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pocohantas:
Nigerian men and confusion. The same people insulting women for entering marriages with N5000. The same people complaining that they are being married for poverty alleviation.

I don't pity many of you when you end up with the wrong women. It is what you deserve.
Wives that use you to pass time.

You always erroneously group all Nigerian men together based on our opinions.
If myself and 16 other Nigerian men say we like a woman with stretch marks on her bum, does that mean all Nigerian men like it?
Because the day some other men claim to not like it, you’ll be here on page 1 of the thread, complaining about how confused we are.

We are the same by nationality and not by opinions.

Increases which risk? Because I know some women who started having issues with fibroids as early as their late teens and early 20s...🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️

That doctor doesn't know what he's talking about.

Tallesty1:
Nature doesn't give a shit about anyone's interest.

Delayed childbearing doesn't cause fibroid but it increases the risk so?

Tallesty1:
How is he quark?

You dey mind the mugu?

Adakintroy:
All we do is copy. Even ideolgies that come naturally we still want to copy from the west. We not talking tech now. Just idea that is nexted in your own head you take someone else.

If you want to be independent strong woman you can. But you really have to be independent strong. It is attainable. However in an africa were men are desperately struggling. I will suggest you keep your backdoor open. As a woman it wont kill you to be respectfull and earn from men submmisively its not a bad option to have.

Caveman, there are a million and one ways to make money on the internet alone, that you’re poor and struggling is your business

It is men like you that advise your sisters and unborn daughters wrongly to become useless to society and depend on men, they will be insulted as they deserve for being as lazy as their brother. They will warm our son’s beds and become maids to our daughters

occfx:
You get time to reply old newspapers. Any lady above 35 who has not given birth before is already growing fibroid. The risk increases if she is a active in sex and preventing pregnancy artificially with medicines or other methods.

If you be man, hustle ooo. Go carry sweet 22 and make all your babies before she is 30.

You will have healthy babies with less wahala during pregy. All these old cargoes may have their money they got from sugar daddies and multiple body count but you go see shege wifing them.

No say I no warn you

Hahaha it's a funny statement you made.... Was in naija couple of months back and was with lady friends in outting... Can you imagine how one was trying so hard to get my attention knowing fully well am married with 2 kids..... I told her not a chance in hell will I sleep with her just cuz I came to naija breifly.... These are ladies that were all career career minded and very stable.... As I looked at them I was thinking to myself, at what cost?? They are pretty in their late 30s to early 40s... Even the guys present there just wanted to smash and want nothing to do with them relationships wise.... They made consistent joke of why don't I have single male friends

EVERY YOUNG WOMEN SHOULD TAKE THE ADVICE OF DR SOLOMON. PLEASE AND PLEASE, THESE FRUSTRATED WOMEN SHOULD STOP ATTACKING THE DOCTOR BECAUSE HE WAS SAYING THE ACTUAL TRUTH. AS A WOMEN, EARLY BIRTH IS FAR BETTER THAN LATE ONE. THANK YOU DOCTOR. [quote author=Chilipepper post=135614291]Doctor throws shade at women who want to be financially stable before having kids

Dr Solomon Kimera:


https://x.com/Solo_MDofficial/status/1929412809558790469?t=8y96zkuP4lT4OHYGwYe28Q&s=19[/quote]

IamMobisola:
Some of you talk out of sheer ignorance.

There are lots of ladies below 25years of age with fibroids. Go talk to a doctor you know and let them educate you properly.

If a lady in her 20s goes into marriage without being financially stable herself, you same lots will abuse such ladies saying they are gold diggers and liabilities.

Such ignorance

Na lie... Sweet 16 is every man's dream... Ask Ned. Men go for suger mummies just for the dough. No big reasonable boy needs a womans money for anything. I don't need your financial stability, just give me the opueh as e dey hot. Later, I go stabilize you as you want like 30kva stabilizer.

Kobojunkie:
Nonsense Go tell that to the many childfree women out there now in the 50s who never heard the word fibroid mentioned to them by their doctors.

Fibroids happen to women whether they have children or not. Yes, lots of women who have had children also encounter fibroids. A supposed professional scaring women into having kids they are not ready for is the highest level of professional ignorance.

100% correct. I know so many women that have given birth and still battling with fibroid.

Kobojunkie:
Nonsense Go tell that to the many childfree women out there now in the 50s who never heard the word fibroid mentioned to them by their doctors.

Fibroids happen to women whether they have children or not. Yes, lots of women who have had children also encounter fibroids. A supposed professional scaring women into having kids they are not ready for is the highest level of professional ignorance.

I am not a medical doctor and I can see the bullshit in his ascertion. Like you rightly pointed out he is far from being a professional.

Infact the delay of child bearing amongst women are common in the west, by his logic the prevalence of fibroid should be higher in the western world.

Mumu, you don dey call God now, African mentality, everything God God. A doctor is stating the obvious and you guys are busy insulting him, don't worry, you will finally be his customer in the near future.

iwaeda:
Only God knows who is fertile. Mocking people is out of imbalance of mind.

pocohantas:
Nigerian men and confusion. The same people insulting women for entering marriages with N5000. The same people complaining that they are being married for poverty alleviation.

I don't pity many of you when you end up with the wrong women. It is what you deserve.
Wives that use you to pass time.

Pocohantas you too much, twale🙌

Tradepunter2:
Hahaha it's a funny statement you made.... Was in naija couple of months back and was with lady friends in outting... Can you imagine how one was trying so hard to get my attention knowing fully well am married with 2 kids..... I told her not a chance in hell will I sleep with her just cuz I came to naija breifly.... These are ladies that were all career career minded and very stable.... As I looked at them I was thinking to myself, at what cost?? They are pretty in their late 30s to early 40s... Even the guys present there just wanted to smash and want nothing to do with them relationships wise.... They made consistent joke of why don't I have single male friends

Na so na, na them... Career women

Continue bashing women through your forum seun.
They are leaving in their numbers. It will soon become all male forum. This forum shows the toxicity of Nigerian men towards women. There are some guys I admire their intellectual but get disappointed when they discuss issues about women. In other words, they are like the rest of Nigerian men who just can't function without stepping on women. Don't know if it's religion, rigid culture and low self esteem that causes that.

You will know the real man around you when you start making close to what he makes in a year, or the same and above what he makes. It doesn't hide. That insecurity will just appear from nowhere. Even pastors. That's why they preach submission and this is Africa everyday. As if they know the tribes in 54 countries in Africa and their cultures.

Kobojunkie:
Abeg, Get lost! 🙄🙄🙄

Who gave this one his certificate and made him a doctor abeg! All these quarks calling themselves doctors and experts.

It’s still doesn’t change the fact
Fibroid are common in woman between the ages. Of 30 upwards
Goan fight with the creator

Kobojunkie:
Research the topic of fibroids to learn why I consider him a quark for trying to use it to guilt women into doing that which is clearly against their own interest. 🤔

fibroid is rampant with black women from 22years

Fibroid has a twin - MENOPAUSE. This too is equally waiting.

In today's world where most men are unreliable, unstable and struggling to survive it makes sense to me if a lady insists on being financially stable before having kids as long as she has not seen a wealthy, financially stable suitor yet. But once she has suitor who is already wealthy it no longer makes sense to me for her to insist on being financially stable before having kids.

Who says you can't pursue your dreams after having kids or even while being pregnant?

Tallesty1:
My father and grandfather were both over 80 when they died and never had prostate issues. So by your logic, prostate problems don't happen to men either, right?"

Everyone knows kobojunkie is a f*ol. Why arguing with him?

Kobojunkie:
Abeg, Get lost! 🙄🙄🙄

Who gave this one his certificate and made him a doctor abeg! All these quarks calling themselves doctors and experts.

there are several issues that occur during such times early menopause is also an issue but he is raising awareness for fibroid if the message is not for you ignore

Kobojunkie:
Abeg, Get lost! 🙄🙄🙄

Who gave this one his certificate and made him a doctor abeg! All these quarks calling themselves doctors and experts.

Miss kobo,
Don't be emotional about this.
Statistically, Black women are more prone to having Fibroids than any other race in the world
Fibroids get worse with age especially over thirty years of age.

In the olden days, they overcame this by the girls marrying early (between 16 and 20 years): by the time Fibroid is setting in, they have already given birth to four/five children.




Of course, not every black woman will have fibroids, but its the truth!

20s: 'I can have any man'

40s: 'any man can have me'

occfx:
You get time to reply old newspapers. Any lady above 35 who has not given birth before is already growing fibroid. The risk increases if she is a active in sex and preventing pregnancy artificially with medicines or other methods.

If you be man, hustle ooo. Go carry sweet 22 and make all your babies before she is 30.

You will have healthy babies with less wahala during pregy. All these old cargoes may have their money they got from sugar daddies and multiple body count but you go see shege wifing them.

No say I no warn you

all these small boys sef

pocohantas:
Nigerian men and confusion. The same people insulting women for entering marriages with N5000. The same people complaining that they are being married for poverty alleviation.

I don't pity many of you when you end up with the wrong women. It is what you deserve.
Wives that use you to pass time.

Tru tru, some men don't have the slightest idea wat they want.

Hmmmm

Not entirely factual straight forward

Professionals should be careful while making expensive joke online, so it won't mis- term

TenQ:
Miss kobo,
Don't be emotional about this.
Statistically, Black women are more prone to having Fibroids than any other race in the world
Fibroids get worse with age especially over thirty years of age.

In the olden days, they overcame this by the girls marrying early (between 16 and 20 years): by the time Fibroid is setting in, they have already given birth to four/five children.




Of course, not every black woman will have fibroids, but its the truth!

But you shouldn't have added 'it's the truth" to your comment

When you say it's the truth, then no variable added

Fibroid is a may happen, it only has risk factors

Maysdevices:
Caveman, there are a million and one ways to make money on the internet alone, that you’re poor and struggling is your business

It is men like you that advise your sisters and unborn daughters wrongly to become useless to society and depend on men, they will be insulted as they deserve for being as lazy as their brother. They will warm our son’s beds and become maids to our daughters

You can make your point without resulting to insult and angry comment. Its what other pretending intellectuals do. Which kind of man advice daughter to be depended on men. I provide for my wife. Did any one advice me to do it or did his parents advice her to depend on me. Is that a bad commitment or good. There are things that tllt more towards natural order. Women can work but in a crude afrca deviod of technology. Men are already in the clear. Because of crude or raw strenght. You are asking too much from them to adopt the hard core strong independent mindset. Work hard yes..but if you are also kind humble and respectfull you will get the looking of men by way of assist. its not a bad option to keep.with regards survival. many women like the option in seceret. Its only in the open they talk tough.

descarado:
Continue bashing women through your forum seun.
They are leaving in their numbers. It will soon become all male forum. This forum shows the toxicity of Nigerian men towards women. There are some guys I admire their intellectual but get disappointed when they discuss issues about women. In other words, they are like the rest of Nigerian men who just can't function without stepping on women. Don't know if it's religion, rigid culture and low self esteem that causes that.

You will know the real man around you when you start making close to what he makes in a year, or the same and above what he makes. It doesn't hide. That insecurity will just appear from nowhere. Even pastors. That's why they preach submission and this is Africa everyday. As if they know the tribes in 54 countries in Africa and their cultures.

You AGAIN!!!

Zocalite:
But you shouldn't have added 'it's the truth" to your comment

When you say it's the truth, then no variable added

Fibroid is a may happen, it only has risk factors

This is the truth, that
Statistically, Black women are more prone to having Fibroids than any other race in the world

You can confirm!



Nearly a quarter of Black women between 18 and 30 have fibroids compared to about 6% of white women, according to some national estimates. By age 35, that number increases to 60%. Black women are also two to three times more likely to have recurring fibroids or suffer from complications
https://www.michiganmedicine.org/health-lab/understanding-racial-disparities-women-uterine-fibroids

TenQ:
✓ Miss kobo,
Don't be emotional about this.
Statistically, Black women are more prone to having Fibroids than any other race in the world
Fibroids get worse with age especially over thirty years of age.
✓ In the olden days, they overcame this by the girls marrying early (between 16 and 20 years):
✓ by the time Fibroid is setting in, they have already given birth to four/five children.
✓ Of course, not every black woman will have fibroids, but its the truth!

First of all, fibroids don't get worse with age since not all black women, even aged ones, get fibroids as they age. So, around claiming fibroids get worse with age is ignorance.

2. Fibroids are not over come by marrying girls off early. Your old age people lied to you. Even girls who have had children can also get fibroids. So marrying girls off early and causing them to have kids DOESN'T deter fibroids.

3. Fibroids doesn't necessarily stop a woman from getting pregnant. Many women with fibroids are still able to get pregnant..

4. None of these are truths! 😩😩😩😩

Kobojunkie:
First of all, fibroids don't get worse with age since not all black women, even aged ones, get fibroids as they age. So, around claiming fibroids get worse with age is ignorance.

2. Fibroids are not over come by marrying girls off early. Your old age people lied to you. Even girls who have had children can also get fibroids. So marrying girls off early and causing them to have kids DOESN'T deter fibroids.

3. Fibroids doesn't necessarily stop a woman from getting pregnant. Many women with fibroids are still able to get pregnant..

4. None of these are truths! 😩😩😩😩

I quoted a journal of Medical science, they arent my words


Nearly a quarter of Black women between 18 and 30 have fibroids compared to about 6% of white women, according to some national estimates. By age 35, that number increases to 60%. Black women are also two to three times more likely to have recurring fibroids or suffer from complications
https://www.michiganmedicine.org/health-lab/understanding-racial-disparities-women-uterine-fibroids

descarado:
Continue bashing women through your forum seun.
They are leaving in their numbers. It will soon become all male forum. This forum shows the toxicity of Nigerian men towards women. There are some guys I admire their intellectual but get disappointed when they discuss issues about women. In other words, they are like the rest of Nigerian men who just can't function without stepping on women. Don't know if it's religion, rigid culture and low self esteem that causes that.

You will know the real man around you when you start making close to what he makes in a year, or the same and above what he makes. It doesn't hide. That insecurity will just appear from nowhere. Even pastors. That's why they preach submission and this is Africa everyday. As if they know the tribes in 54 countries in Africa and their cultures.

.🤣🤣🤭 Your last sentence, though. Hilarious punchline.
But yeah, naija women have really endured in the hands of their men oh. Not all the men but majority. Hehe. Yet both can't even live and feel satisfied without the other.
SMH. Hypocritical lots the men and women are!
Thank God I don't even need kids and I'm an antinatalist by choice. My wife can adopt anytime, even when she's 50 years old as long as we can afford it (I won't be poor, anyways). Women are really trying ooh. It's not easy to bear the judgements they get everyday, all around the world.