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ufotty2001:
Do not marry a religious woman.

SIR Ufotty, is there something you want to share with us?

Samantha125:
Never thought I'd see a day whereby Nigerian men will be agreeing with SA men, especially on this platform...🤣🤣🤣

What did you guys drink today?🤣🤣🤣 Le nwele eng?😂😂😂

We commend truthful experience and words.

always put yourself first! when you put her first and lose yourself in the process, she'll discard you like dustbin. learn this men and women, put yourself first. love thyself more than thy neighbor.

In Nigeria, if you don't have money to throw around her, she will never love you, no matter how you love her.

kennie10:
You are joking, Some women are terrible! Huh? I came home last night after the day's work around 9pm and met my children eating, late, I inquired from my wife why they were eating late since we already agreed they eat at about 7pm. Her first response was " am I your house help"? You better come and give them yourself. This is someone who doesn't work, clean the house. Each time I come back from work I will be the one to enter kitchen to Prepare dinner. Hardly will I come home and meet food prepared. She will tell me "if you are hungry go kitchen." Worse still when I go kitchen and we quarrel, she will shout on to top of her voice that she is dragging kitchen with me. Women are indeed terrible. I am considering divorce but for the sake of me 3 children I am still enduring this work woman

You saw the sign before married her, but you ignored

stop enduring and run! i have endured mine for ten years and decided its time

kennie10:
You are joking, Some women are terrible! Huh? I came home last night after the day's work around 9pm and met my children eating, late, I inquired from my wife why they were eating late since we already agreed they eat at about 7pm. Her first response was " am I your house help"? You better come and give them yourself. This is someone who doesn't work, clean the house. Each time I come back from work I will be the one to enter kitchen to Prepare dinner. Hardly will I come home and meet food prepared. She will tell me "if you are hungry go kitchen." Worse still when I go kitchen and we quarrel, she will shout on to top of her voice that she is dragging kitchen with me. Women are indeed terrible. I am considering divorce but for the sake of me 3 children I am still enduring this work woman

kennie10:
You are joking, Some women are terrible! Huh? I came home last night after the day's work around 9pm and met my children eating, late, I inquired from my wife why they were eating late since we already agreed they eat at about 7pm. Her first response was " am I your house help"? You better come and give them yourself. This is someone who doesn't work, clean the house. Each time I come back from work I will be the one to enter kitchen to Prepare dinner. Hardly will I come home and meet food prepared. She will tell me "if you are hungry go kitchen." Worse still when I go kitchen and we quarrel, she will shout on to top of her voice that she is dragging kitchen with me. Women are indeed terrible. I am considering divorce but for the sake of me 3 children I am still enduring this work woman

I'm terribly sorry you are going through this. I can relate. We will overcome.

puremaker7:
The fight you are looking for, you'll sure get it.

You get time

Ambassadors:
So sorry my brother. I experience same. Sometimes she will gather with some single ladies talking trash when I tell her that I don't like those ladies with her she will tell me that I can't tell her who she should talk with or where to go. Two years ago she took my kids and disappeared before I came back home. She for 6 months I don't know their whereabouts. After she went to human rights to demand for upkeep and money for the children. I sent it every month. Don't marry a fool cos of love or beauty. A woman can destroy the home cos of her own happiness. Prov 14:1. Don't over look the family history she comes from like what our parents of old do. Beauty plus intelligence and God fearing is the best combo but if you don't see it then go for intelligence and fear of God. Pray that God will change your woman if already married else she fit kpai you cos of her own happiness be very watchful and follow your instincts. May the Lord guide you

she can't just pack out with kids. The full story sir.

Onewazobia:
Women are naturally selfish ( unsatisfiable), your best can't upturn that. However show her limitless love

This is scary

kennie10:
You are joking, Some women are terrible! Huh? I came home last night after the day's work around 9pm and met my children eating, late, I inquired from my wife why they were eating late since we already agreed they eat at about 7pm. Her first response was " am I your house help"? You better come and give them yourself. This is someone who doesn't work, clean the house. Each time I come back from work I will be the one to enter kitchen to Prepare dinner. Hardly will I come home and meet food prepared. She will tell me "if you are hungry go kitchen." Worse still when I go kitchen and we quarrel, she will shout on to top of her voice that she is dragging kitchen with me. Women are indeed terrible. I am considering divorce but for the sake of me 3 children I am still enduring this work woman

I'm sorry sir

Celestialsword:
Marriage is a school, those that have regrets are the one's that expected perfection from the union.

It s fifty fifty contract between two strangers raised and brought up from different backgrounds, and environments

The only gain from marriage is procreation, nothing else.

Those that stayed longer in marriage are like leeches benefiting in one way or the other,as soon as that thing is no longer there, they call it quit.

There's nothing like Love, it's a word for those that are blind in a relationship.

You are scaring me

Samantha125:
Public knowledge from SA men, the most disliked men on nairaland... I never thought I'd see this day whereby Naija men are applauding SA men...

Whatever is it that Tinubu has given you guys, he should continue and not stop...🤣🤣🤣

@Samantha always looking for trouble

Hassanmaye:
You are scaring me

No,this is an eye opener for you.Marriage is a contract, humans are unpredictable,a spoon today can become fork tomorrow.

Those that regret getting married is because it was not up to their expectations

Hassanmaye:
This is scary

Yeah, but that's just the truth

I wish women view men same way. Counterbalancing these views will sound better

Zonefree:
Love is never enough.


Never be with a woman because you love her. Love is temporary.

Then you don't know what LOVE is.

Love is everything and the only thing that matters. Any other thing can be built Successfully upon it and last the test of time.

thrillionaire:
Then you don't know what LOVE is.

Love is everything and the only thing that matters. Any other thing can be built Successfully upon it and last the test of time.

Lol..are you married or been married?

Tfinal:
she can't just pack out with kids. The full story sir.

Omniknowest tell us more....

Chram:
I'm not married yet and I won't ever marry.

Drop your ID
We shall pray and fast for you
You go still come ask make we come beg her people....like that things
We go still come naming and dedication
Omomo....dey learn abi...?!

TheWebbers:
Nairaland is the wrongest place to bring marriage topics.

Watch has this thread will be flooded by under 30 jobless men.

They will tell you how worhtless women are and how marriage is not worth it, and how they can never marry in this life.

But meanwhile, if they give you just 5 minutes access to their phone, you will open your mouth waaa with what you will see. You will see them begging women for attention and sending gifts she never asked for.

Truth is, an heterosexual man is nothing without a woman in his life. Not women but a woman. You are just not completely fulfilled no matter how much you try.

The topics of marriage that makes it to the internet are the bad ones because it is news worthy. There is no news about a working marriage. So whenever you see a marriage thread, its the bad one and people will think that is how all the marriages in the world are. But for every bad marriage and divorce that made it to the news, there are 1500 good ones that dont make it.

I have been married for 3 years and I'm loving it. My wife is the most stubborn woman I have met in my life. In fact we just finished settling one minor qurell before typing this. But she is also the sweetest gift I have ever had. I dont know what would have happened to me if I didn't marry her. She is the kindest, sweetest and most loving human being I know.

Yes, there are conflicts but we have made a decision not to go to sleep without sorting it out. And this has helped us.

Marriage is sweet for many and sour for some. But in general, train yourself to be a good and loving person and when there are conflicts, iron it out fast before it degenerates.

Speak for yourself. Personalize the bolded.

Learn not to view everyone through your myopic lenses.

ufotty2001:
Do not marry a religious woman.

What is your thoughts about the statement?

Points

NokiaN8:
Never marry a lady that is not brilliant or not working..

Why if I may ask?

Celestialsword:
No,this is an eye opener for you.Marriage is a contract, humans are unpredictable,a spoon today can become fork tomorrow.

Those that regret getting married is because it was not up to their expectations

Honestly I'm afraid 😳😣 😢

franchasng:
Yes oh I pray my daughter marry a man like me, but maybe a financially richer version of me

Eyah

TheWebbers:
Nairaland is the wrongest place to bring marriage topics.

Watch has this thread will be flooded by under 30 jobless men.

They will tell you how worhtless women are and how marriage is not worth it, and how they can never marry in this life.

But meanwhile, if they give you just 5 minutes access to their phone, you will open your mouth waaa with what you will see. You will see them begging women for attention and sending gifts she never asked for.

Truth is, an heterosexual man is nothing without a woman in his life. Not women but a woman. You are just not completely fulfilled no matter how much you try.

The topics of marriage that makes it to the internet are the bad ones because it is news worthy. There is no news about a working marriage. So whenever you see a marriage thread, its the bad one and people will think that is how all the marriages in the world are. But for every bad marriage and divorce that made it to the news, there are 1500 good ones that dont make it.

I have been married for 3 years and I'm loving it. My wife is the most stubborn woman I have met in my life. In fact we just finished settling one minor qurell before typing this. But she is also the sweetest gift I have ever had. I dont know what would have happened to me if I didn't marry her. She is the kindest, sweetest and most loving human being I know.

Yes, there are conflicts but we have made a decision not to go to sleep without sorting it out. And this has helped us.

Marriage is sweet for many and sour for some. But in general, train yourself to be a good and loving person and when there are conflicts, iron it out fast before it degenerates.

T-R-U-E-S-T.

Never marry if you are a successful young man. Invest in yourself and date extensively, find an understanding lady to bear you a child. Life is too short to be tied down with marriage.

Don't get married. The way society is now you are certainly going to regret it.

Samantha125:
Never thought I'd see a day whereby Nigerian men will be agreeing with SA men, especially on this platform...🤣🤣🤣

What did you guys drink today?🤣🤣🤣 Le nwele eng?😂😂😂

Those names...
Nothing really suggested they're from SA precisely. Maybe from Southern Africa? Yes!
Cos I can see names native to Botswana, Namibia, even generic faith-allied names.

Convince me to the contrary!