He Ruined Our Lives' by Bookhub: 9:55am On Apr 10, 2025
Sorry aunty kemi,Many of us our parents really fuccked up they ruined our lives,my mum was the pillar of our home , when she died everywhere scatter, till date my family never unite we don't even love each other as we were dispersed at an early age we see each other as strangers.
As for me I will strive to be a better father to my kids,provide for them,unite them, protect them and give them all the love and good upbringing to make them better than me,I have really suffered trauma.
Re: Kemi Olunloyo: 'I’m Not Mourning My Father — He Ruined Our Lives' by mymadam(m): 9:56am On Apr 10, 2025
Ibechris2:
Any man that isn't ready to prioritised his family over outsiders is not ready for marriage.
💯
Re: Kemi Olunloyo: 'I’m Not Mourning My Father — He Ruined Our Lives' by tishbite41(m): 10:00am On Apr 10, 2025
Toh
But the picture posted up there says otherwise
A picture is worth a thousand words
Re: Kemi Olunloyo: 'I’m Not Mourning My Father — He Ruined Our Lives' by idahme(m): 10:02am On Apr 10, 2025
MadamExcellency:
She is right to feel indifferent if the horrible experience she narrated is true. Oga needed to atone for his sins and reconcile with the family before he said goodbye.
Have you atone for your sins?
Re: Kemi Olunloyo: 'I’m Not Mourning My Father — He Ruined Our Lives' by columbus007(m): 10:20am On Apr 10, 2025
Bookhub:
Sorry aunty kemi,Many of us our parents really fuccked up they ruined our lives,my mum was the pillar of our home , when she died everywhere scatter, till date my family never unite we don't even love each other as we were dispersed at an early age we see each other as strangers.
As for me I will strive to be a better father to my kids,provide for them,unite them, protect them and give them all the love and good upbringing to make them better than me,I have really suffered trauma.
I am on your side bro, we in together, one love
Re: Kemi Olunloyo: 'I’m Not Mourning My Father — He Ruined Our Lives' by voortrekker966: 10:33am On Apr 10, 2025
Many people are not supposed to have children or pets.
Re: Kemi Olunloyo: 'I’m Not Mourning My Father — He Ruined Our Lives' by Baronthecelebri(m): 10:37am On Apr 10, 2025
She's right, I support her
Re: Kemi Olunloyo: 'I’m Not Mourning My Father — He Ruined Our Lives' by 2mch(m): 10:38am On Apr 10, 2025
The problem with all these prostitutes some men carry. They eventually ruin your life and your family. I remember Kemi blasting this man some years ago, so when he died I wonder if she will still blast him and she did. He prioritized sex over the safety of his family.
Re: Kemi Olunloyo: 'I’m Not Mourning My Father — He Ruined Our Lives' by gare(f): 10:59am On Apr 10, 2025
iwaeda:
“I’m Not Mourning My Father—He Ru!ned Our Lives” – Kemi Olunloyo

Controversial journalist Kemi Olunloyo has publicly rejected condolence messages following her father’s demise , revealing a traumatic childhood marked by emotional and physical torture, alleged occult practices, and infidelity that tore her family apart.

In a video surfaced on her Facebook, Kemi Olunloyo dismissed sympathisers, directing them to her late father’s Facebook page instead. She recounted years of pain, accusing the respected elderstatesman of tearing and ravaging their family through abuse, deception, and reckless decisions that led to a horrific incident that paralyzed her younger brother.

Kemi Olunloyo claimed she had a traumatic childhood experience when her father’s selfishness led to her been molested sexually while her brother was paralyzed . At 13, Olunloyo recounted, her family was set to travel to Lagos, but her father delayed them for hours, claiming he was at work. Her mother warned against the late trip, but he insisted.

“We left late, and on the way, hoodlums attacked us,” saying, a rock was hurled into their car, striking her 8-year-old brother, Tayo, and the driver, who died instantly. The assailants then set the vehicle ablaze with the children inside. A rescuer pulled Kemi Olunloyo out, but she hit her head on the pavement and was forced to watch her brother burn alive. She was then sexually assaulted before being rushed to Lagos University Teaching Hospital (LUTH), where she received 17 stitches.

Years later, Olunloyo discovered her father’s delay that day was due to an affair. “He lied. He was sleeping with his mistress while we waited,” she said, her voice laced with bitterness. “My assault all of it was his fault.”

Declaring she would never forgive him, Olunloyo made it clear she felt no grief over his passing. “I am not mourning. Send your condolences to his Facebook if you want. I’m still healing from the trauma he caused.”Kemi lamented.

https://informdaily.com.ng/im-not-mourning-my-father-he-runed-our-lives-kemi-olunloyo/
your business
Re: Kemi Olunloyo: 'I’m Not Mourning My Father — He Ruined Our Lives' by Saga16: 11:17am On Apr 10, 2025
She hasn't recovered from whatever ails her.
Re: Kemi Olunloyo: 'I’m Not Mourning My Father — He Ruined Our Lives' by MaziObinnaokija: 11:23am On Apr 10, 2025
angry
Re: Kemi Olunloyo: 'I’m Not Mourning My Father — He Ruined Our Lives' by Segadem(m): 11:23am On Apr 10, 2025
Hmm
Re: Kemi Olunloyo: 'I’m Not Mourning My Father — He Ruined Our Lives' by MaziObinnaokija: 11:23am On Apr 10, 2025
huh huh
Re: Kemi Olunloyo: 'I’m Not Mourning My Father — He Ruined Our Lives' by theophorus(m): 11:24am On Apr 10, 2025
Okay.

Dear Reader, please raise you Children well ooo, make dem no go cause Disgrace and wahala for town.
Re: Kemi Olunloyo: 'I’m Not Mourning My Father — He Ruined Our Lives' by wazobeer:
She shared a similar story years ago... At the end of the day, what shall it profit a man to gain the whole world and lose his soul? Such is the case of the politicians and cultists in our society today.

Many people are still toeing the same path till now, looking for wealth and power through occultism and fetish practices, but after a few years of having the money, with no grace in their lives, they end up sad and destroy their families.
Re: Kemi Olunloyo: 'I’m Not Mourning My Father — He Ruined Our Lives' by oluwaseyi0: 11:24am On Apr 10, 2025
A rescuer pulled Kemi Olunloyo out, but she hit her head on the pavement and was forced to watch her brother burn alive. She was then sexually assaulted before being rushed to Lagos University Teaching Hospital (LUTH), where she received 17 stitches.
The sexual assault part is not clear at all

The attacker didn't enter the car, they just attacked the car from outside, she was pulled out from the car by a rescuer, so at what point or who sexually assault her?

The rescuers? The doctors?

Some women/ladies just like throwing sexual assault into any and everything thinking it will make their case get weight even if it's a lie

Also the attack could have happen if they travel during the day, that's no one fault unless she is claiming the dad set them up
Re: Kemi Olunloyo: 'I’m Not Mourning My Father — He Ruined Our Lives' by NaijaNaWaa: 11:24am On Apr 10, 2025
I said it. Mad woman.

Guys, especially the singles, pray and work towards a good wife. Every other thing in your life depends on that: your career, children, family, finances… if you check, it’s not unlikely that she was influenced by her mother.

We pray that children like Kemi Olunloyo don’t come to us.
Re: Kemi Olunloyo: 'I’m Not Mourning My Father — He Ruined Our Lives' by Nobody: 11:25am On Apr 10, 2025
That's serious o
Re: Kemi Olunloyo: 'I’m Not Mourning My Father — He Ruined Our Lives' by Christistruth02: 11:25am On Apr 10, 2025
It was because of your father the ex Oyo Gov that many people even bother to listen to you at all

Wether Good or bad he was still your father
Re: Kemi Olunloyo: 'I’m Not Mourning My Father — He Ruined Our Lives' by Kingpele(m): 11:25am On Apr 10, 2025
Insanity
Re: Kemi Olunloyo: 'I’m Not Mourning My Father — He Ruined Our Lives' by maxiuc(m): 11:25am On Apr 10, 2025
grin
Re: Kemi Olunloyo: 'I’m Not Mourning My Father — He Ruined Our Lives' by dododawa1: 11:27am On Apr 10, 2025
she hit her head on the pavement

IS



ENOUGH
Re: Kemi Olunloyo: 'I’m Not Mourning My Father — He Ruined Our Lives' by RealityKings1: 11:27am On Apr 10, 2025
Sometimes it's good to forgive and move on.
Its part of living
Re: Kemi Olunloyo: 'I’m Not Mourning My Father — He Ruined Our Lives' by ClassicEvilSpir: 11:27am On Apr 10, 2025
The world is where it is because the wrong people keep having children. I have been following the Antics of this Journalist, and I sensed she suffered mental trauma, even before she revealed it. Lot of people walking around with trauma. The girls mostly resort to prostitution, and toxic relationships as they now have borderline disorder. The men become sociopaths, criminals, and bad influence. When i was preaching against having children as a broke or incompetent individual, some juvenile mind was finding fault. Same people are out here commenting rubbish, like the one who said "this woman no get brain". No sympathy. These are NPCs, doomed to fill the earth with no real purpose.
Re: Kemi Olunloyo: 'I’m Not Mourning My Father — He Ruined Our Lives' by Built2last: 11:27am On Apr 10, 2025
chai

The diabolism in some families are mind wrecking

Men must be careful

See wetin toto cause. Ruined a family with many lives wasted

Just one woman entered a family and things spiralled. Most times parents don't think the consequence of their actions on their children.

Imagine the man shinning Congo. Delayed and people died. Kemi sexually molested.

It's sad but she needs to forgive him.

A popular saying has it that ''Young men procrastinate. Old men regrets''
Re: Kemi Olunloyo: 'I’m Not Mourning My Father — He Ruined Our Lives' by kennyz247(m): 11:27am On Apr 10, 2025
Ds woman no get brain
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