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BeardedMeat:
Op didn't say you should give advice Juliet, he said tell us your experiences that others may learn.

Now, can you tell us your experiences or you want to send it tmy DM?

I caught her energy too.

rickleye:
Not too late to adopt a child and give the love and care . Help a relative with raising a child .
Hope you can heal , forgive yourself and move on . So every Father’s Day must be like arrows and knives stuck into your back and sides.
Adopt !!

Yea, every father's day... I always stay indoors and just wait for that day to pass by so fast, I don't attend church that period.

tonychristopher:
I am not talking about salary earners.... You mustn't earn salary you can creat jobs and earn well....

The world and riches are for entrepreneurs not for salary earners ....


You can't get rich abroad ! Take this from me

Why not . Salary earners buy houses , flip them and buy multiplex units . Buy a couple but pray for good tenants.
You have to start from somewhere- have an Idea seek start up funds and you could be on your way.

rickleye:
It can stop you have to find the root cause and not be judgmental about it. Some people cheat because they were enabled and some because there were frustrated. If the person is willing to change you can help .

ua right..

Staked 1k plus odds sporty. Cashed out 22k out of almost 3milla game. Everything later came

Stake games with confidence and trust the process. Avoid cash out like plague

Your caption should be, name mistakes you've made in the past, so that others can also learn from your past mistakes and not commit the same, not in life, life is not yet over for some people, some people are just starting their lives.

1Alex:
Not getting married in my 20's

Your 20s are too early to get married, unless you're a female. Many of the guys who got married that early are regretting.

Notice everyone talking about other people did to them.not there own perosnal error. Self rightouness. Are you saying you never made any personal mistake worth mentioning here?

Not serving Jesus Christ dedicatedly from my youth especially during higher education days

Engaging in sexual immorality

Having friends whose friendship structure, closeness, and operations was mainly based on drinking and immorality

Venturing into secondary teaching role after university

YemyTemmy:
Hehehehehe..... Tried such before, she Will only see you as fool for forgiving her, i got her counsellor , therapist , pastor o, everything , she till fell again.... Asked her to go, she dey threaten to comit suicide.... I just told her i Will support with hypo or otapiapia of her choice..... Her family Don dey call since yesterday , i no pick and i cant tell them its cos she always cheats

Hmm 🤔- with both sexes there is a reason, she likely got exposed to sex too early in life and appears to be a nymphomaniac . What are her triggers? How many times do you have sex ? Is she working ? Is it with an ex or neighbor? Does she watch porn ? There are so many questions . Anyways , all the best .

Getting marriage to a desperate 30+ lady. She's a liar, manipulator, self-centered, selfish and a pretender. I fell into her trap through lies and caring.

Not following God early in life
You would easily go astray and to return to default mode could be difficult but still possible ...
A life with God is the Best Life

GUNITGuy:
Not following God early in life
You would easily go astray and to return to default mode could be difficult but still possible ...
A life with God is the Best Life

lol 😂

SamoraWarrior:
Yea, every father's day... I always stay indoors and just wait for that day to pass by so fast, I don't attend church that period.

I know someone that is going to be 64 this oct
He got back from uk after 20 year and he is planning to marry.
So na e de bee sometimes
Take it as u c it.


is not that bad u can still marry.
Children no de hard to grow.

Hezzyluv:
Falling in love to the extent of buying fone for a girl. Easy buy for that matter ooo. And the broke girl dey expect me to always call her.

No matter what you do, never date a completely brokgirl. Especially, when entitlement mentality come join the tin.

omo. Sad situation.

SamoraWarrior:
Yea, every father's day... I always stay indoors and just wait for that day to pass by so fast, I don't attend church that period.

You have to deal with it .
Adopt a young child 0-4years and give that child the love and attention. You don’t want to grow old and not have someone around in your old age.

Cleanthes:
Going to university

Lolzzzzz 🤣

In nigeria or USA or Canada or where

Smoking

Sirchiboy:
Name one mistake you have made in life so someone else doesn’t do it.

BeardedMeat:
Op didn't say you should give advice Juliet, he said tell us your experiences that others may learn.

Now, can you tell us your experiences or you want to send it tmy DM?

Woman wrapper. Everyone here is doing the same thing

This isn't morality speaking, but if you can remain chaste.

oyolima:
Mine is getting married late.

At what age pls?

Taking student loans . Worse mistake, it’s designed to keep you poor or if you are lucky, middle class.

Leaving in same room with wife or fiance full-time.

You will loose the very essence and vigor .. that your many of your youth spirit and chase will disappear overtime ... You may never discover it again in your lifetime....

Solution: periodically skip home spend it with your Gees for few days, have a separate office or room at your home ... Maintain self & self originality and space with maturity never cut off all your that your street/ hustle poor colleagues .. they are many things hidden to you from your internal motivation to the next billionaires cos they must succeed and u may have isolated yourself from the train , thus missing one time opportunities... Don't let marriage change that side of you.

I regrete say I no fine better work learn

For me it is that i did not follow Jesus quite as much i should. By following Him i mean obeying Him completely in every sense of the word. For obedience to His Word brings success, breakthrough, deliverance, wisdom, peace, security and life everlasting...

Gambling, and not buying Bitcoin in 2011.
I regret joining Nairaland early 2011 as their Nairabet advert was what introduced me to football gambling.

I married using compatibility rather than seeking God's way.

SamoraWarrior:
Aborting the children I should have had today when I was in the university with my girlfriend then in school, about six abortion... Today I'm close to 50yrs, no wife no kids... My greatest regret😭

So what happened to your wife?

You you didn't find any girl after your she left?

imoh4king:
I married using compatibility rather than seeking God's way.

no reason am,even pastor marriage dey crash.

My cousin is a pharmacist and her husband is a doctor, the left to UK when the man was over 40 years and they are doing well now and are not interested in relocating back to Nigeria... not everyone regrets their decision to japa.

tonychristopher:
Never leave a well paying job or business to join the JAPA crowd... You will leave to regret it and don't ever travel or relocate at age of 40 upwards


You are on your own