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This Has To End. by Wizzyonyxphoenix(op): 10:27am On Dec 29, 2024
I'm just coming from a thread about a single mother that decided to shower her son with Christmas gifts, and one of the commenters decided it was a good idea to list out all the "God so terrible things" that happen to boys raised by single mothers. As if children raised by both parents can't also end up "lazy and redundant ", "effeminate ", or "stalkers in the US" as he so put it. It's ridiculous. How many criminals in prison today were raised by single mothers? What about those great men like Ben Carson that we're raised by single mothers? How come no one talks about them? And hoe are children raised by single fathers better off?

It's honestly sickening how y'all pass out judgement and make generalisations about people who are mere victims of circumstances on this app. If we're not tackling single mothers, were tackling their offspring. As if it was still not your gender that put most of them in that condition in the first place.

And what would U say about children of widows and divorcees? They're also "stalkers" and "redundant people" Abi? Making someone feel unnecessarily bad for something that is not their fault. I wonder who you guys think those single parents and kids would feel when they see most of the hurtful comments you people make on this app.

And yes, I was raised by a single mother and I turned out much better than most of you guys that make such comments.



Make everybody go rest jor.
Re: This Has To End. by ihavesense: 1:47pm On Dec 29, 2024
Congratulations on being one of the few exceptions.
Oya rest okay.
Single mothers are known to be bitter and toxic and even many of them sleep around as per they’re free, so they consciously or unconsciously transfer these psychological defects to their children. Don’t neglect or play down the importance of a father figure in the life of a child especially a boy.
A single mother who is really God fearing after realizing her mistakes will definitely turn out good.
Re: This Has To End. by Factcheck0001: 2:43pm On Dec 29, 2024
Wizzyonyxphoenix:
I'm just coming from a thread about a single mother that decided to shower her son with Christmas gifts, and one of the commenters decided it was a good idea to list out all the "God so terrible things" that happen to boys raised by single mothers. As if children raised by both parents can't also end up "lazy and redundant ", "effeminate ", or "stalkers in the US" as he so put it. It's ridiculous. How many criminals in prison today were raised by single mothers? What about those great men like Ben Carson that we're raised by single mothers? How come no one talks about them? And hoe are children raised by single fathers better off?

It's honestly sickening how y'all pass out judgement and make generalisations about people who are mere victims of circumstances on this app. If we're not tackling single mothers, were tackling their offspring. As if it was still not your gender that put most of them in that condition in the first place.

And what would U say about children of widows and divorcees? They're also "stalkers" and "redundant people" Abi? Making someone feel unnecessarily bad for something that is not their fault. I wonder who you guys think those single parents and kids would feel when they see most of the hurtful comments you people make on this app.

And yes, I was raised by a single mother and I turned out much better than most of you guys that make such comments.



Make everybody go rest jor.
even though it's obvious u were raised by single mother

Bro u vex, no just mind them jare

Leave them
Re: This Has To End. by jagaban002(m): 5:59pm On May 11, 2025
Wizzyonyxphoenix:
I'm just coming from a thread about a single mother that decided to shower her son with Christmas gifts, and one of the commenters decided it was a good idea to list out all the "God so terrible things" that happen to boys raised by single mothers. As if children raised by both parents can't also end up "lazy and redundant ", "effeminate ", or "stalkers in the US" as he so put it. It's ridiculous. How many criminals in prison today were raised by single mothers? What about those great men like Ben Carson that we're raised by single mothers? How come no one talks about them? And hoe are children raised by single fathers better off?

It's honestly sickening how y'all pass out judgement and make generalisations about people who are mere victims of circumstances on this app. If we're not tackling single mothers, were tackling their offspring. As if it was still not your gender that put most of them in that condition in the first place.

And what would U say about children of widows and divorcees? They're also "stalkers" and "redundant people" Abi? Making someone feel unnecessarily bad for something that is not their fault. I wonder who you guys think those single parents and kids would feel when they see most of the hurtful comments you people make on this app.

And yes, I was raised by a single mother and I turned out much better than most of you guys that make such comments.



Make everybody go rest jor.
I tried to reach out to u but I can’t mail u , pls i have something very important to discuss with u if u free .
I no bill u money . U can reply me here as well .
Thanks
Re: This Has To End. by Wizzyonyxphoenix(op): 8:26pm On May 11, 2025
jagaban002:
I tried to reach out to u but I can’t mail u , pls i have something very important to discuss with u if u free .
I no bill u money . U can reply me here as well .
Thanks
Good day
How can I help you?
Re: This Has To End. by jagaban002(m): 2:25pm On May 12, 2025
Wizzyonyxphoenix:
Good day
How can I help you?
Can we talk privately it’s abt a health post u posted some years back I just want to know how u deal with it .
Re: This Has To End. by AcrossUNIVERSE: 5:41pm On May 12, 2025
every mallam with his own kettle
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