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emmeyen:
You wife miscarried and instead of allowing her to heal, you started demanding for sex. That woman has 5 kids with the last one being under 2 years but na sex dey your head. You get mind to dey frustrated because of sex in that condition when you should have been thinking of a way forward. Which mother will be happy with that kind of son in law who lacks self control and uses her daughter's body as he likes? If they allowed you, you would have impregnated her again in her parents' house. Obavoh mind yourself oh. I'm happy that things are better for the sake of that woman and those innocent kids. You wife too had better start using her brain. Else if she dies today, you will remarry within one month. Congratulations anyways, but have sense please.

Is like sleep don dey my eyes. I tried looking for where he mentioned 5 kids in his write up but didn't see it. How Una take know abeg? And if it's true he has 5 kids for this kind economy how is he coping?
And in the last part he said he is now earning N150,000; how is he going to cope with that amount for a whole 30 days with that large family? It is well with Obavoh.

So does it mean Anytime dem serve this OP Food, he must Snap am?

Carndidlaydid:
Mad man you have no money you are staying at your in-laws place and you still have the guts to say you wanna touch your wife


Anyways iam happy for your family

Hope u heared that hid community was attacked and had to escapew with his family.

U won't understand certain things until u are in the shoe

What is the meaning of this nonesense story..I dont even understand sef

Magnumproperty:
Is like sleep don dey my eyes. I tried looking for where he mentioned 5 kids in his write up but didn't see it. How Una take know abeg? And if it's true he has 5 kids for this kind economy how is he coping?
And in the last part he said he is now earning N150,000; how is he going to cope with that amount for a whole 30 days with that large family? It is well with Obavoh.

People budget and manage and 150k is a reasonable money depend on the state he is

Nicepoker:
Scalar quantity.

Magnitude but no direction 😂😂😂

After reading the first paragraph...

I saw the picture..

I couldn't help be burst out in laughter...

Mehn. Op has seen shege.

Lawly:
Most Nigerian women are just too selfish. You don't want to stay with your husband's family but you want your own family to disrespect and treat your husband anyhow. You are comfortable with it and you even joined them to maltreat and abuse him. All the females in the comments are busy supporting her and abusing the already abused guy.

All these nonsense didn't exist in the times of our ancestors who had multiple wives. Those women competed among themselves on who the husband will love most. Men die easily these days and almost all the women have the mentality that it's the obligation their husbands owe them to die on time and leave them alone with their children to enjoy their children alone at the stage when the husbands are supposed to start reaping their sweats they spent their primes for their children.

I have told myself this, any woman that shows me disrespect, I will disrespect her too. If she loves me, l will love and cherish her too & be the center of her world. If she sacrifice for me, I will sacrifice for her too. If she's selfish, I will be selfish too. If I discover any oita of selfishness in her, I will have another family outside and let her know. Thanks God I can remarry but she can't. Whatever hands she gives me, that's the same hand I will return back on her. If she wants the family to scatter, it will scatter and I continue family with the other woman outside. I didn't come to this life to live it for another person's selfishness.

Good men dey suffer for this life shaaa. If your own family and kinsmen don't destroy you, your wife destroys you. If your wife doesn't destroy you, your friends destroy you. If your friends don't destroy you, your colleagues at work destroy you. In all of them, they treat you like enemy and simultaneously demand you take care of them with your own life. Either way, you just suffer badly for being a good man. Seems like this life favours bad people and punishes good people. If you give people your undivided attention, they ALWAYS abuse it badly and make you regret it.

You are only a good man when you can afford to take care of your wife and children. You become a bad man when you fail to fulfil your responsibilities as a man.

Ganjafama:
I'm no homo, but I am beginning to like this guy. The way he posts his pictures on a faceless forum like this without a care in the world is amazing.

VERY funny guy with hilarious stories.

There was one he went to seek for Loan from Rich uncle.

The Man did NOT want to answer him, so he sent his wife to give the OP Bread, Butter and Sardines to eat.

If you see how this Obavoh dude Dismantle the Food ehn, and he snapped the Dismantling process o.

Mom007:
Stop getting your wife pregnant this boy. Allow her womb to heal. If I'm not mistaken, you already have 5 kids under 10years. Her body is not firewood. Go and do family planning and don't kill that woman and leave those children motherless. That's what I have to say. I am happy for u that you are back on your feet but Stop flirting with disaster. This economy is not favourable for birthing babies upandan.

How do you know all this ? Abi the guy done dey post story for here for long ?

See what you went through as a blessing ... should you be out if a job again...you should now know where not to go. You should also take note that your wife is fully with you in good times only but will turn against you in hard times. Be prepared .

My guy how u won knack ur wife for em papa house while squatting na haba😂😂🤣
U no think wat if her parents hear dia daughter ringtone? 😂
Meanwhile glad you have resolved your matter.. I can't spend even a night at my in-laws place, i usually lodge in any nearby hotel whenever we visited them, my wife sleeps over with the kids sometimes n would lodge in the hotel with me a few other times..
See finish no good at all

AVECDEO:
Oga leave the place already and go to a city to make a living.
When you balance send for your wife and children.
Your eyes never see anything.
If you have money for data then you can have money to move ahead.
Go abuja.

Did you read his concluding story at all? That's Y una dey fail exams.

missjekyll:
Omo this guy don mad finish.
He wanted to use his last card just to book a hotel for sex. Meanwhile him and all his family are being fed by his father-in-law.

Why will they not take your fish? You are lucky they didn't carry your whole soup.

Ogo Ana atulu nni.
Inlaw wey im inlaw dey feed.

don't say what you don't know brr

Happy for you bros ,but you lack sense for moving with her to her family place you should have let her go alone and you stat with your own mother small money you see you send it to her anyway everything is now story

Olu1000:
How do you know all this ? Abi the guy done dey post story for here for long ?

Ah, na nairaland celebrity he be o... him story full here. We love him but he no dey hear word!

U married a terrible woman. As it wife She is supposed to stand by u in times of adversity but the reverse was the case.
It is well.

Obavoh:
Last year we had several attacks in my village and everyone had to runaway for safety.

I took my wife and children to my mother’s house and decided we should pick up our life from there.

My wife was very sad and said if I love her I will move her and the children to her own family’s house.

At first I rejected this idea but she stopped eating my mother’s food. She was pregnant and was losing weight fast. I became afraid that she might lose the baby and her life.

She later had a miscarriage and accused my mother. It caused a lot of troubles.
With the little savings I had, we moved to my Inlaw’s place.

What happen to spoon?

Do not try that nonsense next time. Although I don't wish you experience this next time. For those reading this, no matter what, DO NOT LIVE WITH YOUR INLAWS. Whether they come to live with you or you go to live with them, DONT.

Hope you know that if you get broke , same shi will happen?

Thank God for you bro, na when things hard you go know the true character of people around you.
As you're earning better now, start saving for tomorrow and take care of yourself.