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Re: The Health Of My Son by Brandiebird: 4:50am On May 16, 2025
Hi Op, how's your son doing?

Are just waiting for the 12.6.25 appointment?

Why is your number coming back with all those deleted posts when nobody searched it on nairaland?
Re: The Health Of My Son by Telltruth123(op): 8:19pm On May 16, 2025
Brandiebird:
Hi Op, how's your son doing?

Are just waiting for the 12.6.25 appointment?

Why is your number coming back with all those deleted posts when nobody searched it on nairaland?
Good evening sir/ma, I am waiting for the appointment date, I am helpless I don't have money to pay for the operation I am using herb to suppress it, last week one of the balls got swollen big, I don't know why general hospital will give such a long date appointment for that kind of condition.

Concerning the deleted posts, the moniker I was using before, somebody posted a news about two Nigerian guys that got married in US and I quote the person and said posting of such news is like promoting gay and the guy got angry and said do I know who he is? Then the next thing I was banned for long that was why I opened another moniker, maybe because I am not using the moniker again that is why you see the deleted aspect.

I am not a scammer, I am a woman I clocked 41 years this month and this boy is my only son and last born.
Thank you sir/ma
I am not
Re: The Health Of My Son by ChybuzzDD(m): 5:14am On May 17, 2025
Telltruth123:
Good evening sir/ma, I am waiting for the appointment date, I am helpless I don't have money to pay for the operation I am using herb to suppress it, last week one of the balls got swollen big, I don't know why general hospital will give such a long date appointment for that kind of condition.
Concerning the deleted posts, the moniker I was using before, somebody posted a news about two Nigerian guys that got married in US and I quote the person and said posting of such news is like promoting gay and the guy got angry and said do I know who he is? Then the next thing I was banned for long that was why I opened another moniker, maybe because I am not using the moniker again that is why you see the deleted aspect.
I am not a scammer, I am a woman I clocked 41 years this month and this boy is my only son and last born.
Thank you sir/ma
I am not
You're still pumping that innocent kid with herbs even after some of us here had already cautioned you that herbs wouldn't cure Hernias and would do more harm than good?

Is it that you just want to be seen doing something, even if it's harmful? You're not suppressing anything, but, instead, you're gradually harming the boy's tender/delicate organs with concoctions you don't know their various chemical constituents(just as the sellers themselves don't know).

Let's hope you won't come back later to solicit for funds for dialysis and/or kidney transplant after you must have ended up destroying his kidneys.

Once again, Hernias are surgical problems and there are no known drugs or herbs anywhere in the world that suppress or cure them.
They are only treated surgically, and in the elderly or those with medical co-morbidities who are not fit for surgery, we can use something call ''Truss'' to hold it down temporarily.
Re: The Health Of My Son by Telltruth123(op): 6:32am On May 17, 2025
ChybuzzDD:
You're still pumping that innocent kid with herbs even after some of us here had already cautioned you that herbs wouldn't cure Hernias and would do more harm than good?

Is it that you just want to be seen doing something, even if it's harmful? You're not suppressing anything, but, instead, you're gradually harming the boy's tender/delicate organs with concoctions you don't know their various chemical constituents(just as the sellers themselves don't know).

Let's hope you won't come back later to solicit for funds for dialysis and/or kidney transplant after you must have ended up destroying his kidneys.

Once again, Hernias are surgical problems and there are no known drugs or herbs anywhere in the world that suppress or cure them.
They are only treated surgically, and in the elderly or those with medical co-morbidities who are not fit for surgery, we can use something call ''Truss'' to hold it down temporarily.
I have stopped the herbs from those women, I I am using scent leave and bitter leave juice to suppress the swollen, one of the balls got swollen big last week when I saw it I wanted to die seen my child in that condition is making me sad, I don't know why general hospital will give a long appointment date for such condition.
Please sir this 'Truss' is it a drug?
Re: The Health Of My Son by Telltruth123(op): 11:50am On Jun 11, 2025
noobody:
Your story is not clear and I am suspecting foul play!!
You don't need to be used to anything,you would be directed on what to do.
General hospital is not anyone's home
Also which section of the hospital did you visit?
And when you got to that section,which part did they direct you to,

You must think you are dealing with ediots like you self.
Your saw pregnant women with children grin
And it was at that same place they saw you too.
Except general hospital ikorodu is not organized,
They would never see pregnant women and children at the same section ever!!

You must have first met with a records officer,who would direct you to a nurse,then direct you to a doctor.

My question is still valid ,which section and part of the general hospital did you visit?

Also Doctor just checked your child and confirmed hernia,no tests was done and doctor confirmed such in a general hospital?
Even if a professional doctor confirm it's hernia,
Good,Tell us how they confirm with check,you only need to mention just one thing,just one,asides from probably physical examination.

I wrote previously,I still don't trust you,and you are begining to make it seem as such

Like I told you I have someone in the system

Sample must have been collected,
You must have been told to go and run tests,
Then it's the rest results that they would use to determine what exactly is wrong with your child.

The work of a doctor is not like a road side mechanic,they don't just check and confirm,you must have been told to do tests first

Infact you are a terrible liar,
You were directed to surgery just like that with no test results?
You assume doctor would just put knife to skin without test results or history of PX?
You are a clown!!
Sharply they issued you surgery date in first visit?
You fell into the trap,and I am glad!!

Infact general hospitals now work with what it's called EMR,don't let me talk further on this

@foodqueen I am very glad you also made very valid points

This case needs to be monitored

And like I said I am eagled eyed on this issue right now too.
Tomorrow is 12/06/2025 which is the appointment date given to my son at the Ikorodu general hospital, unfortunately there will be Oro festival which will not allow women to pass through Ikorodu garage.
I will go on Friday which is 13/06/2025 and by God's grace I will be there by 8:00am at the surgical department please let your phone on because I will call you to witness it.
Thank you.
Re: The Health Of My Son by Nemesis0147(m): 2:35am On Jun 12, 2025
I wish you all the best madam@op

The problem with people that are too quick to tag someone a scam is that they are very poor and frustrated in real life….even if you prove heaven and earth to them…they don’t have a dime to support you with and they will be quick to spoil the minds of those willing to help….
Allow those that are willing or have the means to assist do their investigation and findings themselves.
Re: The Health Of My Son by Telltruth123(op): 8:42am On Jun 13, 2025
noobody:
Why is it now you are mentioning the issue of tests?
Why didn't you say that along with your narration yesterday.

My dear or is it my guy,

No shaky shaky

I Sha hope you know it's a crime to use official govt documents to make false claims.

Post the papers i asked

Post them separately

I have the number you posted already.

Just do as I asked

Yes a day before the appointment kindly do well to notify me

08100115319 call/Whatsapp

My promise still stands,

I would foot part of the bill!!

Better than some hausa wannbees spewing thrash

Based on your history here,we need to verify everything you posted,

That is the problem of crying wolf,try and read that story to see how it relates to your issue.
Good morning, I am at the surgical department in Ikorodu general hospital now and I am calling your phone number you dropped here but it is not going through, it is saying please contact your local provider.
Please where are you so that you can see my son and I will show you the condition.
Re: The Health Of My Son by Foodqueen(f): 8:52am On Jun 13, 2025
Telltruth123:
Good morning, I am at the surgical department in Ikorodu general hospital now and I am calling your phone number you dropped here but it is not going through, it is saying please contact your local provider.
Please where are you so that you can see my son and I will show you the condition.
Concentrate on what you are there for first.
Re: The Health Of My Son by Telltruth123(op):
Foodqueen:
Concentrate on what you are there for first.
When I got there, the nurse gave me another date which is 26/06/2025 I pleaded with her but she said they have to give me another date that even if I risk to come yesterday because of the Oro festival that I would not even meet them yesterday. She said she should have given me 19/06/2025 but the appointment is full.

Re: The Health Of My Son by Chram(m): 9:49am On Jun 13, 2025
Foodqueen:
Concentrate on what you are there for first.
Good morning ma, you aren't responding to PMs
Re: The Health Of My Son by Foodqueen(f): 1:37pm On Jun 13, 2025
Telltruth123:
When I got there, the nurse gave me another date which is 26/06/2025 I pleaded with her but she said they have to give me another date that even if I risk to come yesterday because of the Oro festival that I would not even meet them yesterday. She said she should have given me 19/06/2025 but the appointment is full.
What's this picture above.

Can you find your way to igbogbo secretariat.

What's your location?

The date is tomorrow.

Re: The Health Of My Son by Chram(m): 1:43pm On Jun 13, 2025
Foodqueen:
What's this picture above.

Can you find your way to igbogbo secretariat.

What's your location?

The date is tomorrow.
Good afternoon Ma.
How's your day going?
How's work?
Re: The Health Of My Son by Telltruth123(op):
Foodqueen:
What's this picture above.

Can you find your way to igbogbo secretariat.

What's your location?

The date is tomorrow.
I have attended one before but not this at the end of the day, they introduce some drugs for us to buy, they only gave us paracetamol and vitamin c for free.
I don't know what to do now because where I am working, if you want to take permission for a day you have to inform them a week before and I have taken part of today and also inform them of the next appointment date given to me by the general hospital.
It is not easy for me to go and take another permission. The work I am managing, I have already borrowed money from someone to pay part of school fees and I promise to pay at the end of this month, if I take another permission, they might sack me.
Re: The Health Of My Son by pocohantas(f):
Forgive me for intruding,
At the beginning of the thread, this woman was asked to take the child to IKORODU. Her way didn't seem pure, but now she is at Ikorodu and is being asked to take the child to somewhere else. Why? What changed? It did sound like the parties involved were the CMDs of that hospital, hence the insistence on Ikorodu.

Please while trying to help people, let's be considerate.


To the OP;
That child has a father who is alive.
He isn't even a breastfeeding baby that we would say the father cannot handle hospital run. Please get the father involved for things like this while you focus on your job and raising financial resources.

We are our kids greatest insurance.
We = MOTHERS. Lack of finances is too expensive for us in the long run.
Re: The Health Of My Son by pocohantas(f): 8:10pm On Jun 13, 2025
noobody:
You paid for a card and was told it's not available.
Many many commas and errors in your story.
You saw others with card but they could not provide one for you

I also asked you to separate those papers and snap them in full pages one after the other,
Why have you not posted that?
Or did they collect that back from you also?

Like I confirmed also

12/06/25

I would be live at ikorodu general hospital!
!
Were you there?
You said you will be there live.
Re: The Health Of My Son by Telltruth123(op): 3:55pm On Jun 14, 2025
pocohantas:
Forgive me for intruding,
At the beginning of the thread, this woman was asked to take the child to IKORODU. Her way didn't seem pure, but now she is at Ikorodu and is being asked to take the child to somewhere else. Why? What changed? It did sound like the parties involved were the CMDs of that hospital, hence the insistence on Ikorodu.

Please while trying to help people, let's be considerate.


To the OP;
That child has a father who is alive.
He isn't even a breastfeeding baby that we would say the father cannot handle hospital run. Please get the father involved for things like this while you focus on your job and raising financial resources.

We are our kids greatest insurance.
We = MOTHERS. Lack of finances is too expensive for us in the long run.
Thank you ma, my husband has some financial challenges, before, he was driving hire purchase bus, the bus had accident and he ran into debts so presently he is not coming home daily he said he cannot afford the transport fare.

I went to meet my daddy yesterday whether he can assist me to take my son to the place somebody recommended here since the person has offered to assist with transport fare but my dad said we should wait for the general hospital appointment date because he doesn't want complications.
Thank you ma
Re: The Health Of My Son by Starboytwo(m): 2:07pm On Jun 15, 2025
God will take control...

Sorry for all the stress. It's not easy...

I pray your son be OK too... Be strong.
Re: The Health Of My Son by noobody(m): 7:48am On Jun 17, 2025
Nemesis0147:
I wish you all the best madam@op

The problem with people that are too quick to tag someone a scam is that they are very poor and frustrated in real life….even if you prove heaven and earth to them…they don’t have a dime to support you with and they will be quick to spoil the minds of those willing to help….
Allow those that are willing or have the means to assist do their investigation and findings themselves.
Hello and good day,

No one was quick to tag anyone a scam.

Nairaland scammers have tactics,

Her profile exhibited such and I call her out.


And since you are rich in real life,

What exactly have you done to help her situation?

It's not about coming to nairaland to type,

Have you reached out to her and also offered help?

At least I made a promise whenever the cost of surgery is known,I would support financially as long I can confirm it is legit.

What exactly are you going to do to help her also?
Re: The Health Of My Son by noobody(m): 7:50am On Jun 17, 2025
Telltruth123:
Good morning, I am at the surgical department in Ikorodu general hospital now and I am calling your phone number you dropped here but it is not going through, it is saying please contact your local provider
Please where are you so that you can see my son and I will show you the condition.
Nairaland banned me for over 8 days was why I could not reply you earlier.

At the bolded is a lie from the pits of hell

The line is my business line and my HOT line,

Active on Whatsapp,sms,calls,telegram,
You meant to say you could not reach me on any of these platforms to at least inform me a day prior,
It's very strange indeed.

It is always active.

I stared specifically in my last quote to you,

Inform me clearly a day before so I would make arrangements


You expect me to leave the other end of Lagos to ikorodu without plans,

Lagos movt does not work that way.
Re: The Health Of My Son by noobody(m): 7:52am On Jun 17, 2025
pocohantas:
Were you there?
You said you will be there live.
Yes I promised I would be there live,check my very last post to her,
I gave her instructions to notify me a day before,

Ikorodu is at the other end of lafos,
But she did not

I have WhatsApp,sms,calls,

She did not do any of the above.
Re: The Health Of My Son by Nemesis0147(m): 8:41am On Jun 17, 2025
noobody:
Hello and good day,

No one was quick to tag anyone a scam.

Nairaland scammers have tactics,

Her profile exhibited such and I call her out.


And since you are rich in real life,

What exactly have you done to help her situation?

It's not about coming to nairaland to type,

Have you reached out to her and also offered help?

At least I made a promise whenever the cost of surgery is known,I would support financially as long I can confirm it is legit.

What exactly are you going to do to help her also?
even if I can not afford to help
I won’t still demoralize those that are capable of helping her at the moment…that’s the point

If you can’t help…move
Allow those that want to help do their findings themselves….thats the point
Re: The Health Of My Son by noobody(m): 8:47am On Jun 17, 2025
Nemesis0147:
even if I can not afford to help
I won’t still demoralize those that are capable of helping her at the moment…that’s the point

If you can’t help…move
Allow those that want to help do their findings themselves….thats the point
It is obvious you have never been scammed on nairaland,it's why you are claiming it's demoralizing

Like I said


Her profile fits how nairaland frauds operates,

I called her out

And I still promised to help financially if I can confirm her story is legit.

You that can't help financially

Try to move on also.
Re: The Health Of My Son by pocohantas(f): 7:43pm On Jun 17, 2025
noobody:
Yes I promised I would be there live,check my very last post to her,
I gave her instructions to notify me a day before
,

Ikorodu is at the other end of lafos,
But she did not

I have WhatsApp,sms,calls,

She did not do any of the above.
You are not ready.
I gave her instructions indeed.
President General...
Re: The Health Of My Son by noobody(m): 7:53pm On Jun 17, 2025
pocohantas:
You are not ready.
I gave her instructions indeed.
President General...
With the way you are poke nosing about into the issue,

One would have assumed you would reached out to her and offer help in whatever way you can,but no,
Na only advice Una fit type for nairaland,never would you take a step and help.

You don't expect everyone to be jobless with nothing to do with there time that I should cram a date in my head

Even the person affected said she has to take one week notice before she attends any hospital session,so you expect I should be the one pursuing her about.

Also obvious no matter my response,you are wired to reply in a bitter manner.


Since you are ready,and ready to take over her issues

Aunty asherkine,kindly do the needful and take charge

Queen Pablo!
Re: The Health Of My Son by pocohantas(f): 8:58pm On Jun 17, 2025
Nemesis0147:
even if I can not afford to help
I won’t still demoralize those that are capable of helping her at the moment…that’s the point

If you can’t help…move
Allow those that want to help do their findings themselves….thats the point
He claimed he would be there LIVE. Why wasn't he there? I was watching to see him confirm and give us an update as he seemed so loud. Alas, he was waiting for a reminder.
Such a joker!
Re: The Health Of My Son by noobody(m): 9:20pm On Jun 17, 2025
I think it's high time we stopped derailing this thread,

All these chochocho everywhere without any action is useless.

Even with my initial reservations about the thread,

I still have offered to help financially when the time comes,
Initially the op dropped her account details seeking for money,it was someone who directed her to go to krd gen hospital.

You guys can do same by helping her get meds also,life nor hard at all.

Others should try and endeavor to do same too.

Quoting me with unnecessary advice is not needed.


The serious minded non jokers should do the needful.
Re: The Health Of My Son by pocohantas(f): 10:21pm On Jun 17, 2025
Tomorrow is 12/06/2025 which is the appointment date given to my son at the Ikorodu general hospital, unfortunately there will be Oro festival which will not allow women to pass through Ikorodu garage.
I will go on Friday which is 13/06/2025 and by God's grace I will be there by 8:00am at the surgical department please let your phone on because I will call you to witness it.
Thank you.
No be reminder be this?

You even notified the blabbermouth of your plans of going on 13th. Na im e run off phone.
Then reappeared much later to resume barking. Why you block me? I for tell you wetin no good this night.
Re: The Health Of My Son by noobody(m): 9:54am On Jun 18, 2025
To think I would stoop so low to switch off my business line just goes to show petty some people reason,funny how you came to spin the narrative,
She claimed phone was saying not reachable,how does that even translate to switched off?

I made mention I was banned for over 8 day by mods,
How was I supposed to see her post,not like I sleep and wake on nairaland.
The OP had the strength to type a reminder on nairaland to inform me to keep my phone on,but could not send a sms or text, or even a flash.
Even lied she called me and my phone was not reachable,
A phone I am 100% active concluding deals every minute,
Calls are sharp always.

It is obvious the OP was not ready to make me know of her plans,it was a planned something all along
Drop a post on nairaland and come to lie my phone was not reachable.

And more obvious POCO is a petty individual who would only nitpick about irrelevant facts.

At this stage,

The OP has not confirmed anything we have asked her yet,she asked for financial help to do a surgery,we still don't have a cost,
There is no said Bill/payment yet,
I hope when the bill shows up,all of you would rambling now,would be able to turn up.

And yes I blocked you,because it is obvious you aren't worth it at all,
All you want is someone to throw back and forth with,
My time is too valuable to do that with you,
Just to remind you again,you aren't worth my time at all.
Reach out to the OP and offer help in any way you can.

But yet you keep rambling about me not showing up to an appointment I was not reminded of.

Up till now,no single help has come from your end,

As usual

Chochocho,no workings.........
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