₦airaland Forum

Tightpussy2024:
Let men be deceiving themselves.this is what happens when you scorn a woman.
Remember those days when you bought a car for your side chick and your wife was still jumping keke.

But why would a man buy a car for his side chic when his wife uses public transport?

A lady B(not related to me) will come to my mom's women fellowship back in naija to always complain of her hubby.she did the same hairstyle her hubby side chick did to impress him and his response was," you think e fit you? If you no fine,you no fine.nothing fit change am"

Tell me when this women get abroad,what will they do?

Well, I agree with them. But any man who maltreats his wife while in Nigeria yet follows her to the UK after selling his assets back home has himself to blame.

Don't forget what men do in UK.you will study,work ,and still come back to house chores. And he will still expect you to submit your salary.

Wait o, a woman submits her salary to her husband? Is it cultural amongst some Nigerians? I find that hard to believe, I am being honest.

helinues:
Probably one side of the story.. Let's hear from the woman as well before we can judge

Whenever we are telling our stories, we are not been sincere enough to point out to our flaws as well, most narration is mostly about others while claiming victim

The woman refused to give her own side of the story. She agreed it before, then later changed when the interviewers get to her place.

She said her pastor said she shouldn't share her own side of the story.

From this, it's clear what the problem is from.

Divorce are one of the ways to destroy a man

BarrElChapo:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OmsDqD3rAYs

The other side.

There is no other side in that interview. The wife pastor is the problem here. The wife respected her pastor more than her husband

Houseofglam7:
Here we fuqin go!!!!
This is why I’m not in a hurry to react to posts like this!

What reasonable offense did you heard in that video, that the husband commit?

He do everything to get back on his feet

luminouz:
And what did you do to her?

Nothing!!

Na men dey do men

So you think I supported her? What she did was like a taboo to me.

bestman09:
So you think I supported her? What she did was like a taboo to me.

Nice!!!

That stuff happened so much to men in the western world and no one gives a shit. Imagine sponsoring your own wife to the UK, with the kids and being deceived only to be dumped because the laws favored women? Nah!!!

Infact, it's so rampant in the UK that the police specifically warned Nigerian women about coming to report their husbands indiscriminately. Just shows how much women use men since the beginning of time

Gerrard59:
But why would a man buy a car for his side chic when his wife uses public transport?


Well, I agree with them. But any man who maltreats his wife while in Nigeria yet follows her to the UK after selling his assets back home has himself to blame.


Wait o, a woman submits her salary to her husband? Is it cultural amongst some Nigerians? I find that hard to believe, I am being honest.

Gerrard, my nigga!!! Why am I not surprised to see you here? You keep acting like you ain't Nigerian because you are in one Asian country and always saying some shiit to denigrate men.

You haven't heard women who submit to their husbands give them their salaries? Jesus!!!

Tightpussy2024:
Let men be deceiving themselves.this is what happens when you scorn a woman.
Remember those days when you bought a car for your side chick and your wife was still jumping keke.


I will give you two examples of a very bitter experience two women close to me experienced.

Aunty A has been trying to conceive.he got their maid pregnant and the maid will come and rub her baby bump in front of the aunty A and she will start crying.
Maid miscarried. He decided after much persuasion to do IVF,of which I supported the couple with most of the money.
The day she was ovulating aunty was calling him and laid naked on the bed after having shaved and cleaned up. Oga kicked her vagina and ran out of the room.

A lady B(not related to me) will come to my mom's women fellowship back in naija to always complain of her hubby.she did the same hairstyle her hubby side chick did to impress him and his response was," you think e fit you? If you no fine,you no fine.nothing fit change am"


Tell me when this women get abroad,what will they do?

Don't forget what men do in UK.you will study,work ,and still come back to house chores. And he will still expect you to submit your salary.

@gerrard59

You are a fat liar!!! And women will never blame themselves for anything. No accountability whatsoever with your gender.

Does it make sense to you that a grown ass man will KICK his wife's vagina and run out of the room? Or there is another meaning of kick? His wife's pussy dey smell? Your story doesn't make sense even if the man is a devil.

Your second story is even worse. I won't even attempt to address that.

The thing is..Nigerian women will always take a mile if you give them an inch. The western world provides that and they use it to full force. Now I ask you, who do you think will marry these women after? Me? Or the black men in the UK? They will remain single, grow old and bittered and lonely. Guess who ends up enjoying their wealth? YNs like me!!!

Women are heartless if they are giving the opportunity my candid advice for women is that treat your husband the way you want somebody's daughter to treat your son period

2mch:
That guy lied to you. He can never be imprisoned for something that happened 15yrs ago, as long as it’s not murder. He certainly beat the wife and was arrested. A lot of these guys are too ashamed to tell the truth of what they did. This guy here is also probably lying. It’s better for him to be told to leave than to be arrested for what he probably did. Many Nigerian men respond to conflict with their fist. We all know this.

If you stay with a woman for a year without bringing anything to the table then you might understand this man without hearing the other side of the story

I just want to ask dose it mean one can't find a submissive woman again?

2mch:
Your friend is not telling the truth. There is statute of limitations on everything except murder and terrorism. The person must have committed the crime they are arrested for and most likely a repeat offender.

Firstly, you have quoted statute of limitations which is only applicable in the US and some countries. We don't use Penal codes here in the UK. Secondly, certain offences in England and Wales are governed by statutory time limits. For example, Rape does not have a time limit to bring prosecution. Hence why historic allegations are always investigated. Traffic offences typically 14 days etc

otipoju:
I have one gift that has helped me in life so far. I am not afraid to loose everything and start afresh...and because i am not, I am in control of my emotions.

Men evolve when they suffer. Men can come back and bounce back as many times as they want to and this phenomenon makes women angry. Even if he was a deadbeat and changed to be a good man, the ex will never be happy to see him recover.

pocohantas:
Lol! Trust me they have stopped marrying. I haven't seen a wedding in like 4yrs. Even the ones that marry are marrying from other countries. Nigerian women would kpai at Shiloh at this rate. 😩😩😩😩

If you can spend N40m to travel abroad from naija you re not poor. I dont understand the excuses, you can study for any program online these days. Just want to go abroad and take pictures in cheap jackets and jeans something you could do without travelling.
Serves him right .

An elevated idiot he is.

ARISHEM:
Divorce are one of the ways to destroy a man

Not true.
Man is the prize.
Divorce will help him remarry and change taste of soup

Imagine at 62 lol ! This man no get sense . I will never depend on any woman I marry for my survival. It’s obvious he has nothing to go back to in Nigeria- team give up everything just to take wife out - God forbid I sell anything just to secure one stupid visa

Great100000:
Nigerian Man shamefully kicked out by his wife of 28 years narrates ordeal.

Despite being married for over 28 years back home in Nigeria, an African man cries out for help over fears of being homeless after being kicked out by his wife upon arrival in the UK.

Watch the video here:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F0KLzWiyito?si=QsXF7YlYxzrSjO42

2mch:
That guy lied to you. He can never be imprisoned for something that happened 15yrs ago, as long as it’s not murder. He certainly beat the wife and was arrested. A lot of these guys are too ashamed to tell the truth of what they did. This guy here is also probably lying. It’s better for him to be told to leave than to be arrested for what he probably did. Many Nigerian men respond to conflict with their fist. We all know this.

Spot on. Also pay attention to his choice of words. He’s using language to manipulate. He said the man was imprisoned for a “domestic brawl”. He most likely beat up his wife. A brawl/fight is a two way street. When a man and woman get into it, that’s not a fight, there is already an imbalance.

Zidac:
↪ If you stay with a woman for a year without bringing anything to the table then you might understand this man without hearing the other side of the story

You are suggesting this man literally mooched off of this woman for over a year, yet didn't think this was to come? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

nwirinedu:
If you can spend N40m to travel abroad from naija you re not poor. I dont understand the excuses, you can study for any program online these days. Just want to go abroad and take pictures in cheap jackets and jeans something you could do without travelling.
Serves him right . An elevated idiot he is.

This is all so very funny, abeg! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Gerrard59:
But why would a man buy a car for his side chic when his wife uses public transport?

……………………..

Because he hates his wife.

luminouz:
Gerrard, my nigga!!! Why am I not surprised to see you here? You keep acting like you ain't Nigerian because you are in one Asian country and always saying some shiit to denigrate men.

You haven't heard women who submit to their husbands give them their salaries? Jesus!!!

I have read such, but I find it hard to believe because it does not make sense to me. Why would a grown working adult hand over all her earned salary/wage to her husband?

It does not make sense to me. Maybe to you. Maybe it is because I grew up in a sheltered and secluded setting. Some things sound so odd to me. Na for social media I read say CS method is frowned upon, but I have always known it to be an alternative method of childbirth.

Gerrard59:
I have read such, but I find it hard to believe because it does not make sense to me. Why would a grown working adult hand over all her earned salary/wage to her husband?

It does not make sense to me. Maybe to you. Maybe it is because I grew up in a sheltered and secluded setting. Some things sound so odd to me. Na for social media I read say CS method is frowned upon, but I have always known it to be an alternative method of childbirth.

Why would a grown ass woman demand bride price of 10m when she knows she loves the man and she is not a product at Alabama market? If you can answer that, then you have the answer to your first paragraph.

I don't know what to make of the second paragraph. Do I look like your therapist?

Kobojunkieee:
You are suggesting this man literally mooched off of this woman for over a year, yet didn't think this was to come? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

That's exactly what happened. No love without money the rest is history

Zidac:
➜That's exactly what happened. No love without money the rest is history

What the heck? And when you tell endurance wives in Nigeria that accommodating a deadbeat husband ain't marriage, they flare up at you as if you are the problem. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

You are a shameless person. You are the reason why I will always advise men never to take their wives abroad. Men have to learn and be wiser. In all you do, never be the dependant to any woman when relocating abroad. Also as a man, if you relocate abroad leave your wife in Nigeria. I repeat, leave your wife in Nigeria. You can send them money and come regularly to check on them. Good women are hard to find these days.

Tightpussy2024:
Let men be deceiving themselves.this is what happens when you scorn a woman.
Remember those days when you bought a car for your side chick and your wife was still jumping keke.


I will give you two examples of a very bitter experience two women close to me experienced.

Aunty A has been trying to conceive.he got their maid pregnant and the maid will come and rub her baby bump in front of the aunty A and she will start crying.
Maid miscarried. He decided after much persuasion to do IVF,of which I supported the couple with most of the money.
The day she was ovulating aunty was calling him and laid naked on the bed after having shaved and cleaned up. Oga kicked her vagina and ran out of the room.

A lady B(not related to me) will come to my mom's women fellowship back in naija to always complain of her hubby.she did the same hairstyle her hubby side chick did to impress him and his response was," you think e fit you? If you no fine,you no fine.nothing fit change am"


Tell me when this women get abroad,what will they do?

Don't forget what men do in UK.you will study,work ,and still come back to house chores. And he will still expect you to submit your salary.

@gerrard59

tunjijones:
No matter what story the woman have to tell, its totally unacceptable to send your 62 yrs old husband outta the house in a strange land.

A wife nor husband has no right to send anybody out. The court do based on investigation.


Also, if a minor is involved, the chances that they are better in the care of the mum hence the house is giving to the wife. Children first.
The thing is this. Nigerians in Nigeria think that it's the way it happens in Nigeria. A man can wake up and throw the wife's things out.
Nope. Chikdren and their comfort first. If the dad is seen to have been taking care of the kids more and with staple job, the woman will be told to leave.

A child has more right than u in the UK. Every other decision is based on that.

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