₦airaland Forum

Tallest12345:
Dont use 70 percent of your money to build house or finish your house. Don't seek advice from too many people. Dont give your last card to people. Dont be too good sometimes act so that people will see you as a strong man that always respect himself.

Love800:
Many people with HND are doing well. Atleast the ones i have seen are flourishing. Maybe you were the problem!

imoh4king:
This is so on point. They carry Pastors and Church doctrine on their head. Never thinking outside the box. Guy, you feel my pain....

Oxb90:
what happened when you went back

bigdawg7:
Never date a girl from a broke family they are always in a relationship for survival not genuine love

jojo1415:
Advising my guys to vote for Apc and buhari in 2015, not marrying an only wealthy daughter I met because she was my age mate and has a kind of k-leg

FuckYeyeMods:
That I can marry anybody...
Guys! You can't just marry anybody. You have to do due diligence..
Marrying just anybody can have consequences.
Don't learn the hard way.
Marriage is different from Boyfriend and Girlfriend.

abobote:
Taking my wife to come and stay with me. I should have left her in Nigeria with the kids

Love800:
Is not about the sex. She can even love sex more than you.

But the problem with those kinds is, they are not productive. Always relying on some invisible spirits that does not exist to help dem!
You as the man will be drained, because you will be doing too much advising and guidance because those religious women cant think with their brains!

nickxtra:
A 2 nights quickies with a family female friend which resulted me being infected with a stubborn STD that am still battling with now. As if she knew what she did to me, she has not stepped her feet to our since then. I have not got close to my wife since for fear of infecting her.

...the infection normally scratches me around my private with offensive odour. I will appreciate any medication advice

hosemujica:
Taking student loans . Worse mistake, it’s designed to keep you poor or if you are lucky, middle class.

Dcaliphate:
Buying a car that was more expensive than all my assets at the time

Zackattack:
You are right. But that doesn’t stop you from respecting them. Wisdom is not directly related to age.
Whether they are wise or not, curtesy and culture demands that you respect them.
It is only a foolish person that disrespects elders.

Lilfire:
Never ever play aviator in your life, it's the worst mistake I have made in life, even my enemy I don't wish them what I have suffered in the hands of this virtual game called aviator, it will kill you in due time.

nickxtra:
What will I tell them. I dey shame o

franchasng:
Not leaving Nigeria very early in life. I should have been talking about retiring from anything work or business if I had left Nigeria at say 23 years of age.


Not digging gold when I got married. If I had married the politician daughter they recommended and linked me to, I would have been at least a House of Reps member today. But I felt I didn't want to marry someone whose father would be influencing my marriage, that was a huge mistake. If you see such opportunity as a single young man reading this, please grab it fast, all those rubbish mentality I had then was a huge mistake jareh, their influence will not last forever, at most 10 years.


To all single guys reading, whenever you want to marry, please if you see gold dig it very well. Love is a fallacy, don't marry just because of love or physical beauty or any other nonsense reason like big nyash, sex, etc. The girl's parents and family status matters a lot, if you think you dont need it now, you will need it tomorrow. Look at Ebuka Obi, he dug his gold perfectly by going for Young Shall Grow Motor's owner daughter. Even if Ebuka likes today he can squander all his wealth, his father-in-law's wealth will still keep his children wealthy for life because Young Shall Grow will definitely will a lot of assets to his daughter, Ebuka's wife and even her kids, I will do same for my daughter and her kids.



And to the young graduates still claiming Nigeria will favor me, continue deceiving yourself, your parents said the same thing, all the wealthiest Nigerians you see today once migrated abroad or lived abroad, majority of them, so if you see any opportunity to leave Nigeria, do so fast, the earlier the better for you. Leave fast, work, save, invest back in Nigeria via real estate, hotels, nightclubs, lounges, gym centers, avoid rentage building investment.


Also look for a trusted relative or friend, there is always one or two trusted relative or friend that wont rip you off, work with him or her, leverage on the two locations you know; the developed country you live and Nigeria by buying used things there, load in a container, add some tokunbo cars and send to Nigeria to resell....over time hire or rent or build a warehouse in a good city location, so you will be known for that and you will be sending these used items with container on regular basis and you have carved out a business niche for yourself to keep you busy when you decide to retire back in Nigeria.

franchasng:
Not leaving Nigeria very early in life. I should have been talking about retiring from anything work or business if I had left Nigeria at say 23 years of age.


Not digging gold when I got married. If I had married the politician daughter they recommended and linked me to, I would have been at least a House of Reps member today. But I felt I didn't want to marry someone whose father would be influencing my marriage, that was a huge mistake. If you see such opportunity as a single young man reading this, please grab it fast, all those rubbish mentality I had then was a huge mistake jareh, their influence will not last forever, at most 10 years.


To all single guys reading, whenever you want to marry, please if you see gold dig it very well. Love is a fallacy, don't marry just because of love or physical beauty or any other nonsense reason like big nyash, sex, etc. The girl's parents and family status matters a lot, if you think you dont need it now, you will need it tomorrow. Look at Ebuka Obi, he dug his gold perfectly by going for Young Shall Grow Motor's owner daughter. Even if Ebuka likes today he can squander all his wealth, his father-in-law's wealth will still keep his children wealthy for life because Young Shall Grow will definitely will a lot of assets to his daughter, Ebuka's wife and even her kids, I will do same for my daughter and her kids.



And to the young graduates still claiming Nigeria will favor me, continue deceiving yourself, your parents said the same thing, all the wealthiest Nigerians you see today once migrated abroad or lived abroad, majority of them, so if you see any opportunity to leave Nigeria, do so fast, the earlier the better for you. Leave fast, work, save, invest back in Nigeria via real estate, hotels, nightclubs, lounges, gym centers, avoid rentage building investment.


Also look for a trusted relative or friend, there is always one or two trusted relative or friend that wont rip you off, work with him or her, leverage on the two locations you know; the developed country you live and Nigeria by buying used things there, load in a container, add some tokunbo cars and send to Nigeria to resell....over time hire or rent or build a warehouse in a good city location, so you will be known for that and you will be sending these used items with container on regular basis and you have carved out a business niche for yourself to keep you busy when you decide to retire back in Nigeria.

ufotty2001:
Marrying a religious woman is my biggest regret in life.

ufotty2001:
Marrying a religious woman is my biggest regret in life.

BeardedMeat:
Op didn't say you should give advice Juliet, he said tell us your experiences that others may learn.

Now, can you tell us your experiences or you want to send it to my DM?

kingbee90:
Take advantage of "TIME".
You are aging faster than you think.

koladata:
I don't even have any regret

Didi2d:
Overlooking bad attitude when I was dating my wife, thinking she will change

tonychristopher:
Not having all my kids or children before 30 yrs


Never wait till millions come before you get married

IyaTola:
Person wey never touch 10m go think sey e dey change life 😔

IyaTola:
Why?

Love800:
You do sleep everyday at 8pm?

KayCee92:
Fatality