₦airaland Forum

EmperorIsaac:
Of course, when it comes to irresponsibility, you guys would always find who to blame. No personal responsibility on her part because she is a wife! I see.

The woman is obviously in love with poverty. She will have her wish. With 5 poorly educated children born into poverty, there's no enjoyment for her because she will never retire.

Rather her than me

Sharpsharp00123:
pregnant again?

Guy like seriously the government needs to castrate u or better still remove your balls

U too do

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Obavoh:
Last year we had several attacks in my village and everyone had to runaway for safety.

I took my wife and children to my mother’s house and decided we should pick up our life from there.

My wife was very sad and said if I love her I will move her and the children to her own family’s house.

At first I rejected this idea but she stopped eating my mother’s food. She was pregnant and was losing weight fast. I became afraid that she might lose the baby and her life.

She later had a miscarriage and accused my mother. It caused a lot of troubles.
With the little savings I had, we moved to my Inlaw’s place.

Bros, abeg no leave nairaland again 😂

Mom007:
Stop getting your wife pregnant this boy. Allow her womb to heal. If I'm not mistaken, you already have 5 kids under 10years. Her body is not firewood. Go and do family planning and don't kill that woman and leave those children motherless. That's what I have to say. I am happy for u that you are back on your feet but Stop flirting with disaster. This economy is not favourable for birthing babies upandan.

5 kids?
For a man earning 150k per month?
And he thinks he is back on his feet?
A walking Disaster indeed and Yes, he is really really FLIRTING with disaster

emmeyen:
You wife miscarried and instead of allowing her to heal, you started demanding for sex. That woman has 5 kids with the last one being under 2 years but na sex dey your head. You get mind to dey frustrated because of sex in that condition when you should have been thinking of a way forward. Which mother will be happy with that kind of son in law who lacks self control and uses her daughter's body as he likes? If they allowed you, you would have impregnated her again in her parents' house. Obavoh mind yourself oh. I'm happy that things are better for the sake of that woman and those innocent kids. You wife too had better start using her brain. Else if she dies today, you will remarry within one month. Congratulations anyways, but have sense please.

The man doesn't even like himself.
Like, you are going to work all your life for children without enjoying your own life too.
I see people like him everyday. They don't have any plans for the kids.
Those kids will go to public primary school while even defaulting on 2-3k school fees per term, no uniform, no books, nothing.
When they struggle to finish primary school, then it is either they go and learn handwork like carpentry, mechanic, tailor, hair dressing or one or two go to public village secondary school again and that's all.
That's all.
Just that's all
No future for those kids.
They were brought to life to come and suffer and see their mates whose parents planned for them riding sweet cars, going on nice dates while they savour and licking their lips fantasizing on doing same too.... We call them Window Shoppers.
If he is not lucky, his daughters would be tomorrow prostitutes in clubs and bars while his son's would be tomorrow's hired killers, militants, terrorists, pipeline vadalizers, touts/agberos etc

EmperorIsaac:
And the woman should stop opening her legs and increasing Nigeria's poverty index!

Na real Poverty Index

quincee88:
Obavoh my guy, how far? Still giving birth? Your story don dey dey complicated o.

No wahala sha as e be say you don land 150k job. As e be now ₦200 for coconut, tiger nut, dates and the likes no longer a problem.

I'm sure with the balance from this money, cause I'm calculating like 15k should feed your family for the month base on say una don already dey use ₦500 make delicious soup before now. As e be now, in the next 6months you go don already build mansion. Life don set for una like this o
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Mansion kee?
Abi another set of twins coming since the man don land good job now.
Rubbish

missjekyll:
Omo this guy don mad finish.
He wanted to use his last card just to book a hotel for sex. Meanwhile him and all his family are being fed by his father-in-law.

Why will they not take your fish? You are lucky they didn't carry your whole soup.

Ogo Ana atulu nni.
Inlaw wey im inlaw dey feed.

Inlaw wey im inlaw they feed...

missjekyll:
The woman is obviously in love with poverty. She will have her wish. With 5 poorly educated children born into poverty, there's no enjoyment for her because she will never retire.

Rather her than me

And the funniest thing is that the Trend will continue.
They daughters would get impregnated at a young age by one road side vulcanizer or mechanic who is giving her stipends while the boys would get girls from same impoverished homes like pepper seller's daughters, ogogoro seller's impregnated.

Wetin u dey smoke Guy!

Your eyes dey bloody.. Who be your plug Keh

Now! Your wife and her family Dem nor go Sabi say you don cast Dem online as una dey chop peacefully for their house.

Go back your own house if you nor dey okay for your wife family house bros

Most Nigerian women are just too selfish. You don't want to stay with your husband's family but you want your own family to disrespect and treat your husband anyhow. You are comfortable with it and you even joined them to maltreat and abuse him. All the females in the comments are busy supporting her and abusing the already abused guy.

All these nonsense didn't exist in the times of our ancestors who had multiple wives. Those women competed among themselves on who the husband will love most. Men die easily these days and almost all the women have the mentality that it's the obligation their husbands owe them to die on time and leave them alone with their children to enjoy their children alone at the stage when the husbands are supposed to start reaping their sweats they spent their primes for their children.

I have told myself this, any woman that shows me disrespect, I will disrespect her too. If she loves me, l will love and cherish her too & be the center of her world. If she sacrifice for me, I will sacrifice for her too. If she's selfish, I will be selfish too. If I discover any oita of selfishness in her, I will have another family outside and let her know. Thanks God I can remarry but she can't. Whatever hands she gives me, that's the same hand I will return back on her. If she wants the family to scatter, it will scatter and I continue family with the other woman outside. I didn't come to this life to live it for another person's selfishness.

Good men dey suffer for this life shaaa. If your own family and kinsmen don't destroy you, your wife destroys you. If your wife doesn't destroy you, your friends destroy you. If your friends don't destroy you, your colleagues at work destroy you. In all of them, they treat you like enemy and simultaneously demand you take care of them with your own life. Either way, you just suffer badly for being a good man. Seems like this life favours bad people and punishes good people. If you give people your undivided attention, they ALWAYS abuse it badly and make you regret it.

Sharpsharp00123:
pregnant again?

Guy like seriously the government needs to castrate u or better still remove your balls

U too do

This guy post usually come as comic relief to Me sha

You really love this your wife...

Obavoh. You are doomed. After everything that happened to you, you've not taught yourself sense. After all the disrespect your wife and your people showed you it hasn't occurred to you that you are dealing with very dangerous people? You don't have a wife. What you have is a liability from a family of liabilities.

People who only show you love when you have money to spend are not people to be around with. Your wife watched as her mom carried a piece of fish from your food and your wife was okay with it? And you, having no dignity and self respect still went back to that home?

Na wa o. Your in-laws didn't see you finish. You saw yourself finish. Tueh!

emmeyen:
You wife miscarried and instead of allowing her to heal, you started demanding for sex. That woman has 5 kids with the last one being under 2 years but na sex dey your head. You get mind to dey frustrated because of sex in that condition when you should have been thinking of a way forward. Which mother will be happy with that kind of son in law who lacks self control and uses her daughter's body as he likes? If they allowed you, you would have impregnated her again in her parents' house. Obavoh mind yourself oh. I'm happy that things are better for the sake of that woman and those innocent kids. You wife too had better start using her brain. Else if she dies today, you will remarry within one month. Congratulations anyways, but have sense please.

Who told you every sex turns to pregnancy?
You mean it's only when a baby is needed that couples should fvck?

Guy, from your story, you better MAN UP.
As other people don yarn, I go advice make you padlock your agboola. The economy noh be your mate o.
Another one, you need treat the f-up your wife mother give you.She get mind remove your fish from your plate of soup. That na big insult.
Even your wife when manipulate you to leave your mom's place to go her parents place.You need work on how to squash her manipulative skills.
Congrats on your new job.I wish you better days ahead. To be man noh be to get brokos,na the responsibilities wen we dey chest and.carry na make us be men.

Carndidlaydid:
Mad man you have no money you are staying at your in-laws place and you still have the guts to say you wanna touch your wife


Anyways iam happy for your family

You no really get sense sha

AVECDEO:
Oga leave the place already and go to a city to make a living.
When you balance send for your wife and children.
Your eyes never see anything.
If you have money for data then you can have money to move ahead.
Go abuja.

But if you completed the op, you'd know he already moved his family to a new place and earns reasonably well.

nifemi25:
Life is unpredictable.No matter how the situation maybe.. Moving your properties to your inlaws house if as If you moved your properties to a waste bin site... This is where see finish will start from..

Likewise, a man that uses his wife's cloth to cover himself is covered in rags.

Carndidlaydid:
Mad man you have no money you are staying at your in-laws place and you still have the guts to say you wanna touch your wife
Anyways iam happy for your family

This hag of a creature again!

Obavoh:
Last year we had several attacks in my village and everyone had to runaway for safety.

I took my wife and children to my mother’s house and decided we should pick up our life from there.

My wife was very sad and said if I love her I will move her and the children to her own family’s house.

At first I rejected this idea but she stopped eating my mother’s food. She was pregnant and was losing weight fast. I became afraid that she might lose the baby and her life.

She later had a miscarriage and accused my mother. It caused a lot of troubles.
With the little savings I had, we moved to my Inlaw’s place.

That woman no deserve to be only wife, if you settle down small and you are a muslim, marry another one join.

Obavoh:
All thanks to God I was able to get a good job after I moved out.

I am now earning nothing less than ₦150,000 monthly.
I can buy what I want and eat well now.

I have gotten a place for my wife and children to stay. We are now living happily together.

All glory to God.

I am very happy for you. Thank God.


By the way, I was reading in another thread where people where claiming that a salary of N550k a month was too small. Some there even claimed that N2 million a month was too small sef. In what context? Nigeria has a lot of untapped potential but at it stands now, it is a poor country. Don't let anybody deceive you; NIGERIA IS POOR, especially when you consider the bloated and ever increasing population size. I don't live in Nigeria so N550k is nothing for me, but I know that for most people in Nigeria it is a dream salary. Note that I referred to most people in Nigeria and not most people in Lagos which is just 0.36% of Nigeria in land size and 7.2% size of Nigeria in population. You can't use standards of such a minute part of Nigeria to judge the rest of the country.

Obavoh:
This was the biggest mistake of my life. We had no money and we had to depend on her parents for everything.

I received direct and indirect insults from her father, mother and even the last born of their household.

It got so bad that one day her mother served us soup and as we were eating, she dipped hand into my soup and took out the piece of fish inside and claimed she mistakenly added it to my plate. I cried that night.

I would work morning to evening on her father’s farm without pay. I swallowed everything with hopes that I will find a job and move us out.


Few weeks after we moved in, My wife started behaving funny. She would ask me for money to buy things which she knew i did not have.

When I told her I don’t have she would start quarreling with me. This is something that never happened under my roof.

Her mother began to control her. Since we moved into her parents house she never allowed me to touch her. I became so frustrated that I wanted to use the small money I had to rent a short time hotel for us so we could spend time together as husband and wife.

My Wife cried and accused me of wayward lifestyle. She reported me to her mother and they held a family meeting for me.

I became ashamed for lack of privacy and watching my life waste away. I finally packed my things and left. My wife or her family did not even beg me to stay.

Ilekokonit:
Likewise, a man that uses his wife's cloth to cover himself is covered in rags.

Nothing but the truth

I'm no homo, but I am beginning to like this guy. The way he posts his pictures on a faceless forum like this without a care in the world is amazing.

HAHAHAHAHA Obavoh ooooo. Thank God for your 150k salary. Use out of the money for family planning Abeg. How many kids do you have now?

I hope you now understand that your wife doesn't really love you? She loves what you are able to provide.. nd if you go broke now,her true color will come out again