₦airaland Forum

illicit:
They are still pregnant, they never born

2special:
Hope that's not obavoh for nairaland

Odey1997:
Who is Obavoh?

2special:
probably I didn't get the right moniker....e get one young man with 8 children

Odey1997:
The story of the 18-year-old apprentice who impregnated his master’s daughter, a sales girl, went viral earlier this week especially in Anambra and it left me completely dumbfounded. Even the Commissioner for Women Affairs couldn’t take any drastic action because merely watching that case unfold is so thought-provoking.

What shocked me even more was how some Nigerians, especially in the comment section, were praising his "manhood." It got me thinking why do people glorify promiscuity? Some even went as far as advising him to become a sperm donor.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XhzGiGX7miQ

As a sociologist, here are my viewpoints:

First, that teenager who is already an adult at 18 is sexually possessed. Many Nigerian teenagers grow up in an environment filled with shame, silence, and religious fear surrounding the topic of sex. We dare not mention it near our parents, and that’s ignorance playing out in full.

During his interview, the boy admitted that he often promises his victims genuine love and marriage. This reflects a deep-rooted cultural problem: for many girls, marriage is still seen as the ultimate achievement, while for boys, conquest and sexual virility are widely celebrated—until the consequences come knocking.

Imagine how he was able to manipulate those girls using the promise of love and marriage as a tool. If only he had been properly monitored, mentored, or warned, perhaps all this could have been prevented.

Let’s talk about these societal failures and the urgent need for comprehensive sexuality education and mentorship.

#TeenageSexuality
#NigerianSociety
#SexEducationMatters
#SociologySpeaks
#PromiscuityCulture
#MentorshipMatters
#CulturalAwareness
#GenderNorms
#YouthDevelopment
#ProtectOurGirls

Floky215:
The guy is a legend and the brotherhood is very proud of him...!!

Which yeye brotherhood is proud of him for bringing children he can’t cater for to the world ….

He can sleep with as many girls as he desires but impregnating them shows he’s as stupid as the girls that fell for his cheap tricks.

Having kids indiscriminately should be criminalized for real given the present day economic situation.