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A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by Samantha125(op): 6:25pm On Apr 12, 2025
There's a girl by the name of Thandeka Xaba who's been trending and crying for SA to help her locate her maternal family in SA... According to her, her Nigerian father took her to Nigeria after her mother's death and abandoned her with his wife there, he then returned back to SA... She's been subjected to one hardship after the other.

Apparently she's been physically abused and raped in Nigeria while her paternal family rejected her due to her mother's nationality... Her mother was not married to her father, hence she still calls by her mother's surname... Fortunately for her, her maternal family saw the video and reached out to her... She again alleged that SA women keep dying mysteriously in Nigeria and doesn't want to be next.

I thought you Nigerian men always take pride in looking after your children, now what is this?🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7J192FzlTDo?si=DZbaCI5GvHVUWvsV

Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by Fineman2: 6:30pm On Apr 12, 2025
How do you know she's been physically abused and raped?
Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by Ganjafama(m): 6:42pm On Apr 12, 2025
Thank God her mother's family reached out to her.
Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by Mariangeles(f): 6:46pm On Apr 12, 2025
I won't say that she's lying, but they should investigate to make sure all that she said was the truth.
Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by Samantha125(op): 6:53pm On Apr 12, 2025
Where did I say I knowhuh🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️
Fineman2:
How do you know she's been physically abused and raped?
Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by Fineman2: 6:57pm On Apr 12, 2025
Samantha125:
Where did I say I knowhuh🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️
it's what you posted
Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by Samantha125(op): 7:02pm On Apr 12, 2025
Show me where I said "I know"...🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️

Fineman2:
it's what you posted
Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by bigiyaro(m): 7:06pm On Apr 12, 2025
Having a Nigerian father makes her full fledge Nigerian, I don't understand this your "south African girl" thing.
Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by Samantha125(op): 7:10pm On Apr 12, 2025
Her mother was not married to her father and she still calls by her mother's surname...🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️

Allegedly, he also took her to Nigeria without her maternal family's knowledge.
bigiyaro:
Having a Nigerian father makes her full fledge Nigerian, I don't understand this your "south African girl" thing.
Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by AndroBlaze: 9:27pm On Apr 12, 2025
Samantha125:
There's a girl by the name of Thandeka Xaba who's been trending and crying for SA to help her locate her maternal family in SA... According to her, her Nigerian father took her to Nigeria after her mother's death and abandoned her with his wife there, he then returned back to SA... She's been subjected to one hardship after the other.

Apparently she's been physically abused and raped in Nigeria while her paternal family rejected her due to her mother's nationality... Her mother was not married to her father, hence she still calls by her mother's surname... Fortunately for her, her maternal family saw the video and reached out to her... She again alleged that SA women keep dying mysteriously in Nigeria and doesn't want to be next.

I thought you Nigerian men always take pride in looking after your children, now what is this?🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7J192FzlTDo?si=DZbaCI5GvHVUWvsV
The girl should just say she wants to go home and stop making up stories.

I mean if it's about rape, sexual abuse or immorality, Nigerians are saints compared to SA.

Please let the SA authorities take her, biko.
Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by DeeScan: 11:57pm On Apr 12, 2025
Mtcheeeew ..


Cock and bull story..
Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by Kingsasian(m): 3:29am On Apr 13, 2025
Why didn't she mention the name of her father??
Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by glolomoh:
Samantha125:
There's a girl by the name of Thandeka Xaba who's been trending and crying for SA to help her locate her maternal family in SA... According to her, her Nigerian father took her to Nigeria after her mother's death and abandoned her with his wife there, he then returned back to SA... She's been subjected to one hardship after the other.

Apparently she's been physically abused and raped in Nigeria while her paternal family rejected her due to her mother's nationality... Her mother was not married to her father, hence she still calls by her mother's surname... Fortunately for her, her maternal family saw the video and reached out to her... She again alleged that SA women keep dying mysteriously in Nigeria and doesn't want to be next.z

I thought you Nigerian men always take pride in looking after your children, now what is this?🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7J192FzlTDo?si=DZbaCI5GvHVUWvsV
Before you embark on your ethnocentric and sarcastic expedition, kindly prove to us that the narratives is true by providing the following information:

1. What is the name of her father and step mother ?
2. Where is her location in Nigeria? We need her to support her answer with videos showing this location.
3. How is she being dehumanised in nigeria?
4. Is the allegation of physical abuse or rape coming from her or it is your own spice to the soup ?

If you are unable to revert with these feedback within reasonable period, stay goofed.

We are Nigerians, xenophobia is not in our DNA
Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by meobizy(m): 7:59am On Apr 13, 2025
Tales by moonlight.

Samantha125:
There's a girl by the name of Thandeka Xaba who's been trending and crying for SA to help her locate her maternal family in SA... According to her, her Nigerian father took her to Nigeria after her mother's death and abandoned her with his wife there, he then returned back to SA... She's been subjected to one hardship after the other.

Apparently she's been physically abused and raped in Nigeria while her paternal family rejected her due to her mother's nationality... Her mother was not married to her father, hence she still calls by her mother's surname... Fortunately for her, her maternal family saw the video and reached out to her... She again alleged that SA women keep dying mysteriously in Nigeria and doesn't want to be next.

I thought you Nigerian men always take pride in looking after your children, now what is this?🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7J192FzlTDo?si=DZbaCI5GvHVUWvsV
Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by Samantha125(op): 8:47am On Apr 13, 2025
Unfortunately, I'm not here to prove anything to anyone.

If you want answers, go and ask her because I'm not her... Xenophobia is not in your DNA indeed...🤣🤣🤣

And how can I make up something that she said herself? It's obvious you didn't watch the video.
glolomoh:
Before you embark on your ethnocentric and sarcastic expedition, kindly prove to us that the narratives is true by providing the following information:

1. What is the name of her father and step mother ?
2. Where is her location in Nigeria? We need her to support her answer with videos showing this location.
3. How is she being dehumanised in nigeria?
4. Is the allegation of physical abuse or rape coming from her or your own spice to the soup ?

If you are unable to revert with these feedback within reasonable period, stay goofed.

We are Nigerians, xenophobia is not in our DNA
Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by Samantha125(op): 8:52am On Apr 13, 2025
Because he's useless... Why mention a man who abandoned you and cut all communication with your maternal family?
Kingsasian:
Why didn't she mention the name of her father??
Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by eastOFwest(m): 8:52am On Apr 13, 2025
Kingsasian:
Why didn't she mention the name of her father??
So that you can judge eh grin
Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by Samantha125(op): 8:53am On Apr 13, 2025
Nigerians are saints indeed...🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
AndroBlaze:
The girl should just say she wants to go home and stop making up stories.

I mean if it's about rape, sexual abuse or immorality, Nigerians are saints compared to SA.

Please let the SA authorities take her, biko.
Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by glolomoh: 2:06pm On Apr 13, 2025
Samantha125:
Unfortunately, I'm not here to prove anything to anyone.

If you want answers, go and ask her because I'm not her... Xenophobia is not in your DNA indeed...🤣🤣🤣

And how can I make up something that she said herself? It's obvious you didn't watch the video.
You brought it here. Don't be clever by half. We are Nigerians, we can't be gaslighted.
Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by Baronthecelebri(m): 2:23pm On Apr 13, 2025
Nonsense
Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by OwoukoUrua(m): 2:59pm On Apr 13, 2025
It's funny how certain Sad Africans are so obsessed with Nairaland of late.
Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by Kingsasian(m): 3:32pm On Apr 13, 2025
Samantha125:
Because he's useless... Why mention a man who abandoned you and cut all communication with your maternal family?
she should have mentored his name so that her story will sound more authentic and also to expose him as well
Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by Samantha125(op): 3:49pm On Apr 13, 2025
I don't know what you're talking about...🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️
glolomoh:
You brought it here. Don't be clever by half. We are Nigerians, we can't be gaslighted.
Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by jamesversion: 4:15pm On Apr 13, 2025
Samantha125:
There's a girl by the name of Thandeka Xaba who's been trending and crying for SA to help her locate her maternal family in SA... According to her, her Nigerian father took her to Nigeria after her mother's death and abandoned her with his wife there, he then returned back to SA... She's been subjected to one hardship after the other.

Apparently she's been physically abused and raped in Nigeria while her paternal family rejected her due to her mother's nationality... Her mother was not married to her father, hence she still calls by her mother's surname... Fortunately for her, her maternal family saw the video and reached out to her... She again alleged that SA women keep dying mysteriously in Nigeria and doesn't want to be next.

I thought you Nigerian men always take pride in looking after your children, now what is this?🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7J192FzlTDo?si=DZbaCI5GvHVUWvsV
I'm actually planning a visit to SA with the sole aim of impregnating 15-20 women across all SAn races.

Now, wouldn't that be amazing? cheesy
Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by DeeScan: 4:16pm On Apr 13, 2025
jamesversion:
I'm actually planning a visit to SA with the sole aim of impregnating 15-20 women across all SAn races.

Now, wouldn't that be amazing? cheesy
Absolutely amazing

Lol ...
Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by Samantha125(op): 4:25pm On Apr 13, 2025
Good luck...😏😏😏
jamesversion:
I'm actually planning a visit to SA with the sole aim of impregnating 15-20 women across all SAn races.

Now, wouldn't that be amazing? cheesy
Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by Double0h7(f): 4:59pm On Apr 13, 2025
Poor kid.. it seems she has her happy ending because her maternal family have found her. In time she'll be back to SA. I didn't appreciate op's attempts at generalising and demonising Nigerian men as if they all fathered this girl. This is an isolated case and op's attempts are DOA.
Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by EDGEof2MORO: 5:49pm On Apr 13, 2025
Samantha125:
Where did I say I knowhuh🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️
Fineman2:
it's what you posted
bro, it just shows some idiots just copy and paste things on the internet without even reading it. they don't have a working brain
Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by EDGEof2MORO: 5:51pm On Apr 13, 2025
glolomoh:
Before you embark on your ethnocentric and sarcastic expedition, kindly prove to us that the narratives is true by providing the following information:

1. What is the name of her father and step mother ?
2. Where is her location in Nigeria? We need her to support her answer with videos showing this location.
3. How is she being dehumanised in nigeria?
4. Is the allegation of physical abuse or rape coming from her or your own spice to the soup ?

If you are unable to revert with these feedback within reasonable period, stay goofed.

We are Nigerians, xenophobia is not in our DNA
don't waste your precious time on this. the cow that posted it did not even read it
Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by Samantha125(op): 5:51pm On Apr 13, 2025
🤔🤔🤔🤔
EDGEof2MORO:
bro, it just shows some idiots just copy and paste things on the internet without even reading it. they don't have a working brain
Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by Samantha125(op): 5:57pm On Apr 13, 2025
I get you neh, but your men are also always generalizing South Africans and I'm sure you never complain when they do... I'm not here to fight anyone, but I'm just doing what the Romans do since I'm in Rome.
Double0h7:
Poor kid.. it seems she has her happy ending because her maternal family have found her. In time she'll be back to SA. I didn't appreciate op's attempts at generalising and demonising Nigerian men as if they all fathered this girl. This is an isolated case and op's attempts are DOA.
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