₦airaland Forum

40 not bad at least him mature well na ur choice.....may God help u make u no go from bed to bed....

Threedoorsdown:
✓ Lol. You guys need to go out and touch grass. Someone with nothing to his name(car or house according to una) should not get married even if he has a business or job that provides for himself and family? No offense in all sincerity but are you guys thinking at all?

Ah! So the reality of 170 million Nigerians stuck below abject poverty line, many of them considered unemployed and some business owners is what you seem particularly unable to comprehend, right?

Regina Nwoko must see this

Miss perfect woman looking a ready made or a perfect man. That's why they cannot keep marriage. Always looking for who has made it You forget that it's God that gives genuine and lasting prosperity. Good to you in searching for Mr. rich

salvation77177:
✓ Miss perfect woman looking a ready made or a perfect man. That's why they cannot keep marriage. Always looking for who has made it You forget that it's God that gives genuine and lasting prosperity. Good to you in searching for Mr. rich

Bloody liars! 🙄🙄

So, this God of yours is responsible for the poverty of over 170 million people in Nigeria living in poverty today?🙄🙄

To stone people who talk this kain talk dey hungry me. 🙄🙄

😂 😂 😂 😂 Na she born am? Investment belong to both ke? Na naija we dey o no be western world. The nature of relationships in Nigeria put a whole log of expectations on the man. You as a man is seeing as the Lord of the manor, therefore, you need or expected to have attained a certain level of progress in your life before approaching a woman, a Nigeria woman. You dare not go empty handed. Got to be heavy a little or if possible very heavy. That's the way it's worth African relationships.

franchasng:
Can't you buy car for him? Your investment belongs to both of you; Nigerian men have been doing this for you and your sisters without complain, so what's the noise about?

Acidosis:
Majority of women are very ruthless when deciding on who to marry. They don't care about your feelings. They won't marry you out of pity.

Why should any sane human marry for pity?
She done talk her own. Any man wey go marry poor woman out of pity, nobody send am message. 😈

[quote author=DyshApp post=135126156][/quote]With those hands she doesn't need a man.

Your head is correct my sister...a man that wants to marry any lady must have the capacity to fund her basic needs . He must know his level also. .Looking for women to fund one as a man is demeaning and selfish . God expects a man to take good care of his family ... A lady should not descend so low to marry a jobless and vision less man . There won't be peace in such a union

With this your long arms , you still dey do ako abi? Continue. Don't come on social media tomorrow and be shouting I need a husband oo. A lot of women had snubbed and missed their husbands unknowingly

Eriokanmi:
With this your long arms , you still dey do ako abi? Continue. Don't come on social media tomorrow and be shouting I need a husband oo. A lot of women had snubbed and missed their husbands unknowingly

So, women with long arm should not know what they want from what they don't? Why? Na her fault say her arms long, abi? 🤔🤔

How many of you reason ehn... Person to dey wonder if we still dey live under rocks or for bush! 😩😩😩😩

Acidosis:
Majority of women are very ruthless when deciding on who to marry. They don't care about your feelings. They won't marry you out of pity.

If women were really ruthless, 60% of Nigerian men will not be married.

ChiefOloye:
I no support this your point. Any man that's looking for rich lady to marry, na lazy thief. Let him use that his script writing skills to better his life, first and then marry for the right reasons

He is using his brain to marry a rich woman to better his script.

What else are you talking about?

If you think it's easy to make a woman love you go to China and see things for yours.


😎😎😎

Finally, women are getting wiser.

What does a broke 40 year old Nigerian mam have to offer in marriage?

It's not like a 'typical Nigerian' man will provide any other type of support apart from financial.

You are not emotionally intelligent, you will not actively support her dreams, you will.not be faithful, you will not respect her, you will not sexually satisfy her, you will not pick domestically around the house, you will not jointly care for the kids and yet, you don't have money?

Then what exactly is your value?

Your last name?

Perhaps if you develop yourselves to offer more than money, women will begin to see more value in you outside money.

A poster above said a rich man is not always available and abusive; well Ibadan and Igbosere courts are filled with cases of Baba Segun and Mazo Okoro battering their wives.

franchasng:
Can't you buy car for him? Your investment belongs to both of you; Nigerian men have been doing this for you and your sisters without complain, so what's the noise about?

.. when old age catch up with her
She will be begging for any type of man to marry her.. even if he is poor

This is why I believe that gender equality nonsense should not be practiced here in Nigeria! Go to most organizations today in Nigeria, they give jobs more to women than men especially in organizations headed by women! Such gender bias in employment would only end up destroying the traditional family system because the more you give jobs and financial empowerment to women, the less likely they're to marry and raise families!

It is now becoming clearer to me why some Islamic countries don't allow women to work and earn money! It is better to have the men working and bringing home the bread than the other way round.

JackDaAlienz:
Until you dull simps start treating broke women like this..
Women will always treat u like dog

Men will see a broke girl and spend his whole money to elevate her.

Woman will see broke guy and put him in his place.. and block him

Why won't women treat men like mumu?
Na men dey cause all this crap

So a woman is the one to feed and take care of a man ?

Eriokanmi:
With this your long arms , you still dey do ako abi? Continue. Don't come on social media tomorrow and be shouting I need a husband oo. A lot of women had snubbed and missed their husbands unknowingly

If her hands are short you will still complain

ChiefOloye:
I no support this your point. Any man that's looking for rich lady to marry, na lazy thief. Let him use that his script writing skills to better his life, first and then marry for the right reasons

.. what about a poor lady looking for a rich man to.marry

franchasng:
Can't you buy car for him? Your investment belongs to both of you; Nigerian men have been doing this for you and your sisters without complain, so what's the noise about?

Even their mothers, opened businesses for them, sponsored her brother abroad etc ...

Every man should just know he is alone with his God on Earth...

JackDaAlienz:
Until you dull simps start treating broke women like this..
Women will always treat u like dog

Men will see a broke girl and spend his whole money to elevate her.

Woman will see broke guy and put him in his place.. and block him

Why won't women treat men like mumu?
Na men dey cause all this crap

It is so because you lots call yourself boss and lords over women. You can't be a boss, a lord and the head and still be complaining about what is expected of you.

Dopeboy8701:
When she don reach 42 , her name go be hadiaknown

exactly 💯 it's just a matter of time e go soon reach her.

bukatyne:
Finally, women are getting wiser.

What does a broke 40 year old Nigerian mam have to offer in marriage?

It's not like a 'typical Nigerian' man will provide any other type of support apart from financial.

You are not emotionally intelligent, you will not actively support her dreams, you will.not be faithful, you will not respect her, you will not sexually satisfy her, you will not pick domestically around the house, you will not jointly care for the kids and yet, you don't have money?

Then what exactly is your value?

Your last name?

Perhaps if you develop yourselves to offer more than money, women will begin to see more value in you outside money.

A poster above said a rich man is not always available and abusive; well Ibadan and Igbosere courts are filled with cases of Baba Segun and Mazo Okoro battering their wives.

You are not emotionally intelligent,
you will not actively support her dreams,
you will.not be faithful,
you will not respect her,
you will not sexually satisfy her,
you will not pick domestically around the house,
you will not jointly care for the kids and
yet, you don't have money?

this madam, haba! takj eit easy now! you wan kill pesin? all this ?

oya take 4/8

Acidosis:
Majority of women are very ruthless when deciding on who to marry. They don't care about your feelings. They won't marry you out of pity.

Hmmmmmm
Thank God you are seeing what we have been parroting for years.
I just hope average men can be this ruthless too and look beyond worthless beauty and sex.
There are 2 sides of a relationship - Love and Business.
Most women consider the 2 ruthlessly. You can be handsome, caring and good on bed (the Love/Attraction side) but how financially buoyant are you to sustain a family (the Business side)? She may date you for sometime but will drop the relationship at the shortest moment when a better option shows up.
For men, please watch out for this too.
Beauty, nice shapes - bumbum and boobs, caring, respectful, God-fearing etc is the Love side. Unfortunately most men are totally satisfied with it.
The Business side? By associating with her, what do you benefit from her? How does associating with her rubs positively on you?
Good examples -
A lady working high class jobs at LNG, Mobil, Nigeria Bewery etc that dating and marrying her gives you connections to contracts, helps you recruit your brothers or friends into these organisations because she is part of the HR or knows someone there.
Dating and marrying high status men's daughters like senators, governors, corporate top dogs daughters that associating with these ladies helps and makes your journey in life softer. I can explain on this later.
I am tired of seeing men working themselves up a bit all just to come back to Nigeria to pick a broke poor lady, regularly pulling broke ladies up and her family but when the tidy turns, the lady won't hesitate to leave

Kudos, girl. He sounds like an opportunist. It's his type that come on Nairaland to beg for money. They will marry with no money and then be expecting other people to give them money, smh.

Blame simps

franchasng:
Can't you buy car for him? Your investment belongs to both of you; Nigerian men have been doing this for you and your sisters without complain, so what's the noise about?

You have just said my mind..God bless you real good.

emmaodet:
Hmmmmmm
Thank God you are seeing what we have been parroting for years.
I just hope average men can be this ruthless too and look beyond worthless beauty and sex.
There are 2 sides of a relationship - Love and Business.
Most women consider the 2 ruthlessly. You can be handsome, caring and good on bed (the Love/Attraction side) but how financially buoyant are you to sustain a family (the Business side)? She may date you for sometime but will drop the relationship at the shortest moment when a better option shows up.
For men, please watch out for this too.
Beauty, nice shapes - bumbum and boobs, caring, respectful, God-fearing etc is the Love side. Unfortunately most men are totally satisfied with it.
The Business side? By associating with her, what do you benefit from her? How does associating with her rubs positively on you?
Good examples -
A lady working high class jobs at LNG, Mobil, Nigeria Bewery etc that dating and marrying her gives you connections to contracts, helps you recruit your brothers or friends into these organisations because she is part of the HR or knows someone there.
Dating and marrying high status men's daughters like senators, governors, corporate top dogs daughters that associating with these ladies helps and makes your journey in life softer. I can explain on this later.
I am tired of seeing men working themselves up a bit all just to come back to Nigeria to pick a broke poor lady, regularly pulling broke ladies up and her family but when the tidy turns, the lady won't hesitate to leave

I hope our Men will learn..

pocohantas:
Why should any sane human marry for pity?
She done talk her own. Any man wey go marry poor woman out of pity, nobody send am message. 😈

😈 😈

bukatyne:
If women were really ruthless, 60% of Nigerian men will not be married.

They were ruthless at some point. Many just got f00led or lured, my sister.

emmaodet:
Hmmmmmm
Thank God you are seeing what we have been parroting for years.
I just hope average men can be this ruthless too and look beyond worthless beauty and sex.
There are 2 sides of a relationship - Love and Business.
Most women consider the 2 ruthlessly. You can be handsome, caring and good on bed (the Love/Attraction side) but how financially buoyant are you to sustain a family (the Business side)? She may date you for sometime but will drop the relationship at the shortest moment when a better option shows up.
For men, please watch out for this too.
Beauty, nice shapes - bumbum and boobs, caring, respectful, God-fearing etc is the Love side. Unfortunately most men are totally satisfied with it.
The Business side? By associating with her, what do you benefit from her? How does associating with her rubs positively on you?
Good examples -
A lady working high class jobs at LNG, Mobil, Nigeria Bewery etc that dating and marrying her gives you connections to contracts, helps you recruit your brothers or friends into these organisations because she is part of the HR or knows someone there.
Dating and marrying high status men's daughters like senators, governors, corporate top dogs daughters that associating with these ladies helps and makes your journey in life softer. I can explain on this later.
I am tired of seeing men working themselves up a bit all just to come back to Nigeria to pick a broke poor lady, regularly pulling broke ladies up and her family but when the tidy turns, the lady won't hesitate to leave

Nothing else to add, my brother.