₦airaland Forum

nairavsdollars:
Some men dey try sha. Upon all free young girls women, you will still rape old women

and you believe the fake story. Let me tell you what actually happened. Her colleague knack her and he no get money to pay for the service 🐕‍🦺🐕‍🦺🐕‍🦺

LoneSoldier:
If indeed you where raped where is the proof and evidence to ascertain such allegations, sadly people who can't read between the lines, will start flooding this thread and spewing trash....

hmm 🤔 na big question be this oooo

TruthsFM:
The rapist should be arrested oooo

She lied. She didn't explain how she got raped. Read her response: Women often respond to sexual assault with self-denial and self-blame. It obvious that she had a fling with the dude, the later ignored her.

nairavsdollars:
Some men dey try sha. Upon all free young girls women, you will still rape old women

Try get sense, u won dey ageshame am na munchopi

press9jatv:
I I was raped by an established person in the broadcast sector. I see him every other day and I get traumatized — Actress Lolo opens up.




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sJyM5PH1dvE

Almost all naija women have being raped 😐 anyway we wey be the real victim of rape never come out to say it 😏

JustAndy:
Almost all naija women have being raped 😐 anyway we wey be the real victim of rape never come out to say it 😏

Abeg come out and say it jare. Come out and shame the devil

TruthsFM:
The rapist should be arrested oooo

what is stopping you from effecting the arrest?

do you know the identity of who you want to arrest?

who is the colleague?

why is she announcing it after 6years?

Kobojunkie:
Rape is forced penetration. And I am telling you that she can do so. She can get him drunk and force herself on him. She can even have him held down by others and force herself on him. Again, the general population of men out there, particularly in developing countries, is not disciplined when it comes to their ideas regarding sex. So, arousal for them is not a feat as you would assume.

Another angle that is not addressed is that rape against men is also many times carried out by men. A lot of boys and men are raped, not by women but by other boys or men. These go largely unreported by the victims.

Why do you keep bringing up man on mam??! We're talking a woman violently raping a man!
And by the way, rape doesn't have to be forced - any penetration of a minor or by a minor is rape (even if they initiated it, lied to you about their age, and totally enjoyed it)

QuinQ:
➜Why do you keep bringing up man on mam??!
➜We're talking a woman violently raping a man!
➜ And by the way, rape doesn't have to be forced - any penetration of a minor or by a minor is rape (even if they initiated it, lied to you about their age, and totally enjoyed it)

Well, rape of men includes rape of men by men, doesn't it?

2. That is also rape.

3. All rape is non-consensual . i.e. forced. The penetration of a minor is done against the law— without consent of the law itself—, hence, forced.

ThothHermes:
Exactly. The word rape is used ambiguously. She probably had a dalliance with the unamed man who probably had his way in a manner she did not like and she's using the word rape.
She probably just seeking the guy's attention. If she names him, the guy will say it was consensual and probably bring a lawsuit against her.

U just spelt my thoughts out.
She was most probably swayed into the sex. Most probably didnt get what she wanted or did it reluctantly. But it was DEFINITELY NOT RAPE as in the Rape we know as rape. Violently or Quietly when drugged into unconsciousness
SHE'S CAPPING

If you get evidence, speck, but if not, auntie stfu

A grown woman like you still bothered about what people will say in a matter of this nature? I don't believe this gist abeg. It's not like you were a minor 6years ago. If it's true, report the fellow to police abi ministry of women affairs and let them investigate the matter. No need for this social media courtroom.

tnerro1:
If you get evidence, speck, but if not, auntie stfu

What evidence does she need to provide for you to believe her cry should be given your ears?

Neddyogu:
➜A grown woman like you still bothered about what people will say in a matter of this nature? I don't believe this gist abeg. It's not like you were a minor 6years ago. If it's true, report the fellow to police abi ministry of women affairs and let them investigate the matter. No need for this social media courtroom.

Even in your villages, old women are still being raped. yet none of them dare open their mouths, and for good reason, because they risk being ostracized by society to this day. Most of the cases we read of today are cases where said rape was witnessed by third parties(more than one person) and/or the victim of rape was physically assaulted at the same time.

Kobojunkie:
Well, rape of men includes rape of men by men, doesn't it?

2. That is also rape.

3. All rape is non-consensual . i.e. forced. The penetration of a minor is done against the law— without consent of the law itself—, hence, forced.

1. But that's clearly NOT what we're discussing

2. Yet it is not forced

3. You're talking crap sir, ridiculously twisting words instead of simply admitting u were wrong.
It is called statutory rape because it is defined as rape by statute. Has nothing to do with force

[quote author=QuinQ post=134933125] 1. But that's clearly NOT what we're discussing
2. Yet it is not forced
3. You're talking crap sir, ridiculously twisting words instead of simply admitting u were wrong.
It is called statutory rape because it is defined as rape by statute. Has nothing to do with force[/quote]1. I felt it needed to be emphasized at the same time since rape against men is not as simple as women against men or something like that which we typically find the pages on here covereded with on a regular basis.

2. Rape is force!

3. Violation of the law or the rights of another is considered a use of force against another.

Watin be the man name?

When 2 adult FK demself the other will claim r@pe because she saw the guy with another lady

BigDickProblems:
Not bad mouth, but pls what type of guy would find this woman attractive to an extent of raping her??

I taya oooh.
I smell lies, if not.
Let her name the person with substantial claims

Kobojunkie:
What evidence does she need to provide for you to believe her cry should be given your ears?

So if a woman just stands and and says ur father raped her, so you will just say daddy why without asking how it happened and who was there to collaborate the story, you where raised wrong bro.

A woman agreed to meet a man in a hotel room only to come back to say he raped her, auntie what do you think was going to happen in a hotel room with a man you barely know , play ludo?

Try avoid especially office relationship, cause when the woman doesn’t get what she wants, she will try to destroy your career by claiming rape even if the sex was 6 years ago. We need to stand up for us men unless she provides evidence then we can deal with the sob

Soon they will start accusing people of sexual assault from a previous life.

press9jatv:
I I was raped by an established person in the broadcast sector. I see him every other day and I get traumatized — Actress Lolo opens up.




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sJyM5PH1dvE

tnerro1:
➜So if a woman just stands and and says ur father raped her, so you will just say daddy why without asking how it happened and who was there to collaborate the story, you where raised wrong bro. A woman agreed to meet a man in a hotel room only to come back to say he raped her, auntie what do you think was going to happen in a hotel room with a man you barely know , play ludo?

Again, what evidence does she need to provide for you to believe her cry should be given your ears?

Kobojunkie:
What evidence does she need to provide for you to believe her cry should be given your ears?

Hmmm
Make them no manipulate and accuse you one day

Achor1111:
Hmmm Make them no manipulate and accuse you one day

Why are you all having a hard time stating in clear details the evidence a rape victim must present to get your ears on the matter of their supposed violation?

The same way these things—accusations of rape— only happen to less than 0.01% of the populace is the same way I know for a fact that it can never happen to me, by the way. That number there means that the vast majority are already intelligent enough on how not to get themselves into situations that may lead to such accusations.

You these daughters of Jezebel,don't think we, the real men,will fold our arms and allow you to bring down another man with your usual cooked up story - he raped me - no,we won't!

Madam,if you were truly raped,bring out your proof and name the person. Mind you,every details of the circumstance under which your claim took place will be carefully examined- it won't be your words against your alleged rapist because you're a woman! Why didn't you speak up immediately it happened? Why now? We sincerely hope that this is not a case of secret love affairs gone south/sour and you suddenly remember being raped by whoever!

The other day,it was one Natasha,and here you're too with your own story - I was raped by a colleague! Bring out your proof,madam or remain silent forever!

Kobojunkie:
1. I felt it needed to be emphasized at the same time since rape against men is not as simple as women against men or something like that which we typically find the pages on here covereded with on a regular basis.

2. Rape is force!

3. Violation of the law or the rights of another is considered a use of force against another.

1) Why didn't you also include w on w rapes. Simple: it's not our discussion

2) This makes you sound really uneducated sir. Try to stop making such statements

3) I can't believe an educated person is actually saying this. So, example, if you lie under oat, etc, where's the force?
You are wrong sir - rape is fundamentally about lack of consent NOT force. If an adult consents that you force sex on them (eg while asleep), it is NOT rape.
Here's a comprehensive definition of rape sir. Keep it in your pocket.

Rape is defined as sexual activity without consent, regardless of whether force is used (bearing in mind that minors, mentally ill, and people under influence cannot give consent)

Kobojunkie:
Again, what evidence does she need to provide for you to believe her cry should be given your ears?

Uncle , co workers just don rape each other, there will be a toasting stage, text messages, people will notice both of you in the office. Someone will testify to his interest in you, you may receive gifts from him, you should tell your auntie to tell the full story not these innuendos she is dropping. So if she calls him name and he says , I only wanted sex but you wanted more, will it still be rape

Firebox123:
didn't your mum tell you she was rape to give birth to you

Ask your mum who/where your real dad is

Yes na. You know they gang rape your mother but your assumed father has to take the responsibility. You are a bastard child.

QuinQ:
1) Why didn't you also include w on w rapes. Simple: it's not our discussion
2) This makes you sound really uneducated sir. Try to stop making such statements
3) I can't believe an educated person is actually saying this. So, example, if you lie under oat, etc, where's the force?
You are wrong sir - rape is fundamentally about lack of consent NOT force. If an adult consents that you force sex on them (eg while asleep), it is NOT rape.
Here's a comprehensive definition of rape sir. Keep it in your pocket.
Rape is defined as sexual activity without consent, regardless of whether force is used (bearing in mind that minors, mentally ill, and people under influence cannot give consent)

1. I would have if I had information on that. But since I didn't, I left it out.

2. That you are late to realizing rape for what it truly is has nothing to do with my education.

3. Now you are just dribbling! Again, lack of consent amounts to force. If the Law does not consent, it is considered force; if the individual turned victim(with the consent of the law) also does not give consent, it is also considered an act of force.

press9jatv:
hardly will you see it. It’s very rare

it's not rare,oga

tnerro1:
➜Uncle , co workers just don rape each other, there will be a toasting stage, text messages, people will notice both of you in the office. Someone will testify to his interest in you, you may receive gifts from him, you should tell your auntie to tell the full story not these innuendos she is dropping. So if she calls him name and he says , I only wanted sex but you wanted more, will it still be rape

Again, what evidence does she need to provide for you to believe her cry should be given your ears? Why are you having a hard time with this? Why do you continue to resort to telling stories that make no sense to what is requested? Answer the original question, which is based on your claim that evidence is necessary.