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I don’t know where to start but I am a believer in Jesus Christ. Made my mistakes but God found me. This lady said she loves God too but as a naive Christian I took her for her words.

During the marriage celebration hell broke loose. A lot of things went wrong but I insisted. Thought I was fighting for the love of my life.

It happened that I was set up. Her father tried to get her married to me with beer instead of palm wine. I am realizing today that it was not a mistake. Since I married this lady my life is full of battles.

I have been praying since I married her and became more dedicated in the things of God because attacks was coming from everywhere. For a moment I never suspected the woman lying beside me.

I have had countless dreams pointing at her but I always try to encourage her to pray with me. I didn’t know she intentionally wants me dead. In fact I have reasons to believe that she poisoned me in one occasion.

She has been manipulating me from day one and abusing me all through the relationship I never had peace. This led me to study narcissism, only then did I began to realize what I was dealing with.

When she saw that I am breaking free from her witchcraft she set me up with her father to take me to a witch doctor to bind me again but I am too conscious then to agree to such. She began to insult me and manipulate me to beat her so that she will have excuse to end the relationship.

It important to note that I am an orphan and have been doing this life alone. This marriage have taught me lessons and have put me in a financial difficulty because she kept stealing my money.

Are you referring to the single mum with 2kids?
Did you marry her eventually?

I have been engaging in serious fasting and prayers and my life has taken a remarkable turn. I began to notice that I can see in the spirit. God began to restore my abilities but I was still weak because of her continuous abuse and chaos.

She provoked me to slap her one day after she refused to go to bank with me to print her statement of account. This was after we had a fight in the house when I realized she was selling goods I bought for the family business without my knowledge.

This lady have really been used by darkness against me. I don’t even know what to type or leave out. I have met her with other men in fact I have been mocked by a young man who probably was sleeping with her.

I am trying to put my life together but sincerely wish I could turn back the hand of time. I am soliciting for advice because this lady came with her relatives to beat me in my apartment and carried everything that was used to marry her back to her father’s house.

She was pregnant with our second child which she kept regretting why she got pregnant. Honestly I have never witnessed this level of wickedness in my life. I am completely ignorant that someone can hate those that love them this much. She also connived with her family to liquidate the business I opened for her to manage to help sustain our family since because of her careless spending, stealing and witchcraft my business has been under serious attack.

This morning I went to pick up the fan she left at the shop only to learn that she has sold my shop and packed everything inside. Honestly speaking I must admit that this family have tested me to my limit.

I lost my business worth more than 20m, assets, peace, joy and rest all in the space of two years just because I was unfortunate in marriage.

I am trying to pick my self up again but with this continuous sabotage from this lady and her family I seriously need help. I am about to lose everything I own if God does not intervene soon. I don’t honestly know where to go from here.

Mariangeles:
Are you referring to the single mum with 2kids?
Did you marry her eventually?

No dear, I left her. I found out that she wasn’t being real with me. Living life without people to support both spiritually and physically is exhausting.

This thread is a testament to the devastation that religion causes to the minds of seemingly ordinary people.

AlexMuhangi:
➜I don’t know where to start but I am a believer in Jesus Christ. Made my mistakes but God found me. This lady said she loves God too but as a naive Christian I took her for her words.
During the marriage celebration hell broke loose. A lot of things went wrong but I insisted. Thought I was fighting for the love of my life. It happened that I was set up. Her father tried to get her married to me with beer instead of palm wine. I am realizing today that it was not a mistake. Since I married this lady my life is full of battles. I have been praying since I married her and became more dedicated in the things of God because attacks was coming from everywhere. For a moment I never suspected the woman lying beside me. I have had countless dreams pointing at her but I always try to encourage her to pray with me. I didn’t know she intentionally wants me dead. In fact I have reasons to believe that she poisoned me in one occasion.
➜ She has been manipulating me from day one and abusing me all through the relationship I never had peace.
➜ This led me to study narcissism, only then did I began to realize what I was dealing with. When she saw that I am breaking free from her witchcraft she set me up with her father to take me to a witch doctor to bind me again but I am too conscious then to agree to such.
➜ She began to insult me and manipulate me to beat her so that she will have excuse to end the relationship. It important to note that I am an orphan and have been doing this life alone. This marriage have taught me lessons and have put me in a financial difficulty because she kept stealing my money.

The woman is not a witch; rather, it seems your mind is slowly going south, and you probably need to get professional mental health therapy soon.

2. If you believe the relationship is an abusive one, why are you still married to her? Why not simply divorce her and move on with your life, which you believe is better off without her?

3. Narcissism and witchcraft? You should probably get yourself an appointment immediately with a professional mental health care therapist.😂😂😂😂

4. Your being an orphan is not of importance at all. If you feel you are in a toxic marriage, immediately seek a divorce. If you believe you are in a situation that could potentially jeopardize your civil freedom, I suggest, again, that you seek an immediate end to the marriage. So, the more important question is, "Why do you choose to remain in this marriage which you hate?"

See how this one dey try to use spiritcoco bullsheet to cover up what is clearly a blatant assault against his own wife, abeg? 🙄🙄🙄🙄

AlexMuhangi:
➜I have been engaging in serious fasting and prayers and my life has taken a remarkable turn. I began to notice that I can see in the spirit. God began to restore my abilities but I was still weak because of her continuous abuse and chaos.
➜ She provoked me to slap her one day after she refused to go to bank with me to print her statement of account. This was after we had a fight in the house when I realized she was selling goods I bought for the family business without my knowledge.
➜ This lady have really been used by darkness against me. I don’t even know what to type or leave out. I have met her with other men in fact I have been mocked by a young man who probably was sleeping with her. I am trying to put my life together but sincerely wish I could turn back the hand of time. I am soliciting for advice because this lady came with her relatives to beat me in my apartment and carried everything that was used to marry her back to her father’s house. She was pregnant with our second child which she kept regretting why she got pregnant. Honestly I have never witnessed this level of wickedness in my life. I am completely ignorant that someone can hate those that love them this much. She also connived with her family to liquidate the business I opened for her to manage to help sustain our family since because of her careless spending, stealing and witchcraft my business has been under serious attack.
➜ This morning I went to pick up the fan she left at the shop only to learn that she has sold my shop and packed everything inside. Honestly speaking I must admit that this family have tested me to my limit.
I lost my business worth more than 20m, assets, peace, joy and rest all in the space of two years just because I was unfortunate in marriage.
I am trying to pick my self up again but with this continuous sabotage from this lady and her family I seriously need help. I am about to lose everything I own if God does not intervene soon. I don’t honestly know where to go from here.

If we are to believe this woman is indeed a witch— according to you — and she is as terrible as you are here to inform us, it becomes important to ask you why you have yet to divorce her. Are you waiting until you are reported to have killed her before you realize you should probably be nowhere near marriage at all, to begin with?

AlexMuhangi:
No dear, I left her. I found out that she wasn’t being real with me. Living life without people to support both spiritually and physically is exhausting.

If your story is true, then I want to tell you that you're acting desperately, and too fast.
You're looking for in people what you should look for, and can only truly find in GOD.

You believe in GOD, right?

Well, I want to know how old you are, your marital status, religious beliefs and what you do for a living. Honestly I don’t know how to describe your immaturity.

You are laughing, that shows lack or empathy and you definitely will pass for a narcissist. You are definitely a witch or wizard yourself.

Dude I am awake, I can see both spirits and humans and this topic is not for kids. I honestly wish you can answer those questions to know if you even worth a response. You have no idea how stupid you sound honestly.

You could have politely ask if I am still in the marriage without first making mockery of your foolishness. Enjoying other people’s pain does not in anyway elevate yours.

You seriously don’t deserve a response. When Jesus Christ comes, you will regret ever being born. I am too responsible to descend to your level honestly. It’s been long I experience your level of stupidity. Better seek help and therapy in a bible believing church or those demons riding you will ride you to hell.

Yall never run out of things to blame women for....

Kobojunkie:
This thread is a testament to the devastation that religion causes to the minds of seemingly ordinary people.
The woman is not a witch; rather, it seems your mind is slowly going south, and you probably need to get professional mental health therapy soon.

2. If you believe the relationship is an abusive one, why are you still married to her? Why not simply divorce her and move on with your life, which you believe is better off without her?
3. Narcissism and witchcraft? You should probably get yourself an appointment immediately with a professional mental health care therapist.😂😂😂😂

4. Your being an orphan is not of importance at all. If you feel you are in a toxic marriage, immediately seek a divorce. If you believe you are in a situation that could potentially jeopardize your civil freedom, I suggest, again, that you seek an immediate end to the marriage. So, the more important question is, "Why do you choose to remain in this marriage which you hate?"

The level of immaturity I am witnessing in this platform is astounding. I don’t know if it has anything to with the fact that this platform is faceless. Honestly it’s been long I met people this irresponsible and childish.

It’s unfortunate there are people like you that are completely immersed in the system. I wonder what you will do after death, finding out that everything you were told was true.

You lack empathy and wisdom, I am not sure you deserve my response in respect to your questions. I know most people don’t use their brain which clearly you are among I would have asked you to ponder why you enjoy sad stories or other people’s pain.

You will see that it is a lame way to justify your miserable life you have. It would interest you to know that even in the midst of this chaos, I have peace that makes no sense. I am a child of God and sooner than I imagine, this too shall pass. Thank you for stopping by.

Mariangeles:
If your story is true, then I want to tell you that you're acting desperately, and too fast.
You're looking for in people what you should look for, and can only truly find in GOD.

You believe in GOD, right?

I am not desperate, if I am I would be seeking for revenge. I am looking for wise men to align with in respect to my legal grounds. When this is over, I want them to remember never to mess with anybody that calls upon the name of the lord.

I don’t just believe in God, I carry God. I am a vessel, fit for the masters use. And by the way, this is my life story, ain’t got no time for games.

Gloriagee:
Yall never run out of things to blame women for....

You probably have never met a man that honors women like I do. Common sense and wisdom is one of the rarest commodities of our time because we have forsaken God, if not you would have easily figured out long before now that people are just people and evil people exist in both genders.

If you are at a realm where you still fight gender wars you still have a long way to go. Meanwhile, Jesus Christ is coming soon. Don’t let the world fool you.

Kobojunkie:
See how this one dey try to use spiritcoco bullsheet to cover up what is clearly a blatant assault against his own wife, abeg? 🙄🙄🙄🙄If we are to believe this woman is indeed a witch— according to you — and she is as terrible as you are here to inform us, it becomes important to ask you why you have yet to divorce her. Are you waiting until you are reported to have killed her before you realize you should probably be nowhere near marriage at all, to begin with?

I am not with her and I want to weigh my legal options before divorcing her. I need to be financially capable to rain fire on that family when I come for my two kids. Ain’t letting no degenerate train my kids to be zombies.

AlexMuhangi:
✓ The level of immaturity I am witnessing in this platform is astounding. I don’t know if it has anything to with the fact that this platform is faceless. Honestly it’s been long I met people this irresponsible and childish.
It’s unfortunate there are people like you that are completely immersed in the system. I wonder what you will do after death, finding out that everything you were told was true.
You lack empathy and wisdom, I am not sure you deserve my response in respect to your questions. I know most people don’t use their brain which clearly you are among I would have asked you to ponder why you enjoy sad stories or other people’s pain.
You will see that it is a lame way to justify your miserable life you have. It would interest you to know that even in the midst of this chaos, I have peace that makes no sense. I am a child of God and sooner than I imagine, this too shall pass. Thank you for stopping by.

I see that in your world, everyone else is wrong but you. A simple question asking why you choose to remain in a marriage you particularly seem to hate causes you to begin convulsing in my direction. My suggestion to you again is that you get professional mental health counseling as soon as possible and at the same time take a long break away from religion, as it seems to be having some terrible effects on your ability to reason about reality. Also, consider staying away from women altogether until you attain mental maturity and are at least able to realize that you are 100% responsible for your successes and failures as an adult human.

AlexMuhangi:
✓ I am not with her and I want to weigh my legal options before divorcing her.
✓ I need to be financially capable to rain fire on that family when I come for my two kids. Ain’t letting no degenerate train my kids to be zombies.

From your writeup you hate for the woman did not begin today or last month yet you haven't made up your mind to divorce and distance yourself from here altogether. 🙄🙄🙄

2. Rain fire? And this is the one earlier spewing spiricoco bullsheet in order to have us believe he is the righteous soul in all of this. It was clearly a ruse to hide wickedness of his own. I do hope this will not end in one of you having to leave in a body bag is all.🙄🙄🙄🙄

Kobojunkie:
From your writeup you hate for the woman did not begin today or last month yet you haven't made up your mind to divorce and distance yourself from here altogether. 🙄🙄🙄

2. Rain fire? And this is the one earlier spewing spiricoco bullsheet in order to have us believe he is the righteous soul in all of this. It was clearly a ruse to hide wickedness of his own. I do hope this will not end in one of you having to leave in a body bag is all.🙄🙄🙄🙄

I think I am done with you. Sometimes I wonder how some of you could lie to yourself this much. If you can betray your soul by denying God because you fear the idea of accountability, you lack the moral authority to judge my decisions.

I am a responsible law abiding citizen who believes in equity and justice. I believe that anybody who is foolish enough to do the crime should to do the time. The last I checked, It is not wrong anywhere to drag anybody before the law court and I remember that I clearly told you that I am not with her so I wonder how you are coming up with this assumptions.

I know your type, woke generation! Death will humble all of you. Then you will learn the undeniable truth that nobody gets away with anything in this life.

I've never been so confused! Is she a witch? Is she a theif? Is she a narcissist? Why does everything need some spiritual stuff added. Maybe you made a mistake and married a woman who scammed you. Why do you need all this Nollywood spice? I hope you can find people who could support and guide you because damn! I worry that you'll be taken for another ride because you're showing how irrational and gullible you are.

Brandiebird:
I've never been so confused! Is she a witch? Is she a theif? Is she a narcissist? Why does everything need some spiritual stuff added. Maybe you made a mistake and married a woman who scammed you. Why do you need all this Nollywood spice? I hope you can find people who could support and guide you because damn! I worry that you'll be taken for another ride because you're showing how irrational and gullible you are.

So you believe Spirituality is a lie? I am yet to meet someone here who is willing to just admit the truth even if they are not living the life. You don’t know me and you are calling me irrational and gullible instead of admitting that the matter before you is above your pedigree.

I talking about wickedness in high places and I understand some of you think things like this doesn’t exist because you have not experienced it or you might probably be under one but to dead spiritually to raise your head. Life is lived from the spirit and if you are living otherwise then you should stay away from things you don’t understand. It’s unfortunate that y’all are this blind.

AlexMuhangi:
So you believe Spirituality is a lie? I am yet to meet someone here who is willing to just admit the truth even if they are not living the life. You don’t know me and you are calling me irrational and gullible instead of admitting that the matter before you is above your pedigree.

I talking about wickedness in high places and I understand some of you think things like this doesn’t exist because you have not experienced it or you might probably be under one but to dead spiritually to raise your head. Life is lived from the spirit and if you are living otherwise then you should stay away from things you don’t understand. It’s unfortunate that y’all are this blind.

I absolutely believe in spirituality. I may not be the same religion as you but I believe in God, the devil, devil's minions both in the spiritual world and in human form. I believe in demons and angels.

What I'm NOT is preoccupied with it all. What I don't do is fly so low in vibration that I'm overwhelmed by them. I do my best and leave the rest to God.

You're demonstrating spiritual psychosis because you're engulfed by all this low vibrational antics. I read both your ops, here and on the religion section and you seem to believe you know more than AnYONE!

Why then did you create this thread if you didn't want input? If you're looking for those who will validate your spiritual psychosis then trust me you will find it. They will offer you chants, oils, and intervention for a price.

If your looking for practical and legal advice then leave the spiritual stuff out because spirituality is a personal journey. My Point is: Pick a struggle.

Gloriagee:
Yall never run out of things to blame women for....

He be like you no know your gender...maybe you go understand...if you were a man


Some women can be devil incarnate...same as some men...

Brandiebird:
I absolutely believe in spirituality. I may not be the same religion as you but I believe in God, the devil, devil's minions both in the spiritual world and in human form. I believe in demons and angels.

What I'm NOT is preoccupied with it all. What I don't do is fly so low in vibration that I'm overwhelmed by them. I do my best and leave the rest to God.

You're demonstrating spiritual psychosis because you're engulfed by all this low vibrational antics. I read both your ops, here and on the religion section and you seem to believe you know more than AnYONE!

Why then did you create this thread if you didn't want input? If you're looking for those who will validate your spiritual psychosis then trust me you will find it. They will offer you chants, oils, and intervention for a price.

If your looking for practical and legal advice then leave the spiritual stuff out because spirituality is a personal journey. My Point is: Pick a struggle.

Not really, my soul has escaped the manipulations of lower entities. I am just nursing my wounds and cutting my losses.

There is nothing absolutely funny about what I shared here so anyone coming here to laugh is someone operating at a lower dimension. I call them degenerates.

Honestly I don’t know what I am actually looking for after finding out today that this lady moved against me real bad.

I needed to speak to someone and now that I am getting some of you to sit up, I feel ventilated.

Also I am not claiming that I know more than everyone, if you know better you got to prove it with facts just like I am doing.

Also if you claim to understand the spiritual world and you are not fighting to free your soul from sin ( living for yourself, without the fear of God) then you are deceived and I have every right to claim that I know better than you.

Maybe not in this life, but less than 100 years from now we all we be dead and we will find out who was right. I can’t trade the purity of my soul for anything. If you ain’t pure you ain’t nothing.

AlexMuhangi:


Not really, my soul has escaped the manipulations of lower entities. I am just nursing my wounds and cutting my losses.

There is nothing absolutely funny about what I shared here so anyone coming here to laugh is someone operating at a lower dimension. I call them degenerates.

Honestly I don’t know what I am actually looking for after finding out today that this lady moved against me real bad.

I needed to speak to someone and now that I am getting some of you to sit up, I feel ventilated.

Also I am not claiming that I know more than everyone, if you know better you got to prove it with facts just like I am doing.

Also if you claim to understand the spiritual world and you are not fighting to free your soul from sin ( living for yourself, without the fear of God) then you are deceived and I have every right to claim that I know better than you.

Maybe not in this life, but less than 100 years from now we all we be dead and we will find out who was right. I can’t trade the purity of my soul for anything. If you ain’t pure you ain’t nothing.

"The ego attracts suffering to help erode it." I hope you find the guidance, advice, and clarity you seek. Bye 👋

Brandiebird:
"The ego tracks suffering to help erode it." I hope you find the guidance, advice, and clarity you seek. Bye 👋

I wonder what people like you will do when you die to find out that Jesus Christ was actually real and heaven and hell is a real place.

Everything sounds egocentric to you but I actually know what I am talking about. Jesus Christ is real and without holiness, no man shall see the lord.

I hope you take your time and reflect on your life choices. Nothing will matter after death but our souls. Bye 👋

OP, your problem is longer than River Nile. Though one thing is certain, only a wizard can recognize a witch.

AlexMuhangi:
I wonder what people like you will do when you die to find out that Jesus Christ was actually real and heaven and hell is a real place.

Everything sounds egocentric to you but I actually know what I am talking about. Jesus Christ is real and without holiness, no man shall see the lord.

I hope you take your time and reflect on your life choices. Nothing will matter after death but our souls. Bye 👋

My friend, I'm not the one being chased by witches, demons, and crazy women so save your paracetamol for your own headache! I'm enjoying God's mercy and grace. Again I pray you find your happiness. I'm an imperfect being enjoying my Lords mercy and pleading for a happy end while you count witches and slay dragons. We're both living our best lives ✌

This isn't a marriage anymore. Move away to where non of your wifes people can reach you. You can save should file for divorce after a year has elapsed.

This is not a healthy marriage. You are beginning to lose your sanity. You need to be whole both mentally, emotionally and financially to be there for your kids.

Dogalmighty17:
This isn't a marriage anymore. Move away to where non of your wifes people can reach you. You can save should file for divorce after a year has elapsed.

This is not a healthy marriage. You are beginning to lose your sanity. You need to be whole both mentally, emotionally and financially to be there for your kids.

I appreciate your first paragraph but I don’t understand the second.

Losing my sanity because I believe in God and supernatural? That I believe in heaven and hell and in witchcraft and demon spirits and manipulations from the pit of hell? Lols. I have always known that if what I went through is the standard for heaven then humanity is in big problem. Y’all ain’t ready for the truth.

If Jesus Christ should come today I still believe that this world will crucify him.

Brandiebird:
My friend, I'm not the one being chased by witches, demons, and crazy women so save your paracetamol for your own headache! I'm enjoying God's mercy and grace. Again I pray you find your happiness. I'm an imperfect being enjoying my Lords mercy and pleading for a happy end while you count witches and slay dragons. We're both living our best lives ✌

I am undergoing spiritual awakening and transformation. This too shall pass. If you are not actively fighting it simply means you are living a life of compromise and confessing Jesus in such circumstance is nothing but hypocrisy.

I have fought a lot of battles in life, the crazy lady is more or less just an episode. I carry a great mantle and anointing upon my life and destined to destroy satan and his kingdom hence the unending attacks.

It shows that I am walking in the right path my dear. I sincerely hope and pray that you are true and that this is just a misunderstanding and that I will see you in heaven. If you are not walking in love but live in secret sins and pretend to the world then you will have only yourself to blame.

Overly religious people are a problem to themselves and others. Like someone rightly adviced you, seek a divorce since the woman is an enemy in your view.

Very often, people who accuse others of witchcraft are mentally unbalanced and terrible to relate with, I imagine your wife has more to complain about than you do.

You need to visit a psychiatrist...

I swear, you remind me of someone I know going through this.

He's fighting principalities and powers against his soon-to-be-ex-wife and her family.

Narcissism (everyone you dislike is now a narcissist nowadays, it's like malaria, e dey spread anyhow ), witchcraft, theft, bad character, his life is in danger, he was deceived into marriage
Abuse, Manipulation, the Man suddenly becoming a "Soldier" of God fighting the demon he married, he's also a Poor Innocent Victim...what else did I miss?

Same accusations. Word for word. It doesn't even matter that even his family members see he's full of shi.t, he's sticking to his narrative (the new babe is living with him already).

A mature older man said "na format dem dey download, once they wan leave their wives and pikin".

OP, I don't know about you but nothing you've mentioned sounds like your fault. You're a righteous blameless victim. She forced you to beat her. You're suddenly a Man of God.

And that's suspicious.

Like some have mentioned here, seek a therapist. GENERAL HOSPITAL LAGOS ISLAND HAS DRs of Psychology abi Psychiatry. Commit to seeing them every week for 6 months. Also during that 6 months, find a Marriage Counsellor and commit to seeing one. If after all that, you still think Divorce is the best, go on soun.

Or continue down this path, get a "perfect" girlfriend who will calm your nerves, keep fighting that "Narcissistic Witch" of a wife, divorce and then in 5 years' time, when this has passed, you'll have regrets you can never tell anyone about.

And that regret will be the beginning of your problems. Wait till you watch blessings suddenly depart ffom your life.

Because God doesn't play. Especially when you use His Name to justify human emotions. Even if it takes 10 years, you will crawl before the Throne of Justice and repent. If it happened to the Prodigal son, to King David, best believe it will happen to you.

Best of luck to ya!

Your choice.

AlexMuhangi:
The level of immaturity I am witnessing in this platform is astounding. I don’t know if it has anything to with the fact that this platform is faceless. Honestly it’s been long I met people this irresponsible and childish.

It’s unfortunate there are people like you that are completely immersed in the system. I wonder what you will do after death, finding out that everything you were told was true.

You lack empathy and wisdom, I am not sure you deserve my response in respect to your questions. I know most people don’t use their brain which clearly you are among I would have asked you to ponder why you enjoy sad stories or other people’s pain.

You will see that it is a lame way to justify your miserable life you have. It would interest you to know that even in the midst of this chaos, I have peace that makes no sense. I am a child of God and sooner than I imagine, this too shall pass. Thank you for stopping by.

u better don't argue with madman

That person u quoted is mad