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This is one of the toughest questions anyone can face.

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What's your honest take-should people give their cheating partner another chance.

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If you're a Christian Op read Mathew 19: 3-9.
It said it all. A cheating partner is a cheating partner. Cheating does not happen like magic.
1. There must be an attraction to the individual who desires to cheat.
2. There must be a decisive thought to commit it.
3. There must be a location or permission to do the act.
It must have been thought through before the act is being committed. You can forgive a cheating partner but know this, it's a matter of time. It will repeat again. Sexual sin has a very strong spiritual tie especially for the married ones.

So what do you suggest?

spice123:
If you're a Christian Op read Mathew 19: 3-9.
It said it all. A cheating partner is a cheating partner. Cheating does not happen like magic.
1. There must be an attraction to the individual who desires to cheat.
2. There must be a decisive thought to commit it.
3. There must be a location or permission to do the act.
It must have been thought through before the act is being committed. You can forgive a cheating partner but know this, it's a matter of time. It will repeat again. Sexual sin has a very strong spiritual tie especially for the married ones.

spice123:
If you're a Christian Op read Mathew 19: 3-9.
It said it all. A cheating partner is a cheating partner. Cheating does not happen like magic.
1. There must be an attraction to the individual who desires to cheat.
2. There must be a decisive thought to commit it.
3. There must be a location or permission to do the act.
It must have been thought through before the act is being committed. You can forgive a cheating partner but know this, it's a matter of time. It will repeat again. Sexual sin has a very strong spiritual tie especially for the married ones.

It is funny how you link your claims back to your religious ideas, yet this is the very same religion notorious for urging women to remain in marriage with cheating spouses, insisting that the gods of the religion hate divorce. Of course, if the cheater were the wife, the objections against divorce would disappear completely. How do you reconcile this?

no and should not be advised

Pootle:
no and should not be advised

It should not be advised, yet the vast majority of women are advised to continue to accommodate their cheating husbands in marriage for one reason or another. How come?

Gloriagee:
So what do you suggest?

Op already knows what to do.