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Samantha125:
The only thing I can say is that I'm only a human and I didn't agree to get married to my husband only to live a single lonely life.

To be honest, there's a tinge of selfishness or a possibility there. Where's the single live when you're still together? Where's the loneliness when you're husband is alive and his voice should be the sweetest to behold to you? Just as it should be mutual.

You lot probably aren't marrying who you really love anymore, or maybe possibilities, adventure. It's okay, anyway. Life's good still. Goodluck to us all, ahead.

highchief1:
Jnr pope know where em wife Dey.all those Thgs no Dey bother me.na level of maturity.go watch how Peter obi reacted when they asked him what he would do if he noticed that he’s wife was cheating.Anything u can’t control in life shouldn’t bother u.

I don't uphold the tenets or opinions of Obi at all. In fact, I detest most of the things he stands for.

But, about Jnr Pope, he's no longer alive and his wife's still young. Let her find new happiness. He'd do the same.

However, I love your last statement. What's outta our control shouldn't bother us. It's just hard to follow for some people.

As a man cherish and protect your happiness, be selfish about it. Even your enemies go respect your decision.

Kids Will grow to return to their father.

Travelling down just to confirm if she's pregnant is a wasting of resources and time.

Get a friend to track her, then take her picture also with video would be better.

Going back just like that without taking any action; that's unserious element

Adultery is not a yardstick for any feelings..! It’s better for her to have told him she’s quitting the marriage and ask for a divorce if she knew she couldn’t cope. As much as it’s a tough situation, as a MARRIED woman with kids, you still go for another man and even get pregnant ? Thunder fire satan o..! Nna ehnn , Tufiakwa..!
Where “ for better for worse” go? Mbaaanuuu. Ezibo Aruuu..! 🤦‍♂️

Samantha125:
So his wife's life should be on standstill because he selfishly decided to stay abroad all these years?

He probably impregnated another woman wherever he's based and I'm sure the wife had moved on with her life long time ago and was waiting for him to come back home so that she can finally break the news to him.

Can't you see how funny you sound?

It is a sacrifice she must make and if she feels she can't make such sacrifice she has no right to decieve the man.

There could be a reason why the man had to stay that long and as long as the man is communicating and doing his financial duties to the family, the lady must reciprocate with loyalty.

If she can't wait anymore then she needs to be upfront about it.

Stop defending nonsense... There are toys these days so she could simply get a toy to do the job.

Akwamkpuruamu:
I will take my kids and end the marriage

Take them as how?

You people think this is Nollywood.

What if it's fibroid It's known to cause protruding of the stomach akin to that of pregnancy

cjfavour:
He wasn’t faithful but be didn’t get pregnant. That’s the difference between a man and a woman. If you’re a woman, don’t do because your man is doing his own. You can get pregnant but he won’t. Pregnancy is an evidence that you did the do.

Lol. So if she didn’t pregnant, her cheating is justified like his right?

If a woman doesn’t want to get pregnant, she will kill every baby that mistakenly enters her womb, so come off it

She made a conscious decision

joshuaidibia:
Whoever believes this garbage is dumb. You can smell the lies when she said the man made sure the wife didn't see him. My brother, no sane human being will EVER do that. I repeat, none. She said that cos had it been the man confronted the wife, we'd all have heard about the news already.

If it’s very poorly written and comes from Twitter, you must be really gullible to believe it

otherway:
Can't you see how funny you sound?

It is a sacrifice she must make and if she feels she can't make such sacrifice she has no right to decieve the man.

There could be a reason why the man had to stay that long and as long as the man is communicating and doing his financial duties to the family, the lady must reciprocate with loyalty.

If she can't wait anymore then she needs to be upfront about it.

Stop defending nonsense... There are toys these days so she could simply get a toy to do the job.

Keep playing, for five years, you must be a child or something

The problem with some of you men is that you do not know women are EXACTLY like you because they look different when women are actually worse, you do not know what it means to have a hole that needs filling. They are sneaky when aroused just like you and their libido cannot be bought with ANY amount of money. Women cheat on billionaires

As far you as a man can’t wait no matter how much is given to you, never expect a woman to the same. You are joking if you think money can tame the need for sex. You are either joking or are still immature in your thinking

If you think it’s a joke, go and ask married men in their 60’s; almost all their wives cheated even while they were there. Talk less of being absent for five years

Better start knowing women for who they are; they are just like men with ‘wo’ in front of the name

Wetin he expect?

You separate from your wife for 5 years on top Japa tins, then deal with the consequences. There is a reason why marriage is about two being one and staying together, not apart for 5 years on different continents.

He sef lash, only difference is the wife got careless and got pregnant in this instance.

Fake Story.
You guys won't allow person rest with your fake, concocted and non-existing stories.

A classic Twitter fairy tale..😡😡😡😡😡😡😡

Unreal and contrived for engagements.

He is a wicked person. You left your wife in Nigeria for 5 years. It’s possible that he as well has a side chick in the Asian country he is

SINisSIN:
He is not serious. 5 years? What was he expecting? She no go knack for five years?

Besides, the wife has already moved on reason why she kept the pregnancy. Women are not dull like that to the extent of keeping a pregnancy when everyone knows your husband is not around.

When a woman does something don’t think she is just stupid, she know exactly what she is doing. So treat her accordingly

The tales people tell. Please, pick her!

Maysdevices:
Keep playing, for five years, you must be a child or something

The problem with some of you men is that you do not know women are EXACTLY like you because they look different when women are actually worse, you do not know what it means to have a hole that needs filling. They are sneaky when aroused just like you and their libido cannot be bought with ANY amount of money. Women cheat on billionaires

As far you as a man can’t wait no matter how much is given to you, never expect a woman to the same. You are joking if you think money can tame the need for sex. You are either joking or are still immature in your thinking

If you think it’s a joke, go and ask married men in their 60’s; almost all their wives cheated even while they were there. Talk less of being absent for five years

Better start knowing women for who they are; they are just like men with ‘wo’ in front of the name

I'm sure you read to respond but if you read to comprehend you won't write all these rethorical mombo jumbo.

Go back and read my initial post and this time, read slowly so you can comprehend.

SINisSIN:
He is not serious. 5 years? What was he expecting? She no go knack for five years?

Besides, the wife has already moved on reason why she kept the pregnancy. Women are not dull like that to the extent of keeping a pregnancy when everyone knows your husband is not around.

stop defending nonsense, what happens to woman simply returning his ring before continuing her adulterous life? How can she stay married to her husband, raising his kids and collecting his resources and at the same time fvckin another man? Oga, come back or take your ring, simple.

haybhi1:
@NotOfThisWorld
Exactly! That's just how it's supposed to be. Sweet, love and wholesome and peace and genuine happiness.

I think those who marry those who they really love each other are some of the luckiest of people on earth. First loves that end in marriage are usually the kinda relationships that guarantee this kinda love. The rest of us who tarry in relationships and lost our first loves look unlikeliest to win these games... lol... some lf them too don't get to enjly it, but economic reasons dictate tides usually.
The harsh reality though.

But me o, let life dynamics do as they likes, I'll never marry if I don't meet any woman where the love is about equally mutual and peak! Peak! And in the event, she turns out different along the line, after marriage, I will divorce and marry again or stay unmarried.

Love seems really beautiful, yet people seem to abhor its full practice. I suppose experiencing wonders and genuine happiness some of the huge perks of life. Well, what do I know.

Were you able to see my previous response? Spambot hid it for some reason, smh. Yes, they are each other's first loves, as I had said. They started dating when they were about 18, so this is definitely one of those true first love stories where both get married and live a happy life thereafter. If you leave my aunt in one place, you will find her in the same place. She's very tall (and he is too, they should be about the same height), but very gentle and humble. I could tell he loved her even though I was about 6 then and didn't know anything about love. He is a very good man and she's also a very good person, so it works. When you have two good people who are in love, they will be unstoppable and there will be no such thing as chasing other people or things that will distract them from their goals. Some people are lucky to find true love with their first love and this is definitely one of those stories.

Cromagnon:
you're not wise. You think coming home is cheap?

Abeg dey try ignore all these small small children wey dey nairaland.

Mariangeles:
So, it took his wife getting pregnant for him to hurry home after 5 years of being away, eekwa?
He could come home all the while, but he chose not to.
For his wife to not bother to abort/hide the pregnancy says a lot.
She has already moved on tay-tay.

But she keeps on chopping his money, abi?

bigiyaro:
stop defending nonsense, what happens to woman simply returning his ring before continuing her adulterous life? How can she stay married to her husband, raising his kids and collecting his resources and at the same time fvckin another man? Oga, come back or take your ring, simple.

As in eeeh, the horrible things we support as Nigerian humans. Things we can't even take.

Amotolongbo:
Two questions for you:
are you woman or man?
Sin body isn’t carved from wood, do you advocate for your wife, if you are a man to be unfaithful if you are away? Or if you are a woman, do you advocate for your male siblings’ wives to be unfaithful in their home when they are away?

What do you expect gone for 5 years to do what looking for money not been there for raising the kids in sickness, education activities and father roles and you think the kids too haven't had a adopted father so where in their hearts.

While I do not subscribe to Adultery but the man no try at all.
Five years is not a joke. He should give us evidence that he has been faithful since he left home.

Samantha125:
So his wife's life should be on standstill because he selfishly decided to stay abroad all these years?

He probably impregnated another woman wherever he's based and I'm sure the wife had moved on with her life long time ago and was waiting for him to come back home so that she can finally break the news to him.

She has moved on but had not made any move to return the bride price to her husband family and was still collecting money.from the husband? Why do most women reason so abysmally or is there this instinct to defend bad behavior of another women as long as long as the defender's interest is not affected? Would you also feel.samw way if the man in question were your own son? I am stunned.

Amotolongbo:
The man being unfaithful abroad isn’t a reason for the woman to be unfaithful while the husband was away.
Moreover, I don’t believe this news.
Which married woman would be pregnant for another man when she hasn’t met her husband in ages and wouldn’t know what to do with the pregnancy or the home?
Either she terminates the pregnancy or leave the home.

Is she made of metal to stay without sex for 5years when she has not hit menopause?
I still understand older woman already in their 60s.
But for a woman in her 40s she did well.

NotOfThisWorld:
Were you able to see my previous response? Spambot hid it for some reason, smh. Yes, they are each other's first loves, as I had said. They started dating when they were about 18, so this is definitely one of those true first love stories where both get married and live a happy life thereafter. If you leave my aunt in one place, you will find her in the same place. She's very tall (and he is too, they should be about the same height), but very gentle and humble. I could tell he loved her even though I was about 6 then and didn't know anything about love. He is a very good man and she's also a very good person, so it works. When you have two good people who are in love, they will be unstoppable and there will be no such thing as chasing other people or things that will distract them from their goals. Some people are lucky to find true love with their first love and this is definitely one of those stories.

Yeah, saw the post before it got lost.

Good for them. They're lucky. Would be nice if everyone could replicate that kinda love, but variety owns life anyway. Happy for them.

Chilipepper:
Man secretly returns to Nigeria after hearing wife is pregnant for another man — sets trap with fake DHL pickup to confirm betrayal 💔📦



https://www.facebook.com/share/p/1Ag7A4rEC4/

She has moved on but was still collecting money from her husband.
Untiikk the God of chosen caught up with her

Amotolongbo:
Two questions for you:
are you woman or man?
Sin body isn’t carved from wood, do you advocate for your wife, if you are a man to be unfaithful if you are away? Or if you are a woman, do you advocate for your male siblings’ wives to be unfaithful in their home when they are away?

Oga forget all those things. Look around and face reality. I can assure you in this generation say if you leave your wife behind for 5 years even if u are the one that disvirgin. The chance of her having sex is 90 percent. It is either you know or you dont find out

Dont push people both male and female into unnecessary temptation. She is human as well. 5 years. Omo...

Chilipepper:
Man secretly returns to Nigeria after hearing wife is pregnant for another man — sets trap with fake DHL pickup to confirm betrayal 💔📦



https://www.facebook.com/share/p/1Ag7A4rEC4/

the wife can happily denied it since d simp refuse to confront her face to face.