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Re: Emirate Mall Supermarket In Kwara Denied Man Access Because Of Baby’s Appearance by LARRYOBRAIN(m): 6:01pm On Jun 10, 2025
Discrimination against child. They should be sue to court.
Re: Emirate Mall Supermarket In Kwara Denied Man Access Because Of Baby’s Appearance by yewit37486: 6:01pm On Jun 10, 2025
buygala:
That one is your business


It's the same wokeness that makes Oyinbo people accept whatever that has afflicted them with the LGBTQ curse...


Good thing Nigeria is still mostly immune from such rubbish...

Even as an adult, that kid looks a bit scary to me...Imagine that kid crawling up on you one black night...The man has a right to his kid's health, just as I have a right to protect my kid from sights that are above his infant tolerance...
How does this topic relate to LGBTQ? How does showing empathy to another human being relate to LGBTQ? It's scary people like you exist. No love, no empathy. The funny thing is life is so unpredictable, you don't know when you will be in a position that you will require others to accept and love you. Anyway, continue.
Re: Emirate Mall Supermarket In Kwara Denied Man Access Because Of Baby’s Appearance by NothingDoMe: 6:02pm On Jun 10, 2025
themanderon:
Because she made herself that way? If not for time and chance that could have been you or anyone else. Let's show some humanity towards our fellow humans.
Leave them. Who nor go nor know.

I have a family friend who fell into this trap. She heard a special child hit her child in school. Warri isn't like Lagos that has well equipped school for special kids.

Anyways this lady was pissed and ranted at the school and even insulted the child asking the child if she was the one that made the child like that.

A year or two later she took in and gave birth. Guess what? Her child was special and needs constant care especially to carry her everywhere.

She now regrets her words. Now she understands what it is like.
Re: Emirate Mall Supermarket In Kwara Denied Man Access Because Of Baby’s Appearance by buygala(m): 6:02pm On Jun 10, 2025
yewit37486:
You know the truth? Your mindset makes you a more horrible person than the child you are calling horrible looking.
Your opinion

Good thing it's worthless to me


If me looking out for my own kid means I am horrible, so be it


Since you love her so much, trade one of your kids for some kid that looks like her in any orphanage...People like you sound so sanctimonious online, yet fail to walk the talk...If you are so liberal, go to an orphanage and adopt any of the hundreds of similar looking kids there...

No carry your holy pass disturb me
Re: Emirate Mall Supermarket In Kwara Denied Man Access Because Of Baby’s Appearance by GanagiBitrus: 6:02pm On Jun 10, 2025
buygala:
Truth be said

Man's kid looks kinda scary

Her looks might trigger convulsion in the other kids there...I honestly wouldn't want my kid watching a kid like that on TV, much less seeing her live..

Good call by the supermarket staff...The man's rights ends where other people's own starts...

Other people have a right to shop freely without having a deity-looking baby trigger seizures in their kids

As it's not the man's or his baby's fault that she is made that way, it's not anyone else's fault that she is made that way, for their kids to suffer such sorry sight over .

It's what it is
You speak out of ignorance.

Their action is both legally & morally wrong.
The man's/baby's fundamental human rights was violated.
Re: Emirate Mall Supermarket In Kwara Denied Man Access Because Of Baby’s Appearance by Ishilove: 6:04pm On Jun 10, 2025
Abelino:
It's so unfortunate people with such mindset like you share this country with us. Too Painful.
I'm pretty sure he is trolling because his words are not making sense. It seems more like a rage bait
Re: Emirate Mall Supermarket In Kwara Denied Man Access Because Of Baby’s Appearance by yewit37486: 6:04pm On Jun 10, 2025
buygala:
Your opinion

Good thing it's worthless to me


If me looking out for my own kid means I am horrible, so be it


Since you love her so much, trade one of your kids for some kid that looks like her in any orphanage...People like you sound so sanctimonious online, yet fail to walk the talk...If you are so liberal, go to an orphanage and adopt any of the hundreds of similar looking kids there...

No carry your holy pass disturb me
There is nothing sanctimonious about comments calling out yours, you are being called out because your comment demonstrates sheer wickedness. To even think you are defending it makes it worse. I have already told you, life has a funny way of playing out, so please continue with the inhumane attitude.
Re: Emirate Mall Supermarket In Kwara Denied Man Access Because Of Baby’s Appearance by NothingDoMe: 6:06pm On Jun 10, 2025
buygala:
That one is your business


It's the same wokeness that makes Oyinbo people accept whatever that has afflicted them with the LGBTQ curse...


Good thing Nigeria is still mostly immune from such rubbish...

Even as an adult, that kid looks a bit scary to me...Imagine that kid crawling up on you one black night...The man has a right to his kid's health, just as I have a right to protect my kid from sights that are above his infant tolerance...
Your kids mental health? Wow.

So you're saying anytime your kids meet someone like her then she has to leave the environment for their mental health?

Are you being serious?
Re: Emirate Mall Supermarket In Kwara Denied Man Access Because Of Baby’s Appearance by buygala(m): 6:07pm On Jun 10, 2025
LARRYOBRAIN:
Discrimination against child. They should be sue to court.
While parents of the other kids present will counter-sue the man for child abuse degrading treatment


Between you and God, will your young kid watch Annabel the horror movie?

If you won't, why would anyone judge you for protecting your young child from seeing this girl who looks like that Annabel?
Re: Emirate Mall Supermarket In Kwara Denied Man Access Because Of Baby’s Appearance by lot14: 6:07pm On Jun 10, 2025
After God 1st
Man and all living things and living beings 2nd....
Survival....breathing,eating and all round 3rd....B4
Race, religion,tribe,ethnicity...etc....but humans carry the 3rd b4 the first...Wisdom and the survival of human race must have 1st and 2nd first...
50obo.
Re: Emirate Mall Supermarket In Kwara Denied Man Access Because Of Baby’s Appearance by CandidNotes: 6:08pm On Jun 10, 2025
They were SHOPPING, there was no plan to make her play with other children. It's a shame that you can defend this, MAY LIFE NOT HAPPEN TO YOU!!!

hunterezi:
Other customers may not be comfortable with her being with their children. Na Nigeria we dey. Most of you commenting up there won't even want that child near your children.
Re: Emirate Mall Supermarket In Kwara Denied Man Access Because Of Baby’s Appearance by Chram(m): 6:09pm On Jun 10, 2025
Mightyhaiz:
I went early this morning to track a tenant who's been owing his rent for quite some time now and has been annoyingly elusive about it...no calls no reach out to me..not picking or returning calls and messages... As he narrate his ordeal finish I just made some noises and left but for my mind I no go just trouble this man again..let me not compound his already suicidal state... On my way out I gave his son preparing for school 1k.. furthermore in tbe same neighborhood I saw a child with badly deformed legs struggling to school.. I reduced speed and asked where her school was ...she pointed to the opposite direction...so I asked why she was going the opposite way,she said she was hurrying to her mom's shop to take money for breakfast n Keke.. I asked if I can gv her something..so I dont look like a ritualist or sth like that to her.. she hesitated,studied me and then convinced herself that I'm am alright man..she nodded shyly..so I gave her 3k to buy some snacks for the week.... I haven't stopped thinking about her since then..the way she wore her old stockings and hat very smartly and struggling with her circumstances... I'd made up my mind to do sth more for her..she won't be hard to find in that area


These are the kind of things humans should do... Not condemning humans because of their deformities n other circumstances...
Sir I'm presently worse than the two u mentioned right now. God bless u for ur kind heart. Pls save my from dis hardship pls
Re: Emirate Mall Supermarket In Kwara Denied Man Access Because Of Baby’s Appearance by buygala(m): 6:10pm On Jun 10, 2025
NothingDoMe:
Your kids mental health? Wow.

So you're saying anytime your kids meet someone like her then she has to leave the environment for their mental health?

Are you being serious?
If she won't, I will take my kids out


No child below 5 years old should be subjected to such sight...above that age, the kid can probably safely process such sight..


Protecting my young are my priority,,,When they are older and can safely process such sight, I have absolutely no problem with their being around such kids, just as i as an adult have no problem being around such kids
Re: Emirate Mall Supermarket In Kwara Denied Man Access Because Of Baby’s Appearance by ddippset(m): 6:14pm On Jun 10, 2025
hunterezi:
Other customers may not be comfortable with her being with their children. Na Nigeria we dey. Most of you commenting up there won't even want that child near your children.
Sad but very true my brother.
Re: Emirate Mall Supermarket In Kwara Denied Man Access Because Of Baby’s Appearance by NothingDoMe: 6:15pm On Jun 10, 2025
buygala:
If she won't, I will take my kids out


No child below 5 years old should be subjected to such sight...above that age, the kid can probably safely process such sight..


Protecting my young are my priority,,,When they are older and can safely process such sight, I have absolutely no problem with their being around such kids, just as i as an adult have no problem being around such kids
Best you take your kids out then. Because if I was present and you asked that girl to leave i would make sure you're arrested as The Lord lives.
Re: Emirate Mall Supermarket In Kwara Denied Man Access Because Of Baby’s Appearance by buygala(m): 6:16pm On Jun 10, 2025
GanagiBitrus:
You speak out of ignorance.

Their action is both legally & morally wrong.
The man's/baby's fundamental human rights was violated.
Kinly tell us what human right was violated, oga Barrister


As a lawyer myself, I can authoritatively tell you that no human right is unlimited in application...If your human right infringed on another person's own, it will be curbed

The other young kids there also have a right not to subjected to horrible sights that can trigger seizures...No sane person takes his young kid to watch horror movies...so why would anyone sit and watch his kid be traumatized by another person's kid?
Re: Emirate Mall Supermarket In Kwara Denied Man Access Because Of Baby’s Appearance by SeriouslySense(m): 6:17pm On Jun 10, 2025
that is why black people will not be useful for a long time, their attitude especially nigerian is self destructive smiley

it does not matter the amount of money or wealth they have, their attitude to their fellows is very poor.
Angelfrost:
When I tell you people that an average Nigerian has no moral justification to complain about racism and xenophobia abroad, una think say my own too much.

Discrimination and Stigmatization coupled with Bigotry are deeply embedded into the DNA of most Nigerians.


The fact that we are termed the most religious people on Earth makes it even more pathetic and laughable!


The Hypocrisy of you Conglomeration of Negroes!

SMH!!!
Re: Emirate Mall Supermarket In Kwara Denied Man Access Because Of Baby’s Appearance by Lovelife433(m): 6:17pm On Jun 10, 2025
After they will say oyinbo they discriminate. Foolish supermarket
Re: Emirate Mall Supermarket In Kwara Denied Man Access Because Of Baby’s Appearance by iswallker(m): 6:17pm On Jun 10, 2025
What's wrong with the child ... I really can't see her properly...and is she a child or an adult. It's hard to tell.. sad
Re: Emirate Mall Supermarket In Kwara Denied Man Access Because Of Baby’s Appearance by LARRYOBRAIN(m): 6:19pm On Jun 10, 2025
buygala:
While parents of the other kids present will counter-sue the man for child abuse degrading treatment


Between you and God, will your young kid watch Annabel the horror movie?

If you won't, why would anyone judge you for protecting your young child from seeing this girl who looks like that Annabel?
Do you have children or child?
Re: Emirate Mall Supermarket In Kwara Denied Man Access Because Of Baby’s Appearance by buygala(m): 6:19pm On Jun 10, 2025
NothingDoMe:
Best you take your kids out then. Because if I was present and you asked that girl to leave i would make sure you're arrested as The Lord lives.
Online warrior grin


If I was the owner of that supermarket, I will damn well ask the man to leave with his kid...

He won't be there to help me with legal fees and all if some other customer's kid was to have a seizure upon sighting that kid, and his parents decide to take it up with me for failing to properly keep my place in a kid-friendly state
Re: Emirate Mall Supermarket In Kwara Denied Man Access Because Of Baby’s Appearance by AngelicBeing: 6:19pm On Jun 10, 2025
buygala:
Truth be said

Man's kid looks kinda scary

Her looks might trigger convulsion in the other kids there...I honestly wouldn't want my kid watching a kid like that on TV, much less seeing her live..

Good call by the supermarket staff...The man's rights ends where other people's own starts...

Other people have a right to shop freely without having a deity-looking baby trigger seizures in their kids

As it's not the man's or his baby's fault that she is made that way, it's not anyone else's fault that she is made that way, for their kids to suffer such sorry sight over .

It's what it is

Re: Emirate Mall Supermarket In Kwara Denied Man Access Because Of Baby’s Appearance by SeriouslySense(m): 6:23pm On Jun 10, 2025
Dont worry when those ones that discrimminated that child face a peculiar situation grin, they will cry like the world has come to an end

Re: Emirate Mall Supermarket In Kwara Denied Man Access Because Of Baby’s Appearance by buygala(m): 6:23pm On Jun 10, 2025
LARRYOBRAIN:
Do you have children or child?
One son...

And nobody on God's earth will force my kid to see what I feel is unsafe for him...When he is older and can process such safely without any health risk, he is free to do so..

But not when he is barely three years old, u wan make e lock eye with what looks like a deity?

No please
Re: Emirate Mall Supermarket In Kwara Denied Man Access Because Of Baby’s Appearance by GALAXY11(m): 6:23pm On Jun 10, 2025
Mightyhaiz:
I went early this morning to track a tenant who's been owing his rent for quite some time now and has been annoyingly elusive about it...no calls no reach out to me..not picking or returning calls and messages... As he narrate his ordeal finish I just made some noises and left but for my mind I no go just trouble this man again..let me not compound his already suicidal state... On my way out I gave his son preparing for school 1k.. furthermore in tbe same neighborhood I saw a child with badly deformed legs struggling to school.. I reduced speed and asked where her school was ...she pointed to the opposite direction...so I asked why she was going the opposite way,she said she was hurrying to her mom's shop to take money for breakfast n Keke.. I asked if I can gv her something..so I dont look like a ritualist or sth like that to her.. she hesitated,studied me and then convinced herself that I'm am alright man..she nodded shyly..so I gave her 3k to buy some snacks for the week.... I haven't stopped thinking about her since then..the way she wore her old stockings and hat very smartly and struggling with her circumstances... I'd made up my mind to do sth more for her..she won't be hard to find in that area


These are the kind of things humans should do... Not condemning humans because of their deformities n other circumstances...
you're a very kind man and God won't forsake you..

I keep grinding not only for myself and family but i want to be a source of joy to people.... providing for the needy and not only counselling.
Re: Emirate Mall Supermarket In Kwara Denied Man Access Because Of Baby’s Appearance by NothingDoMe: 6:24pm On Jun 10, 2025
buygala:
Online warrior grin


If I was the owner of that supermarket, I will damn well ask the man to leave with his kid...

He won't be there to help me with legal fees and all if some other customer's kid was to have a seizure upon sighting that kid, and his parents decide to take it up with me for failing to properly keep my place in a kid-friendly state
Lol. Story don dey change. Now na kids having seizures from seeing the child. 🤣.

You go dey alright.
Re: Emirate Mall Supermarket In Kwara Denied Man Access Because Of Baby’s Appearance by themanderon: 6:25pm On Jun 10, 2025
NothingDoMe:
Leave them. Who nor go nor know.

I have a family friend who fell into this trap. She heard a special child hit her child in school. Warri isn't like Lagos that has well equipped school for special kids.

Anyways this lady was pissed and ranted at the school and even insulted the child asking the child if she was the one that made the child like that.

A year or two later she took in and gave birth. Guess what? Her child was special and needs constant care especially to carry her everywhere.

She now regrets her words. Now she understands what it is like.
We were thought many years ago as kids never to make fun or mockery of anyone in an unfortunate situation.
It has stuck with me till this day. I see all humans as one except for those that gave themselves the nature of animals.
Never joke with widows, orphans or people who have generally found themselves in unfortunate situations. It can be disastrous if you do. It usually doesn't end well.
Re: Emirate Mall Supermarket In Kwara Denied Man Access Because Of Baby’s Appearance by buygala(m): 6:26pm On Jun 10, 2025
NothingDoMe:
Lol. Story don dey change. Now na kids having seizures from seeing the child. 🤣.

You go dey alright.
Read my first post on this thread...That has always been my position


Even me wey be adult, I wouldn't want to be surprised with that kid in a dark room...i fit faint or get heart attack sef
Re: Emirate Mall Supermarket In Kwara Denied Man Access Because Of Baby’s Appearance by Blackman7: 6:27pm On Jun 10, 2025
This is totally unacceptable and the name of the mall be called out so people can avoid the place. I love how the father stood up for his daughter. The guy is my hero. Looking at the bright side, the mall just made the little angel a star. I wouldnt be surprised if the girl get scholaships and donations from the public. I wish her all the best.
Re: Emirate Mall Supermarket In Kwara Denied Man Access Because Of Baby’s Appearance by buygala(m): 6:29pm On Jun 10, 2025
Blackman7:
This is totally unacceptable and the name of the mall be called out so people can avoid the place. I love how the father stood up for his daughter. The guy is my hero. Looking at the bright side, the mall just made the little angel a star. I wouldnt be surprised if the girl get scholaships and donations from the public. I wish her all the best.
The girl's father himself was looking for trouble

It appears he even applied make-up on the kid for maximum effect to terrorize other people's kids


Carrying the poor kid like some ritual sacrifice too didn't help matters
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