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Re: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Kobojunkie: 8:17pm On Jun 17, 2025
Tello619:
It's called human trafficking today dingus, plus explain to me how Africa is the only direction you want to point your fingers to? Explain to me why Africa should take all the criticism of human trafficking? Oh you think the way it happended those days is how it still happens? You think the various African governments haven't criminalized human trafficking? You think it's still a mode of commerce in Africa? You think the way it was done back then is how it's still done now?
Modern day slavery/human trafficking has been criminalized but doesn't mean there won't be bad eggs in some corners engaging in it as well. It's like how it has been illegalized in America but you still see breaking news about human trafficking- it's illegalized in Africa and perpetuators are always prosecuted, unlike ruling powers back then who engage in it as a mode of commerce...
What is this one on about, abeg? Indentured servitude which was never really abolished in much of Africa is now trans🙄🙄🙄🙄
Instead human trafficking is noted as a form of modern slavery which is instead an umbrella term used to refer to various forms of exploitation. The post you referenced however specifically pointed to indentured servitude as the form of slavery discussed and that form has remained active in much of Africa even after the colonial powers and their laws disappeared. undecided
Re: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Fenrir(op): 8:39pm On Jun 17, 2025
Where's....

Norway
Sweden
Denmark
Finland
The uk
America
Australia
Poland
Ukraine
Etc

Its the men of the dark races that do it
The 1 white country is the 1 in the world that is most like you authoritarian so basically a dictatorship

Africa isnt exactly a democracy is it, most of your leaders are not even elected they just buy power, in all of Africa there is 1 good leader and its the smallest country

Mate face it, men the dark races are slave masters so stop calling us evil and sort yourselves out
Re: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Tello619: 8:53pm On Jun 17, 2025
Kobojunkie:
What is this one on about, abeg? Indentured servitude which was never really abolished in much of Africa is now trans🙄🙄🙄🙄
Instead human trafficking is noted as a form of modern slavery which is instead an umbrella term used to refer to various forms of exploitation. The post you referenced however specifically pointed to indentured servitude as the form of slavery discussed and that form has remained active in much of Africa even after the colonial powers and their laws disappeared. undecided
Trust me you really haven't countered what I said bro. To me it's like rephrasing what you said earlier😐
Re: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Kobojunkie: 9:01pm On Jun 17, 2025
Tello619:
Trust me you really haven't countered what I said bro. To me it's like rephrasing what you said earlier😐
Are you OK at all? What you posted had nothing to do with my previous comment which you pretended to respond to. So, how could my attempt at clarifying this fact be mistaken for an attempt to counter your disconnected claim? Abeg, go find someone else rattle with as I am not in the mood for disconnected reasoning, o'jare! lipsrsealed
Re: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Tello619: 9:19pm On Jun 17, 2025
Fenrir:
Where's....

Norway
Sweden
Denmark
Finland
The uk
America
Australia
Poland
Ukraine
Etc

Its the men of the dark races that do it
The 1 white country is the 1 in the world that is most like you authoritarian so basically a dictatorship

Africa isnt exactly a democracy is it, most of your leaders are not even elected they just buy power, in all of Africa there is 1 good leader and its the smallest country

Mate face it, men the dark races are slave masters so stop calling us evil and sort yourselves out
You were pointing fingers of "Oh slavers!" at us forgetting that your people were also involved in slavery for commercial gains. You think slavery is only exclusive to black people? Slavery started as far back as civilizations started sprouting all over regions of the earth from Mesopotamia, Egypt etc. .

Re: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Tello619: 9:38pm On Jun 17, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Are you OK at all? What you posted had nothing to do with my previous comment which you pretended to respond to. So, how could my attempt at clarifying this fact be mistaken for an attempt to counter your disconnected claim? Abeg, go find someone else rattle with as I am not in the mood for disconnected reasoning, o'jare! lipsrsealed
You tried to make it look like the slave system of old still thrives in Africa today didn't you? Talking about "kidnapping and selling" And one of my points was that it's been abolished and illegalized🤷🏾‍♂️ it doesn't mean there won't be bad eggs here and there but there are basically laws that prosecute offenders right? It's not like it's as rampant and a normalized practice like it was then for you to claim "it still thrives in Africa"
Plus it's basically " human trafficking" now that it's illegalized and not necessarily "slavery". If you want to connect "kidnapping and selling into labour" with "indentured servitude" you might as well just call it ""human trafficking" instead which is currently seen as a modem day slave system
So your point actually lacks depth, don't blame me for thinking it's not satisfactory. You randomly replied my comment so it's not my fault
Re: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Tello619: 9:56pm On Jun 17, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Are you OK at all? What you posted had nothing to do with my previous comment which you pretended to respond to. So, how could my attempt at clarifying this fact be mistaken for an attempt to counter your disconnected claim? Abeg, go find someone else rattle with as I am not in the mood for disconnected reasoning, o'jare! lipsrsealed
All I'm saying is "indentured servitude" with "...those kidnapped and sold as slaves" doesn't entirely go together instead "...those kidnapped and sold as slaves" goes well with "human trafficking"
Miscommunication? Well, maybe!

Re: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Fenrir(op): 12:21pm On Jun 18, 2025
Tello619:
You were pointing fingers of "Oh slavers!" at us forgetting that your people were also involved in slavery for commercial gains. You think slavery is only exclusive to black people? Slavery started as far back as civilizations started sprouting all over regions of the earth from Mesopotamia, Egypt etc. .
Mate

When did Vikings ever enslave Africans? Vikings died died long before anyone got to Africa and ive admitted plenty of times that my ancestors were brutal and it would have been much worse if they had gotten here
Re: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Fenrir(op): 12:27pm On Jun 18, 2025
Tello619:
You were pointing fingers of "Oh slavers!" at us forgetting that your people were also involved in slavery for commercial gains. You think slavery is only exclusive to black people? Slavery started as far back as civilizations started sprouting all over regions of the earth from Mesopotamia, Egypt etc. .
And go to my precious topics ive said multiple times

That all races
All nationalities
All ethnicities
All people's

Have been slaves and taken slaves but more of us were taken by Africans and Arabs than were ever taken from Africa

The word slave is slavic because they were slaves

You keep trying to make us pay you
Why should specific group be singled out and made to pay one other specific group?

The Arabs you used to take you before whites and actually castrate you, why dont they have to pay you and us?
Re: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Tello619: 1:05pm On Jun 18, 2025
Fenrir:
Mate

When did Vikings ever enslave Africans? Vikings died died long before anyone got to Africa and ive admitted plenty of times that my ancestors were brutal and it would have been much worse if they had gotten here
Did I say you enslaved Africans?🤦🏾‍♂️ Yo! Quit fooling yourself around here! You were trash-talking us over Africa's involvement in slavery and I simply broke the news of how your people were notoriously involved in slavery too🤷🏾‍♂️ why point fingers if your Nordic ancestors were also involved in the same sh!t, hmm?
Just give it up and walk away...
Re: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by AngelicBeing: 1:20pm On Jun 18, 2025
Tello619:
Did I say you enslaved Africans?🤦🏾‍♂️ Yo! Quit fooling yourself around here! You were trash-talking us over Africa's involvement in slavery and I simply broke the news of how your people were notoriously involved in slavery too🤷🏾‍♂️ why point fingers if your Nordic ancestors were also involved in the same sh!t, hmm?
Just give it up and walk away...
..........................................,................. Hmmmmm tongue
Re: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Tello619: 8:45pm On Jun 18, 2025
Fenrir:
And go to my precious topics ive said multiple times

That all races
All nationalities
All ethnicities
All people's

Have been slaves and taken slaves but more of us were taken by Africans and Arabs than were ever taken from Africa

The word slave is slavic because they were slaves

You keep trying to make us pay you
Why should specific group be singled out and made to pay one other specific group?

The Arabs you used to take you before whites and actually castrate you, why dont they have to pay you and us?
You mean reparations? And you think slavery is Africa's actual bone of contention? No! It's that of the generation that descended from chattel slavery of your skinfolk. we don't really care about reparations here in Africa (the African diaspora are the ones who do because they suffered the negativity first hand), our bone of contention is neocolonialism because it still reigns underground in major regions of the continent which is why you see revolutionary movements here and there aimed at disconnecting from the puppet strings of western forces. We aren't asking for reparation, we just want out of the neocolonialism is all. But let me ask you, just because it's your skinfolk involved why do you think this also applies to you? Hmm? are the Nordic people involved in all of this? No! Then shut the hell up and sit down! Stop trying to take a bullet that wasn't shot at you? Are the Nordic countries drawn into the mess? No? Then stay where you are in peace.
Re: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Fenrir(op): 12:07am On Jun 19, 2025
Tello619:
You mean reparations? And you think slavery is Africa's actual bone of contention? No! It's that of the generation that descended from chattel slavery of your skinfolk. we don't really care about reparations here in Africa (the African diaspora are the ones who do because they suffered the negativity first hand), our bone of contention is neocolonialism because it still reigns underground in major regions of the continent which is why you see revolutionary movements here and there aimed at disconnecting from the puppet strings of western forces. We aren't asking for reparation, we just want out of the neocolonialism is all. But let me ask you, just because it's your skinfolk involved why do you think this also applies to you? Hmm? are the Nordic people involved in all of this? No! Then shut the hell up and sit down! Stop trying to take a bullet that wasn't shot at you? Are the Nordic countries drawn into the mess? No? Then stay where you are in peace.
Read how many topics there are on here saying my race owes your race

Its nonsense, making a new account soon anyway this site is racist and keep getting banned for not even swearing

But I can just make an unlimited amount
Re: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Fenrir(op):
Tello619:
You mean reparations? And you think slavery is Africa's actual bone of contention? No! It's that of the generation that descended from chattel slavery of your skinfolk. we don't really care about reparations here in Africa (the African diaspora are the ones who do because they suffered the negativity first hand), our bone of contention is neocolonialism because it still reigns underground in major regions of the continent which is why you see revolutionary movements here and there aimed at disconnecting from the puppet strings of western forces. We aren't asking for reparation, we just want out of the neocolonialism is all. But let me ask you, just because it's your skinfolk involved why do you think this also applies to you? Hmm? are the Nordic people involved in all of this? No! Then shut the hell up and sit down! Stop trying to take a bullet that wasn't shot at you? Are the Nordic countries drawn into the mess? No? Then stay where you are in peace.
And unlike mate, I would take a bullet for someone

I have more chance of surviving a bullet to the chest over for example a child

And if countries like the UK or America or france or Germany attacked Africa, who do you think id be fighting for?

The country ive made a home in or the country i was born in? Im 40 years old and ive spent more of my life here than Norway

And if you admit Scandinavia isnt involved, why do you men here treat like im British? Because of my voice? In person you never stop to listen, I was sent there after emancipation and I had no choice in it i was 13 years old and had deleted both my parents in self defence, if you were sent to the UK at 13 the world would hear you as almost British too
Re: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Tello619: 7:43am On Jun 19, 2025
Fenrir:
Read how many topics there are on here saying my race owes your race

Its nonsense, making a new account soon anyway this site is racist and keep getting banned for not even swearing

But I can just make an unlimited amount
I also get banned, I did yesterday and I didn't know it could last for hours, unlike previous restrictions where it lasted days. I'm actually very new here and have been banned multiple times (so no, this site isn't racist, so far YOU are)
Re: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Tello619:
Fenrir:
And unlike mate, I would take a bullet for someone

I have more chance of surviving a bullet to the chest over for example a child

And if countries like the UK or America or france or Germany attacked Africa, who do you think id be fighting for?

The country ive made a home in or the country i was born in? Im 40 years old and ive spent more of my life here than Norway

And if you admit Scandinavia isnt involved, why do you men here treat like im British? Because of my voice? In person you never stop to listen, I was sent there after emancipation and I had no choice in it i was 13 years old and had deleted both my parents in self defence, if you were sent to the UK at 13 the world would hear you as almost British too
YES! I hear you! You get tackled by my folks because of your race or accent but if you can just imagine being in their shoes (not like I'm excusing it but...) if you did, you will understand the sentiment! Maybe because of the image history paints your skinfolk. We steady see the involvement of western forces underground in the continent, we see and feel the effect of neocolonialism and how it has also become one of the major vices that halts our progress. And with what story history tells of your skinfolk on top of that, it only brings about a type of resentment.
Truth is, not everyone fully understands this concept of skin color alongside ethnicity, and because of that, we see a lot of misconceptions flying everywhere. The same way not everyone outside Africa understands Africa's diversity is the same way not all of us down here understands others outside Africa. For example, not everyone understand the difference between Nilotic and Bantu peoples and would just bundle both together because 'black skin" and "African". Now it's basically ithe same misconception you suffer from! You got tackled by my folks because "white skin" and "European" whereas you and your people had no part it any of what you're being tackled for. But Instead of coming online to trash-talk Nigerians and the black race as a whole , don't you think it's better to counter those people on the spot and tell them it's a misconception and show them how guilt-free you are?
You gave into the victimization and here we are...
Re: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Fenrir(op): 8:58am On Jun 19, 2025
Tello619:
YES! I hear you! You get tackled by my folks because of your race or accent but if you can just imagine being in their shoes (not like I'm excusing it but...) if you did, you will understand the sentiment! Maybe because of the image history paints your skinfolk. We steady see the involvement of western forces underground in the continent, we see and feel the effect of neocolonialism and how it has also become one of the major vices that halts our progress. And with what story history tells of your skinfolk on top of that, it only brings about a type of resentment.
Truth is, not everyone fully understands this concept of skin color alongside ethnicity, and because of that, we see a lot of misconceptions flying everywhere. The same way not everyone outside Africa understands Africa's diversity is the same way not all of us down here understands others outside Africa. For example, not everyone understand the difference between Nilotic and Bantu peoples and would just bundle both together because 'black skin" and "African". Now it's basically ithe same misconception you suffer from! You got tackled by my folks because "white skin" and "European" whereas you and your people had no part it any of what you're being tackled for. But Instead of coming online to trash-talk Nigerians and the black race as a whole , don't you think it's better to counter those people on the spot and tell them it's a misconception and show them how guilt-free you are?
You gave into the victimization and here we are...
You are lot are the ones that keep bringing colour into it, no me and not us

Ive blaming a nationality 1 country in Africa and the men of that 1 country, you lot make out that all of us are evil because our skin

What was my country doing during aparthide, we were trying to stop it, the Danish were involved in the crap the British were doing here and across after but Norwegians always tried to help Africa
Re: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Fenrir(op): 9:20am On Jun 19, 2025
Tello619:
YES! I hear you! You get tackled by my folks because of your race or accent but if you can just imagine being in their shoes (not like I'm excusing it but...) if you did, you will understand the sentiment! Maybe because of the image history paints your skinfolk. We steady see the involvement of western forces underground in the continent, we see and feel the effect of neocolonialism and how it has also become one of the major vices that halts our progress. And with what story history tells of your skinfolk on top of that, it only brings about a type of resentment.
Truth is, not everyone fully understands this concept of skin color alongside ethnicity, and because of that, we see a lot of misconceptions flying everywhere. The same way not everyone outside Africa understands Africa's diversity is the same way not all of us down here understands others outside Africa. For example, not everyone understand the difference between Nilotic and Bantu peoples and would just bundle both together because 'black skin" and "African". Now it's basically ithe same misconception you suffer from! You got tackled by my folks because "white skin" and "European" whereas you and your people had no part it any of what you're being tackled for. But Instead of coming online to trash-talk Nigerians and the black race as a whole , don't you think it's better to counter those people on the spot and tell them it's a misconception and show them how guilt-free you are?
You gave into the victimization and here we are...
Mate I literally because of my voice and you immediately brought skin into it again

Thats the huge difference between us, check my topics i have not once mocked any of you because your skin, ive repeatedly said that Africans are amazing people, ive said Nigerian make the best doctors in the world but at the same time can't be trusted at mental health doctors

I only have 2 issues with Nigeria men the way you falsely say your traditions are mandatory, required and necessary but the truth is legal marriage has completely different laws to customary marriage, customary law is for people under 21, once people over 21 what the family thinks is irrelevant, ask any lawyer im sure there are some on here, a man can just take a woman and marry without meeting the and without paying a bride price because none are legally mandatory and even if the bride price is paid, the concept of return is bizarre and not legally mandatory either and by rights if that woman has had your child then you dont deserve it back

The second issue i have Nigerian men is the way you actually treat women here

I have not called you stupid because Africans are not stupid, you just dont know how the world really works, thats why traoré fella is better then you

Hes a Muslim that has no hate in him for Christians and he has no hate for atheists of Jews, he has no hate for us whites because of our skin, hes targeting the actual nationalities that have wronged him and his country

Even you have admitted us norse are not involved at all and if push came to shove we would probably side with you, our policy is freedom and independence for Africa and has been for a long time
Re: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by AngelicBeing: 1:07pm On Jun 19, 2025
Fenrir:
Mate I literally because of my voice and you immediately brought skin into it again

Thats the huge difference between us, check my topics i have not once mocked any of you because your skin, ive repeatedly said that Africans are amazing people, ive said Nigerian make the best doctors in the world but at the same time can't be trusted at mental health doctors

I only have 2 issues with Nigeria men the way you falsely say your traditions are mandatory, required and necessary but the truth is legal marriage has completely different laws to customary marriage, customary law is for people under 21, once people over 21 what the family thinks is irrelevant, ask any lawyer im sure there are some on here, a man can just take a woman and marry without meeting the and without paying a bride price because none are legally mandatory and even if the bride price is paid, the concept of return is bizarre and not legally mandatory either and by rights if that woman has had your child then you dont deserve it back

The second issue i have Nigerian men is the way you actually treat women here

I have not called you stupid because Africans are not stupid, you just dont know how the world really works, thats why traoré fella is better then you

Hes a Muslim that has no hate in him for Christians and he has no hate for atheists of Jews, he has no hate for us whites because of our skin, hes targeting the actual nationalities that have wronged him and his country

Even you have admitted us norse are not involved at all and if push came to shove we would probably side with you, our policy is freedom and independence for Africa and has been for a long time
Have you gotten the services of 2 Nigerian men to meet the needs of your Darling wife 😜......or you are still searching.................................... shocked
Re: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Fenrir(op): 1:12pm On Jun 19, 2025
Tello619:
It's called human trafficking today dingus, plus explain to me how Africa is the only direction you want to point your fingers to? Explain to me why Africa should take all the criticism of human trafficking? Oh you think the way it happended those days is how it still happens? You think the various African governments haven't criminalized human trafficking? You think it's still a mode of commerce in Africa? You think the way it was done back then is how it's still done now?
Modern day slavery/human trafficking has been criminalized but doesn't mean there won't be bad eggs in some corners engaging in it as well. It's like how it has been illegalized in America but you still see breaking news about human trafficking- it's illegalized in Africa and perpetuators are always prosecuted, unlike ruling powers back then who engage in it as a mode of commerce...
And mate Shariah law, which the northern half of your country lives under is a form of female slavery no matter how you debate it or try to justify it
Re: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Fenrir(op): 1:15pm On Jun 19, 2025
AngelicBeing:
Have you gotten the services of 2 Nigerian men to meet the needs of your Darling wife 😜......or you are still searching.................................... shocked
Thats all over with now

I told her she would want to stop before I did

Its just a normal monogamous marriage now, she gave me permission to keep banging the mistress but I dont cheat, if shes not exploring then im not either

In marriage whats good for the goose is good for the gander and I dont do double standards
Re: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by AngelicBeing: 1:47pm On Jun 19, 2025
Fenrir:
Thats all over with now

I told her she would want to stop before I did

Its just a normal monogamous marriage now, she gave me permission to keep banging the mistress but I dont cheat, if shes not exploring then im not either

In marriage whats good for the goose is good for the gander and I dont do double standards
Banging her mistress while another guy bangs her with your permission, that is certainly an OPEN MARRIAGE, if you ask me, and there's a tendency for a good guy to bang your wife and she will abscond with the Guy to Monaco forever , women loves guys who can bang them to STUPOR like the Equatorial Guinea guy that banged several women and he is the current Pablo Escobar of Sex in Equatorial Guinea.......

Hahaha LoL Muchecheche................................ tongue
Re: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Fenrir(op): 2:26pm On Jun 19, 2025
AngelicBeing:
Banging her mistress while another guy bangs her with your permission, that is certainly an OPEN MARRIAGE, if you ask me, and there's a tendency for a good guy to bang your wife and she will abscond with the Guy to Monaco forever , women loves guys who can bang them to STUPOR like the Equatorial Guinea guy that banged several women and he is the current Pablo Escobar of Sex in Equatorial Guinea.......

Hahaha LoL Muchecheche................................ tongue
Dont judge our marriage by the standards of your past relationships

And banging my mistress not hers
We wanted to explore for a few years before having a kid and we agreed 3 years of exploring of until 1 wanted to stop and I warned her she would want to stop before I did

And 1 thing you dont understand, do any Scandinavian countries have reputations for breaking agreements or breaking any word?

Or are we people of honour and duty?

Norway
Finland
Denmark
Sweden

Are always in the top 5 countries for most honest, most loyal, most welcoming people

Least corruption and least crime, Denmark is normally number 1

195 countries in the world and Nigeria is always 140 so close to the bottom

And I think that proves everything
Re: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by AngelicBeing: 3:11pm On Jun 19, 2025
Fenrir:
Dont judge our marriage by the standards of your past relationships

And banging my mistress not hers
We wanted to explore for a few years before having a kid and we agreed 3 years of exploring of until 1 wanted to stop and I warned her she would want to stop before I did

And 1 thing you dont understand, do any Scandinavian countries have reputations for breaking agreements or breaking any word?

Or are we people of honour and duty?

Norway
Finland
Denmark
Sweden

Are always in the top 5 countries for most honest, most loyal, most welcoming people

Least corruption and least crime, Denmark is normally number 1

195 countries in the world and Nigeria is always 140 so close to the bottom

And I think that proves everything
i am not judging nor intend to judge your marriage, l only asked a question based on the series of request that you posted online here on Nairaland, Since both of you agreed to the agreement of exploration, l wish you guys the best jare Muchecheche......................................


😂
Re: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Tello619: 4:35pm On Jun 19, 2025
Fenrir:
Mate I literally because of my voice and you immediately brought skin into it again

Thats the huge difference between us, check my topics i have not once mocked any of you because your skin, ive repeatedly said that Africans are amazing people, ive said Nigerian make the best doctors in the world but at the same time can't be trusted at mental health doctors

I only have 2 issues with Nigeria men the way you falsely say your traditions are mandatory, required and necessary but the truth is legal marriage has completely different laws to customary marriage, customary law is for people under 21, once people over 21 what the family thinks is irrelevant, ask any lawyer im sure there are some on here, a man can just take a woman and marry without meeting the and without paying a bride price because none are legally mandatory and even if the bride price is paid, the concept of return is bizarre and not legally mandatory either and by rights if that woman has had your child then you dont deserve it back

The second issue i have Nigerian men is the way you actually treat women here

I have not called you stupid because Africans are not stupid, you just dont know how the world really works, thats why traoré fella is better then you

Hes a Muslim that has no hate in him for Christians and he has no hate for atheists of Jews, he has no hate for us whites because of our skin, hes targeting the actual nationalities that have wronged him and his country

Even you have admitted us norse are not involved at all and if push came to shove we would probably side with you, our policy is freedom and independence for Africa and has been for a long time
Heys! this whole topic is bourne out of race and skin color! And it's not about bride price! (Maybe your other topic) But this very one? No, it's everything to do with race and skin color and that's why I'm here. I don't fancy going off topic so I won't venture into discussions about bride price because that's basically a popular tradition of "dowry" and isn't hard to understand because I personally don't understand your disapproval
Plus i already explained to you how not everyone fully understands ethnicity on the basis of skin color. A lot of non-blacks do it to black people too? Despite the diversity in Africa, the African diaspora and black race in general, the world still has this certain resentment for the black skin irrespective of nationality too! As long as you're a black person, you get it. Now this might be the treatment you've suffered from my people but it's a misconception and choosing to be victimized by a misconception is wild!. It's better to address the situation on the spot instead of coming online to trash-talk the whole country and even go down racial lines using the N-word and whatever. Or are there no Nigerians in your circle that respects you? Or is it all the Nigerians you come across that tackles you like that? Your frustration is justified but how about you avoid bringing it up on the internet to throw racist insults at random Nigerians who didn't even know you existed? Take it out with the people involved in treating you like that and educate them not jumping on the internet to trash-talk random unsuspecting Nigerians and Nigeria as a whole.
Re: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Tello619: 4:45pm On Jun 19, 2025
Fenrir:
And mate Shariah law, which the northern half of your country lives under is a form of female slavery no matter how you debate it or try to justify it
Isn't this the same sentiment everyone has with Arabs? I've come across very many instances where anything having to do with Islam or Arab countries is always greeted with remarks by your skinfolks talking about the women issue in Islam. So this is a religious thing and not a racial thing, plus the north don't do it like the Arabs! Women are respected and cared for! ESPECIALLY in the North compared to the South. The only sentiment you can trace to Northern Nigeria is the idea of hijab and the law of her body being covered and polygamy
So no! Your claims aren't valid✋🏾
Re: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Fenrir(op): 5:09pm On Jun 19, 2025
Tello619:
Isn't this the same sentiment everyone has with Arabs? I've come across very many instances where anything having to do with Islam or Arab countries is always greeted with remarks by your skinfolks talking about the women issue in Islam. So this is a religious thing and not a racial thing, plus the north don't do it like the Arabs! Women are respected and cared for! ESPECIALLY in the North compared to the South. The only sentiment you can trace to Northern Nigeria is the idea of hijab and the law of her body being covered and polygamy
So no! Your claims aren't valid✋🏾
I never mentioned Arabs I mentioned the north half of your country

I been here on and off for 23 years since I was 17 and came to study your tribes

And most Nigerian Muslims are not actually Muslims, look at the Islamic festivals in lagos

They apl drink alcohol which is forbidden in the quran

The issue im talking about is Nigerian Muslim that lack their identity and cling to Islam as an excuse to justify what they actually want

There are daughters in this country that are dutiful and do exactly what their parents say and take care parents until death then when they die the sons that were never around and never cared about the parents get everything in the will and the daughters are left with nothing and most times not even a husband to take care of them and excuse given is its a tribe traditions that the sons get everything

Islam in Nigeria is not true Islam and trust me on that, ive read the quran cover to cover and fought in Christian was in Islamic countries where legally mandatory for Islam to be the religion of the country so those women and men and children can be whatever they want

Now is a touchy subject for me because I dont agree with gays, I think its mental illness and not natural

But id still fight for their right to live how they want and be shirt lifting ass bandits

Where I personally draw the is corruption of children in the trans agenda, I moved here full time to get away from it and you have them here to now

No, dont twist what I say, yes I hate Arabs but in this particular conversation I did not mention them

I mentioned it because its an issue here with 52% of your population and those 52% are still breaking the laws of Nigeria in massive numbers and mutilating the genitals of daughters

Islam is slavery and the country is illegal in Nigeria, its still happening and your government is letting it

This will probably be deleted for me saying ass bandits though
Re: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Fenrir(op): 5:16pm On Jun 19, 2025
Arabs were taking Africans including the population of this land as slaves for 1300 years

In numbers of upto 12000 a year
Castrating African men and forcing them to work
The women they were using for sex and works

Whites did it for a few hundred years after centuries of Arabs and north Africans taking us

Yet you freely forgive them and don't really acknowledge it to make us seem evil, your excuses are you learned it from us

That is a weak excuse when Arabs were doing it for 1300 years and will continue for hundreds of years and still doing it today

You wont stop them so you target us for blame because we chose to stop and acknowledge its wrong
Re: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Fenrir(op): 5:47pm On Jun 19, 2025
AngelicBeing:
i am not judging nor intend to judge your marriage, l only asked a question based on the series of request that you posted online here on Nairaland, Since both of you agreed to the agreement of exploration, l wish you guys the best jare Muchecheche......................................


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Min kjaerlighet, have I posted anything like it since my 30 days at home for my clan crap?

Nope not once
She wanted to stop and wanted monogamy and agreement 3 years or until one of us said stop before that

And the only reason Im still on here is because this is a good boredom killer and as you can also tell, Im capable of leaving this alone for weeks and months at a time, this is strictly for boredom
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