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Zooposki:
No woman should try the above o. Men not worth it. You will come to regrets later in life. In short no woman should be building with a man. 99 out of 100 of the time, you will regret.

With this mentality of yours any man that takes you serious maybe doom.

Yes there are so many bad men out there just like there are so many bad women too but life is all about risks

If you see a man you like with the right mentality, Education, Focus, Integrity, Discipline and Determination you can take a risk you just don't need to put all your trust learn how to eject when you spot the signs and if all you care about is how rich a man is then don't bother at all.

muyico:
Most of celebrity wey mingle with u, backwardness hits dem, look at Anthony Joshua and Isreal Adesanya, dey don dey collect wotowoto since d day they meet you, they thought is normal but no, even ex dat white, his club don go religation

Anthony Joshua is because he shook hands with failure (buhari)

BItt:
They should wait a bit more for maybe 5 more years. A rich handsome tall man is coming,
Because you are a princess

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FORWARDEVERLY:
You no count Victor Anichebe of Everton FC..
Naso D guy career kuku end after em follow her..

That girl father hand (wealth) no clean. It's affecting the children.

chidi2003:
Grow up, Kid! The world will soon overtake people of your type; stop this backward reasoning: this is twenty first century!

De play just de play. Spiritual doings is way bigger than you.

ricson11:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OsKpEcFme9c?si=5YuznzuG9QWhXJaI

Nigerian DJ and philanthropist DJ Cuppy shares a heartfelt message encouraging women over 30 who haven't yet found their life partner.

Her words aim to inspire hope, confidence, and self-love, reminding them that everyone’s journey is different

she u belive say nigerian men are not your level
na so so diasppoitment u go u
u wen dump arsenal for man u
how e b now.
madam go for 2 months dilivrance ok

The sweet part of it is her laughing at the end of the motivational speech. Even the foreigners that thought us one man, one woman are not following it.

ChristineC:
so why do you believe this cook wants to be in a romantic relationship with her?

He is just a reference for normal working guy she could hook up with and have her peace of mind and her real babies ..that would make her change pampers ...and disturb her sleep at night .. not dudu and funfun .

Well said!!!!!

ricson11:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OsKpEcFme9c?si=5YuznzuG9QWhXJaI

Nigerian DJ and philanthropist DJ Cuppy shares a heartfelt message encouraging women over 30 who haven't yet found their life partner.

Her words aim to inspire hope, confidence, and self-love, reminding them that everyone’s journey is different

Would have married cuppy but ppl go think say na becos of her money..I wonder how many guys think like that

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Truly Almighty God no dey do ojoro.....no human being is complete.
This my crush has been looking for husband for more than half a decade, yet men seem to be avoiding her like plague despite all the money she has.

Marriage requires mental, physical, and financial stability. Being independent and stable helps build a strong foundation for a healthy relationship. Prioritizing personal growth, well-being, and stability is essential for *both* men and *women* before and during marriage. This fosters respect, confidence, and a balanced partnership.

Where's berem?

Oceanjagaban:
Them no dey sell rotten meat for day-time

deep

muyico:
She don turn to motivational speaker

girl wey all guys for Nigeria won marry.

Mariangeles:
She's a pleasant human.
Always been.

How did yiu know this? Have you date her? Life on SM is different from life in the real world unless you are her classmate or sibling who have known her in real life before you can assert this way.

Auntie don enter church and religion because of husband matter...

It is really well

So wen u needed partner u turn born again.u hav forgotten wen u were busy giving Joshua n co kpekus on a steady

Babangidapikin:
I agree but she has been brought up in love all her life she needs to consider the love capital too not just the financial capital, I believe she has more than enough to sustain her earthly existence.

Of course love is important, but love isn't always enough for a marriage to work. A man can marry a woman who has nothing and the marriage works just fine cos that model follows the natural order of things; however, when you flip the table around, the financial imbalance quite often leads to marital issues, regardless of how good mannered the woman is (the problem usually stems from the mans ego and self confidence).

Yes she may have absolutely no money problems and can literally afford whatever she dreams of, but it's also vital that she settles with a man who's confident, independent and financially capable..

Blitzking:
Would have married cuppy but ppl go think say na becos of her money..I wonder how many guys think like that

Even if you're worth N10bn, if you marry Cuppy, the world would unfortunately still think you married her cos of her money. It's next to impossible to stave off these assumptions from the minds of people.

yinkeys:
Looks like people close to her aren’t even telling her the brutal truth
So she can’t help someone level up through her old man ?
Lol she go tey
Guys already made may not want her, maybe she’s looking for those dudes with ultra high status
She’s not as attractive as her sister that’s with Eazi
Let’s not even talk about character because we don’t know her
The smart thing she did was to lose weight, she used to be bigger
That ego will still diminish as the clock ticks
Tbh marriage isn’t for everyone, better to be single than rushed into mistakes, although eggs die off quickly
She should act fast if she wants kids

I don't think there's anything wrong with her wanting a man who's financially capable, independent and confident; someone who she or her loved ones wouldn't dare to view as a leech. There's nothing wrong with her wanting a man whose confidence and ego wouldn't be bruised by her status. And trust me when I say it takes a very rare and extreeeeme level of emotional intelligence for a man's self-esteem /confidence not to be impacted by the status imbalance.

Women find it hard to love men who aren't confident enough to 'lead' them, so regardless of her financial status, getting a financially stable and independent man is the best chance she has at having a stable and happy home.

obailala:
A woman of her status doesnt just need 'any' kind of man. The man has to be at a certain independent financial level, else there'd be an imbalance which could rock the foundation of the relationship.

Enlighten them, bro.

lexy2014:
all the men she has been meeting, are they paupers?

So because a person isn't a pauper, she should automatically jump and marry the person without considering other factors?

She don already store her eggs. Advising broke girls wey no get money

Lady wey too dey selective

sweetkev:
Status is meaningless in marriage. As a lady, if you are more concerned about your status, don't get married.

Status is an extremely important factor for a marriage to work; forget the stories you see on nollywood.

The natural order of things is for the man to be the 'leader' and 'provider' in the home. That's the reason a man could easily pick up a girl from a dumpsite, clean her up, marry her and the marriage would work out just fine. But the moment you turn things around, i.e. a woman marrying a man she's 100 times richer than, it creates an imbalance from the natural order of things which usually rocks the foundation of the relationship.

No matter how respectful or well mannered the woman is, the status imbalance at some point would crush the man's self esteem, confidence and ego, and women naturally don't fancy for long, men who lack confidence to lead them.