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Good day, fellas. Marriage would have been a wonderful thing but hardship and poverty ruined it. Yes, it ruined the joy in it. The joy of raising a family and living happily.

So, your parents and their mates in their own generation didn't see poverty?

PresidObi:
So, your parents and their mates in their own generation didn't see poverty?

You could have made your point without insulting your poor and miserable parents.

Truvelisback:
Good day, fellas. Marriage would have been a wonderful thing but hardship and poverty ruined it. Yes, it ruined the joy in it. The joy of raising a family and living happily.

Marriage and living happily is not all about wealth.

Many wealthy families are not happy.

Celestialsword:
Marriage and living happily is not all about wealth.

Many wealthy families are not happy.

You are right. However, i am talking abt the difficulty in meeting up the basic needs like food, clothes, shelter etc.

Truvelisback:
You could have made your point without insulting your poor and miserable parents.

Which word is insulting in the response?

Truvelisback:
You could have made your point without insulting your poor and miserable parents.

How is that harmless question an insult?

Seems you're on the edge. Try and chill a bit.

immortalcrown:
Which word is insulting in the response?

I wonder o

Truvelisback:
You are right. However, i am talking abt the difficulty in meeting up the basic needs like food, clothes, shelter etc.

If you're not living above your means, those things you mentioned up there can be met.

The major problem people has is putting their coat where their hands can't touch it, cutting their cloth according to their size.

Imagine someone earnings 50k a month, living in a there bedroom flat and also impregnating his wife every year.

Marriage would be a wonderful thing between 2 individuals who understands the three basic anchor of a true relationship:

1. Genuineness
2. Contentment
3. Cooperation

I tell people, money is never gon' be an issue where there is true love and both partners ain't lazy.