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I read a comment on a social media post stating that Yahoo Boys are the major cause or makers of single mothers in Nigeria. Although I'm not a fan of Yahoo boys and completely against it.

I think the major reasons that have produced single mothers among young girls below the age of 25 are:

LAZINESS
GREED
AND DESPERATION

Young ladies are now very lazy to work. They don't want to actively engage themselves in production that's why they will immediately try to get pregnant for a young man out of desperation to PIN the young man down for their survival especially when they meet money miss road men like Yahoo boys and the likes but will later meet their Waterloo.

What's the methodology and the data?

Single mothers have been around since the beginning of humanity, even your forefathers had concubines whom they had children with.

And who knows? maybe if you dig deeper into your ancestral background, you might find that you're the great great great great grandson of one concubine from centuries ago...

...

Ediko5

In case nobody told you yet, a girl/woman can’t impregnate herself alone.

Okay

You made so valid points. But I think this baby mama thingy is not a new phenomena....e don dey happen since

Samantha125:
Single mothers have been around since the beginning of humanity, even your forefathers had concubines whom they had children with.

And who knows? maybe if you dig deeper into your ancestral background, you might find that you're a great great great great grandson of one concubine from centuries ago...

😅😂🤣🤷

End time prophecy, lover of money,

Maeve7:
Ediko5

In case nobody told you yet, a girl/woman can’t impregnate herself alone.

Yes and most single mothers manipulated men to impregnate them mainly due to the above 3 reasons. I have overcome them severally due to my intelligence and sanity

muyico:
End time prophecy, lover of money,

Prophecy ?

ediko5:
Yes and most single mothers manipulated men to impregnate them mainly due to the above 3 reasons. I have overcome them severally due to my intelligence and sanity

Ok, so the other men were manipulated because they are not as intelligent as you are and somewhat insane. Got it.

Maeve7:
Ediko5

In case nobody told you yet, a girl/woman can’t impregnate herself alone.

A girl solely determine what happens after sex, when it's abortion time you support my body my rule and if she refuses to abort it's no longer my body my rule

After sex a girl solely determine whether to allow fertilization to occur or not , she can distort this fertilization by taking after sex pill before or immediately after sex, most women in today's world who kept this process going actually know what they were doing but sometimes the end doesn't justify the plans leading to SM.

Samantha125:
Single mothers have been around since the beginning of humanity, even your forefathers had concubines whom they had children with.

And who knows? maybe if you dig deeper into your ancestral background, you might find that you're the great great great great grandson of one concubine from centuries ago...

Urgh...

So crass....

You're right bro

I invite one lady over to my house three weeks ago

I just day pity the lady boyfriend or fiance

For her to have accepted my invitation while she's in a relationship automatically she belongs to the street

GoodSpirit:
A girl solely determine what happens after sex, when it's abortion time you support my body my rule and if she refuses to abort it's no longer my body my rule

After sex a girl solely determine whether to allow fertilization to occur or not , she can distort this fertilization by taking after sex pill before or immediately after sex, most women in today's world who kept this process going actually know what they were doing but sometimes the end doesn't justify the plans leading to SM.

Before fertilization a man solely decides if to use a condom. Before fertilization a man solely decides if to release inside. Before fertilization a man decides to have intercourse with someone he is not married to.

Next thing you will tell me is how you want to be the head in your family when you are not even in charge of your own body bringing innocent children into this world without means to take care of them. Nonsense.

So Op it is laziness of the women that made men release into them and produce babies okwaya? And you went to school, with your alleged intelligence, you didn't think that single mothers are rampant because two grown up adults choose to have sèx outside marriage without protection, which resulted to babies abi

Mryacks:
You made so valid points. But I think this baby mama thingy is not a new phenomena....e don dey happen since

Yeah, the wave of single mothers really increased in the 21st century when the m-a-d Ness of feminism was embraced by ignorant ladies. The felt being a single mother will make them classy ladies in the society.

Look at the menace single mothers have cause d on the streets of African American dominated area of the United States.

So many of them are really regretting now

GoodSpirit:
A girl solely determine what happens after sex, when it's abortion time you support my body my rule and if she refuses to abort it's no longer my body my rule

After sex a girl solely determine whether to allow fertilization to occur or not , she can distort this fertilization by taking after sex pill before or immediately after sex, most women in today's world who kept this process going actually know what they were doing but sometimes the end doesn't justify the plans leading to SM.

Well said man.
Without the acceptance of a girl in this modern era, the pregnancy can be terminated within 2 days or one week

Maeve7:
Before fertilization a man solely decides if to use a condom. Before fertilization a man solely decides if to release inside. Before fertilization a man decides to have intercourse with someone he is not married to.

Next thing you will tell me is how you want to be the head in your family when you are not even in charge of your own body bringing innocent children into this world without means to take care of them. Nonsense.

@ first bolded You are wrong, if the man refuses to use condoms the girl can object to the s*x so he isn't solely responsible for this.

@ second bolded, you are just playing semantics with words, the facts still remains a woman determine whether she is ready to accept fertilization to occur or not, most do this to initiate an order . Some are successful while others are not.

Olachase:
I invite one lady over to my house three weeks ago

I just day pity the lady boyfriend or fiance

For her to have accepted my invitation while she's in a relationship automatically she belongs to the street

A lot of men still go ahead to marry this kinda ladies even after the signs are boldly written.

Don't domesticate with belongs to the wild.
Stop personalising a community property

JovialJune:
So Op it is laziness of the women that made men release into them and produce babies okwaya? And you went to school, with your alleged intelligence, you didn't think that single mothers are rampant because two grown up adults choose to have sèx outside marriage without protection, which resulted to babies abi

Read the response by GoodSpirit

Seun make me tire the comment on NL with ban every 30 minutes

ediko5:
Read the response by GoodSpirit

Seun make me tire the comment on NL with ban every 30 minutes

You too read the response by maeve7 to GoodSpirit,

An education most of you nairaland males need, instead of constant denial and blaming the female gender.

GoodSpirit:
@ first bolded You are wrong, if the man refuses to use condoms the girl can object to the s*x so he isn't solely responsible for this.

@ second bolded, you are just playing semantics with words, the facts still remains a woman determine whether she is ready to accept fertilization to occur or not, most do this to initiate an order . Some are successful while others are not.

If she refuses, he can still say no or not come inside. Thanks for making my point. Very simple.

ediko5:
Yeah, the wave of single mothers really increased in the 21st century when the m-a-d Ness of feminism was embraced by ignorant ladies. The felt being a single mother will make them classy ladies in the society.

Look at the menace single mothers have cause d on the streets of African American dominated area of the United States.

So many of them are really regretting now

True this ...

Deception is part of it.
If I open my leg for him he will marry me.

Op no well
Answer to your post is
1 lack of sense
2 poor sexual education
3 they are adolescent and they are adventurous
4 in some cases greed and I don't care lifestyle.
5 bad parenting.

JovialJune:
So Op it is laziness of the women that made men release into them and produce babies okwaya? And you went to school, with your alleged intelligence, you didn't think that single mothers are rampant because two grown up adults choose to have sèx outside marriage without protection, which resulted to babies abi

Single mothers produce by marriage are more than it produce by boyfriend-girlfriend.

There are many reasons for high rate of single mothers in Nigeria today:

1. People married for a wrong purpose or reason.

2. The decline in family values.

3. Modernity.