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sanima770:
Spare me this ur polished hypocrisy..ASking someone to "respectfully celebrate" something which is unequivocally incompatible with their values is manipulative, not inclusive. Inclusion should not involve enforced silence or phony participation. The same individuals sermonizing 'inclusivity' aren't too slow in holding their noses up at anything outside their comfort bubble such as traditional religions or native culture but expect everyone else to bow down to theirs.
And no, standing your ground does not equate to "you don't belong" in the workplace. That's lazy thinking. According to that line of reasoning, anybody who has religious or cultural beliefs should never be employed anywhere that is resistant to them. Respect is a two-way street not only when it suits your cause!!

orjohn24:
You sound more like a jerk with ur weak explanation.The LGBT community rightfully fought for equal rights and protection from discrimination but let’s be honest, many now constantly play the victim, even when there’s no actual attack.
What’s the purpose of those naked parades in Toronto every Pride Month? Does that make any sense to a reasonable person? Would you seriously take your children to such a gathering? It’s become less about pride and more about public indecency, shock value, and attention-seeking.
Let’s not pretend what dominates these events is cross-dressing and performative behavior, not genuine advocacy. It's loud, exaggerated, and often disconnected from the real issues affecting the average LGBTQ+ person.
And let’s be clear most companies only jump on the Pride bandwagon for financial gain or public image. It's not about values; it's about profit and staying “on trend.
But many companies are withdrawing this year like Home Deport confirmed that it has withdrawn its sponsorship for the pride parade.

NuCypher:
Your response demonstrates your incredible naïveté as it relates to sexual preferences. And that's where your lot fail, all the time. Having different sexual preferences is not culture. You hear? Let me repeat it again, so you can drill it into your hollow skull. Nothing about sexual preference suggests differing cultures. Differing religion may suggest cultural differences; traditions may also suggest cultural differences. But nothing, nothing about sexual preferences suggests culture. It's not cultural to be gay or lesbian. People are innately so, and that too across the world, including where you come from. But of course, your religious burden will not let you see past your naïveté. But I'm sure you don't know that anyways. Hence, the incredible bias you demonstrate in your writing above.

People like you will come to Canada, expecting a free and liberal society to change for you, as it relates to sexual preferences. You really could have just stayed back in your shithole cultural bubble and not bothered to be part of the Canadian experience. You really need to grow up!

sanima770:
Your whole rant shows the same kind of intolerance you’re accusing others of.
You accuse others of bias while vomiting out sweeping generalizations about religion, culture, and immigrants. Who do you think you are, gatekeeping the "Canadian experience" like it's your personal inheritance? Let me educate you: Canada thrives on diversity of thought, of culture, of beliefs — not just on one-dimensional sexual identity politics that demand conformity.

You're clearly so drunk on your own self-righteousness that you can’t see the hypocrisy in calling for inclusivity while spitting on people’s deeply held values. You say sexual preference isn’t cultural? Then why are Pride parades packaged and exported like cultural festivals? Why is disagreement labelled as hate? You can’t demand blind applause and then scream "intolerant" when someone dares to disagree. That’s not inclusivity that’s ideological bullying.
Your cheap insult about “shithole cultural bubbles” clearly shows your bigotry. If anyone needs to grow up, it’s the one who thinks tolerance only works their way. Grow up!

RodgersAkpafu:
You are a homophobe
Just like most of yall shithoole mentality ppl

Yes there is diversity of thought
And yes you have a choice NOT to participate

What is NOT acceptable is Homophobia manifesting in ANY form

A good number of Nigerians have gotten into trouble here because of their big mouth when it comes to this topic

oluayebenz:
I have never seen a real Canadian complaining about the pride month, so what's the fuss about it nah.

Immigrants sha, una own too much 😀

clayfounder:
Education truly isn’t a scam becos did you even read the conversation before jumping in and forming an opinion? Where exactly did you see anyone complaining about Pride Month? Someone asking to be excluded isn’t a crime, it’s a personal choice.

sanima770:
Throwing around “homophobe” just because someone disagrees with you is lazy and dishonest. Disagreement isn’t hate unless you believe free thought equals violence.
Calling people “shithole mentality” just exposes your own bias. You push tolerance, but only when it fits your agenda. That’s not inclusion ! it’s hypocrisy.
Freedom of thought goes both ways. Labeling every opposing view as hate is a weak way to silence people. Do better bros

clayfounder:
Education truly isn’t a scam becos did you even read the conversation before jumping in and forming an opinion? Where exactly did you see anyone complaining about Pride Month? Someone asking to be excluded isn’t a crime, it’s a personal choice.

oluayebenz:
I have never seen a real Canadian complaining about the pride month, so what's the fuss about it nah.

Immigrants sha, una own too much 😀

oluayebenz:
See this nescient forming woke...

Sense should tell you that some already taking it too far

Why am I even responding to this naive

sanima770:
Your whole rant shows the same kind of intolerance you’re accusing others of.
You accuse others of bias while vomiting out sweeping generalizations about religion, culture, and immigrants. Who do you think you are, gatekeeping the "Canadian experience" like it's your personal inheritance? Let me educate you: Canada thrives on diversity of thought, of culture, of beliefs — not just on one-dimensional sexual identity politics that demand conformity.

You're clearly so drunk on your own self-righteousness that you can’t see the hypocrisy in calling for inclusivity while spitting on people’s deeply held values. You say sexual preference isn’t cultural? Then why are Pride parades packaged and exported like cultural festivals? Why is disagreement labelled as hate? You can’t demand blind applause and then scream "intolerant" when someone dares to disagree. That’s not inclusivity that’s ideological bullying.
Your cheap insult about “shithole cultural bubbles” clearly shows your bigotry. If anyone needs to grow up, it’s the one who thinks tolerance only works their way. Grow up!

RodgersAkpafu:
The implicit message in the first person I quoted was homophobic
It's oozing out and can't be hidden

It's one thing to say you don't want to participate
That's your right

But when you start tagging the LGBT as people who "play victim"
That's all the implicit message I need to know that such person IS A HOMOPHOBE

I'm not ashamed to point out homophobes to be dealt with (did this twice while I was in uni, one Nigerian and one Pakistani, and they were dealt with, no regrets).
Same way I point out racists as well.

Make una keep una homophobia for Nigeria
We don't need such here in the West.

Kenn55:
Anybody reading all these will notice you ended up proving my point. That community is always edgy, looking for the faintest of criticism to bring out their "guns" looking to fight. See how you are dashing people who disagree as homophobes left, right and center.

As a Pentecostal Christian, I have critized pastors and the church significantly. I have bashed the state of the church cos of some of the nonsense some pastors are doing. I don't endorse or will never endorse everything happening in Christianity. That means I am "Christainphobic" since I'm also critical of the church.

Anyway I don't care about the homophobic tag one bit. I no send Anybody papa. I will NEVER advocate discrimination against anybody irrespective of who they are but I will never ENDORSE that shit. If that community can't accept that fact, na una sabi afterall I also have the right not to accept something

Kenn55:
Anybody reading all these will notice you ended up proving my point. That community is always edgy, looking for the faintest of criticism to bring out their "guns" looking to fight. See how you are dashing people who disagree as homophobes left, right and center.

As a Pentecostal Christian, I have critized pastors and the church significantly. I have bashed the state of the church cos of some of the nonsense some pastors are doing. I don't endorse or will never endorse everything happening in Christianity. That means I am "Christainphobic" since I'm also critical of the church.

Anyway I don't care about the homophobic tag one bit. I no send Anybody papa. I will NEVER advocate discrimination against anybody irrespective of who they are but I will never ENDORSE that shit. If that community can't accept that fact, na una sabi afterall I also have the right not to accept something

funkyy598:
Exactly and that’s the real issue.Disagreement is not the same as hate. Choosing not to endorse something or an act doesn’t mean you wish harm on anyone. But the moment you say, “I don’t support this, but you have the free will and freedom to live how you choose as long as it doesn’t infringe on my rights,” you’re immediately labelled as homophobic and that’s simply unfair!!

Kenn55:
Anybody reading all these will notice you ended up proving my point. That community is always edgy, looking for the faintest of criticism to bring out their "guns" looking to fight. See how you are dashing people who disagree as homophobes left, right and center.

As a Pentecostal Christian, I have critized pastors and the church significantly. I have bashed the state of the church cos of some of the nonsense some pastors are doing. I don't endorse or will never endorse everything happening in Christianity. That means I am "Christainphobic" since I'm also critical of the church.

Anyway I don't care about the homophobic tag one bit. I no send Anybody papa. I will NEVER advocate discrimination against anybody irrespective of who they are but I will never ENDORSE that shit. If that community can't accept that fact, na una sabi afterall I also have the right not to accept something

Kenn55:
Anybody reading all these will notice you ended up proving my point. That community is always edgy, looking for the faintest of criticism to bring out their "guns" looking to fight. See how you are dashing people who disagree as homophobes left, right and center.

As a Pentecostal Christian, I have critized pastors and the church significantly. I have bashed the state of the church cos of some of the nonsense some pastors are doing. I don't endorse or will never endorse everything happening in Christianity. That means I am "Christainphobic" since I'm also critical of the church.

Anyway I don't care about the homophobic tag one bit. I no send Anybody papa. I will NEVER advocate discrimination against anybody irrespective of who they are but I will never ENDORSE that shit. If that community can't accept that fact, na una sabi afterall I also have the right not to accept something

eniola1010:
I wanna ask some questions

1) are winter tyres a necessity, i mean are they worth it, would they pass thru 80% of snowy conditions?
Also, is it wise to put it on all seasons or you have to change it to normal tyres when its summer. Interchanging as the season comes and go seems stressful too me, i’d rather just leave it on irrespective of the season. But i wanna hear you guys opinion.


2) also, whats the best place to get a used reliable car, i checked autotrader and fb market and their prices are so so high. Is copart a good alternative?


3) trying to buy a 2015 suv and most of the mileage i am seeing is mindblowing. Why are most cars in canada having so much mileage? Is it because the country is big or what. I am mostly seeing = or > 150k km.

Sheron50:
Please I have a question. My workplace has already selected a day to celebrate Pride Month, but participating in this event doesn't align with my personal faith and values. I want to be respectful and professional ,how can I politely excuse myself from participating without causing offense?

walenden:
If you're a young man and you've never been to Pride parade in Toronto, trust me you don’t know what you’re missing! I went last year, and the streets were full of fresh naked babes young, old, slim, thick all walking around . It was a whole vibe! And This year’s Pride falls on a Sunday again. Lord forgive me, but I might just skip church that day to go enjoy some premium ikebe live and direct

sweetrie:
Lol. Yes o. Brand new building sef

ferfer:
Hello, hope this is not too late.

1) I drive a sedan, I realize that winter tires are really helpful, I have never been stuck in snow. If I am grounded, that means the whole city is shut down because of significant amount of snow. Some people say if you have an AWD, winter tires may not be necessary - I have no experience with AWDs.
It is annoying to switch tires every Oct/Nov and May (May long weekend is usually when I switch out the winter tires). Costco offers one of the best price around especially if you bought both sets of tire from them.
There are adverts for this service on Facebook marketplace, caveat emptor.

2) Speaking of fb market place, you can set a reminder for the type(s) of car you want - immediately it is posted, you are alerted to go check it out. It is a competitive market for good deals. I have good experience buying a vehicle there - private seller, wanted their cash and it was a Sunday. Ensure your car inspector is ready at short notice. Also, ensure your account is well funded. You may have to make transfer via your online banking (especially on a weekend when bank branches are not open). Private sellers may need the money immediately and not want to wait.
Some one mentioned sourcing your carfax report yourself - this is very good quality advice. Look through the report and ensure that it is well serviced, high or low mileage is neither here nor there, it is the every 5k miles/6- months servicing that matters especially for makers like Toyota.

3) Please refer to the last line above.

Goodluck out there.

oluayebenz:
I have never seen a real Canadian complaining about the pride month, so what's the fuss about it nah.

Immigrants sha, una own too much 😀

clayfounder:
According to some lgbt advocate we have up to about 43 genders
1. Male


2. Female


3. Transgender – someone whose gender identity differs from their sex assigned at birth


4. Non-binary – does not identify strictly as male or female


5. Genderfluid – gender identity shifts over time


6. Agender – does not identify with any gender


7. Two-Spirit – Indigenous North American term for someone with both masculine and feminine spirits


8. Bigender – identifies as two genders (simultaneously or switching between)


9. Demiboy – partially identifies as male


10. Demigirl – partially identifies as female


11. Androgynous – expresses or identifies with both male and female traits


12. Genderqueer – umbrella term for gender identities outside traditional norms


13. Neutrois – gender-neutral or null-gender


14. Third Gender – recognized in some cultures (e.g., hijra in South Asia)


15. Pangender – identifies as many or all genders


16. Intergender – between male and female


17. Maverique – a non-binary gender that is independent of male/female


18. Aliagender – gender identity entirely separate from traditional concepts


19. Graygender – weak or occasional connection to gender


20. Novigender – a complex gender that’s hard to describe in existing terms


21. Trigender – identifies as three genders


22. Cassgender – indifferent to or unconcerned about gender


23. Autigender – a gender experience shaped by being autistic (used within autistic communities)
24. Apagender – a feeling of apathy toward gender or not caring about one’s gender identity


25. Ceterogender – a nonbinary gender with a connection to masculinity or femininity


26. Colorgender – when a person’s gender is associated with one or more colors


27. Deliciagender – feels like one's gender identity fades in and out like a flavor


28. Egogender – gender tied closely to one’s sense of self or ego


29. Enby – slang for "non-binary" (from NB)


30. Gendervoid – feeling of having no gender at all


31. Juxera – a feminine-adjacent nonbinary gender


32. Libragender – mostly agender but with a slight connection to another gender


33. Mirrorgender – one’s gender mirrors the people they’re surrounded by


34. Nanogender – a very small or subtle gender identity


35. Ninbinary – a humorous or light-hearted take on non-binary identity


36. Polygender – identifying as multiple genders simultaneously


37. Quoigender – unclear or unable to define one's gender


38. Subgender – a gender that exists under or within another gender


39. Technogender – gender identity influenced by technology or the digital world


40. Velgender – gender that is felt very softly, like a veil


41. Verangender – gender that changes depending on the time of year or season


42. Vocigender – gender that's hard to vocalize or put into words


43. Xenogender – gender identity defined by concepts outside human norms (e.g. animal-like, space-like, object-based)

slydog:
Is this not a mental health concern?

jedisco:
The kind of workd people use to describe themselves her says so much about how they think and interract with the outside world. I used to think it's the new arrival syndrome many plagued with on arrival to the west but it's become more obvious it's a deeper complex issue of self-hate and deprecation.

In other news, I see Elon is the latest discardee -more would definitely follow.
Biko when would the Indians start getting it hot hot? Trump is almost 6 months in ooo

MicheaD:
Bro, just ignore them. It's always the same pattern , you can't express your own opinion without them going on the offensive. Honestly, I'm no longer surprised, especially now that some in the group are identifying as cats or wearing dog collars, claiming to be dogs. When a human being starts identifying as non-binary, a cat, or a dog and when some men start dressing as women just to gain access to female bathrooms what do you expect from such a confused group of people.Let's just drop the topic. Time will tell. In 20 to 30 years, we'll see where all this deception has led humanity, and whether truth or falsehood will prevail!

lanresz:
The good thing in Canada is that you have freedom of association. You don't have to participate in such events. You can go to work and decide to attend. No one can force you to participate. Participation can never be compulsory.