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Last year we had several attacks in my village and everyone had to runaway for safety.

I took my wife and children to my mother’s house and decided we should pick up our life from there.

My wife was very sad and said if I love her I will move her and the children to her own family’s house.

At first I rejected this idea but she stopped eating my mother’s food. She was pregnant and was losing weight fast. I became afraid that she might lose the baby and her life.

She later had a miscarriage and accused my mother. It caused a lot of troubles.
With the little savings I had, we moved to my Inlaw’s place.

This was the biggest mistake of my life. We had no money and we had to depend on her parents for everything.

I received direct and indirect insults from her father, mother and even the last born of their household.

It got so bad that one day her mother served us soup and as we were eating, she dipped hand into my soup and took out the piece of fish inside and claimed she mistakenly added it to my plate. I cried that night.

I would work morning to evening on her father’s farm without pay. I swallowed everything with hopes that I will find a job and move us out.


Few weeks after we moved in, My wife started behaving funny. She would ask me for money to buy things which she knew i did not have.

When I told her I don’t have she would start quarreling with me. This is something that never happened under my roof.

Her mother began to control her. Since we moved into her parents house she never allowed me to touch her. I became so frustrated that I wanted to use the small money I had to rent a short time hotel for us so we could spend time together as husband and wife.

My Wife cried and accused me of wayward lifestyle. She reported me to her mother and they held a family meeting for me.

I became ashamed for lack of privacy and watching my life waste away. I finally packed my things and left. My wife or her family did not even beg me to stay.

All thanks to God I was able to get a good job after I moved out.

I am now earning nothing less than ₦150,000 monthly.
I can buy what I want and eat well now.

I have gotten a place for my wife and children to stay. We are now living happily together.

All glory to God.

The last time I visited my Inlaws my wife’s father and me are from the same plate.

Distance really brings respect. I thank God almighty

Life is unpredictable.No matter how the situation maybe.. Moving your properties to your inlaws house if as If you moved your properties to a waste bin site... This is where see finish will start from..

Oga leave the place already and go to a city to make a living. E.g Abuja.
When you balance send for your wife and children.
Your eyes never see anything.
If you have money for data then you can have money to move ahead.

Oga leave the place already and go to a city to make a living.
When you balance send for your wife and children.
Your eyes never see anything.
If you have money for data then you can have money to move ahead.
Go abuja.

There is a very bitter banny up there whose comment is very appalling and uncalled for, but I won't stoop so low to insult her back on behalf of the op..

Well,as for you op,I really thank God for your life....At least you have tasted both the good side and equally the bad Side of life....And the good thing is that you were even lucky to had survived it,cuz not everyone would have survived it without creating pandemonium between you and your in-laws.....

Now,you should know what it means when we say--"All man for himself"

Na the end of the story sweet me pass

Obovoh is now a big man

Dunno what to type sef. All I can say is odi egwu!!

Stop getting your wife pregnant this boy. Allow her womb to heal. If I'm not mistaken, you already have 5 kids under 10years. Her body is not firewood. Go and do family planning and don't kill that woman and leave those children motherless. That's what I have to say. I am happy for u that you are back on your feet but Stop flirting with disaster. This economy is not favourable for birthing babies upandan.

Carndidlaydid:
Mad man you have no money you are staying at your in-laws place and you still have the guts to say you wanna touch your wife


Anyways iam happy for your family

Scalar quantity.

You wife miscarried and instead of allowing her to heal, you started demanding for sex. That woman has 5 kids with the last one being under 2 years but na sex dey your head. You get mind to dey frustrated because of sex in that condition when you should have been thinking of a way forward. Which mother will be happy with that kind of son in law who lacks self control and uses her daughter's body as he likes? If they allowed you, you would have impregnated her again in her parents' house. Obavoh mind yourself oh. I'm happy that things are better for the sake of that woman and those innocent kids. You wife too had better start using her brain. Else if she dies today, you will remarry within one month. Congratulations anyways, but have sense please.

Carndidlaydid:
Mad man you have no money you are staying at your in-laws place and you still have the guts to say you wanna touch your wife


Anyways iam happy for your family

Dumb comment

Be strong man. Take control of your home.

Obavoh:
Last year we had several attacks in my village and everyone had to runaway for safety.

I took my wife and children to my mother’s house and decided we should pick up our life from there.

My wife was very sad and said if I love her I will move her and the children to her own family’s house.

At first I rejected this idea but she stopped eating my mother’s food. She was pregnant and was losing weight fast. I became afraid that she might lose the baby and her life.

She later had a miscarriage and accused my mother. It caused a lot of troubles.
With the little savings I had, we moved to my Inlaw’s place.

pregnant again?

Guy like seriously the government needs to castrate u or better still remove your balls

U too do

Obavoh:
The last time I visited my Inlaws my wife’s father and me are from the same plate.

Distance really brings respect. I thank God almighty

I am happy for you... may God bless you even more

Obavo the verile stud...

and it was written . . . "go and multiply" , Genesis 1:28,

Our man has vowed to take this Bible passage LITERALLY without question or thought

brain54:
Obavo the verile stud...

You have refused to do anything better with your life.. See your friend he is married with two beautiful girls

You still on here chasing clouts and trolling

Carndidlaydid:
Mad man you have no money you are staying at your in-laws place and you still have the guts to say you wanna touch your wife


Anyways iam happy for your family

Oh, my Father my Father! Nairaland The things we read at times!

Mom007:
Stop getting your wife pregnant this boy. Allow her womb to heal. If I'm not mistaken, you already have 5 kids under 10years. Her body is not firewood. Go and do family planning and don't kill that woman and leave those children motherless. That's what I have to say. I am happy for u that you are back on your feet but Stop flirting with disaster. This economy is not favourable for birthing babies upandan.

And the woman should stop opening her legs and increasing Nigeria's poverty index!

Happy for you man, obavoh so you still dey ?

Obavoh:
This was the biggest mistake of my life. We had no money and we had to depend on her parents for everything.

I received direct and indirect insults from her father, mother and even the last born of their household.

It got so bad that one day her mother served us soup and as we were eating, she dipped hand into my soup and took out the piece of fish inside and claimed she mistakenly added it to my plate. I cried that night.

I would work morning to evening on her father’s farm without pay. I swallowed everything with hopes that I will find a job and move us out.


Few weeks after we moved in, My wife started behaving funny. She would ask me for money to buy things which she knew i did not have.

When I told her I don’t have she would start quarreling with me. This is something that never happened under my roof.

Her mother began to control her. Since we moved into her parents house she never allowed me to touch her. I became so frustrated that I wanted to use the small money I had to rent a short time hotel for us so we could spend time together as husband and wife.

My Wife cried and accused me of wayward lifestyle. She reported me to her mother and they held a family meeting for me.

I became ashamed for lack of privacy and watching my life waste away. I finally packed my things and left. My wife or her family did not even beg me to stay.

People can be heartless but this type of cruelty disgusts me.

Maeve7:
People can be heartless but this type of cruelty disgusts me.

Sucka!!!!

One of Nairalands most notorious trolls just got you!!!!

GloriousGbola:


Sucka!!!!

One of Nairalands most notorious trolls just got you!!!!

Happy Easter G.G.

EmperorIsaac:
And the woman should stop opening her legs and increasing Nigeria's poverty index!

A woman should stop opening her legs to her husband... really? If your wife implements this your advice for you under any circumstances, what would be the topic of your own nairaland post?

Obavoh my guy, how far? Still giving birth? Your story don dey dey complicated o.

No wahala sha as e be say you don land 150k job. As e be now ₦200 for coconut, tiger nut, dates and the likes no longer a problem.

I'm sure with the balance from this money, cause I'm calculating like 15k should feed your family for the month base on say una don already dey use ₦500 make delicious soup before now. As e be now, in the next 6months you go don already build mansion. Life don set for una like this o
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Mom007:
A woman should stop opening her legs to her husband... really? If your wife implements this your advice for you under any circumstances, what would be the topic of your own nairaland post?

Of course, when it comes to irresponsibility, you guys would always find who to blame. No personal responsibility on her part because she is a wife! I see.

Omo this guy don mad finish.
He wanted to use his last card just to book a hotel for sex. Meanwhile him and all his family are being fed by his father-in-law.

Why will they not take your fish? You are lucky they didn't carry your whole soup.

Ogo Ana atulu nni.
Inlaw wey im inlaw dey feed.