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What a big slap on her father

ebubeson:
Parents be a light to your children so that they will want to marry someone like you if possible.

Way too many women would rather die than marry men like their fathers.

And that is very telling.

But men won't admit it.

My uncle told me, 5 years ago, "Nigerian men don't make good husbands until they move abroad. Even me, if I and my wife lived in Nigeria, she would have suffered. Nigeria has no consequences for bad behaviour, even the church will tell her to apologise to me if I beat her up".

His wife is a biracial Naija babe and truly, had they lived in Nigeria, she would look like a typical Naija wife in her 50s: broken internally, with eyes full of pain, managing her life, focusing on her kids and surviving. Instead, she's a glowing sexy babe in the UK, always beaming happily when you see her.

Which pastor names his daughter an Arabic name like Halima?

she is right pastors have wrecked many homes with their sinister and manipulative advice

bestman09:
Let her get advice from an imam or babalawo

Thank you.
She thinks we will be the ones to bear the outcome of her decisions.

I thank God for my dad. He was honest. Imperfect, but honest. In whatever I can consider as faults, his noble character shone through. In lack and plenty, he didn't change. In terms of discipline, he was extra strict o. Today I am enjoying the ability to be disciplined myself and weather the storms of life.

Unruly people kick against discipline.

We will still hear from this noisy girl later, when she checks in with social media to testify of the convoluted road her poor choices led her through.

Here is one of them...
Pastor daughter who jumped the fence to go clubbing.

Chilipepper:
Nigerian lady who is the daughter of a pastor, reveals why she'll never go to a pastor for marriage advice

This one is complete woke generation with a democratic toto for the boys

NtoAkwaIbom:
This says so much bout her fada and moda's marriage...

Gbamsulotely, end of thread 😂

Pastors are the biggest narcissists

LethalSam:
A long stretched Hmmmmmmmmmm

It's now inelastic U mean

Sirmwill:
That she is a Pastor's daughter does not mean she is a celeb or someone whose words are special.Majority,if not all of the "yeyebrities" are spewing rubbish on a daily basis,. So in most cases, she should keep her opinion to herself.

No sir! She is just mirroring her parents marriage apparently her father is not a good husband hence her resolve not to listen to any pastor for marital advice.
But I think she shouldn't have painted the whole pastors with a single brush as the are other pastors who are good husbands to their wives.

Denalarian:
You won't take advice from your father even?

Her father is the main reason for her decision. It's obvious he is not a good husband to her mother and I bet he is not a good father too.

mother's products

Sirmwill:
That she is a Pastor's daughter does not mean she is a celeb or someone whose words are special.Majority,if not all of the "yeyebrities" are spewing rubbish on a daily basis,. So in most cases, she should keep her opinion to herself.

Why does she need to be a celeb to warn others of this?

NtoAkwaIbom:
This says so much bout her fada and moda's marriage...

And so? She can't speak out against what she sees as wrong with her own parents' marriage?

Denalarian:
You won't take advice from your father even?

I won't. So?

She’s saying the truth tho, being a pastor doesn’t qualify you to become a marriage counselor.

dawnomike:
Ohlite... So, there are some, it is best to take advice from religious leaders. While l, there are some situations in marriage where casual advice is appropriate. Finally, there are some advice that can only come from other married people. It all depends on the peculiarities of the situation.

See them.. lie lie people. Taking advice from fraudsters by profession is best? Are you OK? 🙄🙄🙄

It takes dishonesty, delusion, or lack of exposure to opine that only women are suffering and getting disrespected in marriages. In Nigeria and elsewhere aruound the world, there is no shape, size or level of shege that men are administering to women that women are not administering to men. The false sainthood narrative that modern women have always tried to push just for attention and being seen as the victim will be their end.

sammiewrite:
➜It takes dishonesty, delusion, or lack of exposure to opine that only women are suffering and getting disrespected in marriages.
➜In Nigeria and elsewhere aruound the world, there is no shape, size or level of shege that men are administering to women that women are not administering to men. The false sainthood narrative that modern women have always tried to push just for attention and being seen as the victim will be their end.

IF your idea of marriage indicates suffering and disrespect, then doesn't that already indicate its low worth to both involved?

2. Why engage in an endeavor that you know would bring you more suffering and anguish? Not all marriages worldwide are fraught with suffering and shege, mind you!

it is said for a lady to be submissive to her man..you dont do that, there maybe rumble

pocohantas:
Some of the men she should avoid have commented as expected.

ebubeson:
Parents be a light to your children so that they will want to marry someone like you if possible.

According to whom? Your scammers-in-the-lords? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Breaker001:
No wahala. When your life go begin bend go where you neva experience before, eye go clear you.

Nonsense talk! 🙄🙄🙄

PlasmaTV:
So her mother is being disrespected in the marriage. The girl is not wise. At all.

She shouldn't speak out if that is the case? Are you people OK in the head at all?

Advancedman:
➜They are the most stupid and wicked anti marriage individuals. Only professional counselor that are pastors with unbiased or religious sentiment can truly give any reasonable advice.

I disagree! All Pastors are fraudsters and cannot help but perpetrate the fraud that is their religion! 🙄🙄🙄

halima. that sounds more like an Imams daughter

Orlu13:
➜You want the kind of advice divorced women or single mothers give....we already know d kind of person she is by this statement This one will be very rebellious

Given the rate of abandonment and unofficial divorce as well as abuse in marriage in Nigeria, it is safe to say to say that a woman should probably consider low the advice of the married when looking to get into marriage herself.

Just as the serpent deceived Eve, it is using modern women of today to discredit the institution of marriage. If not for fear of public outrage, they had no sooner come out en masse to accuse Jesus of misogyny.

Kobojunkie:
Nonsense talk! 🙄🙄🙄

For your mind, abi?

NtoAkwaIbom:
This says so much bout her fada and moda's marriage...

She just wanted freedom to do anyhow... maybe she has a strict father. But then, how Halima take be pastor's daughter?

Kobojunkie:
She shouldn't speak out if that is the case? Are you people OK in the head at all?

Baba e loun ba soro