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royalfly:
Hmm who nor go nor know..indeed, marriage and parenthood. Okay o. I wish you well. Men like you is the reason why this women lack coordination. Simple clear explanation that the op gave, you are twisting and wanting to give your baseless assumptions like you know 1 tin. Oga nor worry, u go learn.

I go learn wetin?

Ogbeni, I have been happily married for 10 years now.

TechBaron:
I go learn wetin?

Ogbeni, I have been happily married for 10 years now.

You go still learn.. nor worry. You will one day have to oder your kids to be brought back like a cheap laptop. Oder indeed. Oga rest, na ur own u know.

TechBaron:
Empire basket full of fruits... You haven't seen the typical Akwa Ibom marriage list yet..

Anyway, Chairman, You need to work on your finances.

If you had a solid means of catering for yourself and those kids, you would have ordered for them to be brought over to stay with you.

You can't send your children to Afghanistan to live with Talibans, and expect them not to learn how to make bombs.

You weren't married to the lady in the first place, so why seek divorce?

And meanwhile.. Stop this habit of calling women names after years of bliss. She wasn't DESTRUCTIVE when she was birthing children for you.

Learn to accept your mistakes and take responsibility!

Mad respect for that comment marked out.

Op carry your children to ilorin simple.

Toymax88:
➜My children are not in school, they are helping her to sell OGOGORO in her shop. They are not enrolled in schools

If you really truly care for your children as you would love for us to believe there, then the sensible thing for you to do would be to take full custody of them since the woman by not putting them in school has more than shown she is not a capable parent or guardian for them. 😩😩😩😩😩

If, however, you plan to take them only to then hand them off to your mother or family to raise, then I suggest you leave them alone and simply continue to support them where they are.😩😩😩😩


Poor children....caught between two adults who don't seem to know their left from their right. 😩😩😩😩

Am at barika area near UI 2nd gate.were is the ogogoro joint located so I can verify ur claims.

Toymax88:
My children are not in school, they are helping her to sell OGOGORO in her shop.

They are not enrolled in schools

If you get the mind carry them and raise them yourself. Thats what i did to avoid story that touch, Expecting other extended family members to raise your kids the way yoy want is highly outrageous

Kavod:
➜If you get the mind carry them and raise them yourself. Thats what i did to avoid story that touch, Expecting other extended family members to raise your kids the way yoy want is highly outrageous

Indeed! 😐😐😐😐

Kobojunkie:
Indeed! 😐😐😐😐

Expecting an aged woman to raise 3 kids for you in these harsh times in nigeria is just being very wicked. Wetin be 30k for 3 kids school?
5-8k a day can't feed 3 kids properly, The woman nor get her own wahala na, she nor get her own issues, comes still return the daughter add to thee woman kpalava.
School de resume next week i de find money for just two kids and na better block.

mtcheeeeeeew

RISQUE:
➜Make una calm down marry, una no dey hear. You sell your car carry money give woman in the name of I care about my wife. You open business the first, second and it failed yet you no learn lesson till the third time. The red flags full ground but you ignored rather, dey busy dey reproduce. Just pray, just pray.

Pray that the children will magically enroll themselves in school and magically obtain the education they need? Are you high or what?

Toymax88:
➜U understand my plight. They are not in any school in IBADAN, they are now SALES REPS in her OGOGORO shop

. Your children are your responsibility. They are living as ogogoro sales reps because you, their father, are OK with them being just that at this point in time. You are their father, and so they are there because you allowed it. You need to realize this first if you ever intend to change their situation for the better.

royalfly:
You go still learn.. nor worry. You will one day have to oder your kids to be brought back like a cheap laptop. Oder indeed. Oga rest, na ur own u know.

Well. If you were poorly raised, I wasn't and so are my kids.

Best of luck to you and the OP

Bahamas95:
Jobless/destructive and you still allowed her have 3children for you.......Are you ok at all?

Did u read the part where I said that I established a business for her in 3 different occasions?

OboOlora:
Werey say sales rep on top agbo, sales rep kor Marketing Executive ni lol

Very funny

Toymax88:
➜Did u read the part where I said that I established a business for her in 3 different occasions?

You took a person with no previous record or success, and you decided to push a business, 3 times, on this person,n expecting what, exactly? Why didn't you simply invest in and marry a woman who already had somewhere she was going?

It is easy to pretend she is to blame for it all not working out, but you are the one who chose to invest money in someone with no real business acumen here. And worse, you expected her to support 3 kids while at it.

Fiscus105:
But it would have better if you go to family court straight. Many people don't know family court is existing. In family court, they would compel her to do the needful and if she fails, she might go to jail.

NB. Ministry of women affairs doesn't have power to compel her, they can only advice and if she fails, they will now ask you to charge her to family court.

Can u put me through? I mean family court

Fiscus105:
But it would have better if you go to family court straight. Many people don't know family court is existing. In family court, they would compel her to do the needful and if she fails, she might go to jail.

NB. Ministry of women affairs doesn't have power to compel her, they can only advice and if she fails, they will now ask you to charge her to family court.

I have not heard about family court, can u put me through?


Can u put me through? I mean family court

EbereGod:


Wrong use of punctuation marks. Didn't know where the sentence actually ended and where there's a pause.Lol.

Managed to read through.

It's difficult to win cases like these.
5kg rice for 3 kids
God Abeg o




Three kids no bride price? Irresponsible lifestyle.

The 5kg rice was just for last small SALLAH

luvme0702:
Where you beating her, cheating on her? What did you do to her that made her bring civil defense corps to you? Sending 30k to her to use for 3 kids in this present economy would be difficult for her to manage. She has 3 kids for you and you're yet to marry her, that shows you are irresponsible. No matter how small the wedding would be, you should have just formalized it. Go and beg her for forgiveness and do the right thing.

She's destructive like I said, many household items were destroyed e g fan, phone, hotplate, thermoflask etc. I'm tired of paying for a repair

I slapped her out of frustration and she went ahead to report at the civil defence office

Toosure70:
Get your children back before you raise another terrorists for us again biko

Lol

Bittersweetnig:
Abi o, e sent wife parking alongside his own children, who does that? And what is #32k for in this economy? The man sound like irresponsible

The 32k is for the enrollment of 2 children in public schools. The 3rd child is 7 months old. I sent 50 exercise books, textbooks, 2 mathematical sets, dictionary, school bag etc

I'm a teacher in one of the public secondary schools in the state

Toymax88:
My children are not in school, they are helping her to sell OGOGORO in her shop.

They are not enrolled in schools

Oga I no see feeding for your write up, watin them go chop go the public school?

Oyindidi:
Oga I no see feeding for your write up, watin them go chop go the public school?

kindly use your blind glasses to read

Toymax88:
The 32k is for the enrollment of 2 children in public schools. The 3rd child is 7 months old. I sent 50 exercise books, textbooks, 2 mathematical sets, dictionary, school bag etc

I'm a teacher in one of the public secondary schools in the state

proof or evidence pls

Toymax88:
She's destructive like I said, many household items were destroyed e g fan, phone, hotplate, thermoflask etc. I'm tired of paying for a repair

I slapped her out of frustration and she went ahead to report at the civil defence office

Are trying to say she destroys those items without provocation?

Karleb:
Maybe you should not have married Iya Ologogoro's daughter.

See wahala untop marriage.

The MIL just ventured into OGOGORO business late last year

She was a devoted Muslim when I did the introduction in 2013

fitinwell:
Reasons why i don't support rushing to have too many children....

If u just marry.... 1 child is enough space between them like 4yrs at least before shooting next shot.. Not 3 - 4 children Every year in the name of whatever...!

Now if u had a Child with your so called destructive woman.... This would be very easy for you to crack....

But u knew she was destructive and yet you impregnated her 3 times....

Now you have successfully destroyed the future of this children....

My first child is 11 years, second child is 6, and 3rd child is 7 months old

Firebox123:
kindly use your blind glasses to read

You are short tempered, I see why she destroys things.

TechBaron:
That man doesn't have money. Simple!

I'm a civil servant; I teach Biology in one of the public secondary schools in the state. I have a side hustle too. I'm also an examiner (WAEC and NECO)

Toymax88:
I'm a civil servant; I teach Biology in one of the public secondary schools in the state. I have a side hustle too. I'm also an examiner (WAEC and NECO)

show evidence or proof

Oyindidi:
You are short tempered, I see why she destroys things.

I'm not married