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I understand her emotional state. There are 3 sides to a story. YOUR SIDE, MY SIDE AND THE TRUTH. we could break it down to TWO , the truth and which person's view flows with the truth

BUT ALL OVER THR WORLD - MEDICAL OFFICERS ARE NOT BUILT TO BE EMOTIONAL AND DO THNNGS OUTTA PITY.

Ihave been there, you can insult them all u want, they are bunch of controlled psychos who are trained to get ur MONEY, TREAT YOU AND SAY MR A IS RESPONDING TO TREATMENT OR SAY MR B DIED, DIDNT SURVIVE THE OPERATION. They are on a job, they can tell a mother who lost her baby that her child died and move to the next room to congratulate another of bringing a new born to the world. THEY MASK THEIR EMOTIONS AND GO WITH THE FLOW.

Can u be happy for Mr A and feel sad for Mr B within seconds (changing emotions just like that). I know we complain about Nigerian Doctors and Nurses .

In UK , the saddened victim sometimes traces Doctor and gun them down outta emotional breakdown. Doctor's aint robot.

They see dead and alive people every seconds. They are living like ghost everyday of their lives

Some doctors and nurses have lost the humanity side of the profession. Imagine laughing at someone's pain of losing someone or almost about to lose someone. You said the best doctors are those without souls? Lies from the pit of hell. Empathy and compassion should be non-negotiable values in the health profession. Run from any health professional who has lost the humanity touch of the health profession, because you are dealing with the devil in human form.

KnowledgePower7:
I have always said it that in order to be a succesful doctor.
You need to be heartless
Those guys will see a half open skull and they won't flinch..
They can use knife and cut somebody open and sew him back

I think the best doctors have no soul. They are dead emotionally
To look at someone fading into the shadow realm and still act non chalant is something i have personally seen nurses do.

A guy driving keke brought his mother in hospital. His sister was at the back crying telling her mother to wake up. The nurses where just there laughing and some cracked joke as how the guys cry was sounding funny.

I was shook to the bone.
But i realized these medical workers see death, pain, suffering and diseases regularly so that emotional side of them is completely erroded.

johnog4sure:
my brother it's scary, I told a friend a may soon become a doctor, damn! But how many can I be

The issue is 90% of nigerians have no idea hw the medical profession work

What is part of professional protocol looks like some kinda negligence to them

Medical negligence is more of a subjective term

Mostly it's bound in ignorance

Doctors are stretch overworked and underpaid working long long hours yet the society have the guts to insult or accuse them of being insensitive

You guys will come online to bash Nigerian doctors endlessly and mercilessly, even when you don't really know what happened, and then you'll go to the hospitals and expect them to lay their lives for you without paying.

She end up not saying anything only pouring emotions,there is always other side of the coin,let us know what transpires first before we judge,sorry for her lost though.

But Drs will always try but they can't prevent ultimate death when the times come,beside the priority will always be to prevent another,the overwhelming system put them at the edge every second matters in Hospital,While you're grieving yours they are also trying to prevent someone family from grieving

The government take more blame than these overworked and some cases under trained and incompetent doctors and nurses.

We definitely have misplaced priority and regressive modes of fixing our problems.

rapheal5:
I think it’s right time for every family to have one or two family member in medical field, a friend wife labored for 3 days at a clinic owned by his family member, she gave birth the 3rd night with no complications.
The stubborn boy thought he was coming to the world to tap palm wine, he wrapped his hand, leg and neck with the umbilical cord thereby making it difficult for the strong woman to push him out.
I’m very sure most hospitals even abroad would deliver the baby through CS…They didn’t give up on the pregnant woman because she was their family so they put in more than their best to make sure the woman gave birth without any complications..

That it was successful from your story does not mean CS isn't the better option because in medicine, you never say never. She could very easily have lost that baby to a strangulated umbilical cord. That was just one of a rare incident she should thank her stars, unless there was another maternal complication you are not stating where C/S might lead to her death too.

Dialpad:
May his soul rest in peace.

One of the most dangerous places to fall ill is Nigeria.

Especially if you're short on cash.
Not only that, no millions awarded to you in case of malpractice

which hospital

KnowledgePower7:
I have always said it that in order to be a succesful doctor.
You need to be heartless
Those guys will see a half open skull and they won't flinch..
They can use knife and cut somebody open and sew him back

I think the best doctors have no soul. They are dead emotionally
To look at someone fading into the shadow realm and still act non chalant is something i have personally seen nurses do.

A guy driving keke brought his mother in hospital. His sister was at the back crying telling her mother to wake up. The nurses where just there laughing and some cracked joke as how the guys cry was sounding funny.

I was shook to the bone.
But i realized these medical workers see death, pain, suffering and diseases regularly so that emotional side of them is completely erroded.

VEHINTOLAR:
Sister's husband.

They could have just written Brother In Law

She's part of the problem. If the husband died because of negligence by the doctors and nurses ... then she should take them to court. If more people do this...only then we would see a change. Until such time ....business as usual. Just wondering why is she soooo shook and the one to bring it to SM.... to me that's not normal.

So, for like 3 years now, I've been suffering from this frequent nasal congestion that even inhalers could not take care of unless I used nasal drops. I thought maybe it was a disease or an infection or something like that without knowing that it was actually as a result AC usage.
So, few months ago, it got a little worse and I went to the hospital and the doctor just pointed a Torchlight inside my nose and instantly said I had sinusitis which had gotten worse due to excessive usage of nasal drops and now, the only permanent cure to it is to undergo a nasal surgery which might cost at least 480k.
After the consultation, he gave me some drugs to just help but insisted on the surgery and so I left and went into pondering on whether to do the surgery or not considering the possibility of complications afterwards
Somehow, due to the increased cost of electricity tariffs this period, I stopped using AC and bought rechargeable fans instead to reduce cost. Guess what guys? My nasal blockages completely went away on its own and it was then that I realized it was actually AC that was causing me that.
Imagine if I had gone for the surgery, imagine the wrong diagnosis, imagine if the surgery had gone wrong, imagine the amount of money I would have wasted going for nasal surgery. This is what a wrong medical practice could cause.
Our medical practitioners need to do better.

ugwumichael:
The negligence of doctors and nurses is quite alarming

negligence or poverty

KnowledgePower7:
I have always said it that in order to be a succesful doctor.
You need to be heartless
Those guys will see a half open skull and they won't flinch..
They can use knife and cut somebody open and sew him back

I think the best doctors have no soul. They are dead emotionally
To look at someone fading into the shadow realm and still act non chalant is something i have personally seen nurses do.

Who chalant epp
You want a crying doctor to operate on you?

A guy driving keke brought his mother in hospital. His sister was at the back crying telling her mother to wake up. The nurses where just there laughing and some cracked joke as how the guys cry was sounding funny.

I was shook to the bone.
But i realized these medical workers see death, pain, suffering and diseases regularly so that emotional side of them is completely erroded.

toh

SoftSport:
While her pain is valid and heartbreaking let’s remember we don’t know the full story so we should avoid emotional outbursts and stop casting blame on an entire noble profession based on one incident.

You won't understand what shw is saying until you are a victim if what she is saying

Nigeria is a lawless country and it shows in its medicare, our medicare is abysmal lets say the truth. I have been in a precarious before , if not that I was the one that took my mum to the clinic during an emergency maybe she won't be with us today. I won't bore you with the story but it fell short of an E if it were to be graded.

EeyanMayweather:
We need to hear the full story madam.
Let’s deal with issues and not emotions

Even if she doesn't narrate, millions of Nigerians may have had a sad story with medical professionals. I have had my own fair story when i rushed my num during an emergency. They should do better, our country is ethically and morally bankrupt, professionals shouldn't follow suit

Olaide1295:
It’s fine to be after money.
It is not from the benevolence of the farmer, baker that our food is assured. But from their own self interest to make a profit.

If you need a doctors services, get insurance or pay when you need it. Many a people have been helped, only to run away leaving the patient at the hospital.

This isn't about money, i have experienced bad service even when the money is in plenty.

Natbrowny:
I understand her emotional state. There are 3 sides to a story. YOUR SIDE, MY SIDE AND THE TRUTH. we could break it down to TWO , the truth and which person's view flows with the truth

BUT ALL OVER THR WORLD - MEDICAL OFFICERS ARE NOT BUILT TO BE EMOTIONAL AND DO THNNGS OUTTA PITY.

Ihave been there, you can insult them all u want, they are bunch of controlled psychos who are trained to get ur MONEY, TREAT YOU AND SAY MR A IS RESPONDING TO TREATMENT OR SAY MR B DIED, DIDNT SURVIVE THE OPERATION. They are on a job, they can tell a mother who lost her baby that her child died and move to the next room to congratulate another of bringing a new born to the world. THEY MASK THEIR EMOTIONS AND GO WITH THE FLOW.

Can u be happy for Mr A and feel sad for Mr B within seconds (changing emotions just like that). I know we complain about Nigerian Doctors and Nurses .

In UK , the saddened victim sometimes traces Doctor and gun them down outta emotional breakdown. Doctor's aint robot.

They see dead and alive people every seconds. They are living like ghost everyday of their lives

This isn't about the issue, if you do your job and someone dies that's fine but to keep an emergency patient unattended to until the person does is unthinkable but it happens everyday. I have been in such situation until i marshalled them into emergency services instantly, someone with money and you are nonchalant about an emergency? i threatened legal actions and street if anything happens to my mum if she wasn't attended o before they alll did the needful. We need to do better

silaswills01:
The issue is 90% of nigerians have no idea hw the medical profession work

What is part of professional protocol looks like some kinda negligence to them

Medical negligence is more of a subjective term

Mostly it's bound in ignorance

Doctors are stretch overworked and underpaid working long long hours yet the society have the guts to insult or accuse them of being insensitive

No professional in Nigeria is overpaid they are all underpaid, does it mean that they are be singing this your story of underpaid to churn out this kind of attitude? This Engineer should churn out degrading designs because he is underpaid?

thesicilian:
You guys will come online to bash Nigerian doctors endlessly and mercilessly, even when you don't really know what happened, and then you'll go to the hospitals and expect them to lay their lives for you without paying.

Qhat if mw with the cash and they still do same shit? If not fir me using legal threat i would have list my mum during an emergency. Bro if this hasn't happened to you it would sound dumb

SoftSport:
While her pain is valid and heartbreaking let’s remember we don’t know the full story so we should avoid emotional outbursts and stop casting blame on an entire noble profession based on one incident.

Exactly Nigerian patients and their relatives are one of the most wicked weapons fashioned against doctors. From history taking down to treatment it's a struggle with them. Some lie, some will never answer your questions then there's poverty. Some drugs you prescribe to them are quite expensive then there's the fact that even after doing all your patient may still die. But then every profession has their bad eggs.

tiswell:
Is she the only one who has lost a loved one to the nonchalant attitude of Nigerian medical personnel??


Mbok make we hearbword

may the lord has mercy on u, I don't think it has happened to u, I went came bk from my state to drop my mum dead body because of the same thing, I run a test on my mum at general hospital they refuse to give us the results, for us to know with is wrong with her, till she die, pray u never pass tru what people are seeing in Nigerian hospital

EeyanMayweather:
We need to hear the full story madam.
Let’s deal with issues and not emotions

my brother be at general hospital just to observe what's happening there , I am a victim as well

tiswell:
Is she the only one who has lost a loved one to the nonchalant attitude of Nigerian medical personnel??


Mbok make we hearbword

Do you also plan to loose a loved one to the nonchalant attitude of Nigerian medical personnel?

EeyanMayweather:
We need to hear the full story madam.
Let’s deal with issues and not emotions

That is how they will rush to the social media with false and disjointed narratives.