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A female relationship expert highlights factors contributing to high rate of divorce, she said, when a lady enters a marriage and her expectations are not meant, she got challenged.

She also said, many of the ladies cannot hold intelligent conversations and cannot relate, and that's why, they get into man's bed even when they don't intended to, because they can't hold constructive conversations and they don't know how to draw the line.

Fiscus105:
➜A relationship expert highlights factors contributing to high rate of divorce, she said when a lady enters a marriage and her expectations are not meant, she got challenged.
She also said, many of the ladies cannot hold intelligent conversations and cannot relate, and that's why they get into man's bed unknowingly.

What does having weak conversation skills have to do with getting into a man's bed even when one does not want to? Na rape? The educational system in that country is truly messed up. This one is supposed to be a relationship expert, abi no be so?

Kobojunkie:
What does having weak conversation skills have to do with getting into a man's bed even when one does not want to? Na rape? The educational system in that country is truly messed up. This one is supposed to be a relationship expert, abi no be so?

If you are a man, you would have understood it better, .....girls can be easily manipulated and lured into bed because of their unintelligent conversations
The woman (relationship expert) nailed it, nothing to add or subtract, it left for ladies to know when and how to draw a line, wen going into relationship with guy.

Fiscus105:
➜If you are a man, you would have understood it better, that girls can be easily manipulated and lure into bed because of their unintelligent conversation
➜ The woman (relationship expert) nailed it, nothing to add or subtract, it left for ladies to know when and how to draw a line, wen going into relationship with guy.

Nonsense! Who fed you such nonsense? They are not easily lured into bed because of their unintelligent conversation. Many of those girls are more likely to be stupidly naive, some bordering on imbecilic. That has nothing to do with having bad communication skills. 🙄🙄🙄

2. You really believe that? WOW

I fully agree with her...

These days,it's almost impossible to find a lady whom you can hold a conversation with and she'd be following the flow till the end.........They are so dull to the extent that laziness have taken advantage of them as well . TBH,to find a lady whom you can have a discourse about life with these days,you may end up needing the accent and all the yeys of all the senators in Nigeria, that's if they haven't even gone into extinction by now

Worst of it all is now that prostitution has taken a huge step in our societies . Any conversation with a loose Nigerian banny must be settled in the man's bed

Very wayward lots

Sonnobax15:

I fully agree with her...

These days,it's almost impossible to find a lady whom you can hold a conversation with and she'd be following the flow till the end.........They are so dull to the extent that laziness have taken advantage of them as well . TBH,to find a lady whom you can have a discourse about life with these days,you may end up needing the accent and all the yeys of all the senators in Nigeria, that's if they haven't even gone into extinction by now

Worst of it all is now that prostitution has taken a huge step in our societies . Any conversation with a loose Nigerian banny must be settled in the man's bed

Very wayward lots

Meanwhile, when you advice ladies that, we are in era in which, woman should also strive to make sure she is bringing something to the table, Even if the money she is bringing is for herself alone......8/10 would be angry, majority only realising it, after 2 to 3 kids in marriage.

Kobojunkie:
Nonsense! Who fed you such nonsense? They are not easily lured into bed because of their unintelligent conversation. Many of those girls are more likely to be stupidly naive, some bordering on imbecilic. That has nothing to do with having bad communication skills. 🙄🙄🙄

2. You really believe that? WOW

Keep deceiving yourself and misleading other ignorant ladies.....I HAVE PERSONAL EXPERIENCE, I HAVE SLEPT WITH LADIES WHOM I KNEW, THEY FELL BECAUSE OF MY MANIPULATIONS CONVERSATIONS, IF NOT BECAUSE OF TALKS", I WOULDN'T HAVE SEEN COLOUR OF THEIR PANTS.

I totally agree what she's saying. Girls are weaker vessels, they're moved by what they hear. Some are not bold enough, they can't even hold a conversation. I think that parents are the cause, they should teach their girl child a lot of things.
Some are scared to tell their parents about the dangers they're facing, because they'll either shout, ignore or beat them. I once had this friend, she was raped by her so called "uncle" when she was 8 yrs old. She tried to tell her mom, but mom was too busy, begging the same uncle to come and stay with them because she was travelling for business purposes. To cut the long story short, she has lived with that secret for over 15 years, her mom knows nothing about her.

Not really "wrong expectations" but "high expectations" or "outrageous expectations".


If you want to enjoy this life and live a fulfilled life, please don't expect much from anybody, Expecting less or nothing from people; be it your lover, spouse, kids, friends, etc.

That’s why a lot of Nigerian women are unintelligent..Even the intelligent once get manipulative when they lose in a conversation..

Me and my babe go Dey talk small thing and the next na to flare up like WTF is wrong with you!!!..Why can’t we have a normal conversation without you raging like a Bull..

Peakdesign23:
I totally agree what she's saying. Girls are weaker vessels, they're moved by what they hear. Some are not bold enough, they can't even hold a conversation. I think that parents are the cause, they should teach their girl child a lot of things.
Some are scared to tell their parents about the dangers they're facing, because they'll either shout, ignore or beat them. I once had this friend, she was raped by her so called "uncle" when she was 8 yrs old. She tried to tell her mom, but mom was too busy, begging the same uncle to come and stay with them because she was travelling for business purposes. To cut the long story short, she has lived with that secret for over 15 years, her mom knows nothing about her.

This is one of the many reasons why people should heal from traumas before birthing offsprings.

Many people out there under the umbrella of 'parents' are a product of neglect & crooked childhood, then they grow up to become disgruntled & uncaring parents.

They use ''work'' & ''chasing money to sort out responsibilities'' to cover up their inadequacies.

Dzzzz:
Me and my babe go Dey talk small thing and the next na to flare up like WTF is wrong with you!!!..Why can’t we have a normal conversation without you raging like a Bull..

Any man who doesn't understand woman traits/behaviour would find it very very difficult to leave peacefully with wife, so far Ur wife not cheat on your, I will advise men to be looking at positive side of her and ignore the negative side.

Fiscus105:
Meanwhile, when you advice ladies that, we are in era in which woman should also strive to make sure she is bringing something to the table, Even if the money she is bringing would be to take care of herself alone......8/10 would be angry, majority only realising it, after 2 to 3 kids in marriage.

Na wetin I tell my ex be this ooo..use the money from your business wey we gather open for you to take care of yourself while I save up for rent and our marriage...she no talk... not knowing..it didn't sit well with her