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Good day my fellow Nairalanders....hope y'all are feeling better today?

Well,it seems I just got the greatest insult of my life this afternoon under this hot scorching sun .

How can someone who's still living under his parents roof with his girlfriend and two kids be advising me to go and marry? . He's a childhood friend of mine

The funniest part was that the dude was even justifying it that he's living a more fulfilled life than I am😭. Imagine someone who hasn't paid electric bill in his entire life I tried explaining to him that he should have a change of mentality because those mad men and women we see roaming our streets today were once kids whom their parents used to taunt their neighbors and family members who were childless then

TBH, I'm really pained right now . I even asked my girlfriend if I've been misfiring all my missiles all these while because with the way it is now,It seems I'm longing to be a father and I hope no iron dome can stop me from that

So Should I take this as an insult? Or as a motivation?

Mynd44
Nlfpmod
Obembet

Take it as motivation to provide for yourself before you think of marriage or birthing children.

Sonnobax15:
Good day my fellow Nairalanders....hope y'all are feeling better today?

Well,it seems I just got the greatest insult of my life this afternoon under this hot scorching sun .

How can someone who's still living under his parents roof with his girlfriend and two kids be advising me to go and marry? . He's a childhood friend of mine

The funniest part was that the dude was even justifying it that he's living a more fulfilled life than I am😭. Imagine someone who hasn't paid electric bill in his entire life I tried explaining to him that he should have a change of mentality because those mad men and women we see roaming our streets today were once kids whom their parents used to taunt their neighbors and family members who were childless then

TBH, I'm really pained right now . I even asked my girlfriend if I've been misfiring all my missiles all these while because with the way it is now,It seems I'm longing to be a father and I hope no iron dome can stop me from that

So Should I take this as an insult? Or as a motivation?

Mynd44
Nlfpmod
Obembet

You might not see it that way o, but that your friend means well, and want what is best for you. Believe me.

At least, he's better than those guys always saying marriage no easy, yet they stay married, keep impregnating their wives, and having children every other year.
Those ones are using style to tell you that you can't handle the pressure in marriage, yet they're doing it.
No accept that kind advice.

Any how wey life be, put head.

If you can tolerate a woman's bull**** & cater for a family, get married.

If you no fit, stay on your own.

Hopefully you will marry this your banny, so that you can rest and we would rest too...

pocohantas:
Hopefully you will marry this your banny, so that you can rest and we would rest too...

Lol. I hate this word "Banny", I find it very derogatory.

Or maybe I'm overthinking it.

folake4u:
Lol. I hate this word "Banny", I find it very derogatory.

Or maybe I'm overthinking it.

No, you are not. Na the name wey fit im babe, so banny is fine for her.💀

pocohantas:
No, you are not. Na the name wey fit im babe, so banny is fine for her.💀

Right?

E get as e be for mouth. It's the equivalent of calling his girlfriend "My B1tçh".

folake4u:
Right?

E get as e be for mouth. It's the equivalent of calling his girlfriend "My B1tçh".

You sef. You done carry go far o.😂
I can't put my hand on it sha. But it doesn't seem like what a responsible (and lettered) man would call his partner or anyone at all.

pocohantas:
You sef. You done carry go far o.😂
I can't put my hand on it sha. But it doesn't seem like what a responsible (and lettered) man would call his partner or anyone at all.

But it's true na. Wetin be the difference between "Banny" and "B1tçh"? English language.

Yeah exactly. It is too razz.

pocohantas:
Hopefully you will marry this your banny, so that you can rest and we would rest too...

My dada friend, so you've become a prophetess?

My mentorship is really working.

folake4u:
But it's true na. Wetin be the difference between "Banny" and "B1tçh"? English language.

Yeah exactly. It is too razz.

Not really.

Banny is Nigerian lingo for my girlfriend, it is not the same thing as "bitch", the more synonymous word is "babe".

You only call someone you are dating banny.

You can say it razz, because it is mostly said by ghetto pidgin speakers but it is not derogatory.

pocohantas:
Hopefully you will marry this your banny, so that you can rest and we would rest too...

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Dead 💀

Wakes up to meet her 40 character target.

Dead 💀

Sulele04:
Not really.

Banny is Nigerian lingo for my girlfriend, it is not the same thing as "bitch", the more synonymous word is "babe".

You only call someone you are dating banny.

You can say it razz, because it is mostly said by ghetto pidgin speakers but it is not derogatory.

All the people I've seen using it is basically didn't have a good intention.

But then again, "babe" seems more like it.

If you say so then.

folake4u:
All the people I've seen using it is basically didn't have a good intention.

But then again, "babe" seems more like it.

If you say so then.

Yh, it is just razz pidgin. Similar to "that shima", or shawty.

E no really go far.

pocohantas:
Hopefully you will marry this your banny, so that you can rest and we would rest too...

You can say it again




I wonder how that lady copes with him with all the rubbish he spews here about women.

folake4u:
All the people I've seen using it is basically didn't have a good intention.

But then again, "babe" seems more like it.

If you say so then.

If I call someone I'm dating "Banny," she should just know that I don't like her anymore.

At this my age, there are certain words that, once I hear someone use them, I start to feel they're irresponsible unless it's clearly a joke.

Words like Banny, Toto, etc.

Tallesty1:
If I call someone I'm dating "Banny," she should just know that I don't like her anymore.

At this my age, there are certain words that, once I hear someone use them, I start to feel they're irresponsible unless it's clearly a joke.

Words like Banny, Toto, etc.

Thank you.

Words like "Banny", "Shima", "Toto" sound really off especially the last one.

I haven't seen any responsible person use it to describe their partners except for maybe jokes during banters or musicians in their songs.

doggedfighter:
You can say it again
I wonder how that lady copes with him with all the rubbish he spews here about women.

Trust me, no one asked this young man to marry. He is just fishing for redpill engagement.

They is nothing razz or derogatory about banny...

It's just a street slang.

Because it's street don't make it razz.

They are words the streets use to convey derogatory meanings. Banny is not one of them. Okpo,ol'sh etc are derogatory.

Infact, banny is an endearing street term meaning girlfriend!

With comments like these,i hope you guys are not trying to break serious relationship like this?

Sonnobax15:
Good day my fellow Nairalanders....hope y'all are feeling better today?

Well,it seems I just got the greatest insult of my life this afternoon under this hot scorching sun .

How can someone who's still living under his parents roof with his girlfriend and two kids be advising me to go and marry? . He's a childhood friend of mine

The funniest part was that the dude was even justifying it that he's living a more fulfilled life than I am😭. Imagine someone who hasn't paid electric bill in his entire life I tried explaining to him that he should have a change of mentality because those mad men and women we see roaming our streets today were once kids whom their parents used to taunt their neighbors and family members who were childless then

TBH, I'm really pained right now . I even asked my girlfriend if I've been misfiring all my missiles all these while because with the way it is now,It seems I'm longing to be a father and I hope no iron dome can stop me from that

So Should I take this as an insult? Or as a motivation?

Mynd44
Nlfpmod
Obembet

If Iron dome couldn't stopped Iranian missiles from hitting targets in a country where iron dome is their strongest defensive system, then my bro no iron dome can stop you.