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Mindlog:
After 30.

I recommed you watch BEFORE 30 first, then AFTER 30.

Hourglass ⌛
Coke bottle shape very lovely to behold.

she eventually KNOW the TRUTH before 40, ITS SAFE to say SHE aint F00L4Ever

Shut the bleep up

Baronthecelebri:
Nice waist

Nice waist trainer you mean?

Happy birthday to you. Many happy returns. LLNP in Jesus name. Amen.

Can u show her face without makeup maybe I ll recognize her pls

She’s extra extra beautiful

Happy 40th

Truths9ja:
Person owed me plenty money. Happy birthday 🎂 to you beautiful actress Adegbite.

Same here o...

Many people owe me money... These yéyébrities will just be forming philosopher and be talking anyhow...

Awón òní yéyé

Shhh
Bet Companies owe me oo

Say the people who feel always entitled to a mans wealth

Ttipsy:
happy birthday

but the caption no make sense at all
where is it coming from

I think her caption is coming from place of hurt, after family and friends don tell you nobody owe you, imagine god cum bless you..

when you drop that caption those friends go know

"Nobody owes you anything" is not a positive way to live.
Live life expectant.
Even in nature, when you sow seeds, you expect fruits.
It's all about what you put out.

Happy birthday to her.

chidiokay:
I think her caption is coming from place of hurt, after family and friends don tell you nobody owe you, imagine god cum bless you..

when you drop that caption those friends go know

I understand

She has always been a beautiful woman.
Even more beautiful as she is getting older.
HBD to her.❤️

That waist trainer is visible from space.

Small girl don finally ripe. Sweet looking thing.

Rubyjade:

🛑 Nobody Owes You Anything 🛑

That job?
That support?
That opportunity?
It’s not guaranteed.
And that’s okay.

Because once you stop waiting for the world to hand you something,
you start building it yourself.

💪 Be the one who shows up.
💡 Learn the skills.
🔥 Create your own momentum.

Entitlement holds you back.
Ownership sets you free.

Remember:
You're not behind.
You're not stuck.
You're just getting started — and it’s all in YOUR hands.

#SelfMotivation #Discipline #MindsetShift #TakeCharge #NobodyOwesYouAnything

Omooo mke una shut the heck up with all these useless stingy motivation talk.... I personally trained 3 young men 7 years ago when they approached me for industrial attachment.... My business was small then and didn't have no extra capital.... But I sacrificed to ensure they got knowledge and could take care of themselves with the small funds I paid them.... Fast forward today they are all doing well and still call to thank me.... I could have easily said no one owned them anything and acted like stupid fcccvvkkk the way you guys are.... But they needed opportunity, just opportunity and I have them.... So shove all these nonsense talk that are mostly rechoed by fake people with no substance

“Courage is more exhilarating than fear and in the long run it is easier. We do not have to become heroes overnight. Just one step at a time, meeting each thing that comes up, seeing it is not as dreadful as it appeared, discovering we have the strength to stare it down.” – Eleanor Roosevelt

You’re coming from a place of real experience, and that deserves respect. But let’s go into this with both truth and clarity, not just heat.

Yes — what you did was noble, powerful, and life-changing. You gave opportunity where many wouldn’t. That’s true leadership, and it reflects real heart. No argument there.

But here’s the strong counterpoint:

Giving should be celebrated — not expected.
The phrase “Nobody owes you anything” isn’t a license to be cold or selfish. It's a call for people to stop waiting for handouts and start moving with self-drive, so that when help comes, they build with it — not depend on it forever.

You gave those young men something powerful: opportunity. But they chose to run with it. You didn’t owe them that — you chose to sow into them. And because they had the right mindset, they made it work.

So the message isn’t “never help anyone.”
The message is: don’t wait for the world to rescue you — be ready when grace shows up.

Because let’s be honest:

Some people get chances and waste them.

Some wait their whole life expecting someone else to lift them.

And some, like your boys, take the blessing and multiply it.

So no — people shouldn’t walk around expecting to be rescued.
But yes — the world needs more people like you, who still choose to give a chance.

So both truths can live together:

Nobody owes you anything.

But greatness shows when someone gives, even when they don’t have to.

You’re the exception. You’re the rare kind of man who gives without noise.
But the message still stands: If no one comes to save you — save yourself.
And if you do find someone who offers a hand — honor it like gold.

That’s how we move forward. Balanced. Real. And not fake.

Tradepunter2:
Omooo mke una shut the heck up with all these useless stingy motivation talk.... I personally trained 3 young men 7 years ago when they approached me for industrial attachment.... My business was small then and didn't have no extra capital.... But I sacrificed to ensure they got knowledge and could take care of themselves with the small funds I paid them.... Fast forward today they are all doing well and still call to thank me.... I could have easily said no one owned them anything and acted like stupid fcccvvkkk the way you guys are.... But they needed opportunity, just opportunity and I have them.... So shove all these nonsense talk that are mostly rechoed by fake people with no substance

I wish I see more of her on screen

Josbreed:
I recommed you watch BEFORE 30 first, then AFTER 30.

I have watched before 30.

Mindlog:
I have watched before 30.

I didn't realise there was a sequel to Before 30 (which i watched), thanks for sharing that post.

Bukola94:
Tell me one film she act in, I don't usually see her in films.

tinsel is are most popular series. Had a crush on her then. But is she seriously 40, I was a teen when I used to watch her then on tinsel.

Bukola94:
Tell me one film she act in, I don't usually see her in films.

before 30, after 30, flower girl, tinsel

Celebrating 40 years of living a fake like. Happy Fake life.

Bukola94:
Tell me one film she act in, I don't usually see her in films.

adedayoa2:
before 30, after 30, flower girl, tinsel

In addition to the ones you've mentioned - Isoken, Merry men. Although I agree, she is not someone you see all over the place in different movies. Whether that is by choice or not, I don't know.

Not even the Nigerian government??

Truths9ja:
“Nobody Owes You Anything” – Actress Damilola Adegbite Shares Emotional Life Lesson After Turning 40.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OPcrc0Mnd8o

Not that these types need my respect but I will admire her if she could take pictures with little or no make up or even take a selfie immediately she wakes up then start lecturing us about life's lessons.

All this over the top make up and skin toning then you insult our intelligence by talking about lessons learnt from aging.

Abeg forget.

Bukola94:
Tell me one film she act in, I don't usually see her in films.

Haha...one of the reigning actresses? Popular all over Africa