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NokiaN8:
Never marry a lady that is not brilliant or not working..

Wish I could like this your statement 1000x times! Alas! Story of my life

If u date correctly u should marry correctly.

Peakdesign23:
Married men's greatest r£gr£t about marriage: you could learn from this too. Separation is better than divorce, I love that.

this is so sweet to read🥹

NokiaN8:
Never marry a lady that is not brilliant or not working..

It's recipe for failure and regret....

It was I, I was aiming for your ear drum. Lol

[quote author= post=135661782]These are public knowledge, not specifically invented by SA men. By the way those men are Simps, real men don't say sorry or care for their wife.


Damn someone hit me for head just now...[/quote]

You are joking, Some women are terrible! Huh? I came home last night after the day's work around 9pm and met my children eating, late, I inquired from my wife why they were eating late since we already agreed they eat at about 7pm. Her first response was " am I your house help"? You better come and give them yourself. This is someone who doesn't work, clean the house. Each time I come back from work I will be the one to enter kitchen to Prepare dinner. Hardly will I come home and meet food prepared. She will tell me "if you are hungry go kitchen." Worse still when I go kitchen and we quarrel, she will shout on to top of her voice that she is dragging kitchen with me. Women are indeed terrible. I am considering divorce but for the sake of me 3 children I am still enduring this work woman

TheWebbers:
Nairaland is the wrongest place to bring marriage topics.

Watch has this thread will be flooded by under 30 jobless men.

They will tell you how worhtless women are and how marriage is not worth it, and how they can never marry in this life.

But meanwhile, if they give you just 5 minutes access to their phone, you will open your mouth waaa with what you will see. You will see them begging women for attention and sending gifts she never asked for.

Truth is, an heterosexual man is nothing without a woman in his life. Not women but a woman. You are just not completely fulfilled no matter how much you try.

The topics of marriage that makes it to the internet are the bad ones because it is news worthy. There is no news about a working marriage. So whenever you see a marriage thread, its the bad one and people will think that is how all the marriages in the world are. But for every bad marriage and divorce that made it to the news, there are 1500 good ones that dont make it.

I have been married for 3 years and I'm loving it. My wife is the most stubborn woman I have met in my life. In fact we just finished settling one minor qurell before typing this. But she is also the sweetest gift I have ever had. I dont know what would have happened to me if I didn't marry her. She is the kindest, sweetest and most loving human being I know.

Yes, there are conflicts but we have made a decision not to go to sleep without sorting it out. And this has helped us.

Marriage is sweet for many and sour for some. But in general, train yourself to be a good and loving person and when there are conflicts, iron it out fast before it degenerates.

Talking down peoples views just to make yours seem good is only going to be reasonable to you alone.
Variety is the spice of life.
If a person doesn’t wish to get married, it doesn’t mean they are under 30 and jobless.
Marriage is a choice. One that you make if you see the need to. The fact that you did it doesn’t make you sensible to many too.
There’s a saying that ‘if it is that good, no one will be persuasive about it’.
Enjoy your marriage and don’t be pained about people’s choices not to enjoy like you.
There are some that literally feel sorry for married folks.

All that glitters is not good

I trusted and care too easily... I wish I knew at the beginning

Marry a brilliant girl cos that is what will be transferred to your children. If you like go marry big breast and big yansh. I regret not marrying a brilliant woman. It robs off on everything you do. Sometimes you need your partner to discuss certain decisions. Charity begins at home. The parent esp your wife is the first teacher of your children. I can't emphasize marry smart, intelligent and God fearing lady. Forget beauty cos it would fade. If you like follow bbl, long nails, long eyelashes and bone straight on empty brain. You go explain tire no evidence.

kennie10:
You are joking, Some women are terrible! Huh? I came home last night after the day's work around 9pm and met my children eating, late, I inquired from my wife why they were eating late since we already agreed they eat at about 7pm. Her first response was " am I your house help"? You better come and give them yourself. This is someone who doesn't work, clean the house. Each time I come back from work I will be the one to enter kitchen to Prepare dinner. Hardly will I come home and meet food prepared. She will tell me "if you are hungry go kitchen." Worse still when I go kitchen and we quarrel, she will shout on to top of her voice that she is dragging kitchen with me. Women are indeed terrible. I am considering divorce but for the sake of me 3 children I am still enduring this work woman

Don't sleep with two eyes closed, never loose guard or else ...........

Ambassadors:
Marry a brilliant girl cos that is what will be transferred to your children. If you like go marry big breast and big yansh. I regret not marrying a brilliant woman. It robs off on everything you do. Sometimes you need your partner to discuss certain decisions. Charity begins at home. The parent esp your wife is the first teacher of your children. I can't emphasize marry smart, intelligent and God fearing lady. Forget beauty cos it would fade. If you like follow bbl, long nails, long eyelashes and bone straight on empty brain. You go explain tire no evidence.

Physical attributes and preference cannot be overlooked in the name of intelligence. Men are first attracted by what they see. And meanwhile be careful with women who believes in their intelligence and forming too know ,they hardly submit that is why as you hv said God fearing as a criteria is the first to look out for

We didn’t do comprehensive check now we are battling massive fibroid 4 months into marriage

Simps

All I know is, marriage will test your sanity!

Do not marry a religious woman.

So sorry my brother. I experience same. Sometimes she will gather with some single ladies talking trash when I tell her that I don't like those ladies with her she will tell me that I can't tell her who she should talk with or where to go. Two years ago she took my kids and disappeared before I came back home. She for 6 months I don't know their whereabouts. After she went to human rights to demand for upkeep and money for the children. I sent it every month. Don't marry a fool cos of love or beauty. A woman can destroy the home cos of her own happiness. Prov 14:1. Don't over look the family history she comes from like what our parents of old do. Beauty plus intelligence and God fearing is the best combo but if you don't see it then go for intelligence and fear of God. Pray that God will change your woman if already married else she fit kpai you cos of her own happiness be very watchful and follow your instincts. May the Lord guide you

kennie10:
You are joking, Some women are terrible! Huh? I came home last night after the day's work around 9pm and met my children eating, late, I inquired from my wife why they were eating late since we already agreed they eat at about 7pm. Her first response was " am I your house help"? You better come and give them yourself. This is someone who doesn't work, clean the house. Each time I come back from work I will be the one to enter kitchen to Prepare dinner. Hardly will I come home and meet food prepared. She will tell me "if you are hungry go kitchen." Worse still when I go kitchen and we quarrel, she will shout on to top of her voice that she is dragging kitchen with me. Women are indeed terrible. I am considering divorce but for the sake of me 3 children I am still enduring this work woman

[quote author= post=135661782]These are public knowledge, not specifically invented by SA men. By the way those men are Simps, real men don't say sorry or care for their wife.


Damn someone hit me for head just now...[/quote]Thunder fire you. Ewu

Marry your friend.

Love does not exist between two people who are not blood related only Friendship, Trust and compatibility exist.

Only your friend can guarantee those features.

NokiaN8:
What is separation? What is divorce

Separation is time apart for sober reflection, thinking and to come back together for reformation while divorce is complete break in the marriage vows, husband goes his way and wife goes her way-both not to come back again.

I hope my layman explanation helps

Samantha125:
Never thought I'd see a day whereby Nigerian men will be agreeing with SA men, especially on this platform...🤣🤣🤣

What did you guys drink today?🤣🤣🤣 Le nwele eng?😂😂😂

This one's obsession with Nigeria sha...

kennie10:
You are joking, Some women are terrible! Huh? I came home last night after the day's work around 9pm and met my children eating, late, I inquired from my wife why they were eating late since we already agreed they eat at about 7pm. Her first response was " am I your house help"? You better come and give them yourself. This is someone who doesn't work, clean the house. Each time I come back from work I will be the one to enter kitchen to Prepare dinner. Hardly will I come home and meet food prepared. She will tell me "if you are hungry go kitchen." Worse still when I go kitchen and we quarrel, she will shout on to top of her voice that she is dragging kitchen with me. Women are indeed terrible. I am considering divorce but for the sake of me 3 children I am still enduring this work woman

Bros I am in somewhat your shoe. Once kids are involved in marriage men are handicapped.
Way forward is to bear with our wives' weaknesses and change our approach. Women get Mumu button but we their husbands don't get to figure it out because we are too busy hustling and bursting.

This una marriage ehhh

Na wa oo
What should the singles do?
Abeg am scared oo

Lamentations of mugu men. They never see Jezebel.

Good combo of advice... But it seems ONE WAY.

The problem is that when women see such posts as this they begin to have entitlement mentality.

As for me, my divorce is about to be concluded and I have no regrets ending my marriage.

NokiaN8:
Never marry a lady that is not brilliant or not working..

Marrying a dumb and jobless woman would be the greatest mistake..

franchasng:
Yes oh I pray my daughter marry a man like me, but maybe a financially richer version of me

Lol...
Yes

MICHEALADEX:
We didn’t do comprehensive check now we are battling massive fibroid 4 months into marriage

Damnn bro

kennie10:
You are joking, Some women are terrible! Huh? I came home last night after the day's work around 9pm and met my children eating, late, I inquired from my wife why they were eating late since we already agreed they eat at about 7pm. Her first response was " am I your house help"? You better come and give them yourself. This is someone who doesn't work, clean the house. Each time I come back from work I will be the one to enter kitchen to Prepare dinner. Hardly will I come home and meet food prepared. She will tell me "if you are hungry go kitchen." Worse still when I go kitchen and we quarrel, she will shout on to top of her voice that she is dragging kitchen with me. Women are indeed terrible. I am considering divorce but for the sake of me 3 children I am still enduring this work woman

Na pesin wey never jam devils in woman skin go dey regret. Some women are not worth living with.

Marriage is a school, those that have regrets are the one's that expected perfection from the union.

It s fifty fifty contract between two strangers raised and brought up from different backgrounds, and environments

The only gain from marriage is procreation, nothing else.

Those that stayed longer in marriage are like leeches benefiting in one way or the other,as soon as that thing is no longer there, they call it quit.

There's nothing like Love, it's a word for those that are blind in a relationship.

Samantha125:
Never thought I'd see a day whereby Nigerian men will be agreeing with SA men, especially on this platform...🤣🤣🤣

What did you guys drink today?🤣🤣🤣 Le nwele eng?😂😂😂

The fight you are looking for, you'll surely get it.

TheWebbers:
Nairaland is the wrongest place to bring marriage topics.

Watch has this thread will be flooded by under 30 jobless men.

They will tell you how worhtless women are and how marriage is not worth it, and how they can never marry in this life.

But meanwhile, if they give you just 5 minutes access to their phone, you will open your mouth waaa with what you will see. You will see them begging women for attention and sending gifts she never asked for.

Truth is, an heterosexual man is nothing without a woman in his life. Not women but a woman. You are just not completely fulfilled no matter how much you try.

The topics of marriage that makes it to the internet are the bad ones because it is news worthy. There is no news about a working marriage. So whenever you see a marriage thread, its the bad one and people will think that is how all the marriages in the world are. But for every bad marriage and divorce that made it to the news, there are 1500 good ones that dont make it.

I have been married for 3 years and I'm loving it. My wife is the most stubborn woman I have met in my life. In fact we just finished settling one minor qurell before typing this. But she is also the sweetest gift I have ever had. I dont know what would have happened to me if I didn't marry her. She is the kindest, sweetest and most loving human being I know.

Yes, there are conflicts but we have made a decision not to go to sleep without sorting it out. And this has helped us.

Marriage is sweet for many and sour for some. But in general, train yourself to be a good and loving person and when there are conflicts, iron it out fast before it degenerates.

😂😂😂😂😂😂 You sabi them.

Congrats to you and your wife.
Wishing you more years of bliss.