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It was possible for her to remarry because of her profession, a widow at that age, who has nothing to offer will become a liability

Xannadu:
Yeah, they are usually more sensible and cool headed at that age.

A Big Lie, my ex of that age was still feisty.

Toymax88:
It was possible for her to remarry because of her profession, a widow at that age, who has nothing to offer will become a liability

Na lie! There are many remarried widows out there with no such thing in the way of careers or wealth potential.

CEO07:
A Big Lie, my ex of that age was still feisty.

As 'feisty' as she was in her 20s?

Kobojunkie:
Remarriage is not a big deal either for a widow or a widower. The bigger issue is finding a partner who would respect and love your children the same way he/she would love his/her own. Na the children be my own concern.

For men it's easy to accept the ladies kids as his own but u see those daughters of eve...... they would rather dance naked in the market than accept any child that isn't theirs,only very few have been able to manage that happily.

Lithiumite:
✓ For men it's easy to accept the ladies kids as his own but u see those daughters of eve...... they would rather dance naked in the market than accept any child that isn't theirs,only very few have been able to manage that happily.

Stop telling terrible lies! 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

Kobojunkie:
Remarriage is not a big deal either for a widow or a widower. The bigger issue is finding a partner who would respect and love your children the same way he/she would love his/her own. Na the children be my own concern.

That's the koko. Make you no com remarry make you drop money for food, the Achalugo go give her children from her ex food with your money. Carry sokoto gari with kulikuli give your own children from your ex wife. 10 minutes to your arrival, she go use left over oil them use fry turkey fish and egg take rub their mouth.

Make every body stay their lane. If you want remarry, think am well.

Kobojunkie:
Stop telling terrible lies! 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

He is telling the truth.

Hmmm....to you & others, it may seem like a new husband has put the late husband in oblivion, but that is very untrue. Why cant she praise the new husband? If a husband (or wife) is great, please let us always be profuse in acknowledging them- too many terrible husbands & wives out there).
A good husband, dead or alive is never ever forgotten. Even if/when you remarry.
30 years gone, MBJ, you are remembered every single day. May the Lord God forgive you your sins, may your soul continue to rest in peace.
Ps. Your little children are PROPER old now 😁 with your grandchildren. And me, Im cool.
God has been A-w-e-s-o-m-e. It was not easy AT ALL, but truly, we serve a LIVING God.
Rest well.xx

Kingpele:
❤️ this is why i tell my guys to try to enjoy their money without neglecting the home front....eat good food exercise well and enjoy healthy wine because if u allow your responsibility as a man to keep you in fear and worry, if u die young ,your wife will find another man and your children will still grow and succeed in life ....u have worried your self to death for nothing, imagine how she's
praising her new husband even as the former husband had turn to dust and skeleton.....such is life ,

Xannadu:
Yeah, they are usually more sensible and cool headed at that age.

Smiles... Women dey grow so ?

Kobojunkie:
Remarriage is not a big deal either for a widow or a widower. The bigger issue is finding a partner who would respect and love your children the same way he/she would love his/her own. Na the children be my own concern.

the issue is that WILL THE CHILDREN RESPECT THE MAN LIKE THEIR OWN AFTER HE STRUGGLES TO TRAIN THEM IN UNIVERSITY QND THEY STARTED WORKING. IF THE MAN CORRECT THEM ON CERTAIN THIS, HOPE THEY WONT RAISE SHOULDER AND SAY HES NOT THEIR BIOLOGICAL FATHER AFTERALL

smallsmall:
The woman or the body Count is not the problem.

How on Earth will a man in his sound mind, leave all the fresh Puna in this world, especially in that State of Most Beautiful Women, decide on a Road that Trailer and Julius Berger Pay Loader has reconfigured?
Even OBJ at almost 90years or more, still dey sample "Chassis babes".
Some Men dey beat imagination pass Kano Drums.

Reminds me of a question someone asked on Instagram: why do some young Men like to go after another Man's wife, when their are tons of single, beautiful and available young Women they can chose from?
Na Brain problem o, l swear.

One thing l will never do in my Life, is touch a Woman that is or has been married to someone else or have children by them. NEVER.
Too many better Options in the field and no be say l even fine sef.

Brah, it has always been the case that some young men are more attracted to older women and some young women are attracted to older men. I can also reverse your question "why do some young Men women like to go after another Man's wife woman's husband, when their are tons of single, beautiful and available young Women men they can chose from?

Also, young puna is not automatically equal to fresh puna. Even fresh puna is not automatically equal to sweet puna. Some things in the this world are best enjoyed when they have matured. People like you will be looking at the external packaging and wondering what a young man will be doing with an obviously older woman. Guy, sometimes na mature puna that has been expertly deployed to killer effect.

Finally, just because you don't like mature puna does not mean that others don't. People are free to like what they like

Trossard:
At 38, you already had 6 children?

She's 38 not 23 years.
At which age do you expect a woman to have birthed 6 children?
After she entered menopause?

donbenie:
She's 38 not 23 years.
At which age do you expect a woman to have birthed 6 children?
After she entered menopause?

6 children at age 38 is really baffling If you think very well

Trossard:
6 children at age 38 is really baffling If you think very well

Baffling how?
Let's say she married at 23 years,which is a very reasonable age.
Having 6 children in 15 years is nothing out of the ordinary.
There are people with that many within 10 years.

donbenie:
Baffling how?
Let's say she married at 23 years,which is a very reasonable age.
Having 6 children in 15 years is nothing out of the ordinary.
There are people with that many within 10 years.

Ok.
Having six kids in this Economy is not a good thing

Trossard:
Ok.
Having six kids in this Economy is not a good thing

It's not about the economy of it.
We are talking about the age range.
Certainly it's not very prudent to have such in this times.