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They are everywhere. Bunch of entitled parasites. That was how I assisted someone in November with money to rent a shop while living in my house. This person went and rented a house instead, never bothered about the shop and moved out. Most annoying was how this person went around spreading falsehood that I gave money and collected it back. Wetin happen?

There a lot of ingrates in this country and they are always complaining, they are never contented all they know how to do is complain and they are very lazy as well , not ready to work and you see them blaming government for everything that happen to them

blacksam01:
There is nothing bad here

Bros I fit drop my aza ? Abeg🙏

helinues:
Mr Layi the law. My man

I sent a guy money around middle of last year he was complaining of his generator not working, and I sent him money to repair his gen, buy fuel, subscribe internet and have something extra. Annoyingly,this guy didn't even ask me directly, he said he wanted to go and carry generator somewhere which I asked him what would the person be using again. I was like instead of inconveniency others, make I assist voluntarily .

Less than 24 hours, my guy was telling me he has exhausted the money that I should assist with more. I just simply told him I sent the last money in my account to him

100k in less than 24 hours when no be say na so I dey see money

Modified: All the people who are calling me a liar on this thread, is that how N100k is just so big to them. I swear to almighty God, I have made more than N100k today, Aje.

Dashing someone N100k na even manageable considering the Nigeria economy.

We be Omo ologo latipe, we no be Omo ologogoro like Portable who have landed himself in another trouble. He was in court today, probably reminded.

Alhamdullilahi for the grace because no be about being sabi, na just abundance grace

helinues:
Mr Layi the law. My man

I sent a guy money around middle of last year he was complaining of his generator not working, and I sent him money to repair his gen, buy fuel, subscribe internet and have something extra. Annoyingly,this guy didn't even ask me directly, he said he wanted to go and carry generator somewhere which I asked him what would the person be using again. I was like instead of inconveniency others, make I assist voluntarily .

Less than 24 hours, my guy was telling me he has exhausted the money that I should assist with more. I just simply told him I sent the last money in my account to him

100k in less than 24 hours when no be say na so I dey see money

Modified: All the people who are calling me a liar on this thread, is that how N100k is just so big to them. I swear to almighty God, I have made more than N100k today, Aje.

Dashing someone N100k na even manageable considering the Nigeria economy.

We be Omo ologo latipe, we no be Omo ologogoro like Portable who have landed himself in another trouble. He was in court today, probably reminded.

Alhamdullilahi for the grace because no be about being sabi, na just abundance grace

See person when dey see Lapo people dey run. This T pain government never show you reach. Your eye go clear.
You get 100k naim you still carry failure for head🤷‍♀️

Acidosis:
Does it matter?

How can someone pay your rent, and you’re only sending them “thanks”, "tnx", "fenx" or "lol" ? Omo, I would report that transaction as a false transaction to my bank, get my money back, and share it with normal human beings.

Someone gave Tony Elumelu a “common” tie, and he posted it on his Instagram for the world to see. That’s genuine gratitude.

Stop normalising psychiatric problems.

Have U thank God today for allowing u to live, breathe, peacefully eat & shyt?... probably not!!

At d bolded, Ur intentions were never pure to begin with nigga, just like tulumbu U give expecting something from Ur fellow human like ego massage or blind loyalty. , if not, why go 2 d extent of lieng to get d money back, I don't even think tulumbu would be dis shameless

Send money once and they will turn you into their personal loan app. I’m trying to teach acquaintances that my generosity is a one-time deal.

Some of those guys fit never even say their morning prayers, but them dey breath God's air for free to talk about how "thank you" no do them.

Make them no ever need oxygen for hospital.

helinues:
What exactly is some of you problem?

Why are you not allowing others to express themselves even if you don't have opinion of yours?

Make una stop this uninspiring attitude jare. Una go dey troll others senselessly inside this beautiful life. Stop being an opinion killer

Radarada

Earn per post and comment sighted!

A man would have done better.
Some women think helping them is a right.
Have you paid a man t-fare before and see the reaction in his eyes.

May be I might be regarded as an ingrate too. I had a challenge in my business, but due to my good relationship with my supplier he decided to be giving me goods on credit to make payments after sales. A friend abroad was aware of my challenges sent in 100k to assist. I appreciated his kind gesture. Then news got to my supplier who wasn't even aware how much I received, he started acting funny. Stopped supplying me giving some flimsy excuses. But I later learnt from people that he said my friend sent me money but I choose to invest it elsewhere. The supply is worth 1.5m, my business has been down I contacted my guy if he could help me with a loan of 500k explaining my situation but he didn't reply uptil now. I think he has tagged me as an ingrate.

Elsueno:
Have U thank God today for allowing u to live, breathe, peacefully eat & shyt?... probably not!!

At d bolded, Ur intentions were never pure to begin with nigga, just like tulumbu U give expecting something from Ur fellow human like ego massage or blind loyalty. , if not, why go 2 d extent of lieng to get d money back, I don't even think tulumbu would be dis shameless

No wahala. As I collect my money back without shame, you will go and hustle to earn money. That way, you wouldn't have to thank anybody for paying your rent 😅😅

papiilo:
help me with 5k then 0211206511 gtb

Una no dey shame at all?

Yes, that is why is decided to not give at least this year, sanity is good

A lot of entitled and ungrateful, they will just keep asking and asking until the person is dry and sufficiently drained of life and useless

gimme gimme gimme nawa

xtivin:
Not everyone sha,
A former colleague of mine in the office had his brother kidnapped along Benin-Owo road,it happens I was able to support 200k for Ransome payment. Guy has not stopped messages to still express how grateful he was. Gratitude gives more confidence to do more,it's just unfortunate how most people have developed entitlement mentality in recent times

helinues:
Mr Layi the law. My man

I sent a guy money around middle of last year he was complaining of his generator not working, and I sent him money to repair his gen, buy fuel, subscribe internet and have something extra. Annoyingly,this guy didn't even ask me directly, he said he wanted to go and carry generator somewhere which I asked him what would the person be using again. I was like instead of inconveniency others, make I assist voluntarily .

Less than 24 hours, my guy was telling me he has exhausted the money that I should assist with more. I just simply told him I sent the last money in my account to him

100k in less than 24 hours when no be say na so I dey see money

Modified: All the people who are calling me a liar on this thread, is that how N100k is just so big to them. I swear to almighty God, I have made more than N100k today, Aje.

Dashing someone N100k na even manageable considering the Nigeria economy.

We be Omo ologo latipe, we no be Omo ologogoro like Portable who have landed himself in another trouble. He was in court today, probably reminded.

Alhamdullilahi for the grace because no be about being sabi, na just abundance grace

Please please please. Make we hear word.

helinues:
Mr Layi the law. My man

I sent a guy money around middle of last year he was complaining of his generator not working, and I sent him money to repair his gen, buy fuel, subscribe internet and have something extra. Annoyingly,this guy didn't even ask me directly, he said he wanted to go and carry generator somewhere which I asked him what would the person be using again. I was like instead of inconveniency others, make I assist voluntarily .

Less than 24 hours, my guy was telling me he has exhausted the money that I should assist with more. I just simply told him I sent the last money in my account to him

100k in less than 24 hours when no be say na so I dey see money

Modified: All the people who are calling me a liar on this thread, is that how N100k is just so big to them. I swear to almighty God, I have made more than N100k today, Aje.

Dashing someone N100k na even manageable considering the Nigeria economy.

We be Omo ologo latipe, we no be Omo ologogoro like Portable who have landed himself in another trouble. He was in court today, probably reminded.

Alhamdullilahi for the grace because no be about being sabi, na just abundance grace

Is it from Tinubu 30k/month agbado moni that you take see 100k? Who do you think that you are deceiving?

helinues:
Mr Layi the law. My man

I sent a guy money around middle of last year he was complaining of his generator not working, and I sent him money to repair his gen, buy fuel, subscribe internet and have something extra. Annoyingly,this guy didn't even ask me directly, he said he wanted to go and carry generator somewhere which I asked him what would the person be using again. I was like instead of inconveniency others, make I assist voluntarily .

Less than 24 hours, my guy was telling me he has exhausted the money that I should assist with more. I just simply told him I sent the last money in my account to him

100k in less than 24 hours when no be say na so I dey see money

Modified: All the people who are calling me a liar on this thread, is that how N100k is just so big to them. I swear to almighty God, I have made more than N100k today, Aje.

Dashing someone N100k na even manageable considering the Nigeria economy.

We be Omo ologo latipe, we no be Omo ologogoro like Portable who have landed himself in another trouble. He was in court today, probably reminded.

Alhamdullilahi for the grace because no be about being sabi, na just abundance grace

Chief you that you see that money mention there na big money

If I fit see like 5k now to chow and sustain till salary drop next week I go so happy

More blessing to you

I think she is a Sulia who is trying to be Jenifer. Her thanks is trying to be posh forming foneh but don't know English well. Thank you very much is formal way of saying I really appreciate it. Thanks is a casual or informal way of saying appreciate.
She also could be giving green light for closeness.

E no go beta for ypu n your papa for this comment.

Racoon:
When offering help, don't be fixated on being thanked or otherwise. Let love in doing something good be a sacrificial thing.

ExAngel007:
X users are sharing their experiences with
ingrates after skitmaker Layi Wasabi raised a
question via his tweet.

https://alexis.lindaikejisblog.com/photos/shares/Screenshot_20250414_111310_X_1744635592.jpg

"I know say heartbreak dey pain o but you don
help ingrate before?" Layi wrote on X.
One woman shared how she paid NGN430,000
for someone's rent and all the person said was
thanks.

https://alexis.lindaikejisblog.com/photos/shares/20250414_135335_1744635610.jpg

https://alexis.lindaikejisblog.com/photos/shares/Screenshot_20250414_111614_X_1744635610.jpg



One man shared a chat with someone he gave
money and it shows the person acknowledging
receipt with just "T". When he asked, the
recipient told him T is for thanks.

See below.

https://alexis.lindaikejisblog.com/photos/shares/Screenshot_20250414_111957_X_1744635631.jpg

https://alexis.lindaikejisblog.com/photos/shares/20250414_112008_1744635645.jpg

https://alexis.lindaikejisblog.com/photos/shares/20250414_112013_1744635671.jpg


https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2025/4/man-shares-message-he-received-from-an-ingrate-he-gave-money-2.html

T for Thanks?
Moralfvker

Hell, but when a person that genuinely need your help ask you people on NL -- you guys were so quick in tagging them scammer...

Mtcheeew
Make una shift, nonsense and ingredients

MORIERA:
Chief you that you see that money mention there na big money

If I fit see like 5k now to chow and sustain till salary drop next week I go so happy

More blessing to you

Watch how he will ghost you..
Sit down there

Appreciation opens more blessing doors…..remember when I profusely thanked an unknown man who helped with 50k he was so moved he added 107k extra for me that same day. God bless you wherever you are cos till now you still kept ur identity hidden while you met me at the point I needed help most in my life

I have discovered that you just have to decide that you'd be a good person in his life whether you're appreciated or not.

Let me share my experience.

There's this guy who's a graduate teaching in one primary school where he was being payed 20k per month in the village. His mum is a friend to my wife.

We just thought about the woman and the son and my wife suggested we try to help. So we asked him to come to Lagos.

He lived with us for 7 months before we got him a job with one of the big 4 by God's grace. After 5 months he moved out closer to their office.

Now this guy doesn't bother to say Hi when we meet in church. He just throws away his face and avoids us.

Not that anyone expects a worship if they have been good to you but please show that you appreciate their sacrifice.

Please stop this sense of entitlement.

You lose nothing by acknowledging those who have been good to you.

Even God expects that you say "Thank you" when he blesses you.

helinues:
Mr Layi the law. My man

I sent a guy money around middle of last year he was complaining of his generator not working, and I sent him money to repair his gen, buy fuel, subscribe internet and have something extra. Annoyingly,this guy didn't even ask me directly, he said he wanted to go and carry generator somewhere which I asked him what would the person be using again. I was like instead of inconveniency others, make I assist voluntarily .

Less than 24 hours, my guy was telling me he has exhausted the money that I should assist with more. I just simply told him I sent the last money in my account to him

100k in less than 24 hours when no be say na so I dey see money

Modified: All the people who are calling me a liar on this thread, is that how N100k is just so big to them. I swear to almighty God, I have made more than N100k today, Aje.

Dashing someone N100k na even manageable considering the Nigeria economy.

We be Omo ologo latipe, we no be Omo ologogoro like Portable who have landed himself in another trouble. He was in court today, probably reminded.

Alhamdullilahi for the grace because no be about being sabi, na just abundance grace

Thank God you agreed here (@boldened) that your party and your papa have succeeded in grinding the country to a halt and people are barely surviving in the mismanaged economy; people calling you a liar are so on point because your N33k stipend (has it increased to 70k) is barely enough to feed you alone

I borrow person 100k for neighborhood since 2017 to complete house rent. Na with fight I take collect 50k last yr December.

helinues:
What exactly is some of you problem?

Why are you not allowing others to express themselves even if you don't have opinion of yours?

Make una stop this uninspiring attitude jare. Una go dey troll others senselessly inside this beautiful life. Stop being an opinion killer

Radarada

don't stress yourself replying people who don't believe your story.

helinues:
Mr Layi the law. My man

I sent a guy money around middle of last year he was complaining of his generator not working, and I sent him money to repair his gen, buy fuel, subscribe internet and have something extra. Annoyingly,this guy didn't even ask me directly, he said he wanted to go and carry generator somewhere which I asked him what would the person be using again. I was like instead of inconveniency others, make I assist voluntarily .

Less than 24 hours, my guy was telling me he has exhausted the money that I should assist with more. I just simply told him I sent the last money in my account to him

100k in less than 24 hours when no be say na so I dey see money

Modified: All the people who are calling me a liar on this thread, is that how N100k is just so big to them. I swear to almighty God, I have made more than N100k today, Aje.

Dashing someone N100k na even manageable considering the Nigeria economy.

We be Omo ologo latipe, we no be Omo ologogoro like Portable who have landed himself in another trouble. He was in court today, probably reminded.

Alhamdullilahi for the grace because no be about being sabi, na just abundance grace

.

We4all:
Lol... I can relate, but I don't see it as a big deal. Nonetheless, there is a difference between 'thanks', and 'thank you very much, I am very grateful'. The later will make your benefactor do more for you, but the former can make them think twice. Whenever I complete a gig and I receive my credit alert, I always aclnowledge with a 'thank you'. Some people won't see the need since they feel they are getting paid for their services, but I do it all the time because I was raised to acknowledge a kind gesture with a 'thank you', no matter how small.

Sometimes I write credit alert received with thanks. At other times, I continue with I really appreciate it.

I'm not a Yoruba person, but they have a saying, eni dupe ore ano, a ri omiron gba. Meaning someone who said thank you for yesterday good, would receive another one.

The act of being grateful or thankful cannot be overemphasized.

That 'T' and later 'T for thanks' baaaaàd aswear

DMCY:
Lent someone 100k since last year February. People around kept telling me not to lend the money to the person but the crying and gnashing of the person’s teeth made me feel they really needed it. Omo! Till now shishi I never see, instead na fight dem deh follow me fight for adugbo.
I don leave and forget even tho I dey pained.

Same story but I chop insult on top. The person is super bold, no remorse.

I thought of this today, doing good will not make you anybody's friend.

helinues:
Mr Layi the law. My man

I sent a guy money around middle of last year he was complaining of his generator not working, and I sent him money to repair his gen, buy fuel, subscribe internet and have something extra. Annoyingly,this guy didn't even ask me directly, he said he wanted to go and carry generator somewhere which I asked him what would the person be using again. I was like instead of inconveniency others, make I assist voluntarily .

Less than 24 hours, my guy was telling me he has exhausted the money that I should assist with more. I just simply told him I sent the last money in my account to him

100k in less than 24 hours when no be say na so I dey see money

Modified: All the people who are calling me a liar on this thread, is that how N100k is just so big to them. I swear to almighty God, I have made more than N100k today, Aje.

Dashing someone N100k na even manageable considering the Nigeria economy.

We be Omo ologo latipe, we no be Omo ologogoro like Portable who have landed himself in another trouble. He was in court today, probably reminded.

Alhamdullilahi for the grace because no be about being sabi, na just abundance grace

Show me way na boss