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Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by Kobojunkie: 10:28pm On May 18, 2025
Noblemanonpoint:
➜She's not lonely, it's takes good emotional intelligence and a matured mind to have happy home. My wife is smart and a matured lady who was brought up in a good home, not bothered about feminist gibberish and all that. She's an epitome of a Godly woman.
➜ It will be the worst mistake for any man to marry a woman who is emotionally imbalanced and doesn't know what she wants. She's married and she understands the assignment, as long as i remain a good husband to her. Marry a Godly woman, that's the advise i can give to men.
1. As I already mentioned, mental illness does not know one's religion or status. Even the emotionally intelligent and mature folks among us are not immune. undecided

2. One of the worst mistakes a woman can make is to marry a man who considers her a trophy to boast about and not much else to have. So much of that boasting is a clear sign of many things already wrong. undecided
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by Noblemanonpoint: 10:41pm On May 18, 2025
Kobojunkie:
1. As I already mentioned, mental illness does not know one's religion or status. Even the emotionally intelligent and mature folks among us are not immune. undecided

2. One of the worst mistakes a woman can make is to marry a man who considers her a trophy to boast about and not much else to have. So much of that boasting is a clear sign of many things already wrong. undecided
You clearly don't know anything about marriage.

She's not a trophy wife, there's nothing wrong in holding your wife in high esteem. Like i said, i married my friend.

In fact, I have confirmed countless times, she speaks highly of me as well.

We're both successful career people, top earners in our respective fields, it's a symbiotic relationship.

You seem like someone leading a really sad life, because i can see where this is going with your remarks.

I only hope you find peace, if you're deserving of it. Bye.
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by Kobojunkie: 10:45pm On May 18, 2025
Noblemanonpoint:
➜You clearly don't know anything about marriage. She's not a trophy wife, there's nothing wrong in holding your wife in high esteem. Like i said, i married my friend.
➜ In fact, I have confirmed countless times, she speaks highly of me as well. We're both successful career people, top earners in our respective fields, it's a symbiotic relationship.
➜ You seem like someone leading a really sad life, because i can see where this is going with your remarks.
➜ I only hope you find find peace, if you deserving of it. Bye.
1. Over several comments, you have described your wife as exactly that, something for you to boast about, and now you wish to convince us that she isn't just that to you? undecided

2. That is definitely the typical Nigerian marriage for you.

3. Oh, I am not even trying to compete with anyone in anything. So, don't even mind me at all. Continue with your boasts. grin

4. Don't worry about me... just focus on you and yours. grin
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by kpankpangolo: 11:29pm On May 18, 2025
Nairaland should make summaries a requirement. Sometimes the summaries pique my interest and cause me to read the full article.

Glimpsetv:
Summary:
A woman, married for 15 years, shocked viewers during a live episode of Tonight’s Conversation when she asked how to convince her husband to let her continue seeing her side man. The unexpected question left the audience stunned, but host and relationship coach Kittie Rose responded with a firm and insightful answer.
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by kpankpangolo: 11:31pm On May 18, 2025
PUNANI01:
This generation! I wonder what next generation will be like..
Does the woman look like a Gen Z? Una go dey type "this generation" without taking things into consideration.
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by PUNANI01: 11:51pm On May 18, 2025
kpankpangolo:
Does the woman look like a Gen Z? Una go dey type "this generation" without taking things into consideration.
Snubbed! cool
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by SAMBARRY: 10:12am On May 19, 2025
theredaddy:
Mother of 6 by 6 speak for yoursef thats how it works, it as if the universe is listen to me i heard a related story tonite on mainland fm

A certain wife her husband cheated decided to cheat back, she joined a Gym and god answer her prayer she found a super cute guy, in no time they started dating and sex follows, then the guy ask for her anal sex, out of curosity she agreed.... womeeeeen !

after anal sex aunty started bleeding in her anus, she no fit poo no matter how she try, went to the hospital and seems aunty pipe as being infected she dey discharge smelly fluid .. now she asking how to tell her husband

shey una see una lives outside, miss i must cheat back
lmao stop projecting your pain.this your deflection tactic will not work.i dont have 6 children by 6 different men because in the 1st place I am super mindful about who has access to my womb grin

I am not responsible for your pain or anger.pele dear grin
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by SAMBARRY: 10:14am On May 19, 2025
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OlawaleBammie:
grin grin grin

As u dey drop ur aza sha drop ur fon number join... grin
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by OlawaleBammie: 11:11am On May 19, 2025
SAMBARRY:
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ehennn so what is deterring you from sending it?? grin
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by SAMBARRY: 12:16pm On May 19, 2025
OlawaleBammie:
ehennn so what is deterring you from sending it?? grin
I changed my mind cool
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by OlawaleBammie: 1:48pm On May 19, 2025
SAMBARRY:
I changed my mind cool
Why are u afraid.. I just want to discuss with you na
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by 7arrows: 10:11am On May 22, 2025
SAMBARRY:
grin no be small thing, me sef stand gidigba grin

It's so easy for them to reveal who they truly are with one triggering comment grin

All of them are suddenly getting unnecessarily defensive and talking about divorce grin the same people that will even shame a woman for divorce or exiting her marriage grin tongue

This is exactly the reason why shera will say stop listening to what men say,instead watch what they do,that will give you an insight about who they truly are grin
How many heart breaks have you had? Don't allow that define you. I assure you there are still good men out there. Just observe
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by SAMBARRY: 7:16pm On May 22, 2025
7arrows:
How many heart breaks have you had? Don't allow that define you. I assure you there are still good men out there. Just observe
another one.

Projecting will not work, deflecting is a waste of time grin try another gaslighting antic grin

If not that you are manipulative and unreasonable, you will point out the lie in what I said objectively without trying to sound personal. Even oyinbos have a saying ACTIONS ARE LOUDER THAN WORDS.therefore anybody that is wise will follow a mam's actions instead of his words.matter of fact, words mean nothing, actions shows who you really are wink
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by maasoap(m): 11:13am On May 24, 2025
SAMBARRY:
lol if you are behaving well with decency and consideration, why are you uncomfortable with being mirrored? grin infact you should be happy about having a taste of your medicine grin

Where did I also make mention of equality? Its a simple arithmetic, if you're kind to others, you have nothing to fear,but this one you're getting all worked up and agitated, why can't you yourself encourage your gender to behave well? Is it that hard to be a decent ,kind and considerate spouse
to your wife? wink grin

The more they enter my mentions,the more they expose themselves. Just one poke,fiam grin
My point is simple and clear. I'm not telling married women not emulating cheating husbands but I'm telling them to weigh their options very well in case their husbands don't think that they too deserve to cheat.
You know, men know the likely consequences. Women should do too to avoid stories that touch the heart
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by SAMBARRY: 7:55pm On May 24, 2025
maasoap:
My point is simple and clear. I'm not telling married women not emulating cheating husbands but I'm telling them to weigh their options very well in case their husbands don't think that they too deserve to cheat.
You know, men know the likely consequences. Women should do too to avoid stories that touch the heart
hen it's a simple maths.its either she stays with a cheating spouse and likely collect hiv or untimely death or she leaves to live. Na she go choose the ones she wants.even yorubas hav a saying any cheating spouse is likely going to kill himself or his spouse in the process him or her cheating. Bottomline just be decent and respectyour marriage/family and yourself. I don't believe that's too hard to do except the person is a maniac or has some sort of mental disorder
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