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Obakoolex:
Riches is not only the valuable thing.


I pity your cousin by the way, if she doesn't remarry in 12 months she will regret her decision cos she might become another person sidechick.

She's been remarried now for 8years if am not mistaken.

DrAkpa:
And she is dating married men now I believe

Nope. She remarried and still married now for 8years. Not every woman tolerates infidelity especially if they are educated and have small change

Nna2025:
Hello Nairalanders, I know we are very sensitive to cheating so I ask for forgiveness.

I had a fling with a girl I have known for sometime now, I used CD but at some point, I used my finger. I started reading about Hiv and the possiblity of contracting it through fingering. Although my readings says % is very low provided there is no fresh injury, however I opted for PEP to calm my nerves. ( Pep is a drug used, when you suspect an exposure to HIV, remember you have 36hours to take it or else it won't work)

I tore off the pack, hid it in something and kept it in my bag. My wife for whatever reason searched my bag, saw it googled it and came back shouting and screaming since last night. My only comment to her is let's go for hiv test And that the drug was for my asthma, I know she wants to take it somewhere for verification.

My only fear now is if I disclose the reason for taking PEP, then my marriage is in danger.


Anything I can do to salvage this situation, I do not have time. Please my people

When did you get married or you are day dreaming?

Someone fingered a girl and he's afraid of HIV..what a lie bikonu

You should have told her that you used an unsterilized clipper at the barbing salon.

Nna2025:
Hello Nairalanders, I know we are very sensitive to cheating so I ask for forgiveness.

I had a fling with a girl I have known for sometime now, I used CD but at some point, I used my finger. I started reading about Hiv and the possiblity of contracting it through fingering. Although my readings says % is very low provided there is no fresh injury, however I opted for PEP to calm my nerves. ( Pep is a drug used, when you suspect an exposure to HIV, remember you have 36hours to take it or else it won't work)

I tore off the pack, hid it in something and kept it in my bag. My wife for whatever reason searched my bag, saw it googled it and came back shouting and screaming since last night. My only comment to her is let's go for hiv test And that the drug was for my asthma, I know she wants to take it somewhere for verification.

My only fear now is if I disclose the reason for taking PEP, then my marriage is in danger.


Anything I can do to salvage this situation, I do not have time. Please my people

Nna2025:
Hello Nairalanders, I know we are very sensitive to cheating so I ask for forgiveness.

I had a fling with a girl I have known for sometime now, I used CD but at some point, I used my finger. I started reading about Hiv and the possiblity of contracting it through fingering. Although my readings says % is very low provided there is no fresh injury, however I opted for PEP to calm my nerves. ( Pep is a drug used, when you suspect an exposure to HIV, remember you have 36hours to take it or else it won't work)

I tore off the pack, hid it in something and kept it in my bag. My wife for whatever reason searched my bag, saw it googled it and came back shouting and screaming since last night. My only comment to her is let's go for hiv test And that the drug was for my asthma, I know she wants to take it somewhere for verification.

My only fear now is if I disclose the reason for taking PEP, then my marriage is in danger.


Anything I can do to salvage this situation, I do not have time. Please my people

Do you know that I don’t believe this story?

Nothing to be scared of.
Men do not benefit from marriage.
You will be better off single and young virgins will rush you. Tell her the truth. Be a man.

Nna2025:
Hello Nairalanders, I know we are very sensitive to cheating so I ask for forgiveness.

I had a fling with a girl I have known for sometime now, I used CD but at some point, I used my finger. I started reading about Hiv and the possiblity of contracting it through fingering. Although my readings says % is very low provided there is no fresh injury, however I opted for PEP to calm my nerves. ( Pep is a drug used, when you suspect an exposure to HIV, remember you have 36hours to take it or else it won't work)

I tore off the pack, hid it in something and kept it in my bag. My wife for whatever reason searched my bag, saw it googled it and came back shouting and screaming since last night. My only comment to her is let's go for hiv test And that the drug was for my asthma, I know she wants to take it somewhere for verification.

My only fear now is if I disclose the reason for taking PEP, then my marriage is in danger.


Anything I can do to salvage this situation, I do not have time. Please my people

What ever you do, don't ever admitted that you cheated on her.

Even till ur last breath, don't ever admit u cheated on her.

If you tell her, I promise that u will live to regret it for the rest of ur life.

I wouldn't want to be in your shoes right now guy.

tell her u had a cut while shaving or while playing with pins... Lol

Goodluck.

The funniest thing is that the so-called wife might even; be doing 3 some with others D nah person dem catch be thief . Meanwhile, adultery/ fornication is expensive don't even try it bcs it can kill your joy at any time

Nna2025:
Hello Nairalanders, I know we are very sensitive to cheating so I ask for forgiveness.

I had a fling with a girl I have known for sometime now.

Anything I can do to salvage this situation, I do not have time. Please my people

Either she listens to your explanation, withhold having sex with you for now, go for tests with you, rebuke you, punish you and slowly and gradually forgive you or she divorce you. Life still continues. Nah learning the hard way be dat

HIV is not Easy to contact unless u went Anal

This one no hard naaa. U go just talk say where u go barb dem cut your head and blood comot since no be your clipper you use

Nna2025:
Hello Nairalanders, I know we are very sensitive to cheating so I ask for forgiveness.

I had a fling with a girl I have known for sometime now, I used CD but at some point, I used my finger. I started reading about Hiv and the possiblity of contracting it through fingering. Although my readings says % is very low provided there is no fresh injury, however I opted for PEP to calm my nerves. ( Pep is a drug used, when you suspect an exposure to HIV, remember you have 36hours to take it or else it won't work)

I tore off the pack, hid it in something and kept it in my bag. My wife for whatever reason searched my bag, saw it googled it and came back shouting and screaming since last night. My only comment to her is let's go for hiv test And that the drug was for my asthma, I know she wants to take it somewhere for verification.

My only fear now is if I disclose the reason for taking PEP, then my marriage is in danger.


Anything I can do to salvage this situation, I do not have time. Please my people

Paragonpric:
Not true...my cousin left her valuable rich husband based on infidelity issues, her husband cheated on her. She only asked him one question..""if I cheated on you in our marriage will you forgive and accept me back?"" He couldn't answer.

Your cousin don't love her husband or probably being keeping plan B before the incidence. Women don't divorce their husbands because of cheating except she is tired of the marriage before.

Women in their subconscious minds knows that men are polygamous by nature, the ones that left only use it as an excuse to quit the marriage.

You mean PrEP?

Paragonpric:
Not true...my cousin left her valuable rich husband based on infidelity issues, her husband cheated on her. She only asked him one question.. ""if I cheated on you in our marriage will you forgive and accept me back?"" He couldn't answer.

He judged himself. He could have lied to save his marriage. And if his wife later cheat on him and he finds out, it would have been up to him to decide what to do

Nna2025:
Hello Nairalanders, I know we are very sensitive to cheating so I ask for forgiveness.

I had a fling with a girl I have known for sometime now, I used CD but at some point, I used my finger. I started reading about Hiv and the possiblity of contracting it through fingering. Although my readings says % is very low provided there is no fresh injury, however I opted for PEP to calm my nerves. ( Pep is a drug used, when you suspect an exposure to HIV, remember you have 36hours to take it or else it won't work)

I tore off the pack, hid it in something and kept it in my bag. My wife for whatever reason searched my bag, saw it googled it and came back shouting and screaming since last night. My only comment to her is let's go for hiv test And that the drug was for my asthma, I know she wants to take it somewhere for verification.

My only fear now is if I disclose the reason for taking PEP, then my marriage is in danger.


Anything I can do to salvage this situation, I do not have time. Please my people

Why atr you scared about bn divorced by your wife?

It simply means you are not valuable enuf

If a man has value, no woman would want to consider divorce even if you marry a second wife talk more of just a fling.

Men, constantly improve yourself, get value. No woman would dare threaten you with divorce.

NwaAmaikpe:




Our forefathers are all crying non-stop in their graves because of what today's man has become just because of you.

How can a supposed dimkpa be this jittery just because his wife may find out that he has played okoso outside?
The rule book says that you should not cheat if you do not have the balls to cheat.

You shagged a lady with a condom, yet you still had to bother google because you fingered her as well. What will people like us who can't pour except we go raw then do, use ChatGPT?

Do not get me wrong, I will never try to endorse cheating because that will be overfloogging a dead horse. It is an accepted fact that 98% of all men with the means and the opportunity cheat.

So my anger with you here is not that you are remorseful about cheating, or paranoid about possibly being infected, but because you are terrified of your wife.

If you are this scared of your wife, she will be very justified if she leaves you; because remaining with a sissy is tantamount to same-sex marriage and women know this; that's why they'd always love bad boys unconditionally.

Your wife should be grateful to you for being considerate enough to treat your exposure first before whambamming her.

As a happily married, certified expert in cheating whose specialty is raw sex, I can authoritatively confirm to you that you have nothing to worry about.

To answer your final question, the only thing that can salvage this situation is professionally well-played mindgames.
Bring down hell and brimstone, question her trust for you and the future of your union since she now resorts to going through your pocket.

If you can not gaslight or turn the table on a woman, then you are not mature enough to be in a marriage.

Chaiii....Badoooooo Turn the table against her and gaslight her . Be a man bro.

Paragonpric:
Not true...my cousin left her valuable rich husband based on infidelity issues, her husband cheated on her. She only asked him one question..""if I cheated on you in our marriage will you forgive and accept me back?"" He couldn't answer.

Yeah.and decided to stay single but available to other rich single guys or rich married guys,thereby elevating her post from a married woman to a side chick/second wife.

Carry your infection alone and don't infect the innocent woman.

Weak man!
Most likely she is the breadwinner in your home, that's why you are scared your wife wants to divorce you.

Which kin thing be this nah

pocohantas:
Nothing to be scared of.
Men do not benefit from marriage.
You will be better off single and young virgins will rush you. Tell her the truth. Be a man.

Pocohantas U sure your profile hasn't been hacked or what am I reading g from a feminist.


Anyway that your principle only applies in naija. For abroad, there's no difference being single or married, nobody is rushing U.

simple or your barber forgot to sterilize the clippers used to cut your hair and you couldnt let any harm befall your loved ones due to your own carelessness, so you had to take medical precautions.
Na why i like myself, I will always cook up a valid excuse

Blitzking:
Tell her u had an injury at work and needed to protect urself from any retroviral infection and was given the med by ur office clinic. Adjust as necessary

Hope she forgives you. But to tell you the truth cos I was also guilty b4. Stay away from side chicks , it always never ends well.

Nna2025:
Hello Nairalanders, I know we are very sensitive to cheating so I ask for forgiveness.

I had a fling with a girl I have known for sometime now, I used CD but at some point, I used my finger. I started reading about Hiv and the possiblity of contracting it through fingering. Although my readings says % is very low provided there is no fresh injury, however I opted for PEP to calm my nerves. ( Pep is a drug used, when you suspect an exposure to HIV, remember you have 36hours to take it or else it won't work)

I tore off the pack, hid it in something and kept it in my bag. My wife for whatever reason searched my bag, saw it googled it and came back shouting and screaming since last night. My only comment to her is let's go for hiv test And that the drug was for my asthma, I know she wants to take it somewhere for verification.

My only fear now is if I disclose the reason for taking PEP, then my marriage is in danger.


Anything I can do to salvage this situation, I do not have time. Please my people

You will not stop so let her go before you infect her with something dangerous

IceColdVeins:
simple or your barber forgot to sterilize the clippers used to cut your hair and you couldnt let any harm befall your loved ones due to your own carelessness, so you had to take medical precautions.
Na why i like myself, I will always cook up a valid excuse

U too much bros