₦airaland Forum

Welcome, Guest: RegisterLoginWith GoogleTrendingRecentNew

Stats: 3,329,546 members, 8,441,150 topics. Date: Wednesday, 08 July 2026 at 06:53 AM

Toggle theme

Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix - Family (5) - Nairaland

Nairaland ForumNairaland GeneralFamilyWoman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix (30413 Views)

1 2 3 4 5 6 Reply (Go Down)

Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by bukatyne(f): 4:19pm On May 18, 2025
ufotunang:
...but the bible is against it
Bible!

You remember the Bible now?

I hope you know that the same Bible is against male adultery.
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by bukatyne(f): 4:21pm On May 18, 2025
ufotunang:
.. those men disobeyed God instruction and commandments..the bible says in Hebrew 13:4..let marriage be held in honour among all..let the marriage bed be undefiled..for God will judge the sexual immoral and adulterous

And Leviticus 20:10 says..a man should not have adultery with another woman or another man's wife..both he and the woman will be put to death because of adultery
Oh well!

You are very serious then.

You are right, the Bible frowns against such madness.
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by Kobojunkie: 4:29pm On May 18, 2025
almarthins:
➜In one statement: it is okay to keep pushing the boundaries, no consequences.
➜What do I expect from a chameleon like you? You have no standing, you re not here or there.
Keep pushing boundaries? The society sets or pushes the boundaries for people to follow, not me. undecided

2. I have the strongest standing here, which is simple. Allow the people the freedom and equality they deserve. Why is that hard for you to stomach? grin
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by xtianchris(m): 4:39pm On May 18, 2025
Heffalump:
Wake up man!
The only strong thing exposing them these days is DNA. Women are the most secretive cheats! I repeat!!
I'm woke brother.DNA or not ..it's easy my bro... From experience.. . Trust me . O'G
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by theredaddy: 5:36pm On May 18, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Imagine a grown individual reasoning like an imbe-cile -- ignorant of basic knowledge taught in science class beginning from primary 1. 😳😳😳😳😳😳
ok.
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by maasoap(m): 5:39pm On May 18, 2025
SAMBARRY:
grin

As much as I find her request ridiculous and distasteful, I like the way men are fully getting a taste of their medicine and being mirrored so that they will know how they sound and have a 1st hand experience of how women feel when they say they want another woman or bring in another woman grin

When you have been begging, praying and hoping for a person to change and act right and they don't act right, start mirroring their behaviour so that they will understand the law of cause and effect since research shows that men don't understand words,they understand actions better


P.S: I know the culprits will come to my mention to cry me a river.be my guest grin tongue
Na by force to remain in marriage? I believe that there is option for exit button, right? Just make sure you advise your fellow women to weigh their options very well before claiming equality
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by Kobojunkie: 5:39pm On May 18, 2025
theredaddy:
➜ok.
Only you can liberate yoursef from this blatant ignorance you continue to feed your mind with. I suggest you at least try to watch the many YouTube videos made by scientists to help heal your closed-off brain through the use of visual animations. If you no fit to read a book to help yourself, at least you go fit watch animation. lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by maasoap(m): 5:48pm On May 18, 2025
.
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by Seniormanchi: 6:31pm On May 18, 2025
SAMBARRY:
grin

As much as I find her request ridiculous and distasteful, I like the way men are fully getting a taste of their medicine and being mirrored so that they will know how they sound and have a 1st hand experience of how women feel when they say they want another woman or bring in another woman grin

When you have been begging, praying and hoping for a person to change and act right and they don't act right, start mirroring their behaviour so that they will understand the law of cause and effect since research shows that men don't understand words,they understand actions better


P.S: I know the culprits will come to my mention to cry me a river.be my guest grin tongue
So a divorce is not an option? I wonder why!
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by Kobojunkie: 6:35pm On May 18, 2025
Seniormanchi:
➜So a divorce is not an option? I wonder why!
Divorce has also been an option for cheating men, but how many of them take it? undecided
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by Seniormanchi: 6:37pm On May 18, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Divorce has also been an option for cheating men, but how many of them take it? undecided
Who’s offering in this case?
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by SAMBARRY: 6:38pm On May 18, 2025
Seniormanchi:
So a divorce is not an option? I wonder why!
who mentioned divorce? grin

Guilty conscience grin if you want to divorce your spouse for whatever reason, that's on you.no where in my post did I sat anybody should divorce anyone however I am a proponent of E for energy. I give you what you give me so that will force you to behave yourself
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by SAMBARRY: 6:43pm On May 18, 2025
maasoap:
Na by force to remain in marriage? I believe that there is for exit button, right? Just make sure you advise your fellow women to weigh their options very well before claiming equality
lol if you are behaving well with decency and consideration, why are you uncomfortable with being mirrored? grin infact you should be happy about having a taste of your medicine grin

Where did I also make mention of equality? Its a simple arithmetic, if you're kind to others, you have nothing to fear,but this one you're getting all worked up and agitated, why can't you yourself encourage your gender to behave well? Is it that hard to be a decent ,kind and considerate spouse
to your wife? wink grin

The more they enter my mentions,the more they expose themselves. Just one poke,fiam grin
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by Kobojunkie: 6:45pm On May 18, 2025
Seniormanchi:
➜Who’s offering in this case?
The one doing the cheating should opt for divorce, right? That was your suggestion, wasn't it? Or were you suggesting instead that the victim who had opted to endure in the name of marriage now opt for divorce instead of cheating back? undecided
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by SAMBARRY: 6:47pm On May 18, 2025
grin
7arrows:
Yes o. Not rats but elephant.
no be small thing, me sef stand gidigba grin

It's so easy for them to reveal who they truly are with one triggering comment grin

All of them are suddenly getting unnecessarily defensive and talking about divorce grin the same people that will even shame a woman for divorce or exiting her marriage grin tongue

This is exactly the reason why shera will say stop listening to what men say,instead watch what they do,that will give you an insight about who they truly are grin
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by SAMBARRY: 6:48pm On May 18, 2025
OlawaleBammie:
madam calm down, me I dey different aswear
yinmu.same old chorus grin
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by Seniormanchi: 6:49pm On May 18, 2025
SAMBARRY:
who mentioned divorce? grin

Guilty conscience grin if you want to divorce your spouse for whatever reason, that's on you.no where in my post did I sat anybody should divorce anyone however I am a proponent of E for energy. I give you what you give me so that will force you to behave yourself
Most Nigerians talk about energy but don’t understand how it works.

A Nigerian problem nonetheless; like doing things you don’t understand only because it’s HIP.

You remove yourself from bad influences you don’t respond or continuously associate.

Why not buy 2 cars when he buys 1, or give him 200K when he gives you 100K.

Bad energy is easy to replicate, good energy is difficult. Hence poverty is more prevalent than riches or wealth in any form or measure.
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by SAMBARRY: 6:59pm On May 18, 2025
theredaddy:
Well seems someone is trapped in her own illusions .. last i checked it still a man's world

A man with multiple women count is a CHAMP buh guess what the society calls SAMBARRY with 6 children and different fathers each .. is life accordingly now my dear cheesy
of course grin

A man having 6 children from different women will collect his cane at old age grin

You no see how those children abandon their fathers to deteriorate.some don't even care again if he dies.abeg leave matter for mathias grin

Just dey deceive yourself dey go grin
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by OlawaleBammie: 7:09pm On May 18, 2025
SAMBARRY:
yinmu.same old chorus grin
See, I am serious ooh.. aswear test me
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by almarthins(m): 7:25pm On May 18, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Keep pushing boundaries? The society sets or pushes the boundaries for people to follow, not me. undecided

2. I have the strongest standing here, which is simple. Allow the people the freedom and equality they deserve. Why is that hard for you to stomach? grin
Awe! You have no idea. You re free to do what ever comes to your mind, but be aware that freedom is not actually freedom. Be sure that there will be consequences for misguilded actions. No human right in heaven and hell
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by Kobojunkie: 7:28pm On May 18, 2025
almarthins:
➜Awe! You have no idea. You re free to do what ever comes to your mind, but be aware that freedom is not actually freedom.
➜ Be sure that there will be consequences for misguilded actions. No human right in heaven and hell
See this one! Freedom and equality are all that everyone can truly long for and have in this life. Why are you against it? undecided undecided

2. See this one! How many human beings are in this heaven and hell you are yammering on about? Name at least 10 people you knew of in this life who are in heaven? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by almarthins(m): 7:35pm On May 18, 2025
Kobojunkie:
See this one! How many human beings are in this heaven and hell you are yammering on about? Name at least 10 people you knew of in this life who are in heaven? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
You can mock man but no God. I have always known you to be an heretics and a humanist(confused n brainwashed being). Let see who laugh last in the end.
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by Kobojunkie: 7:38pm On May 18, 2025
almarthins:
➜You can mock man but no God.
➜ I have always known you to be an heretics and a humanist(confused n brainwashed being). Let see who laugh last in the end.
Which yeye God? There are over 4000 different deities identified worldwide over with each seemingly devoted to a select group of nations.

2. Um... but the confused brainwashed entity here would be you pretending you can invoke an unknown deity against those who don't think or believe as you do? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by kcbaba007: 7:53pm On May 18, 2025
Some women can be very stupid....

And even when she was being reprimanded, the senseless thing was all grins and smiles....
Can you imagine?
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by almarthins(m): 7:56pm On May 18, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Which yeye God? There are over 4000 different deities identified worldwide over with each seemingly devoted to a select group of nations.

2. Um... but the confused brainwashed entity here would be you pretending you can invoke an unknown deity against those who don't think or believe as you do? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
The same you will be quoting bible like you know it. We were forwarned to be "beware of Dogs"

And I know you, you know that I know you, "kobojunkie" aka heretic macion.
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by SAMBARRY: 8:01pm On May 18, 2025
OlawaleBammie:
See, I am serious ooh.. aswear test me
you said I should test you,good.i will drop my account number now grin tongue cool
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by Kobojunkie: 8:02pm On May 18, 2025
almarthins:
➜The same you will be quoting bible like you know it.
➜ We were forwarned to be "beware of Dogs"
➜ And I know you, you know that I know you, "...." aka heretic macion.
I know the Bible better than you religious mongrels do. grin

2. The statement isn't "Beware of Dogs," but rather, "Do not give that which is Holy to the Dogs, i.e., non-Israelites," which you are guilty of in your numerous attempts thus far to impose the content of those books on those who are dogs, aka non-Israelites. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

3. I don't subscribe to your religious delusions, nor do I subscribe to your Christian deities, so how can I be considered a heretic? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by SAMBARRY: 8:02pm On May 18, 2025
Seniormanchi:
So a divorce is not an option? I wonder why!
another guilty conscience. Who dey Follow you talk divorce here? grin
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by OlawaleBammie: 8:06pm On May 18, 2025
SAMBARRY:
you said I should test you,good.i will drop my account number now grin tongue cool
grin grin grin

As u dey drop ur aza sha drop ur fon number join... grin
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by theredaddy: 8:27pm On May 18, 2025
SAMBARRY:
of course grin

A man having 6 children from different women will collect his cane at old age grin

You no see how those children abandon their fathers to deteriorate.some don't even care again if he dies.abeg leave matter for mathias grin

Just dey deceive yourself dey go grin
Mother of 6 by 6 speak for yoursef thats how it works, it as if the universe is listen to me i heard a related story tonite on mainland fm

A certain wife her husband cheated decided to cheat back, she joined a Gym and god answer her prayer she found a super cute guy, in no time they started dating and sex follows, then the guy ask for her anal sex, out of curosity she agreed.... womeeeeen !

after anal sex aunty started bleeding in her anus, she no fit poo no matter how she try, went to the hospital and seems aunty pipe as being infected she dey discharge smelly fluid .. now she asking how to tell her husband

shey una see una lives outside, miss i must cheat back
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by Double0h7(f): 9:06pm On May 18, 2025
The audacity must be on sale grin I'm stealing this!
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by Noblemanonpoint: 10:16pm On May 18, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Have you asked your good friend if he/she is also not lonely in marriage? It is well known that many people in marriage are lonely and depressed. Marriage does not cure those things. So, great that you are not lonely, but be sure your partner is also not lonely in marriage. undecided

2. Wrong! Mental illness can happen to anyone, no matter their marital status . undecided
She's not lonely, it's takes good emotional intelligence and a matured mind to have happy home.

My wife is smart and a matured lady who was brought up in a good home, not bothered about feminist gibberish and all that. She's an epitome of a Godly woman.

It will be the worst mistake for any man to marry a woman who is emotionally imbalanced and doesn't know what she wants.

She's married and she understands the assignment, as long as i remain a good husband to her.

Marry a Godly woman, that's the advise i can give to men.
1 2 3 4 5 6 Reply

Married Woman Seeks Advice After Mistakenly Sleeping With Neighbor For MoneyZambian Woman Seeks Divorce After Her Husband Shaved His Pubic HairWife Bathes Benue ExCommissioner Daughter With Hot Water For Dating Her Man (Pix234

My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have IssuesI Don’t Talk With My Neighbors. What To DoWhat Age Did You Stop Bed Wetting?