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AllBlack:
Bring out your facts instead of just typing without saying anything

Have you noticed the change in the women folk in the past 30 years?

- There are more women starting up business compared to the 90s (more independent minded)

NOTHING VALID SAID!

- Remember back then when it was mostly male children in school and government was advocating for GIRL CHILD EDUCATION? do you still hear that?

- Back then a girl would hardly go out at night but now you see them at lounges and soft life spots 247 (more liberty)

- Social media has opened new doors of female liberty did you hear of feminism in your mom's time?

- Back then, many of the things women do now, they only do in secluded places (ashy joints and clubs) and at night. But now, a girl will come out with no BRA/PANT and light weed in clear daylight.

- Even the police has embraced the new changes. When was the last time you heard of police raiding Ashy joint compared to 15-20 years ago when the raid was daily?

Ngwa man wake up and smell the roses.

APOPTOSIS:
Must you marry...
Since you detest men, why not stay single. 🤷🏾‍♂️
We have said it countless times and he has summarized it again.
Marriage is not for everyone and that includes you.

Careente7:
There’s nothing godly about a submissive man


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obaidan:
the street of singlehood is filled with single beautiful ladies in their 30s, early 40s......it is almost over for the marriage institution actually. YOung men have realized the truth- you will toil, you will labour for the family, you will sacrifice just for someone or some people to label u absent father. Not hands-on. YOu will suppress your ego yet u will be labelled misogynist because u are doing the sensible thing-stamping ur authority and not letting a girl manipulate you emotionally. AT the end of it all, u use ur sweat ur money to build the family, the children, the children starts flourishing .......u do not have their companionship, the affection belongs to the manipulative gender. WHY MARRY THEN, why not use your money to enjoy your life, build better network, do better health insurance for yourself, and raise your kids with a girlfriend that is ready to play by your rules. Some will say, she will leave when she gets the person that will marry her- How is that your own problem as a man? Are you looking for a loyal partner OR someone that wants to use you to fulfill her dreams of being a Mrs.
Let your kids judge you by the fact you are their father and you are pampering them and taking care of them as your children appropriately, NOT by a distorted story that a woman will feed them about how you are "terrible" husband just because you are not simping.
Then there is another group that have used their productive and fertile years to wait and look for Tall Dark and Handsome and yahoo boys and rich men. Now Body dun wrinkle, everything dun scatter, dem come dey find any decent boy that will come and clean up the mess

adeniyilamlek:
➜man is the head of the family

Hisroyalbadmeat:
➜Ndi feminist are coming for Man of God,

StoryHaven:
➜Exactly. They desire marriage but don't want to be under a man's instruction. They want Mallage
Not Marriage.

Kobojunkie:
The Law of the land, which defines marriage for the people, allows women who do not desire the submission idea to equally and legally enter into marriage. This man, pretending that marriage is as defined by him and his private delusions, is in the wrong.

A man who wants a woman who would submit to him would have to specifically select only women who subscribe to the same ideas that he does. It is unethical to attempt to impose submission on a woman who never agreed to it, or against the agreement you initially made with the woman.

StoryHaven:
➜you have started blowing your meaningless grammar. Good luck to you

Kobojunkie:
. It is meaningless to you because you can't stand the fact that women have options in marriage and that marriage offers those options so people can safely pursue their desires only with those who share the same? Typical ignorant Nigerian! 🙄🙄

press9jatv:
“Once you discover that you cannot submit to a man, don’t marry. You can be fulfilled without a man”

-Pastor Abel Damina tells women


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dckLMGK5Syk

pocohantas:
Why are you obsessed with this decision of mine, MALIGNANTGUEST? Who exactly are WE? You and other charlatans who promote adultery in the name of PEACE OF MIND?
Marriage to you and your kind is indeed not for everyone. It is not for me. 🤝

APOPTOSIS:
So you dey find man too.
It's so shameful that you would go back to your vomit. U never start to pray.
U go end up for Shiloh again and again.
U dey find man....Just imagine!
Must you marry...?

pocohantas:
Tier 57 men and projections. 😂😂😂

Mahone05:
What if God gives you a man who is submissive?

APOPTOSIS:
I would have linked you up.
Like I did for some.
One better catch can change your life and destiny forever. But you be bad market.
U prefer to be a widow than a wife, so u fit hustle half bag of rice from churches.

femi4:
Well said

SmartPolician:
That's very true. A woman who thinks she has arrived will hardly be loyal...In fact, it takes a man who is by far richer than her to get her to obey him.

Proudlyngwa:
Daz not true

AllBlack:
Bring out your facts instead of just typing without saying anything

Have you noticed the change in the women folk in the past 30 years?

- There are more women starting up business compared to the 90s (more independent minded)

- Remember back then when it was mostly male children in school and government was advocating for GIRL CHILD EDUCATION? do you still hear that?

- Back then a girl would hardly go out at night but now you see them at lounges and soft life spots 247 (more liberty)

- Social media has opened new doors of female liberty did you hear of feminism in your mom's time?

- Back then, many of the things women do now, they only do in secluded places (ashy joints and clubs) and at night. But now, a girl will come out with no BRA/PANT and light weed in clear daylight.

- Even the police has embraced the new changes. When was the last time you heard of police raiding Ashy joint compared to 15-20 years ago when the raid was daily?

Ngwa man wake up and smell the roses.

obaidan:
the street of singlehood is filled with single beautiful ladies in their 30s, early 40s......it is almost over for the marriage institution actually. YOung men have realized the truth- you will toil, you will labour for the family, you will sacrifice just for someone or some people to label u absent father. Not hands-on. YOu will suppress your ego yet u will be labelled misogynist because u are doing the sensible thing-stamping ur authority and not letting a girl manipulate you emotionally. AT the end of it all, u use ur sweat ur money to build the family, the children, the children starts flourishing .......u do not have their companionship, the affection belongs to the manipulative gender. WHY MARRY THEN, why not use your money to enjoy your life, build better network, do better health insurance for yourself, and raise your kids with a girlfriend that is ready to play by your rules. Some will say, she will leave when she gets the person that will marry her- How is that your own problem as a man? Are you looking for a loyal partner OR

Reverseng:
This is nonsense
When you find out you can't submit to your wife too, don't marry.