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Men who married early at 23, 24, 25 or before 30. Do you regret your decision or enjoy marrying early.
Let's discuss.....mature responses only

Marrying early
Is not right

A 23 old young man knows nothing about life. Definitely not a good idea.

Marrying early brings a lot of joy, when I see my children and grandchildren. today I have little or no worries. I married at the age of 22, became a grandfather at 46+ today I am so happy because one of my grandchildren is already in the Uni at age 17 and my last born is serving (NYSC) already. Life in the 80s was fun, more habitable and cheaper, unlike the new World of today.

Marrying early has a whole lot of benefits, even though it might end in Regrets if the Parties involved are not Mentally Mature, Mine Was at 24, to God be the Glory I never regret taking Such Decision.......
Good Morning Everyone

No one can get it all....

Early marriage is the best if with the right person.

There is no single regret of marrying early

Over to them. Some of them have white hairs at 30 now

got married at 31, and i really wish i had gotten married before then, as long as una two always open up to each other, it should work.
but all na luck sha cos marriage na work but when u start having kids maturity set in and the very first moment you hold your baby will b d happiest moment in your life as a man

ayobarmy:
Marrying early has a whole lot of benefits, even though it might end in Regrets if the Parties involved are not Mentally Mature, Mine Was at 24, to God be the Glory I never regret taking Such Decision.......
Good Morning Everyone

Please what made you marry @ 24 as a man?
I am sure you understand what I mean.
No offense intended at all

DON'T TRY IT IF YOU'RE NOT FINANCIALLY STABLE
it might kill ur aspirations, crippling ur children futures if ur partner is not supportive enough

Hmmm

Marriage this days is more of what can my partners offer! Love self no really Dey like before!

Nowadays any small issue like dis na separation or divorce… nobody they tolerate anything again for marriage…

Go online and see young Nigerians guy’s comments

You will see something like

“If I marry, na view once”
“If I marry, na juju”
“I no go marry se”
“Babymama all the way”


May God heal our hearts

Best decision ever.

Note that those having a good marriage don't announce it on social media. It makes some people think good marriages don't exist.

If you have the fund, early marriage is better

Some others factors will makes a lot of impact on the possible outcome/experience


Upbringing/ level of maturity and reasoning

Status of the families

Exposure of the couple and many more

Married at 27, wifey 21. Our first child 12, second 10, and last is 7. It's been awesome, especially when people think your child is your little sister lol.

I always wanted to marry early while growing up and conclude having kids before 30 to 35. Its been awesome and all thanks to God and a mentally matured and intelligent wife despite her age (21).

Yes it's great to marry early but the man especially must be mentally matured and ready to lead the family. All what a young wife needs is a matured husband to love, guide, and protect her.

Pic1: with my last 2 kids. The 1st is almost as tall as my wife. Both look like siblings now

bluebay:
Marrying early
Is not right

to you

[quote author= post=135701276]A 23 old young man knows nothing about life. Definitely not a good idea.[/quote]not all.

U didn't marry early, bt i wish i had married early

Don't

No try am ooo as a man
The moment u marry that's when u will see another girl with big nyash, u go soon see another with a powerful breast. U will start cheating again

Mind ur business abeg

It is not about marrying early or late, it is about marrying as a matured person and marrying the right person.

Economy red oOoOO

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PHIPEX:
Best decision ever.

Note that those having a good marriage don't announce it on social media. It makes some people think good marriages don't exist.

If you have the fund, early marriage is better

best comment
i always doubt everything social media portrays, a good marriage is always guided jealously cos only u understands what keeps u guys going till now and u did wanna guide it jealously

Lol

The problem with this generation is disorientation and selfishness , marriage is a responsibility not a jamboree..
The right and first question in marriage is not " are you happy" but " is he/she happy. If you put the happiness of your partner first then you would enjoy your marriage but if your own happy marriage perception is centred on yourself . You will never have a happy marriage even if married to Pope Leo xiv.

Early marriage is a Bliss

I married the best lady on earth, but that won't stop me from marrying a second and third wives and that won't make me to stop celebrating my wife everyday, she remains my paddy and my supermodel, others are for the glam